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Coping Death Grieving
Coping Death Grieving
1. INTRODUCTION
Loss and grief are experiences that affect not only clients and their families but
the nurses who care for them as well. The intense emotions associated with grief are
caused by very real, concrete losses. Death of a client, for example, leaves one feeling
powerless. Most nurses enter the profession with the intent of helping clients recover
from illness and move toward health promotion. It is frightening to learn that
knowledge, skill, and technology cannot always come together to result in cure. As a
nurse, you will have the opportunity to help clients and families face devasting losses
and accept the reality of impending death.
Providing care for clients in crisis and at the end of life requires knowledge and
caring to help bring comfort to clients and families even when hope for cure is gone.
Grief, or grieving is a subjective state that occurs in response to a loss. Grief
may be called grief work because the client must work through the phases and tasks,
expressing and accepting the feelings involved. If the client does not do this work,
dysfunctional grieving (also called unresolved grief or a morbid grief reaction) may
result, in which conscious grieving may be absent or delayed, distorted or exaggerated,
or prolonged (chronic). In dysfunctional grieving the client may deny the loss; deny
feelings related to the loss; experience impaired social relationships and functioning
exhibit depressed, withdrawn, or self-destructive behaviour; develop symptoms of a
physical or psychiatric illness; or continue to experience intense grief long after the
acute mourning period.
Loss and grief work are significant stresses physically as well as emotionally,
and they can increase the client’s vulnerability to illness and even death.
2. TERMINOLOGIES
2.2 Bereavement : Suffering the loss of a loved one. Bereavement is defined as the
objective state of having experienced the loss of a loved one.
2.3 Coping : Coping refers to the thoughts and actions we use to deal
with stress.
2.4 Death : the act of dying; the end of life; the total and permanent
cessation of all the vital functions of an organism. (Or) Death is
defined as the cessation of all vital functions of the body
including the heartbeat, brain activity (including the brain
stem), and breathing .
2.9 Hospice : Hospice is a type of care and a philosophy of care that focuses
on the palliation of a terminally ill patient's symptoms. These
symptoms can be physical, emotional, spiritual or social in
nature.
2.10 Mourning : Mourning is, in the simplest sense, synonymous with grief over
the death of someone
2.11Palliative care: Palliative care (from Latin palliare, to cloak) is any form
of medical care or treatment that concentrates on reducing the
Severity of disease symptoms, rather than striving to halt,
delay, or reverse progression of the disease itself or provide a
cure.
2.12 Resuscitation : the act of reviving a person and returning them to
consciousness; "although he was apparently drowned,
resuscitation was accomplished by artificial respiration" (or)
Restoration of life or consciousness to one who appears to be
dead.
2.13 Stress : Stress is the body's reaction to a change that requires a physical,
mental or emotional adjustment or response. (Or)
Stress can come from any situation or thought that makes you
feel frustrated, angry, nervous, or anxious.
2.14 Stroke : A stroke is an interruption of the blood supply to any part of the
brain. A stroke is sometimes called a "brain attack."
3. LOSS
Loss is any situation, either potential, actual, or perceived, wherein a valued object
or person is changed or is not accessible to the individual. Everyone experiences
losses because change is a major constant in life
It includes any sudden, unexpected, external event that is not predictable. Often
this type of loss includes multiple losses rather than a single loss, such as an
automobile accident that leaves a driver paralyzed, unable to return to work, and
grieving over the loss of the passenger in the accident.
The type of loss and the perception of the loss influence the degree of grief a
person experiences. Each individual responds to loss differently. It is incorrect to
assume that the loss of an object does not generate the same level of stress as loss
as a loved one.
The value an individual places on the lost object (e.g. a family pet) determines
the emotional response to the separation. As a nurse you must assess the special
meaning that a loss has for a client and its effect on the client’s health and well
being.
The type of loss and the perception of the loss influence the degree of grief a
person experiences. Each individual responds to loss differently. It is incorrect to
assume that the loss of an object does not generate the same level of stress as loss
of a loved one. The value an individual places on the lost object (e.g., a family pet)
determines the emotional response to the separation. As a nurse you must assess
the special meaning that a loss has for a client and its effect on the client’s health
and well being.
Death is the ultimate loss. Although death is part of the continuum of life and a
universal and inevitable part of being human, it is also a mystical event that
generates anxiety and fear. Death ends the relationship that binds families and
individuals together and separates people from the physical presence of persons
who influence their lives. Even in the presence of a strong spiritual grounding,
facing death is often difficult for the dying person, as well as for the person’s
family, friends and caregivers.
