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Danger of Loneliness
Danger of Loneliness
Danger of Loneliness
Professor Johnson
ENG 1201
15 July 2020
I spent the majority of my teenage years, from 11 to 18, in a state of isolation in my room
trying to avoid the rest of the world. I always had difficulty making friends throughout my life
as I was naturally very shy, even saying hello to a stranger was a struggle for me at times. That
grew worse after my grandma passed away in July of 2011 as I entered a major depressive period
and eventually decided to be alone as much as possible, I didn’t want to deal with interacting
with other people after losing her. For the next few years, aside from school and family
gatherings and when I was forced to go out, I spent my most of my time just sitting in my room
watching TV or reading or drawing until I had to sleep. Throughout the years I just kept telling
myself how I was spending my time was fine, there was nothing was wrong with me being alone
for most of the day, even though my mother expressed major concerns about my life style and
told me I was wasting some of the best years of my life. I felt safe and secure I my loneliness.
However, that changed completely in my senior year of high school when in the very first
week a complete stranger sat next to me at lunch, got to know me over a few days, and shattered
my delusions by becoming the first of many friends I have now. Now I always look for an
opportunity to get out of the house and go spend time having fun with other people, instead of
just spending my entire day sitting up in my room and trying to avoiding everyone. And as my
time with my friends went on, I began to look back on my time being alone and finally
recognized all of the health issues that resulted from it, both physical and mental. I am still
recovering from them to this day and in my time repairing my mind and body I came to a
conclusion, I realized that loneliness and isolation have terrible effects on humans such as
depression and physical health problems that can even lead to an early death if not stopped.
Being alone is a state of being that even goes against humanity’s very nature as a social
“Humans are hardwired to interact with others, especially during times of stress” (McAndrews
1). Humans are a social species that needs to interact with others. Despite that more than ever
before humans are becoming isolated from each other and the repercussions are showing
everywhere. Millions of people across the planet are suffering from being in a constant state of
loneliness and it has reached the point that is becoming a major health crisis that needs to be
addressed. In fact, many of the major health problems causing concerns today can be traced from
modern humans being in a state of isolation constantly and not truly interacting with others.
Before any of those issues can be truly dealt with it needs to be understood how isolation and
loneliness can lead to them has, otherwise it will only grow worse and take more lives. To do so
would requiring understanding the causes and effects of constant isolation and loneliness.
It’s basic knowledge in this day and age that loneliness and being alone are a negative
experience in a person’s life, after all there are thousands of songs, books, and movies written
about a person being stuck in a miserable state after being alone for a long time. And while there
are some people, such as introverts and misanthropes, that do genuinely enjoy being alone even
they still require some sort of social interaction with others from time to time in order to stay
well. However, despite the idea shared among the general populace that being alone for a long
time just makes you sad recent research has the effects are far worse than that as Professor Liana
Bruce states “and has been found in numerous studies to correspond with worse mental health
outcomes, including depression, dementia, and sui-cide,2-4and with chronic physical health
conditions, such as hypertension, heart disease, and diabetes.” (Bruce 1123). It is not just a
feeling that can be easily be fixed with a quick visit or time with fiends, it is a major health
state that is marked by feelings of low self-worth or guilt and a reduced ability to enjoy life”.
(Britannica). Depression is a mental condition that millions of people across the planet are
suffering from and is being acknowledged as an epidemic in some parts of the world. Depression
can make even the most thrilling experience for the average person boring and tiring. Living
itself becomes a toll for those suffering from it and the taking of it is seen as the only option that
will bring any peace or happiness. Combating depression is a struggle that many face and
Another major effect of loneliness is many physical health problems. Many would say
these problems are just caused by people trying to escape the feeling by engaging in unhealthy
behaviors and while that is somewhat true, loneliness in itself can physically harm someone
without that person having to engage smoking, using drugs, drinking, or any other unhealthy
activity beforehand. Professor Steven Cole of the University of California even states than
loneliness can cause the human body to become a breeding ground for diseases and ailments if
not stopped “Loneliness acts as a fertilizer for other diseases,” Dr. Cole said. “The biology of
loneliness can accelerate the buildup of plaque in arteries, help cancer cells grow and spread, and
promote inflammation in the brain leading to Alzheimer’s disease. Loneliness promotes several
different types of wear and tear on the body.” (Social Isolation). The physical effects are just as
Despite all of that, it is still a common belief among the general population that loneliness
is just common among a few people who are bad at socializing and interacting with others, John
Cacioppo discusses this idea in his TED Talk about how loneliness was perceived a decade ago
“It was even equated with shyness and depression, with being a loner, a person with marginal
social skills” (Talks). It was seen as something abnormal and obvious to spot, a person could
easily be identified as being lonely if they just spend a lot of time alone. Despite that idea studies
are showing that chronic loneliness has become incredibly common over the last decades and is
steadily increasing to the point that it has become considered a health crisis which Cacioppo
mentions as well “In the 1980s, scholars estimated that about 20% of Americans felt lonelier
than at any given point in time. Two recent nationally representative surveys indicate that this
number has doubled” (Talks). This chart made created by Cigna shows just how much the
Many world governments are even trying to reduce this perceived spread of loneliness
and its effects among the population. The British government is going so far as to use it’s
resources and power to alleviate people’s feeling of loneliness as stated by Professor Brian
Nyatanga “in response to increasing loneliness in the UK, the Government under Theresa
May developed a loneliness strategy to help every eligible person in the UK to access support
and resources to ameliorate their situation” (Nyatanga 200). The fact that a major world
government has to take steps to try and curb the spread of loneliness among the population
shows how much of a threat it has become to public health. It is made more difficult to fight
because unlike the many health conditions it can cause, such as heart problems, obesity, and
cancer, it is hard to among people, especially since the average citizen would rather deny being
lonely at all than just admit it. They see themselves as just living the same way an any average
person in the modern day does because it has become the normality in this time period. But it is
causing an epidemic that many across the world are starting to see.
