STEPS INVOLVED IN BUILDING A LONG LASTING

RELATIONSHIP AND HOW TO KNOW IF HE/SHE IS THE ONE

2020 Edition
(RELATIONSHIP IN TERMS OF FINDING A LIFE PARTNER)

Volume 1

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TABLE OF CONTENT

INTRODUCTION - - - - - - - - 2-3

QUICK ADVICE FOR YOUNG STARS - - - - - 3-6

ARE YOU READY? - - - - - - - - 3-4

IT’S NOT ALL ABOUT SEX - - - - - - - 4-6

7 WAYS TO KNOW IF HE/SHE IS THE ONE - - - - 6-10

WHAT DO YOU REALLY WANT? - - - - - - 6-7

WHY DO YOU CHOOSE TO LOVE HIM/HER - - - - 7

HOW QUICK ARE YOU TO SETTLE YOUR MISUNDERSTANDINGS - 7-8

DOES HE/SHE LISTENS WHEN YOU SPEAK? - - - - 8

WHAT DO YOU HAVE IN COMMON - - - - - 8-9

WHY DOES HE ALWAYS ASK FOR SEX - - - - - 9

ARE YOU WELL FINANCED - - - - - - - 10

CONCLUSION - - - - - - - - 11-12

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INTRODUCTION

Having a relationship is a very beautiful experience and the truth is only few people
know what it really means to have or engage in a relationship. It goes beyond telling
or expressing your feelings to someone. What comes next, if you say the keywords
of love to that person?

Relationship I can say is responsibility, discipline and maturity. It's a pity that though
some may advance in age or otherwise but do not know what relationship is. It goes
beyond sex, jokes, and so on.

Relationship is a step towards your destination to be called a master/mistress of

responsibilities (Mr./Mrs.).

Any man/lady that proclaims or professes the keyword love to the other and the duo
agrees, must be ready for what comes next - responsibility.

You must be responsible for each other's worries both financially and emotionally,
both aspects must be balanced. After all you won’t eat love, but rather it will only solve
emotional problems, but what about financial and materialistic problems?

But although if the love is genuine, finance and materialism cannot stand on the way
or cause any misunderstanding because the duo have strong love and are very
honest to each other. But still you need finance.

Honesty you see plays an important role in any relationship. I mean "let your yes be
yes and no be no" so that you will both overcome jealousy, traps, lies and deceit from
those against you (enemies) because you trust each other.

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The truth is, true relationships are hard to find these days. But if you take a cursory
look at each other and try your best to be honest with each other you will surely
overcome.

QUICK ADVICE FOR YOUNG STARS

ARE YOU READY?
(This section focus mainly on guys but ladies are not exempted)

Before venturing into any business, there is every possibility that you must first make
transactions and do some other calculations before implementing your ideas and
turning it into a profitable business.

A business idea in question, is the road map of implementing or starting up a

business.

So is it with relationship, it's the road map of marriage (which is a lifetime contract,
for better or worse). Mere hearing alone the sound of "for better or worse" the truth is
about 70% of young stars do not like hearing those phrases, because they are always
afraid of commitment. But one must come to the realization that it is (marriage) the
main reason for relationship.

Are you prepared to enter into a relationship? It's very advisable that before venturing
into any relationship, you must be financially buoyant because of the responsibility
that lies ahead (Marriage). I mean who will pay/clear all the bills when you get
married?

If you're not prepared and you just venture into a relationship just because your
friends are into it or because it looks normal, or because someone told you to do so,
you might end up having a heartbreak which might lead to depression and can even
lead to your early grave.

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IT'S NOT ALWAYS ALL ABOUT SEX

It's not really or necessarily all about sex. As a young star, it's not really advisable to
while away your time playing around with your body all in the name of relationship
but what you refer to as relationship goes beyond that aspect.

There are so many young youths out there who misinterpret relationship as always
pertaining to sex. But the fact is, it goes beyond having sexual intercourse with the
opposite sex.

Yeah one may say if I don't do it (have sex) how will I know she/he is good for me?
or How can I know if he/she is my kind of person?, or How can I know if he/she is
compatible with me.