A person’s terminal illness reminds close friends and associates of their own
mortality. Death is generally not part of most persons’ day-to-day experience.
Callahan (1995) suggests that talking about death has been banished from our
society, from our society, from our everyday lives, from our language, and even
our thinking. Feelings of guilt, anger, and fear arise when death must finally be
faced. It may cause family members and caregivers to withdraw at a time when the
dying person needs their love and support. The way a person approaches dying
will be influenced by personal fundamental beliefs and values, culture, spirituality,
and the quality of the emotional support available.
3.3 Categories of Loss:
Losing a loved one is a very significant loss. Such a loss can result from
moving to a different area, separation, divorce, or death.
Loss of a physical aspect of self can result from trauma, illness, or a treatment
methodology such as surgery. Psychological aspects of self that may be lost
include a sense of humor, ambition, or enjoyment of life. These feelings of loss
may result from life events such as losing a job or failing at a task that the
individual deems important.
For instance, an individual who loses a family heirloom in a fire may react not
only to the lost financial value of the piece, but also to the lost sense of history and
heritage that the piece represented.
The loss of a familiar environment occurs when a person moves away from
familiar surroundings, for instance to another home or a different community, to a
new school, or to a new job. A client who is hospitalized or institutionalized may
also experience loss when faced with new surroundings. This type of loss evokes
anxiety related to fear of the unknown.
4. DEATH
The bereaved have particular difficulty in achieving closure when the loss
occurs as a result of an unexpected death. As Roach and Nieto(1997) state, any
death is a traumatic experience to the surviving loved ones, even an anticipated
death. Survivors are shocked and bereaved after an unanticipated death, such as an
aneurysm, heart attack, or stroke. Usually, the bereaved can work through the
grieving process without complications.
It is imagining the feelings of horror felt by the victim or relieving the terror
of an incident. Traumatic imagery is a common occurrence in cases of traumatic
death. Such thoughts, coupled with intense grief, can lead to post-traumatic stress
disorder (PTSD) in the survivors. Nurses’ awareness of the possibility of PTSD and
alertness for the presence of symptoms is important. Symptoms may include:
Chronic anxiety
Psychological distress
Sleep disturbances, such as recurrent, terror-filled nightmares.
Only when this problem is identified and the survivors are encouraged to
express their intense feelings will they be able to move through the normal, adaptive
grieving process.
4.2.4 Suicide:
Elizabeth Kubler-Ross (1969, 1974) identified in her classic works five stages of
dying that are experienced by clients and their families. Every client does not move
through each stage sequentially. These stages are experienced for varying lengths of
time and in varying degrees. The client may express denial, and then, a few minutes
later, express acceptance of the inevitable, and then express anger. An important
value of Kubler-Ross work is that it has increased sensitivity to the dying client’s
needs.
4.3.1 Denial
During the first stage of dying, the initial shock can be very overwhelming,
making denial a useful tool of coping. It is an essential, protective mechanism that
may last for only a few minutes or may manifest for months.
In some clients, denial manifests as “doctor shopping” (not to imply that second
opinions are not sometimes up or mistake in the diagnostic tests. In other clients,
denial manifests as simply avoiding the issue. Their daily routines are the same as
though nothing in their lives has changed. Given time, most people will eventually
move past the stage of denial.
Clients may choose to be selective in the use of denial. For example, clients try to
protect certain family members or friends from the truth by using denial. Clients
may also use denial from time to time to set aside thoughts of illness and death in
order to focus on living
4.3.2 Anger
Anger often follows the initial stage of denial. The client’s security is threatened
by the unknown, with the normal daily routines becoming disrupted. This stage is
typically very difficult for family and caregivers because they often feel useless in
terms of helping their loved one through the situation. Since the client has no
control over the situation, anger is the response. The anger may be directed at self,
God, others, the environment, and the health care system.
In the client’s eyes, whatever is done is not right thing. Family members may be
greeted with silence or with outbursts of anger. Their response, in turn, may be
anger, guilt, or despair.
4.3.3 Bargaining
4.3.4 Depression
Depression resulting from the realization that death can no longer be delayed is
different from dysfunctional depression because it helps the client detach from life
and makes it easier to accept death. Depression in this sense is a therapeutic
experience for the dying person.
Clients sometimes feel abandoned, as persons who were once friends begin to visit
less and less, sometimes severing ties with the client even before death; this may
compound the client’s feelings of depression and hopelessness.
