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3 KILLER Conversation Mistakes And Tips

To ImproveYour Flirting

By Bobby Rio, MakeSmallTalkSexy.com

1. What are some of the major mistakes guys make in their conversations?

It’s funny…because when you finally figure this out- you’ll look back and see that
there were just a handful of tweaks you needed to make… and these tweaks
vary from guy to guy.

Some guys spend too much time trying to appear “cool” to a woman- and wind
up coming across as stiff and boring. For these guys, they need to learn how to
inject some fun and playfulness into their conversations.

Some guys tend to get stuck at a “friendly” level. These guys need to learn how
to spot when there is “too much” rapport happening. Attraction is a balancing act
between “tension” and “comfort.” And a lot of the guys who get stuck at a friendly
level are so afraid of the “tension” that they spend way too much time building
rapport thinking it will make the woman like them. – And it will… as a FRIEND.

Some guys have no clue what to say to a woman. These guys need to learn how
to spot the hooks a woman is giving him. Every time a woman opens her mouth
and says something it should be triggering three or four things you can say back.

The problem a lot of these guys face (and I suffered this for YEARS) is that they
spend too much time in their own head trying to think of what to say next. A
woman will give you all the material you need. You’ve just got to learn to spot it.
But the biggest mistake most men are making is that there conversation are one
dimensional and flat. This is because they don’t have enough “weapons” in their
arsenal.

Maybe they are comfortable at telling stories… so that’s all they do. Or maybe
they spend the entire time asking questions. Or maybe they are funny – so they
rely too much on humor. The fact is, you need to always have about five
techniques you “whip out” to keep the conversation flowing and EXCITING.

A conversation should be like a rollercoaster- where the woman doesn’t know


what twist and turn will come next.
2. How can a guy avoid awkward silences and “running out of things to
say?”

Ah… my biggest fear. For me, I was more afraid of the awkwardness of having
nothing left to say- than I ever was of rejection. In fact, if a woman openly
rejected me- I could take it.

What I couldn’t take was standing there not knowing if I should keep talking to
her, or give up. I hated thinking the woman was just being polite and really
wished I would leave. But here is thing…

The easiest way to completely eliminate awkwardness is to acknowledge it in a


humorous way. By calling out the “elephant in the room” and saying what you’re
both thinking… it demonstrates that you are socially intelligent.

And social intelligence is EXTREMELY attractive to a woman. It’s sort of like if


you’ve ever had a girl turn her cheek when you went for the kiss. The worse thing
to do is pretend it didn’t happen. Because the both of you know you tried to kiss
her- so you’re not fooling anyone by acting “cool” about it. Just say (in a mocking
‘announcer type’ voice) “And she slips him the cheek”.

This sort of humorous response will put you both back at ease. Women fear
awkwardness even more than men do… so by showing a woman you have
enough social intelligence not to let things get awkward… you become a lot more
attractive in her eyes.

3. What are some of the important concepts and techniques that you cover
in Conversation Escalation Make Small Talk Sexy?

Well, my goal with this program is to show you how to get your mind to explode
with things to talk about, that continues to flow so that you feel more confident,
natural, and relaxed- when standing in front of a beautiful woman.

Now, in order to get you to that point, you’re going to have to learn a few things.
And these are probably things you’ve never heard before…because most of the
“gurus” like to avoid the subject of “small talk.”

In this program we are going to show you how to “steer” a conversation along.

How to spot the “hooks” a woman is giving you.

You’ll learn how to “bait” a woman into asking you about things you want to be
talking about.
You’re also going to learn how inject “sexuality” into a conversation.

Because ultimately- you can have an hour long amazing conversation with a
woman- but if you don’t get her thinking about you in a “sexual” way- it will be
impossible to ever kiss her.

Now there are a ton of techniques you’re going to learn that almost force you to
become a more attractive talker… but more important than the techniques, I’m
going to teach you a “specific” practice routine- so that this new way of
communicating comes natural to you- and you remember to use the information
when it counts- when you’re talking to a woman.

The one thing I want to leave you with is: No matter how intimidated you are by
the thought of becoming a “smooth talker”… you really are a lot closer than you
think.

Once you make a handful of “tweaks” you’ll find that you actually enjoy talking to
women- and will begin to see how easy it is to create attraction.

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