Someone once ask a question:

"

Jude: How did you do it?

Mark: What?

Jude: How did you hold on so long? I mean how did you know she is the one?

Mark: Look Jude, whenever am around her, I can talk, I can cry, I can laugh, and

I feel like I'm home and home is where the heart belongs.
"

So many people out there have these questions on their mind but they can't really tell
neither can they differentiate what's right from what's wrong. But the truth is having
sex before marriage is not really a necessity in any relationship.

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Although when engaging in a relationship there is always a possibility of the duo

engaging in sexual acts as it is very tempting.

It takes complete discipline for a man most especially to be opportune to engage in

that act, to turn down that offer.

Some (most especially ladies) may even criticize that maybe he is a weakling, or
he/she may say "he's not man enough".

It may really not be true, because that guy in question is trying his very best to be
disciplined.

It really looks abnormal for a lady to throw herself down wanting to have sex, only for
the man to turn down the offer. The uncomfortable truth which has to be told is, in so
many cases it takes complete discipline to overcome and remain whole.

Let me tell a story:

A woman was so depressed to the point that she felt she had nobody to talk to. She
got herself slightly drunk and the only person she could remember was her child's
personal driver who always makes her feel very comfortable and happy (as her
husband is not always around due to his business schedules).

Although been slightly drunk, she was a little bit conscious of her actions, she drove
down to the driver's apartment some few blocks away only to offer herself for sex.
But the driver quickly discovered and understood her state of being. He quickly took
off his jacket and cloth the lady, sat her down, and gave her coffee to drink.

After a few hours of slight conversation she regained consciousness of her depressed
mind. They both walked down to her car and she kissed him and told him "thank you
for not taking advantage of me."

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What I am trying to portray here is discipline. One must be very observant when it
comes to relationships. You should know when he/she is sad, depressed, looking for
financial assistance, and so on.

7 WAYS TO KNOW IF HE/SHE IS THE ONE

(There are steps and questions to consider in order for you to know if you are in the
right relationship).

WHAT DO YOU REALLY WANT?

It is very important to know what you really want. What are your reasons for your
engagement with him/her? Is it because of his intelligence, neatness, knows how to
cook, or knows how to crack a joke and so on. Some may say I like him because he
is intelligent and always helps me in my tests, school projects, assignments and
exams or I like her because she is intelligent. But in real sense, it is not a very good
reason.

What comes next when you both graduate? Is that love for his intelligence enough to
sustain you towards having an unbreakable relationship? Or you are just deceiving
him/her claiming that you love him/her just with the aim of selfish benefits?

My uncle once said that "in every relationship there is always a fool". This statement
is 100% true in about 98% of any relationships most people engage in today. It’s
either the guy is deceiving her or vice versa. Some might even be caught in the act
of cheating.

It is very difficult to engage in all these misconceptions in a genuine relationship which

is about 2% and very scarce and hard to find.

WHY DO YOU CHOOSE TO LOVE HIM/HER?

Loving him because he/she is intelligent, quiet, or knows how to cook and so on is
not a very good reason. How about if he/she makes a terrible sound at night while

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sleeping and you don't like to be disturbed while sleeping? Will that love still stand,
won't you spot out a mistake and start quarrelling?

There must be genuine love for each other that ignores or picks no fault whatsoever.
Even if you don't like pizza for example, because of him/her you will find yourself
eating pizza because of love.

HOW QUICK ARE YOU TO SETTLE YOUR MISUNDERSTANDINGS?

A genuine relationship finds no fault, although there might be slight misunderstanding
(this normally occurs when both parties are trying to find or gain a common ground.
That is, knowing what is best for both and coming to an agreement) but because of
genuine love for one another it will surely find no and ignore any fault.

Don't get me wrong a genuine relationship must surely have little misunderstanding,
(but it is not as compared to the non-genuine ones) after all, you are not a manicure
or an image who doesn't talk, laugh, crack jokes, or get annoyed most times. You will
sometimes say something that may likely annoy each other.

But, there is no need to be scared or having any negative doubts, in that process you
are trying to have or gain a common ground (understand each other better).

DOES HE/SHE LISTENS WHEN YOU SPEAK?