4.3.5 Acceptance
Every dying client may not reach the final stage, acceptance. Peace and
contentment comes with acceptance. The client often expresses feeling that all that
could be done has been done. It is important to reinforce the client’s feelings and
sense of personal worth. Many clients will make an effort to get all of their personal
and financial affairs in order.
Sleep is required to fill a physical and emotional need, not to avoid reality. The
client may limit visitors to those people with whom he feels comfortable and safe.
The most significant forms of communication at this time are touch and moments
of silence.
The Patient Self -Determination Act (PSDA) is part of the Omnibus Budget
Reconciliation Act (OBRA) of 1990. This act provides a legal means for individuals
to specify the circumstances under which life-sustaining measures should or should
not be rendered to them. The act applies to hospitals, home health agencies, long –
term care facilities, hospice programs, and certain health maintenance organizations
(HMOs).
In many states, just signing these documents may not be adequate for carrying out
client wishes. They may also need to indicate their desires regarding intubation,
artificial feeding, blood transfusions, chemotherapy, surgery, and transfer to the
hospital (for residents in skilled care facilities).
Although a durable power of attorney for health care and living will are legal
documents, they do not prevent resuscitation (support measures to restore
consciousness and life). The medical record must have a written do-not-resuscitate
(DNR) order from a physician if this is in agreement with the client’s wishes and
with the advance directives. In the absence of such an order, resuscitation will be
initiated.
4.5Ethical Considerations:
Death is often fraught with ethical dilemmas that occur almost daily in health care
settings. Ethics committees in many health care agencies develop and implement
policies to deal with end -of-life issues.
Ethical decision making is a complex issue. Determining the difference between
killing and allowing someone to die by withholding life-sustaining treatment
methods is one of the most difficult dilemmas.
The American Nurses Association (ANA) distinguishes mercy killing (Euthanasia
or assisted suicide) and relieving pain. Euthanasia is viewed as unethical, whereas
pain relief is a central value in nursing.
The ANA’s position is that increasing doses of medication to control pain in
terminally ill clients is ethically justified, even at the expense of maintaining life.
(ANA, 1992).
A thorough assessment of the client’s holistic needs is the basis for nursing
interventions. Assessment of the dying client includes an ongoing collection of
data regarding the strengths and limitations of the dying person and the family.
In closed awareness, the client is not made aware of impending death. The
family may choose this because they do not completely understand why the
client is ill or they believe the client will recover. The primary care provider may
believe it is best not to communicate a diagnosis or prognosis to the client.
Nursing personnel are confronted with an ethical problem in this situation.
With mutual pretense, the client, family and health personel know that the
prognosis is terminal but do not talk about it and make an effort not to raise the
subject. Sometimes the client refrains from discussing death to protect the family
from distress. The client may also sense discomfort on the part of health
personnel and therefore not bring up the subject. Mutual pretense permits the
client a degree of privacy and dignity, but it places a heavy burden on the dying
person, who then has no one in whom to confide.
With open awareness, the client and others know about the impending death and
feel comfortable discussing it, even though it is difficult. This awareness
provides the client an opportunity to finalize affairs and even participate in
planning funeral arrangements.
Not all people are comfortable with open awareness. Some believe that terminal
clients acquire knowledge of their condition even if they are not directly
informed. Others believe that clients remain unaware of their condition until the
end. It is difficult, however to distinguish what clients know from what they are
willing to accept or acknowledge.
Nursing care and support for the dying client and family include making an
accurate assessment of the physiologic signs of approaching death. The four
main characteristics changes are loss of muscle tone, slowing of the circulation,
changes in respirations, sensory impairment.
Diminished sensation
Mottling and cyanosis of the extremities.
Cold skin, first in the feet and later in the hands, ears, and nose (the client,
however, may feel warm if there is a fever)
Slower and weaker pulse.
Decreased blood pressure.
Changes in respirations
Rapid, shallow, irregular or abnormally slow respirations
Noisy breathing referred to as the death rattle, due to collecting of mucus in the
throat.
Mouth breathing, dry oral mucous membranes.
Sensory impairment
Blurred vision
Impaired senses of taste and smell
Nursing diagnosis:
The nurse’s assessment of the dying client may lead to several diagnoses. One
NANDA-approved nursing diagnosis that is applicable for many dying clients is
Powerlessness, that is, “the perception that one’s own action will not
significantly affect an outcome; a perceived lack of control over a current
situation or immediate happening” (NANDA, 2003).
