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Girl Power
Jessica Kayanja
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Unless otherwise indicated
All Scripture quotations are taken from the
Authorized King James Version, Zondervan
Publishing House, Grand Rapids, Michigan.
GIRL POWER
ISBN 0-9723600-3-4
Copyright © 2004 by Jessica Kayanja
Highway of Holiness International,
P.O.BOX 800364 Dallas, TX 75380 USA or,
P.O.BOX 1680, Kampala-Uganda
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Contents
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Foreword
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Chapter 1
Girl power
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Chapter 2
The woman of God and her
marriage and family
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Chapter 3
The spiritual helper
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Chapter 4
Economic- helper
How will the Lord increase you ?
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Chapter 5
The woman of God as a
social helpmate
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Chapter 6
The woman of God, her style
and presentation
(a physical helpmate)
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Chapter 7
The woman of God at her place
of work or area of ministry
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Dedication
This book is for all the women of God who glory in
the wonderful gift of womanhood. To those who
thank God every day that they are in fact descendants
of Eve and most of all to those who wish to serve
God and can find no other way to do it except as a
woman.
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Acknowledgement
I am in all ways indebted to my dear husband Pastor
Robert Kayanja who is my pastor, my mentor, my
partner and my best friend. Only God can tell the price
of such a wonderful man of God. Thank you so much
for seeing the woman of God in me and believing in
what you saw.
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CHAPTER ONE
GIRL POWER INTRODUCTION
Foreword
He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains
favor from God.
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Just after we got married in 1992, we spent our honey
moon ministering in the halls of churches and crusade
arenas in Uganda, Europe, Asia and America. When
we returned home we had only $100 left and the Lord
challenged me to start the construction of our home
church which is valued between 7-10 million US
dollars.
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GIRL POWER INTRODUCTION
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loved to keep house, take care of my beautiful children
and to cook. The only source of emotional turmoil for
me then was that I wanted to preach as much as I
wanted to do all these things. As much as I wanted to
go out and evangelize, womanhood for me was a good
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1 Peter3:3-4
3 Whose adorning let it not be that outward
adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of
gold, or of putting on of apparel;
4 But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in
that which is not corruptible, even the ornament
of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of
God of great price.
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Woman of God, the only sacrifice you will ever need
is a broken spirit and a broken and contrite heart. These
as written by the psalmist are the only sacrifices the
Lord will not despise [see Psalm 51:17].
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might call me an extremist. I believe in microphones,
loudspeakers and open air crusades, but above all this
I believe that one can serve God effectively only if
they stand in the correct territory; that is putting to
use the talents and giftings that the Lord has accorded
them for His service.
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Chapter Two
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She was definitely a voice of many battered women
who had embraced the then very popular ‘you can do
it all’ faith message and used it in a very unbiblical
manner.
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CHAPTER TWO
THE WOMAN OF GOD & HER
MARRIAGE & FAMILY
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good that the man should be alone; I will make
him a help meet for him.
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MARRIAGE & FAMILY
spiritual, physical, social and economic because you
have been designed to be a helper comparable with
him.
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to agree with outside their marriage. This type of
agreement will usually be done with strings attached.
Sometimes, outsiders will pretend to agree with you
in prayer only to be overwhelmed by there own prayer
needs, visions and goals. I have nothing against prayer
groups and prayer partners, but the truth is regarding
each other in this respect is priority. Prayer groups
and prayer partners should only agree after husband
and wife have done so.
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THE SPIRITUAL HELPER
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The above is a form of figurative writing to show how
much the power of agreement can either hinder or cause
your marriage to progress.
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husband, I embraced the commission as mine even
though the Lord had spoken specifically to my
husband.
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One day someone said to us, ‘That church will never
be finished in your lifetime, not even your great grand
children’s lifetime.’ He continued to say it was a good
dream, but not at all realistic in this part of the world.
Of course it was not realistic; it was divine.
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All this time my husband was trying so hard and
putting so much into the building and yet to the naked
eye the project did not seem like it was moving at all.
In fact almost everybody said we had realized our
mistake and stopped building.
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THE SPIRITUAL HELPER
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Your husband is human and is subject to error of
judgment whether intentional or most of the time not.
Any decision made out of context of the word of God
and His will is wrong and the only way you will find
out that he is actually wrong is if you have knowledge
of the word yourself. Through the Word of God one
is able to discern soulish decisions from spiritual ones
and also to discern through the thoughts and intents
of the heart.
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Quietness is a sign of a
confidence that cannot be
misunderstood or even
mistaken
much stress and chaos surrounds her, it is better to go
to the feet of Jesus than to complain, grumble and
nag.
