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What's Best For Baby? Co-Sleeping and The Politics of Inequality
What's Best For Baby? Co-Sleeping and The Politics of Inequality
What's Best For Baby? Co-Sleeping and The Politics of Inequality
Laura Harrison
Frontiers: A Journal of Women Studies, Volume 39, Number 3, 2018, pp. 63-95
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Laura Harrison
“The average adult weighs roughly twenty times as much as a newborn baby.
That’s about the difference between your weight and the weight of an SUV.”
So intones a deep male voice in a radio spot titled “Rollover,” first aired in
Milwaukee, Wisconsin, in June 2010. The ad continues in a direct address to
parents, advising them to engage in a brief experiment: those who believe
that it is safe to sleep in a bed with their baby should first ask friends to roll
an SUV (an “immovable object”) on top of them. Parents who would choose
not try this, the ad continues, are perhaps also smart enough to imagine how
a baby feels when being suffocated to death by a sleeping adult. If you love
your baby, the announcer concludes, you should know that there is no safer
place than in a crib: “It’s the best place to prevent a rollover accident—not
to mention, a funeral.”1 This chilling advertisement was one piece of a multi-
sited public health initiative called the Safe Sleep Campaign, launched by the
City of Milwaukee Health Department in 2009.2
I will return to this particular promotion shortly, but as this brief
introduction suggests, the goal of the Safe Sleep Campaign is to eliminate a
practice known as bed-sharing, or co-sleeping. Bed-sharing usually refers to
a parent sleeping in the same bed with an infant. More broadly, bed-sharing
can refer to sharing any sleep surface with a newborn, such as a couch or
an armchair, or sleep surfaces shared between infants and siblings or other
caretakers.3 Milwaukee’s campaign aims at eliminating bed-sharing because
of associations between this practice and infant death due to Sudden Infant
Death Syndrome (SIDS) or accidental suffocation, as mentioned in the
Rollover radio piece.4 A death is attributed to SIDS if it occurs in an infant
under the age of one and is unexpected or unexplained, even after a thorough
investigation, a complete autopsy, and a review of the clinical history.5
When it comes to the topic of bed-sharing or co-sleeping, most people
would agree that the goal of lowering infant mortality rates is a worthy one,
particularly when the aim is to reduce the kind of drastic racial disparities in
health that exist in Milwaukee. Infant mortality rates for African American
babies in Milwaukee are 2.5 times higher than for white babies, and disparities
also exist for Hispanic and other racial and ethnic minorities. Bed-sharing
within communities of color is cast as a social problem, and Milwaukee’s cam-
paign vilifies this practice and those who engage in it, particularly targeting
communities of color. Building on the work of anthropologist Shellee Colen,6
feminist theorists Faye Ginsburg and Rayna Rapp discuss “stratified repro-
duction,” or a system in which certain groups of people are empowered to re-
produce and to parent, while others are disempowered and constrained along
lines of race, class, nationality, and sexuality.7 Public policy, cultural ideolo-
gies, and political representations are all components of stratified reproduc-
tion, including racialized images of motherhood that pathologize parents of
color as bad choice makers.8
As Barbara Gurr explains in her analysis of reproductive justice within
Native American communities, all women experience institutionalized
oppression, but particular groups of women (women of color, poor women)
bear the burden in specific ways. These experiences do not stem solely from
individual choices, as the anti-bed-sharing paradigm would suggest, but
rather “they are structurally produced, and they are produced along different
axes of identity and social location.”9 Likewise, feminist theorist Laury Oaks
follows criminal justice scholars in arguing that certain public policies serve
as “crime control theater” (including Safe Haven Laws and Amber Alerts),
in which an infrequent but thorny social problem results in a reactionary
public response that gives the appearance of crime control, if not the effect.10
The response to SIDS deaths in Milwaukee is strikingly similar in that anti-
co-sleeping campaigns take aim at an implicitly racialized and class-based
stereotype of “bad parents” without addressing the much more pervasive and
structural factors that lead to infant mortality.
I argue that Milwaukee’s Safe Sleep campaign makes assumptions about the
kind of parenting advice that can be followed by the communities it targets
(primarily communities of color), assuming that abolishing all forms of bed-
sharing is the most feasible way to minimize infant death. The strategies
employed by the City of Milwaukee are reflective of risk elimination, or the
attempt to eradicate what is defined as “risky” behavior (bed-sharing) in its
entirety.11 This approach conflicts with the “risk management” strategies
proposed by grassroots activists in the area, who have developed tools in
conjunction with the community to teach parents how to co-sleep safely.
Conclusion
I now return briefly to the comparison between campaigns against bed-
sharing and the co-existing parenting advice that encourages mothers and
fathers to co-sleep with their children, particularly the philosophy of attach-
ment parenting. Again, bed-sharing and co-sleeping both refer to the prac-
tice of an adult sharing a bed with an infant, yet the similarities in how these
sleep arrangements are represented seems to stop there. The aforementioned
Time magazine cover story on attachment parenting critiques the parenting
philosophy, contending that it has more to do with “parental devotion and
self-sacrifice” than with raising self-sufficient children, as if there are only two
possible outcomes or motivations.125 The article is quite skeptical of attach-
ment parenting, yet “parental devotion and self-sacrifice” are highly idealized
traits, and are simultaneously racialized and classed ideologies. While Time
is criticizing attachment parents for being too devoted and self-sacrificial
when they practice tenets that include co-sleeping, Milwaukee’s Safe Sleep
Campaign casts bed-sharing parents in the opposite light—as reckless, unin-
formed, and dangerous.