Another response experienced by the dying is described by the diagnosis
Hopelessness, “a subjective state in which an individual sees limited or no
alternatives or personal choices available and is unable to mobilize energy on
own behalf” (NANDA, 2003).
The client may also exhibit Death Anxiety, “apprehension, worry, or fear related
to death or dying” (NANDA, 2003).
In addition risk for caregiver role strain and interrupted family process.
Planning/outcome identification:
» The major goals of nursing care are the physical, emotional, and mental comfort
of the client. The goals of nursing care for the dying client are the same as those
goals developed for all clients who are unable to meet their own needs.
» The dying client should be treated as a unique individual worthy of respect,
instead of a diagnosis to be cured.
» Many dying clients do not fear death but are anxious about a painful death or
dying alone.
» Promoting optimal quality of life includes treating the client and family with
respect and providing a safe environment for expressing their feelings.
» Planning should focus on meeting the client’s and family holistic needs, as
specified in the Dying Person’s Bill of rights.
» When planning care, the nurse should make every effort to be sensitive to the
rights of the dying client.
» Planning care for a dying client:
Schedule time to spend with the client.
Identify areas of special concern to the client and make referrals when
appropriate (e.g. social worker consult for information on equipment rental).
Promote and protect individual self0esteen and self-worth.
Balance the client’s needs for assistance and independence
Meet the physiological needs of the client and family.
Respect the client’s confidentiality.
Provide factual information to the client and family and answer all questions.
Offer to contact clergy or other spiritual leader.
Implementation
The first priority is to communicate caring to the client and family. Powell found
that the presence of a comforting nurse made a tremendous difference to the
client. Laduke (2001) suggests holding a client’s or family member’s hand and
saying “I will not leave you.” This assurance of the nurse’s presence is a powerful
way to show caring.
The nurse should approach the client in denial with understanding and the
knowledge that moving between the stages of dying is enhanced by a trusting
nurse-patient relationship. Establishing rapport facilities the client’s verbalization
of feelings. A safe environment established by the nurse allows the client to
express those feelings being experienced.
Terminally ill clients are often given palliative care, or care that relieves
symptoms, such as pain, but does not alter the course of disease. A primary aim
of palliative care is to help the client feel comfortable, safe and secure. Holding
the client’s hand and listening are therapeutic measures.
Fluids and nutrition - Dying clients almost universally refuse food and fluids. It
is believed that the dying client does not feel thirst and hunger. Although the
issue of permitting dehydration in terminally ill clients is often met with great
resistance, the literature supports the concept that forced nutrition has
questionable value and may even exacerbate the client’s condition. The
American Diet Association, the American Medical Association, and the ANA
agree that it is ethically, legally, and professionally acceptable to discontinue
nutritional support if that is the terminally ill client’s request.
Mouth, eyes, and Nose - The only documented side effect of dehydration in the
terminally ill client is oral discomfort. The administration of oxygen and mouth
breathing both increase the need for meticulous oral care. Apply petroleum jelly
to the lips. To maintain the client’s comfort, oral care must be given every 2 to 3
hours.
If the eyes become irritated due to dryness, artificial tears will alleviate this
discomfort. A cotton ball should be used to gently wipe the eye from inner to
outer canthus (one wipe per cotton ball) to remove any discharge.
The nares may become dry and crusted. Oxygen given by cannula can further
irritate the nares. A thin layer of water soluble jelly applied to the nares will help
alleviate discomfort. The elastic strap of the oxygen cannula should be applied
too tightly, in case it causes discomfort.
Skin Care - Prevention of pressure ulcers is a priority. They are painful, can
cause secondary complications, and are costly to treat. Two preventive measures
are passive range-of-motion exercises and regular repositioning. Bed baths are
adequate if the client cannot get into the tub or sit in a shower chair.
Comfort - The primary activities for promoting physical comfort include pain
relief, keeping the client dry and clean, and providing a safe, nonthreatening
environment. The nurse who has a caring, respectful attitude increases the
client’s psychological comfort.
Spiritual needs – Nurses have the opportunity to play a major role in promoting
the dying client’s spiritual comfort. Dying persons may experience confusion,
anger at their god, crises of faith, or other types of spiritual distress. Dying is a
personal and often a lonely process. Therapeutic nursing interventions that
address the spiritual needs of the dying client include:
Use touch
Play music
Pray with the client
Communicate empathy
Contact clergy, if requested by the client
Read religious literature aloud, at the client’s request.