Luke 10:38-42
38 Now it came to pass, as they went, that He
entered into a certain village: and a certain
woman named Martha received him into her
house.
39 And she had a sister called Mary, which also
sat at Jesus’ feet, and heard his word.
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The question then arises, does God make mistakes?
Many women find themselves wondering whether they
are in the right place or not. The answer is No my
dear, God does not make mistakes. The fact that you
came to know Jesus before your husband does not
necessarily mean that he will never come to know
Jesus himself. Just as the fact that you know Jesus
does not necessarily mean that the unbelieving
members of your clan will not become Christian one
day.
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1Peter 3:1-2
1 Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your
own husbands; that, if any obey not the word,
they also may without the word be won by the
conversation of the wives;
2 While they behold your chaste conversation
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coupled with fear.
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A non-believing man understands actions (conduct)
more than scripture. He can understand that a woman
who cannot keep herself hygienic and desirable isn’t
A non-believing man
understands actions (conduct)
more than scripture
worth running home to. He can understand when one
is rude and unwelcoming. He knows a lazy, sloppy
and shapeless woman who sleeps all day when he sees
one. So if your husband has not met Jesus yet, it is
time you found out why. Why does he not find you
attractive enough to follow you to church? Why can
he not sit down for 20 minutes while you attempt to
preach at him, and why have all those scriptures you
hurl at him in anger dropped on hard rock?
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and become interested in your husband’s profession,
work as well as some of his healthy hobbies.For
example some men play football, hockey, soccer and
are athletic. It will not be a sin for you to sit down and
watch while your husband participates in a sport. This
will give you a common ground of conversation. Find
out what type of woman or wife your husband prefers
to have by his side. Some men prefer a domesticated
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before He could call out Lazarus from the dead. Jesus
Himself is God. He had all the power to order the
stone to give way or to order Lazarus to make a
fantastic superman stunt that would have him
catapulting through the stone and landing on his two
feet like a true bionic man. But He did no such thing.
Instead He asked the people to participate with an
action before He could come in and do what they
required of Him.
John 11:38-43
38 Jesus therefore again groaning in himself
cometh to the grave. It was a cave, and a stone
lay upon it.
39 Jesus said, Take ye away the stone. Martha,
the sister of him that was dead, saith unto him,
Lord, by this time he stinketh: for he hath been
dead four days.
40 Jesus saith unto her, Said I not unto thee,
that, if thou wouldest believe, thou shouldest
see the glory of God?
41 Then they took away the stone from the
place where the dead was laid. And Jesus lifted
up his eyes, and said, Father, I thank thee that
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After you have rolled away the stone through the
actions that are discussed in this book, go ahead to
call him forth using the voice of Jesus which is the
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Matthew 19:4-6
4 And he answered and said unto them, Have ye
not read, that he which made them at the
beginning made them male and female,
5 And said, For this cause shall a man leave father
and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they
twain shall be one flesh
6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh.
What therefore God hath joined together, let not
man put asunder.
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Prayer for an unbelieving husband;
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EconomicHelper
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Proverbs 31:10-11
10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price
is far above rubies.
11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in
her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
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economically helpful wife.
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CHAPTER FOUR
ECONOMIC HELPER
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daughter of Herodias. She was given the chance to
ask for anything in life and instead decided to ask for
the head of John the Baptist. They too usually ask for
and prefer to invest in the wrong things. They focus
more at the ‘now’ than they do ‘’tomorrow.’ They
sacrifice their blessing by joining those who want to
silence the voice of God.
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Proverbs 31:13-15
13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh will-
ingly with her hands.
14 She is like the merchants’ ships; she bringeth
her food from afar.
15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth
meat to her household, and a portion to her maid-
ens.
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and inconsiderate. A giving wife is a blessing to her
husband. The more you give, the more God will bless
you with the ability to do so.
The Lord said to Abraham;
Genesis 22:17-18
17 That in blessing I will bless thee, and in mul-
tiplying I will multiply thy seed as the stars of
the heaven, and as the sand which is upon the
sea shore; and thy seed shall possess the gate
of his enemies;
18 And in thy seed shall all the nations of the
earth be blessed; because thou hast obeyed my
voice.
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always said that God had spoken to him personally to
build the temple and he would do it alone if he had to.
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construction is now finished, but we are still giving
cars away. God is our witness! On top of that, we
have provided free transport for our church members
to be ferried to and from the church by buying them
double- decker buses (not from the church’s income).
I have no doubt that I and my children will always
have reliable means of transport because of the
investment I have made in the kingdom of God. I
look forward to the day when the whole nation’s
transport system will be blessed through my seed.
