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Christianity: Knowing That This Will Almost Certainly Result in Imminent Death (Though Without Intentionally Seeking
Christianity: Knowing That This Will Almost Certainly Result in Imminent Death (Though Without Intentionally Seeking
Quis est homo qui non fleret, Is there one who would not weep,
matrem Christi si videret whelmed in miseries so deep,
in tanto supplicio? Christ's dear Mother to behold?
Pro peccatis suae gentis For the sins of His own nation,
vidit Iesum in tormentis, She saw Jesus wracked with torment,
et flagellis subditum. All with scourges rent:
Christe, cum sit hinc exire, Christ, when Thou shalt call me hence,
da per Matrem me venire by Thy Mother my defense,
ad palmam victoriae. by Thy Cross my victory;
To what shall I compare thee? or to what shall I liken thee, O daughter of Jerusalem? ... for great as the sea is thy
destruction; who shall heal thee? (Lam. 2:13) No, the acuteness of the sufferings of Mary are not to be compared, even
with those of all the Martyrs united. "The Martyrdom of Mary," says Saint Bernard, "was not caused by the
executioner's sword, but proceeded from bitter sorrow of heart." In other Martyrs torments were inflicted on the body;
but Mary's sorrow was in her heart and soul, verifying in her the prophecy of Simeon, Thy own soul a sword shall
pierce. (Luke 2:35)
Arnold of Chartres writes that "whoever had been on Mount Calvary, to witness the great sacrifice of the Immaculate
Lamb, would there have beheld two great altars, the one in the Body of Jesus, the other in the heart of Mary; for on that
Mount, when the Son sacrificed His Body by death, Mary sacrificed her soul by compassion." So much so, says Saint
Antoninus, that whereas other Martyrs sacrifice their own lives, the Blessed Virgin consummated her Martyrdom by
sacrificing the life of her Son, a life which she loved far more than her own, and which caused her to endure a torment
which exceeded all other torments ever endured by any mortal on earth.
As a general rule, the sufferings of children are also the sufferings of their mothers who are present at and witness their
torments. This Saint Augustine declares, when speaking of the mother of the Machabees, who witnessed the execution
of her children, Martyred by order of the cruel Antiochus: he says that "Love caused her to endure in her soul all the
torments inflicted on each of her children." Erasmus adds that "Mothers suffer more at the sight of the sufferings of
their children than if the torments were inflicted on themselves." This, however, is not always true; but in Mary it was
verified; for she certainly suffered more in witnessing the sufferings of her Son than she would have done had she
endured all the torments in her own person. "All the wounds," says Saint Bonaventure, "which were scattered over the
Body of Jesus were united in the heart of Mary, to torment her in the Passion of her Son" so that, as Saint Lawrence
Justinian writes, "The heart of Mary, by compassion for her Son, became a mirror of His torments, in which might be
seen, faithfully reflected, the spittings, the blows, the wounds, and all that Jesus suffered." We can therefore say that
Mary, on account of the love that she bore Him, was in heart, during the Passion of her Son, struck, scourged, crowned
with thorns, and nailed to the very Cross of her Son.
The same Saint Lawrence considers Jesus on His road to Calvary, with the Cross on His shoulders, turning to Mary and
saying to her, "Alas, My Own dear Mother, where are you going? What a scene will you witness? You will be agonized
by My sufferings, and I by yours." But the loving Mother would follow Him all the same, though she knew that, by
being present at His death, she would have to endure a torment greater than any death. She saw that her Son carried
the Cross to be crucified upon it; and, adds Abbot William, she also took up the cross of her sorrows, and followed her
Son to be crucified with Him. Hence Saint Bonaventure considers Mary standing by the Cross of her dying Son, and
asks her, saying, "O Lady, tell me where did you then stand---was it near the Cross? No, you were on the Cross itself,
crucified with your Son." About these words of the Redeemer, foretold by the prophet Isaias, I have trodden the wine-
press alone, and of the Gentiles there is not a man with me. (Isaias 63:3) Richard of St. Lawrence says, "It is true, O
Lord, that in the work of human redemption You did suffer alone, and that there was not a man that sufficiently pitied
You; but there was a woman with You, and she was Your Own Mother; she suffered in her heart all that You endured in
Your Body."
To show the sufferings endured by other Martyrs they are represented with the instruments of their torture; Saint
Andrew with a cross, Saint Paul with a sword, Saint Lawrence with a gridiron; Mary is represented with her dead Son
in her arms; for He alone was the instrument of her Martyrdom, and compassion for Him made her the Queen of
Martyrs. On this subject of Mary's compassion in the death of Jesus Christ, Father Pinamonti gives expression to a
beautiful and remarkable opinion: he says, that "the grief of Mary in the passion of her Son was so great, that she alone
compassionated in a degree by any means adequate to its merits the death of a God made man for the love of man."