Support for the family – the presence of the nurse is extremely important. It
shows support and caring not only for the client but for the family as well.
Family members may have increased guilt because of feelings of helplessness.
Laduke (2001) suggests encouraging family members to speak to, touch, read to,
sing to, pray with, or just sit with the client. This can give family members a
sense of purpose, ease feelings of helplessness, and provide more pleasant
memories in the future.
The relationship with the family does not always end with the client’s death.
Staff members may attend visitations, funerals or memorial services. If a hospice
was involved, the family may participate in a bereavement support program. If
the client was a resident in a long term care facility, family members may return
to visit other residents with whom they became acquainted.
5. GRIEF
Shock stage
The period of shock may last from only days to a month or more. The person may
describe feeling “numb”. It is an emotional numbness rather than a physical one.
Reality stage
A painful experience begins when the individual consciously realizes the full
meaning of the loss. Anger, guilt, fear, frustration, and /or helplessness may be the
expressed reactions.
Recovery stage
During the last stage, recovery, the loss is integrated into the reality of the
individual’s life. The person exhibits adaptive behaviours and begins to live again,
doing things that were formerly enjoyed.
Uncomplicated grief has a fairly predictable course that ends with relinquishing
the lost object and resuming the duties of life.
The grieving person may feel angry, hopeless, or sad and may express feelings
of depression. A person who is grieving may experience loss of appetite, weight
loss, insomnia, restlessness, indecisiveness, impulsivity, and inability to concentrate
or carry out daily activities.
Anticipatory Grief-
Anticipatory grief is the occurrence of grief before an expected loss actually
occurs. Anticipatory grief may be experienced by both the person’s family and the
terminally ill person. This process promotes early grieving, freeing emotional
energy for adapting once the loss has occurred. Although anticipatory grieving
may be helpful in adjusting to the loss, it also has some potential disadvantages.
For example, in case of the dying client, the family members may distance
themselves and not be available for support. Also, if the family members have
separated themselves emotionally from the dying client, they may seem cold and
distant and, thus, not meet society’s expectations of mourning behaviour.
Dysfunctional grief-
Disenfranchised Grief:
Disenfranchised grief is described as grief not openly acknowledged, socially
sanctioned, or publicly shared. When an individual either is reluctant to recognize
the sense of loss and develops guilt feelings or feels pressured by society to “get on
with life”, grief can become disenfranchised. An example of disenfranchised grief
is extreme sadness over the loss the loss of a pet when this mourning might be
viewed by others as excessive or inappropriate. A mother’s sadness over a
miscarriage might also be considered disenfranchised grief because a lengthy
period of mourning may not be publicly expected despite the mother’s intense
feelings of loss and despair.
Developmental stage
Religious and cultural beliefs
Relationship with the lost object
Early adulthood In the young adult, grief is often precipitated by loss of role or
status. For example, significant grief may be caused by unemployment or the
breakup of a relationship. The concept of death in this age group primarily reflects
spiritual beliefs and cultural values.
Middle adulthood The potential for experiencing loss increases during middle
adulthood. The death of parents often occurs during this developmental phase. As
an individual age, it can be especially threatening when peers die, because these
deaths force acknowledgement of one’s own mortality.
Late adulthood Most individuals recognize the inevitability of death during the
late adulthood. It is challenging for elders to experience the death of age-old
friends or find themselves the last one of their peer group left living. Older adults
often turn to their children and grandchildren as sources of comfort and
companionship. Cultivating friendships in all groups helps prevent loneliness and
depression.
Assessment:
Cognition(thought patterns)
- Disbelief
- Confusion
- Preoccupation about the deceased
- Sense of the presence of the deceased
- Hallucinations
- Hopelessness (I’ll never be OK again”)
Physical sensations:
Behavoirs
- Sleep disturbances
- Appetite disturbances
- Absentminded behaviour
- Dreams of the deceased
- Sighing
- Crying
- Carrying objects that belonged to the deceased.
Nursing Diagnosis:
o When planning for the grieving client, it is important to clarify the expected
outcomes. Some expected goals for the person experiencing grief are:
Accept the loss.
Verbalize feelings of grief.
Share grief with significant others.
Renew activities and relationships.
Some of these expected outcomes will take a long time to achieve, and some must
be achieved before others are mastered. For example, to accept the loss, the person
must begin to share grief with others by verbalizing those feelings. Two of the
expected outcomes are discussed below.