Once again a genuine relationship will always learn to listen when you speak. Do you
always listen to him/her when he/she speaks (majority of ladies love talking a lot, So
a man should learn to listen to his spouse while talking, as this is how they were
(ladies) all created). Do you always make him/her feel very happy? The truth is, the
essence of you engaging in a relationship is to make each other happy and most
importantly to get married.

WHAT DO YOU HAVE IN COMMON?

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In some cases, the reason why various people engage in a relationship is probably
because of facial appearances (like big boobs, large butts, large muscles, tall, good
in sports and so on).

Appearance can be very deceptive and it cannot withstand the troubles or test of
times. Take a break and ask yourself this question "what do you two have in
common?"

Take for example music - do you like the same genre of music? Well if yes. Do you
both listen to music of the same favorite artist?

The truth is both of you must have something in common, something more or greater
than facial appearance.

There are songs that I like very much. Take for example gospel songs. To me I really
do understand more gospel songs than non-gospel songs. So the people I would love
to be friends and discuss more often with are people who in like manner love gospel
songs. I have never felt comfortable listening to non-gospel music.

Facial appearances alone cannot withstand the troubles of time. There must be
sometime in common that must bring you together at times when you have
misunderstandings.....

WHY DOES HE ALWAYS ASK OR DEMAND FOR SEX?

(I specifically used the mono-syllable "HE" instead of "HE/SHE" (as pertaining to both
boys/girls) because about 98% of this aspect normally occurs among boys towards
girls).

It is obvious that when relationship is been mentioned among young stars their
mindset will just be tuned towards having sexual intercourse. Like I stated earlier,
relationship goes beyond that.

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True love or a genuine relationship you see is not only dependent on sex, but it goes
beyond it. You must ask yourself this question, if he says he truly loves me why then
does he always ask for it (sex).

The fact is, a genuine relationship will always wait after marriage not before. I have
seen so many young girls fall victims of this circumstance and the end was disastrous.
Some may even end up getting married to each other but the next thing that happens
is a divorce leading to family division.

In some cases, the real reason is simple. The guy actually went towards
obtaining something from you, he will do anything to get what he wants even to the
extent of getting married to you in order to prove that he's serious but at the end once
he is fully satisfied, he will have no need/use for you anymore.

ARE YOU WELL FINANCED?

(This part especially goes to the guys (ladies are not exempted as they can act as
backup when the man doesn't have)

Relationship is not just a mere word but it's all about responsibility, you need to get
prepared ahead as you head towards your destination (the main reason for any
genuine relationship is marriage and happiness, and marriage without happiness is
like a scam because marriage is a lifetime contract for better, for worse).

Before you can think of engaging in a relationship as you journey towards marriage,
you need to be financially prepared and you need to build yourself up so that you will
overcome any challenges that requires finance.

Most of the reason many young couples get divorced today is because of money.
Money you see can easily scatter or cause misunderstanding in a happy home.

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So before you can think of engaging yourself in any relationship you must be
financially equipped. Am not saying money can really solve everything but in order
for you to overcome financial problems, you must first of all work hard and build
yourself financially so that there won't be any financial problem when you get married.

To crown it all, the most important thing that will keep you going is genuine LOVE for
each other.
CONCLUSION!

(I intentionally used the words 'genuine love' because some of the feelings we call
love isn't really love. In other words it's known as lost).

You may be lusting over her because of her big boobs, big butts, the way she walks
and so on. Or over him because he's cute, intelligent, jovial, big muscle, good in
combat and so on, but true love you see looks beyond these features.

So ask yourself these questions:

ME: why did I fall in love with her?

If Answer: Because of her big boobs

ME: what if she no longer has big boobs, will I still be in love with her?

OR

ME: why did I fall in love with him?

If Answer: Because he’s good in combat

ME: what about if he starts losing matches (fights), will I still love him?

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Love you see is unconditional and plays a vital role in a relationship. It looks beyond
physical appearances and over every situation/problem. I mean it makes you feel like
home.

To find true love, the most important thing you need to consider is what you really
have in common (character). Character you see is what describes who you really are.
So loving him/her for whom he/she really is, is TRUE LOVE.

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