How to Keep the Girl You Love

08/28/2015 01:22 pm ET Updated Aug 28, 2016

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Lately I am hearing so many stories about heartbreak. The stories

seem the same... a girl leaves a broken relationship. She feels like he
is crushing her spirit, he is no longer passionate about her, he says
critical and hurtful words, he treats her like an option, and the list of
reasons goes on. What surprises me the most is that when the girl
finally walks away from all the hurt the guy is often surprised. What
he doesn’t realize is that she left a dozen warnings maybe more that
she was broken, that she could not fight anymore, that he has
crushed her spirit. Instead of fighting for her he lets her walk away.

What guys don’t realize is that it is often quite simple to keep the girl
you love. Of course there are the obvious things like being faithful,
honesty, and just don’t be a big jerk! However there are little things
that you can do to make her feel your love and devotion. When you
do these things you are more likely to keep her then lose her and the
relationship will strengthen. In the end you may even experience the
most amazing relationship of your life.

1. It’s the little things that matter. It’s the gentle touch of your hand,
how you wipe the hair out of her eyes, how you stare into her eyes,
the random hug or kiss throughout the day, the simple text letting her
know you are thinking about her. Text her every morning to say Good
Morning Beautiful! You don’t have to do all these things every single
day but most definitely make sure you are doing random little ‘I love
you’s, I see you, I acknowledge your beauty things’ everyday.
2. Make her feel like the most beautiful girl in the world. That she
is your dream woman. That you want to runaway with her. Women
want to feel beautiful. We especially want to feel beautiful by the man
we love.

3. Remember what is special to her. Show her you care about these
things. Ask questions about her family, her children, her work,
whatever she is passionate about. When you genuinely take an
interest in her life her heart opens and love flows.

4. Notice the small things. How you think it’s cute how she looks
when she wakes up, how her nail polish has sock marks in it or how
she works hard to accomplish her latest goal. These things may
seem unimportant but it truly is the small things that you notice that
matter.

5. Have fun together and act silly! Jump off the boat and do cannon
balls, playfully tease her or tell her how she makes you smile every
time you think of her. Life should be enjoyed so why not do it
together!

6. Kiss her Passionately. Grab her and kiss her like you can’t get
enough of her. When you kiss tell her it was better than you dreamed
it would be. There should always be a little romance sprinkled into
your relationship.

7. Don’t take her spark away. A woman’s spirit is gentle, treat it with
respect and love. You can either crush her spirit or encourage it.
Critical and harsh words crush the spark within the spirit. Be careful
with your tongue. Don’t let it blow out the beautiful and inspiring spirit
that women contain. When you help this spark grow you can
experience the greatest passion you will ever know. The men that
crush this gentle spirit never experience all the beauty she has to
offer.
A girl will move mountains for a man that adores, appreciates and
truly loves her. A woman can sense a fake so don’t do these things
without pure intentions in your heart. An authentic man that does
these things creates a passionate and pure love within the woman he
loves. Of course there are a lot more factors that determine if
someone stays or not. Choose to do your best at loving your beautiful
lady. Choose her daily and see the difference it makes in your
relationship.