it's hard but you have to let go...

so sad

Message: When LOVE is gone... It's time to say goodbye...

When you feel its already over...

Saying goodbye doesn't mean forgetting the

person you've loved before. It's the
relationship, memories and hope that you should
let go. Goodbye doesn't mean it's the end of the
world. But instead it's a new beginning.
New
challenges that's full of hope. As if like
you're looking on the other phase of your life.

Remember... Life is wonderful and full of

challenges and opportunities. The only thing you
should do is how, when and where a decision
must
come up. Don't let the memories stop you from
seeing the sunshine again. Just don't live your

life to the shadow of your past. Try to see the

horizon of the future and you'll discover the
Wonder of Life.

How does one say goodbye to someone he/she

has
begun to love and care about, without the
inflict pain? How do we show a person that
goodbye doesn't mean abandoning her/him? That
it
only means we have to let go of a relationship
if things don't work out any better anymore. I
guess there's really no easy way.

Goodbye seems a concluding remark we have to

speak when we leave someone behind. It sounds
so
final. And yet it is a heart-breaking reality we
have to face somehow, someday no matter how
dreadful it may
be.

Letting go of those we deeply love and care

about, for whatever reason often leaves as
helplessly shattered. But on the otherhand,
clinging pointlessly to what has been. Memories
or relationships... usually isn't very good for
us in the end. But learning to have the courage
to let go is a sign of GROWTH. It is an
indication that we are mature enough to know
what we can do without and that we are ready to
make room for what we really need in our next
phase of our life.

Goodbye is a sad thing, but it is very real. We

have to face the fact that we all have to say
goodbye sometime in our lives and there's no
easy way of saying
it. That is why people often
take off when they least expect it. They just
walk away because they can't figure a way of
saying goodbye.

Some people think that it's holding on that make

us strong; sometimes it's letting go.

Yes, there's no doubt about it... parting gives

us a
lot of sorrow, especially if it is forever.
But then goodbye is really just another way of
saying Hello. We move on and on. Goodbye may
mean a lot more Hello's. So we have to let go
and we should know when to finally end up.

A chapter in our life to be able to give way for

a new one.