Blessed Amadeus also writes, that "Mary suffered much more in the Passion of her Son than she would have done if she
herself had endured it; for she loved her Jesus much more than she loved herself," Hence Saint Ildephonsus did not
hesitate to assert, that "the sufferings of Mary exceed those of all Martyrs united together." Saint Anselm, addressing
the Blessed Virgin, says, "The most cruel torments inflicted on the holy Martyrs were trifling or as nothing in
comparison with your Martyrdom, O Mary." The same Saint adds, "Indeed, O Lady, in each moment of your life your
sufferings were such that you could not have endured them, and would have expired under them, had not your Son, the
source of your life, preserved you." Saint Bernadine of Sienna even says, that "the sufferings of Mary were such that
had they been divided among all creatures capable of suffering, they would have caused their immediate death." Who,
then, can ever doubt that the Martyrdom of Mary was without its equal, and that it exceeded the sufferings of all the
Martyrs; since, as Saint Antoninus says, "they suffered in the sacrifice of their own lives; but the Blessed Virgin suffered
by offering the life of her Son to God, a life which she loved far more than her own."
The Martyrs suffered under the torments inflicted on them by tyrants; but Our Lord, Who never abandons His
servants, always comforted them in the midst of their sufferings. The love of God, which burnt in their hearts, rendered
all these sufferings sweet and pleasing to them. Saint Vincent suffered, when on the rack he was torn with pincers and
burnt with hot iron plates; but Saint Augustine says that "the Saint spoke with such contempt of his torments, that it
seemed as if it was one who spoke and another who suffered." Saint Boniface suffered when the flesh was torn from his
body with iron hooks, sharp reeds were forced under his nails and melted lead was poured into his mouth; but in the
midst of all, he could never cease to thank Jesus Christ, Who allowed him to suffer for His love. Saint Lawrence
suffered when roasting on a gridiron; "but the love which inflamed him," says Saint Augustine, "did not allow him to
feel the fire, or even that prolonged death itself."
The greater the love of the Martyrs for Jesus Christ, the less they felt their pains: and in the midst of them all, the
remembrance of the Passion of Christ sufficed to console them. With Mary it was precisely the reverse; for the
torments of Jesus were her Martyrdom, and love for Jesus was her only executioner. Here we must repeat the words of
Jeremias: As the sea is all bitterness, and has not within its bosom a single drop of water which is sweet, so also was the
heart of Mary all bitterness, and without the least consolation: Who shall heal you? Her Son alone could heal her and
heal her wounds; but how could Mary receive comfort in her grief from her crucified Son, since the love she bore Him
was the whole cause of her Martyrdom?
"To understand, then, how great was the grief of Mary, we must understand," says Cornelius a Lapide, "how great was
the love she bore her Son." But who can ever measure this love?
Blessed Amadeus says, that "natural love towards Him as her Son, and supernatural love towards Him as her God,
were united in the heart of Mary."
These two loves were blended into one, and this so great a love that William of Paris does not hesitate to assert, that
Mary loved Jesus ''as much as it was possible for a pure creature to love Him." So that, as Richard of St. Victor says, ''as
no other creature loved God as Mary loved Him, so there was never any sorrow like Mary's sorrow."
Now there stood by the Cross of Jesus His Mother. Let us stay awhile to consider these words before concluding our
discourse; but I entreat you to renew your attention.
There stood. When Jesus was on the Cross, the disciples had already abandoned Him; they had done so from the
moment in which He was taken in the Garden of Olives: then the disciples all leaving Him fled. (Matt. 26:56) The
disciples abandoned Him; but His loving Mother did not abandon Him; she remained with Him until He expired.
There stood by. Mothers fly when they see their children suffer much, and are unable to give them relief; they have not
the strength to endure the torment, and therefore fly to a distance. Mary beheld her Son in agony on the Cross; she saw
that His sufferings were slowly depriving Him of life; she desired to relieve Him in that last extremity, but could not;
but with all this she did not fly, she did not go to a distance, but drew nearer to the Cross on which her Son was dying.
She stood by the Cross. The Cross was the hard bed on which Jesus Christ had to die. Mary, who stood by its side, never
turned her eyes from Him; she beheld Him all torn by the scourges, thorns, and nails; she saw that her poor Son,
suspended by those three iron hooks, found no repose. She, as I have already said, would have desired to give Him
some relief; she would have desired, at least, that He should have expired in her arms; but no, even this is forbidden
her. "Ah, Cross!" she must have said, "restore me my Son; you are a gibbet for malefactors, but my Son is innocent."
But wait, O sorrowful Mother; God's will is that the Cross should only restore you your Son when He has expired.