Even more totalitarian countries such as China has taken notice of the effects of
loneliness and have starting taking steps to address it and stop its growth. According to Professor
Xiaohua Zhang the phenomenon has even been given a name by the populace and has become
common among college students “With the development of science and technology, especially
the popularity of the Internet, mobile phone, and computer, college students' lifestyle is
changing, which leads to the "Zhai" phenomenon. More and more students house in the dorm or
home. They reduce the communication with the outside world. This phenomenon not only
reduces the survivability of the students, but also causes no small impact to their physical and
mental health.” (Zhang). The fact that such an oppressive nation as China is beginning to take
steps toward lowering the reported amounts of loneliness among the population just shows how
discussion. It is an issue as, if not more, important as other of the others such as cancer and heart
disease and obesity as it is the very cause of many of those issues in the first place. Actions are
finally being taken in some countries to help slow down the tide before it grows to immense, but
in order to get the job completely done it will need to support of every nation on the planet as it
is an issue that affects humanity as a species not just one specific place in the world, but many
However, the recent COVID-19 epidemic has shown just how devastating loneliness and
can be to humans. With millions of people across the planet being stuck at home and without
social contact for months the negative effects are no longer possible to ignore. All of the
mentioned effects have steadily increased as the quarantine continues and will most likely grow
even worse. And according Professor Amy Novotney before it started the situation was already
bad “According to a 2018 national survey by Cigna, loneliness levels have reached an all-time
high, with nearly half of 20,000 U.S. adults reporting they sometimes or always feel alone.”
(Novotney). The idea that being lonely can be fixed easily is quickly being disproven by
accounts of people living alone in the epidemic. But in order to truly understand the rise of
loneliness over the last few decades it’s relationship with a certain change in humanity must be
A major cause of the increased reports of loneliness among the population is the
advancement of technology. Over the last two decades technology has advanced to the point
where most people no longer even need to physically interact with each other as any activity that
would have required it before, such as shopping or going to the bank, can easily be done right at
home on a computer or a smartphone. Professor Liana Bruce talks about how technology about
this change in social interaction caused by technology “In the last decade, technology has
changed how we interact with each other and with the world, raising questions about its impact
on both our social connectedness and overall well-being. Many previous face-to-face interactions
have become virtual as people can now work at home digitally; the proverbial "water cooler" is
not the social hub it once was.” (Liana). Convenient as it might be the after effects our showing
However, many people, especially of the current generation, will deny the idea that
technology has caused people to become isolated from each other by bringing up their use social
media apps and websites. They would claim that it has allowed them to make hundreds of new
friends that they would have never been able to converse and interact without the development
and growth of social media websites. Some would even go as far as to say that these online
interactions are just as good if not better than actual interactions with people in real life “ But
research is showing that the interactions people do on social media are not the same as actual and
are even a large cause of the growth of loneliness. Not only that be social media can even lead to
users becoming addicted to spending time on the internet itself causing to becoming even more
lonely then before as they use the web as a replacement for actual interactions as mentioned by
Professor Liana “Evidence from a 2014 panel study by Yao and Zhong supported a vicious cycle
relationship between loneliness and excessive Internet use; the more lonely people are, the more
they use the Internet, which then leads to greater loneliness.[16] “ (Liana). Those interactions
will never be equivalent to the daily amount of actual physical interactions that a human being
requires to stay perfectly sane and healthy. This chart posted in the website Free- Range Kids
shows there is a clear relationship with technology and loneliness, as it can be seen that children
Humans need interaction with each other just as much as they need food or water.
Despite that it still not seen as the important mental comfort it is and is unappreciated by many
because they should see it as a daily thing that is just a part of life. In his article Professor
Andrew even states that being rejected by another person cause physical pain “Rejection by
others psychologically wounds us more deeply than almost anything else, and research by
neuroscientists reveals that ostracism can lead to feeling actual physical pain.” (Andrew). That is
how much of an effect just interacting with others has, so the complete lack of should be seen as
Conclusion
Loneliness has terrible effects on humans than can lead to an early death. Thanks to
advances in technology and social media it has now become a crisis of monumental proportions
which effects millions across the world. More efforts need to be made to raise awareness of the
lethality and spread of it among the population if any changes are to made. And activities that
cause it need to be curtailed and replaced with healthier habits. Otherwise the deaths resulted
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