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Malachi 3:10-12
10 Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse,
that there may be meat in mine house, and prove
me now herewith, saith the LORD of hosts, if I
will not open you the windows of heaven, and
pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be
room enough to receive it.
11 And I will rebuke the devourer for your
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sakes, and he shall not destroy the fruits of your
ground; neither shall your vine cast her fruit
before the time in the field, saith the LORD of
hosts.
12 And all nations shall call you blessed: for ye
shall be a delightful land, saith the LORD of
hosts.
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Proverbs 31:28-31
28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praiseth her.
29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but
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thou excellest them all.
30 Favor is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a
woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be
praised.
31 Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let
her own works praise her in the gates.
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‘...love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and
with all thy soul, and with all thy mind and to
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love thy neighbor as thyself’
[Matthew 22:37-39]
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CHAPTER FIVE
THE WOMAN OF GOD
AS A SOCIAL HELP MATE
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They would say mean things about fellow ministers
and men of God!
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THE WOMAN OF GOD
AS A SOCIAL HELP MATE
Every time I met with these people, paid them a visit
or attended any of their meetings, it always turned
out that they had nothing of substance to offer in
terms of being a standard, a prototype or a role-model.
They were all those things I was trying my best not
to be.
Proverbs 6:16-19
16 These six things doth the LORD hate: yea,
seven are an abomination unto him:
17 A proud look, a lying tongue, and hands that
shed innocent blood,
18 A heart that deviseth wicked imaginations,
feet that be swift in running to mischief,
19 A false witness that speaketh lies, and he that
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The devil will use scoffers to waste your time, destroy
your morale, discourage you from the work you are
supposed to do and also ruin your channel of blessing
by creating a spirit of bitterness and strife within you.
The best way to deal with a scoffer is to separate
yourself from them. Do not let them waste your time,
discourage you, or create bitterness and strife within
you.
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Who is a scoffer?
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In 2 Peter 3, they refer to the anointed fathers as having
died (fallen asleep) and they say since their death,
things continue as they were from the begining of
creation.
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of self-righteousness and spiritual superiority. Scoffers
will cause you to sin by inciting gossip, envy, hatred,
unforgiveness, shame and anger.
Examine your social life now and find out exactly who
is playing centre stage. Are you being controlled, are
you in control or is God in control of your
relationships? Remember your girl power: in quietness
and in rest shall be your strength.
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imagine is useless, remains the only container your
spirit-being will ever have all the days of your life.
And the moment the physical ceases to contain the
spiritual then you are no longer of use to the rest of
the world.
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HER STYLE & PRESENTATION
carry a picture of the physical you on them.
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3)For health reasons.
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What do the non believers think when they see
you?
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of Eden image.
Only one look in the mirror will show you how far
you have fallen from this godly image. Well, wakeup!
Gather your guts and change your style. Bring in more
personal hygiene be clean in and out, improve your
feeding habits, do some exercise and take enough rest.
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style and fashion. I doubt the Egyptians would have
found Sarah attractive if she did not measure up real
good.
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opportunity to minister to me. I thought to myself, ‘I
dare not be turned into one of them and end up
having to wear unsightly dresses and a head scarf
all the time.’ Because Sarah was beautiful, the bible
says in Genesis,
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Genesis 12:16 And he did good to Abram be-
cause of her. And he had sheep, and oxen, and
he -asses, and male slaves, and slave-girls, and
she-asses, and camels.
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Although the virgins given for the king were all naturally
beautiful, they still needed beauty preparations to
appear before the King.
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Psalm 27:4 One thing have I desired of the
LORD, that will I seek after; that I may dwell
in the house of the LORD all the days of my
life, to behold the beauty of the LORD, and to
inquire in his temple.
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Every time you are lazy and do not deliver, you let
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Every time you are lazy and do
not deliver you let God down ..
God down whom you represent and not your boss,
because your boss can fire you and hire another but
your God will be identified with a failure if you fail.
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THE WOMAN OF GOD
AT HER PLACE OF WORK OR AREA OF MINISTRY
Do not get into open confrontation over the gender
issue; only do the work that the Lord will bring your
way. Remember silence is not weakness. A powerful
working woman will also learn from the chapters
written on An Economic Helpmate and A Woman’s
Presentation and Style.
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THE WOMAN OF GOD
AT HER PLACE OF WORK OR AREA OF MINISTRY
Prayer for the spiritual woman.
Dear Lord,
I come to you in the wonderful name of Jesus and
thank you for the opportunity to be your own child. I
now realize that there are aspects of my marriage, my
work, and my image that have prevented me from
being the spiritual woman that I should be.
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The Seed
Divine Impact
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