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Cooperative Negotiation Harvard PDF
Cooperative Negotiation Harvard PDF
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TODAY’S CLASS
NEGOTIATION STYLES
HARVARD METHODOLOGY
Main concepts
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Negotiation Styles
HIGH COLLABORATE
ACCOMODATE Problem solved creatively, aiming for win-win
Characteristics:
Build friendly relationship
Search for common interests
Characteristics:
Problem-solving behaviours
Promote harmony
Recognising both parties’ needs
Avoid substantive differences
Synergistic solutions
Give into pressure to save relationship
COMPROMISE Win-win becomes the main purpose of the
CONCERN FOR RELATIONSHIP
Characteristics:
Meeting half way
AVOID Look for trade offs DEFEAT
Take whatever you can get/Inaction Accept half-way measures Be a winner at any cost/Competitive
Characteristics: Aims to reduce conflict rather than problem solve Characteristics:
Feeling of powerlessness synergistically
Win-Lose competition
Indifference to the result
Pressure/Intimidation
Resignation, surrender
Adversarial relationships
Take what the other party is willing to
Defeating the other becomes a goal for the
concede
negotiator
Withdraw & remove = behaviour of
negotiator
• Began in 1983
• In conjunction with
MIT and Tufts
Roger Fisher
Bruce Patton
William Ury
Getting to Yes: 6 PRINCIPLES
Basic building
blocks of negotiation
How do you deal with Steps each party could take to satisfy
people issues? their own interests outside the current
negotiation (BATNA)
Prepare to communicate efficiently
during the negotiation
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1.
1. Interests
Interests
The purpose of a negotiation is to satisfy your interest and the other party´s
interests
Interests A and B, as a
Position A broader concept, allow for a
common ground for
Zone of agreement
potential
agreement
Cooperative negotiations
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OPTIONS
2.
2. Options
Options
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2. Options
Optionspreparation
preparation
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2. Options
Optionspreparation
preparation
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2.
2. Options
Optionspreparation
preparation
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ALTERNATIVES
3.
3. Alternatives
Alternatives
What I am going to do if we don't reach an agreement?
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BATNA. An example
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3. Alternatives
AlternativesPreparation
Preparation
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3.
3. Alternatives
Alternatives
Another Example:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ghk9jM80g7g&feature=related
Minute 3.28
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CRITERIA
4.
4.Criteria
Criteria
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4.
4.Criteria
Criteria
Ex. You are negotiating your rent with the landlord and
cannot reach an agreement. You are trying to apply a
win-win solution but:
You want a low price
The landword wants a high price
Bargaining is not the answer
Proposal: negotiate on the basis of objective criteria,
independent fron the parties will
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4.
4.Criteria
Criteria
What are the standards to convince each other that what we propose is
fair?
To resolve conflicting interest use independent standards: (Scientific
findings, professional standards, or legal precedent,market value,
precedent or industry practice)
Is an argument based on objective criteria, independent of the parties will.
Standars should be relevant and widely accepted
The parties must agree which criteria is best for their situation.
Criteria should be both legitimate and practical
There are more than one objective criteria for an agreement
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4.
4.Criteria
CriteriaPreparation
Preparation
ASK YOURSELF: What are the standards to convince each other that what
we propose is fair?
To resolve conflicting interest use independent standards:
Find a range of objective criteria to persuade the other party (and yourself)
that what you propose is fair and makes sense (market value, precedent or
industry practice)
Standars should be relevant and widely accepted
There are more than one objective criteria for an agreement
Prepare to help them expain the result
Think of impartial processes to find an objective criteria (obtaining an
expert opinion, arbitration…)
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4.
4.Criteria
CriteriaPreparation
Preparation(summary)
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RELATIONSHIP and
COMUNICATION
6.
6. Relationship:
Relationship:Separate
Separatethe
thePeople
Peoplefrom
fromthe
theProblem
Problem
“A basic fact about negotiation, easy to forget in corporate
and international business transactions, is that you are
dealing not with abstract representatives of the ‘other side,’
but with human beings”. Getting to Yes, page 18-19
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6. Relationship:
Relationship:Separate
Separatethe
thePeople
Peoplefrom
fromthe
theProblem
Problem
Ex., a salesperson wants not only to make the sale but to keep the
customer for a long period of time.
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6. Relationship:
Relationship:
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First source of “people problems”: Perceptions
• As useful as looking for objective reality can be, it is ultimately the reality
as each side sees it that constitutes the problem in a negotiation and
opens the way to a solution.
