Your options are wide open. Surgery is not a necessary part of transition.

Many
trans people do not pursue it.
I would advise you to consult with a well qualified and recommended gender
therapist. Discuss your particular needs and constraints with them and use their
expertise to make a plan that suits your needs. In many jurisdictions, you will
need their referral to access HRT. A full transition can be tricky as there are a
lot of moving parts; Medical, legal, economic, social, feminine skills and family.
You will want to have a good picture in your mind of how you intend to adresss
these thin