Saint Bonaventure, considering the sorrow of Mary in the death of her Son, writes, that "no grief was more bitter than
hers, because no son was as dear as her Son." Since, then, there never was a son more worthy than Jesus, nor any
mother who ever loved as Mary loved, what sorrow can be compared with the sorrow of Mary? "Ah, there never has
been in the world a more amiable Son than Jesus," says Richard of St. Lawrence, "nor was there ever so loving a
Mother. Had there been less love between this Mother and Son, His death would have been less cruel, their griefs
would have been diminished: but the more tender were their loves, the deeper were their wounds." Mary saw that
death approached her Son; therefore, casting her compassionate eyes upon Him, she seemed to say, "Ah, Son, You
already depart, already You leave me; and are You silent? Give me a last remembrance." Yes, He did so. Jesus Christ
left her a remembrance; it was this: Woman, He said, behold your son, referring to Saint John, who stood near; and
with these words He bade her farewell. He called her woman, that by the sweet name of mother He might not increase
her grief: Woman, behold your son, he will take charge of you when I am dead.
There stood by the Cross of Jesus His Mother. Let us, finally observe Mary, who stood at the foot of the Cross and
beheld her Son expire. But, a God, what Son was it that died? It was a Son Who from all eternity had chosen her for His
Mother, and had preferred her in His love to all men and Angels: it was a Son so beautiful, so holy, so amiable; a Son
Who had always obeyed her; a Son Who was her only love, for He was her Son and her God; and Mary had to see Him
die before her eyes, of pure suffering. But behold, the hour of the death of Jesus has already come; the afflicted Mother
saw her Son then enduring the last assaults of death; behold, again, His Body was already sinking, His head drooped
down on His breast, His mouth opened, and He expired. The people cry out, "He is dead! He is dead!" And Mary also
said, "Ah, my Jesus, my Son, You are now dead!"
When Jesus was dead, He was taken down from the Cross. Mary received Him with outstretched arms; she then
pressed Him to her heart, and examined that head wounded by the thorns, those hands pierced with nails, and that
body all lacerated and torn. "Ah, Son," she said, "to what has Your love for men reduced You!" But the disciples, fearing
that with her Son clasped in her arms she would die of grief, out of compassion approached her, and with reverential
determination, removed her Son from her arms, wrapped Him in the winding sheet, and carried Him away to bury
Him. The other holy women accompanied Him, and with them the sorrowful Mother followed her Son to the tomb;
where, having herself deposited Him with her own hands, she bade Him a last farewell and retired. Saint Bernard says,
that ''as Mary passed along the way, her sorrow and grief were such, that all who met her were thereby moved to tears;"
and he adds that "those who accompanied her were weeping rather for her than for Our Lord."
My readers, let us be devout to the sorrows of Mary. Saint Albert the Great writes, that ''as we are under great
obligations to Jesus Christ for His death, so also are we under great obligations to Mary for the grief which she endured
when she offered her Son to God by death for our salvation." This the Angel revealed to Saint Bridget: he said that the
Blessed Virgin, to see us saved, herself offered the life of her Son to the Eternal Father: a sacrifice which, as we have
already said, cost her greater suffering than all the torments of the Martyrs, or even death itself. But the Divine Mother
complained to Saint Bridget that very few pitied her in her sorrows, and that the greater part of the world lived in
entire forgetfulness of them. Therefore she exhorted the Saint, saying: "Though many forget me, don't you, my
daughter, forget me." For this purpose the Blessed Virgin herself appeared in the year 1239 to the founder of the Order
of the Servites, or Servants of Mary, to requested them to institute a religious order in remembrance of her sorrows;
and this they did.
Jesus Himself one day spoke to Blessed Veronica of Binasco, saying, "Daughter, tears shed over My Passion are dear to
Me: but as I love My Mother Mary with an immense love, the meditation of the sorrows which she endured at My death
is also very dear to Me." It is also well to know, as Pelbart relates it, that it was revealed to Saint Elizabeth of Hungary,
that Our Lord had promised four special graces to those who are devout to the sorrows of Mary: 1st, that those who
before death invoke the Divine Mother, in the name of her sorrows, should obtain true repentance of all their sins: 2nd,
that He would protect all who have this devotion in their tribulations, and that He would protect them especially at the
hour of death: 3rd, that He would impress upon their minds the remembrance of His Passion, and that they should
have their reward for it in Heaven: 4th, that He would commit such devout clients to the hands of Mary, with the power
to dispose of them in whatever manner she might please, and to obtain for them all the graces she might desire.
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There are two kinds of Martyrs, one in open suffering, the other in the hidden virtue of the spirit. For many, enduring
the snares of the enemy and resisting all carnal desires, because they have sacrificed themselves in their hearts to
Almighty God, have also become martyrs in time of peace, and if they had lived in time of persecution, they could have
been Martyrs in reality.
---Saint Isidore