Acceptance of loss – individuals are able to reach some acceptance and resolution of
feelings about the loss only by going through grief work. Often people try to find
some meaning in their situations. This search involves introspection, for which
spiritual support may be therapeutic.
Renewal of activities and relationships – the basis of grief work revolves around
accepting the fact that the needs met by key people in life can be met by other
people in other ways. Knowing that the deceased cannot be replaced, healing must
occur so that new relationships may begin.
Implementation
- It is important for you to use therapeutic communication strategies that enable the
client to discuss the loss and work with you in findings ways to resolve it.
- Use open ended questions that allow clients to freely share their thoughts and
concerns. Too often the use of closed questions result in the client discussing only
what you presume is the problem.
- If a client chooses not to share feelings or concerns, you should convey a
willingness to be available when needed.
- It is important to recognize that some clients will not discuss feelings about their
loss. Be observant for expressions of anger, denial, depression, or guilt.
Remember it is important to know your own feelings before encouraging clients to
express their anger.
Facilitating mourning - these strategies you can use to help clients move through
uncomplicated grief. These guidelines are equally helpful for persons who
mourning a death, facing death, and grieving over an actual situational loss.
Help the client accept that the loss is real
Support efforts to live without the deceased person or in the face of disability.
Encourage establishment of new relationships.
Allow time to grieve.
Interpret “normal” behaviour.
Provide continuing support.
Be alert for signs of ineffective coping.
Evaluation:
Client care: You will care for clients and families at every phase of the grief
response. This requires you to maintain aware of signs and symptoms of grief,
even when clients are not specifically seeking care directly related to a loss. These
same signs and symptoms offer criteria to evaluate whether a client is able to deal
with a loss and progress through the grief process. The goal of terminally ill client
and family is participation in the process of life review.
Client expectations : maintain open communication with clients to allow them to
evaluate their nursing care. Clients who have developed a good relationship with a
nurse will feel comfortable in discussing their perceptions of “how things are
going.” When caring for a terminally ill client, take the time to frequently ask the
family about their level of satisfaction.
People follow their own time schedule for grief work. Because it takes months or
years for grief resolution, nurses usually do not have the opportunity to know
when the bereaved family completes its grieving work.
The foundation for evaluation is the goals mutually established with client and
family. It is important for nurses to teach grieving individuals that resolution of
the loss is generally a process of lifelong adjustment.
In order for you, as a nurse, to provide the necessary support clients and families
require during loss, it is necessary to understand how people normally cope with
grief and loss. Your nursing interventions will involve reinforcement of these
coping strategies or introduction of approaches that help clients learn new
strategies.
HOPE:
SYNTHESIS
When you care for a client who has experienced a loss, successful critical thinking
requires a synthesis of knowledge, experiences with loss and grief, and
information gathered from client’s and families.
Each client enters the health care setting at a different developmental, spiritual,
and cultural place and with different expectations. You will learn to consider all of
these factors when providing a comprehensive plan of care.
KNOWLEDGE
Knowledge of the grief process will help you understand the responses and needs
of your client and family. You must also have a clear understanding of the nature
of the loss, how the loss affects their lives.
Applying knowledge of therapeutic communication principles enables you to
explore the loss thoroughly with a client to understand all influential factors.
Principles of caring and an understanding of family dynamics will enable you to
provide compassionate care.
EXPERIENCE
» Most of us have experienced some type of loss: loss of a friend, a family pet, a
beloved family member. Personal experience with loss prepares you to understand
what loss means and to anticipate the emotional experience a client is feeling.
» When you have previously cared for clients experiencing loss or those who have
died, the lessons are invaluable.
» Reflect upon those experiences and consider how you might apply what you have
learned to care for your next client.
ATTITUDES
Risk taking, self-confidence, and humility are key attitudes that will help you to
make accurate judgements and decisions about your clients. Many nurses become
anxious when caring for clients who grieve.
Being with a client or family who is mourning requires a personal risk. One must
learn to accept client’s discomfort in the interest of being supportive.
Humility helps you to put aside personal assumptions about how loss might be
interpreted by the client and to remain open to hearing and understanding the
client’s beliefs, thoughts, and concerns.
STANDARDS
You are ethically bound to provide the best quality care to clients at all times. You
Other documents such as A Patient’s Bill of rights and The Dying Person’s Bill of
Rights are honoured at hospitals and often posted in prominent areas.
9. CONCLUSION
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