• Put yourself in their shoes. How you see the world depends on where you
sit. People tend to see what they want to see. Out of a mass of detailed
information, they tend to pick out and focus on those facts that confirm
their prior perceptions and to disregard or misinterpret those that call
their perceptions into question.
• Each side in a negotiation may see only the merits of its case, and only the
faults of the other side's.
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First source of “people problems”: Perceptions
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Perceptions
• The ability to see the situation as the other side sees it, as difficult as it
may be, is one of the most important skills a negotiator can possess.
• It is not enough to know that they see things differently.
• If you want to influence them, you also need to understand
empathetically the power of their point of view and to feel the
emotional force with which they believe in it.
• It is not enough to study them like beetles under a microscope; you need
to know what it feels like to be a beetle. To accomplish this task you
should be prepared to withhold judgment for a while as you "try on" their
views. They may well believe that their views are "right" as strongly as you
believe yours are. You may see on the table a glass half full of cool water .
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Second source of people problems: Emotions
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Third
Thirdsource
sourceof
ofpeople
peopleproblems:
problems: Comunication
Comunication
ACTIVE LISTENING:
In a respective way, clarifying ambiguities and making
sure you have understand.
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Preparare
Prepararefor
forgood
goodComunication
Comunication
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Listening is your most powerful negotiating tool
But before you can listen, you
have to be skilled at asking
questions:
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Active Listening Techniques (1)
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Active Listening Techniques (2)
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Active Listening Techniques (3)
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Active Listening Techniques (4)
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Active listening example
• VIDEO:http://www.youtube.com/watch?
v=7iZ5cftT1Mg&feature=channel
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Summary
SummaryRelationship
Relationship
Disentangle the people and the problem
Ask yourself: ¿Am I ready to deal with the relationship?
Use people techniques for people problems
Acknowledge your emotions and theirs without blame
Listen actively
Put yourself in their shoes
Turn a face-to face confrontation into a side by side problem
solving
Your are both sitting at the same side of the table
dealing with the problem jointly
Be unconditionally constructive
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COMMITMENT
6.
6. Commitments
Commitments
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7. Commitments
Commitmentspreparation
preparation
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APPLYING THE MODEL
Applying
Applyingthe
themodel
model
Focus
Focuson
onVALUE
VALUECREATION
CREATION
COMBINING
COMBININGTHETHERESOURCES
RESOURCES
TO
TO SATISFY MUTUALNEEDS
SATISFY MUTUAL NEEDS
CLARIFYING
CLARIFYINGINTEREST
INTEREST
COMUNICATION
COMUNICATIONAND
ANDRELATIONSHIP
RELATIONSHIP
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MEASURING SUCCESS
BATNA
Satisfy interests
Comunication is efective
BARGAIN
PROPOSE
DEBATE
PLAN
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Step One - Prepare
• Research
• LIST your objectives and their objectives
• Those you INTEND to get
• Those you MUST get
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Step Two - Debate
• Listen carefully
• Ask questions
• Clarify
• Summarise
• Don’t argue, interrupt or assume
...BUT
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Step Three - Propose
• Make proposals
• State conditions
• Express concerns
• Search for common interests
• AND
Use positive body language
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Step Four - Bargain
• Key words are IF and THEN
• Start making concession:
– Every concession should have a condition
(IF you … THEN I will … )
– Conserve your concessions - don’t give
everything away too soon
– You don’t have to share every piece of
information with the opposing side!
– Don’t be afraid to say no
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Step Five - Agree
• Usually final concession :
“IF you do that, THEN we have a deal!”
• Gain commitment
• Record and agree results
• Leave satisfied
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Think about your influencing style
Inspirational Personal
Logical Forceful
7 Deadly Sins of Negotiating
Do only those things that are both good for the relationship and good for us
- whether or not they reciprocate
RATIONALITY Even if they are acting emotionally, balance emotions with reason
RELIABILITY Even if they are trying to deceive us, neither trust them nor deceive them:
be reliable
NON-COERCIVE MODES OF Even if they are trying to coerce us, neither yield to that coercion nor try to
INFLUENCES coerce them, be open to persuasion and try to persuade them
ACCEPTANCE Even if they reject us and our concerns as unworthy of their consideration,
accept them as worthy of consideration, care about them and be open to
learning from them
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Three Approaches To Resolving Disputes
Power
Rights
Interests
Distressed System
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Three Approaches To Resolving Disputes
Interests
Rights
Power
Effective System
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Stages in negotiation
Sessions 11&12
The stages in the negotiation
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Three stages can be distinguished in the
negotiation
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Pre-negotiation
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Negotiation
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Post-negotiation
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Closing the negotiation (I)
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Closing the negotiation (II)
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