How to Keep the Girl You Love

08/28/2015 01:22 pm ET Updated Aug 28, 2016

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Lately I am hearing so many stories about heartbreak.
The stories seem the same... a girl leaves a broken
relationship. She feels like he is crushing her spirit, he
is no longer passionate about her, he says critical and
hurtful words, he treats her like an option, and the list
of reasons goes on. What surprises me the most is that
when the girl finally walks away from all the hurt the
guy is often surprised. What he doesn’t realize is that
she left a dozen warnings maybe more that she was
broken, that she could not fight anymore, that he has
crushed her spirit. Instead of fighting for her he lets her
walk away.

What guys don’t realize is that it is often quite simple to

keep the girl you love. Of course there are the obvious
things like being faithful, honesty, and just don’t be a
big jerk! However there are little things that you can do
to make her feel your love and devotion. When you do
these things you are more likely to keep her then lose
her and the relationship will strengthen. In the end you
may even experience the most amazing relationship of
your life.

1. It’s the little things that matter. It’s the gentle touch
of your hand, how you wipe the hair out of her eyes,
how you stare into her eyes, the random hug or kiss
throughout the day, the simple text letting her know
you are thinking about her. Text her every morning to
say Good Morning Beautiful! You don’t have to do all
these things every single day but most definitely make
sure you are doing random little ‘I love you’s, I see you,
I acknowledge your beauty things’ everyday.

2. Make her feel like the most beautiful girl in the world.
That she is your dream woman. That you want to
runaway with her. Women want to feel beautiful. We
especially want to feel beautiful by the man we love.

3. Remember what is special to her. Show her you care

about these things. Ask questions about her family, her
children, her work, whatever she is passionate about.
When you genuinely take an interest in her life her
heart opens and love flows.

4. Notice the small things. How you think it’s cute how
she looks when she wakes up, how her nail polish has
sock marks in it or how she works hard to accomplish
her latest goal. These things may seem unimportant but
it truly is the small things that you notice that matter.

5. Have fun together and act silly! Jump off the boat
and do cannon balls, playfully tease her or tell her how
she makes you smile every time you think of her. Life
should be enjoyed so why not do it together!

6. Kiss her Passionately. Grab her and kiss her like you
can’t get enough of her. When you kiss tell her it was
better than you dreamed it would be. There should
always be a little romance sprinkled into your
relationship.
7. Don’t take her spark away. A woman’s spirit is
gentle, treat it with respect and love. You can either
crush her spirit or encourage it. Critical and harsh
words crush the spark within the spirit. Be careful with
your tongue. Don’t let it blow out the beautiful and
inspiring spirit that women contain. When you help this
spark grow you can experience the greatest passion
you will ever know. The men that crush this gentle
spirit never experience all the beauty she has to offer.

A girl will move mountains for a man that adores,

appreciates and truly loves her. A woman can sense a
fake so don’t do these things without pure intentions in
your heart. An authentic man that does these things
creates a passionate and pure love within the woman
he loves. Of course there are a lot more factors that
determine if someone stays or not. Choose to do your
best at loving your beautiful lady. Choose her daily and
see the difference it makes in your relationship.