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THE VOICE NEW Edition 838
THE VOICE NEW Edition 838
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ZAMBIA
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so ordinary that he relied on people’s goodwill to get particularly in the wake of other religions such as
around, or John the Baptist who wore animal skins Islam, and ideas such as Atheism.
and fed on locusts. Other passages mention false prophets who will be
With their flamboyance, preachers create the able to perform miracles to deceive “if possible, even
impression that they are more blessed, or more the elect of Christ” (Matthew 24:24). 2 Thessalonians
anointed, and so they can give away some of their 2:9 says, “And then shall that Wicked be revealed,
anointing to ordinary people. To put I bluntly, most whom the Lord shall consume with the spirit of His
of these preachers simply “handle” their worshippers, mouth, and shall destroy with the brightness of His
they play on their psychology, deliberately or simply coming: Even him, whose coming is after the working
unintentionally. of Satan with all power and signs and lying wonders,
After Jesus returned to heaven, the book of Acts and with all deceivableness of unrighteousness in
records the disciples of Jesus praying to God to grant them that perish; because they received not the love
that miracles be done in his name, for the purpose of of the Truth, that they might be saved.”
convincing onlookers that he is alive. (Acts 4:29– These passages indicate that signs, wonders, and
31). Today, this has become so pronounced that the miracles are not necessarily committed by God. And
existence of God is based on the miracles performed so, the proliferation of miracle workers is seen by
in his name. some as the work of the devil, and this has fueled many
A miracle-less church often suffers an exodus of claims of satanic churches and devil-worshipping
its members to a miracle-filled one, as miracles preachers.
become more and more tied to God. And people too In all this, it has become somewhat a competition
find themselves convincing themselves of miracles between ‘true prophets’ and ‘false prophets’, further
here and there, just to validate their belief in God, fueling the market for all miracles.
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ith each year that passes, we realize anew and rightly so. The influence of western culture has
that it is indeed a small world we live in. made short work of our values as a society. Bringing
Technology and general civilization has in unacceptable compromises in fashion lifestyles and
made this so. In the guise of expanding general way of thinking.
markets and reaching greater clientele, companies have In Zambia we have seen a lot of things happen that
looked beyond their borders for trade prospects. It is can be directly linked to influence from societies of
not so different from old England’s trade ships that other nations. America being the largest culprit in the
braved the oceans in their hunt for trade goods. forefront of our moral decay. We have heard the stories.
However, instead of sailing vessels and hard tack Pornographic movies being recorded in student’s
biscuits to send the sailors off to their far off destinations, rooms. Women dressing scandalously in our streets
it’s gigantic cruise liners, cargo ships and oil tankers. and a whole host of shocking behaviors that scream
The new age has also seen the increased popularity of western origins. We cannot simply roll over and
of air travel which has made transcontinental travel be happy at being served with the decadent baggage
both faster and less daunting a task. We live in a world from other nations. The image of our great nation is at
surrounded by imports. Our clothes, our phones, our stake. We do not want to go in the footsteps of western
cars and some of our friends in fact originate from far countries in the moral sense of things. It is these same
off places. The opening up of the international borders small adoptions of foreign culture that has led many
has led to the free exchange of both goods and services nations into going overboard with their ridiculous
among countries. resolutions.
It is not always just goods and services that are traded From allowing abominations to be accepted as
when two societies meet. Information finds a way of marriages, to making the life of the unborn child be
being shared across the board. Among this information, worth so little. The rest of the world is going wayward
you’ll have some in the form of books, magazines, and and we are riding right along with it. Levels of
newspapers. These will either be educational pieces or alcoholism in Zambia are at an all-time high, not to
cultural ones. Giving an insight into the lives of the mention that harder narcotics are beginning to make
people on the other side of the border. It’s a ‘global their way onto our streets and into our children’s hands.
village’, the cliché goes. This is not the nation we had in mind when our founding
The internet has made this sharing of information
across borders even more easier now. The social media
as well as the music and video download sites have
allowed us the chance to look into lifestyles of other
places. The bits that catch our eye, we adopt to become
a part of us and those that we deem bizarre, we discard.
However, the idea of what’s amusing and what is
inappropriate varies with different people. This has led
to a situation where some bits of foreign culture are
adopted by Zambians even though a large number of
locals find them immoral. The Zambian society has not
necessarily been known for its openness over the past
decades. Change has come grudgingly to our society
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fathers fought for freedom. We have simply removed photos on Facebook and other social media. They see
the yoke of foreign influence and have instead chosen it as the new norm.
to go along voluntarily. Can we at least show them different. The adults are
We act as if we do not have ideas of our own. Ideas the ones in the forefront encouraging this decay.
that could be perfected to the point where they could The elderly men who know better are hooking up
rival those from the outside. Our ideas have taken the with the young confused girls who get a taste of the
bench in this respect. Our music has lost its identity. It life of money, sex and alcohol. We begin to face the
either sounds like rhumba from Congo DR or rap from consequences of our actions. The HIV prevalence rate
the states. We lost the flavour that was distinctively remains high among the youths. And many of them
Zambian. We simply did not see it as something the have qualifications that can only get them low paying
world would miss. But where is the world going to get jobs. All because they choose to be inspired by the
Zambian music in 2016 when all we sing is foreign. wrong things.
Maybe we’ve been confused by all these imports that
While everyone worries about making sure we do not
we see around us that we think that it’s the way to
go. Tackling the business of importing with so much export maize and electricity in these difficult times, we
fervor that we have ended up bringing in that which have left the floodgates open for all manner of imports
was never meant to be brought in in the first place. The and it’s raining cats and dogs. All we see is physical
situation is clear for everyone to see. The Zambia we luggage at the airport, but these people coming in bring
live in is not the same respectable black nation of old. in culture as well. In the same way that Syrian refugees
Our women have gone bare-backed and blond. Our are radicalizing Europe’s muslims, our arrivals from
men have become lousy fathers with a taste for drugs the West can be accused of immoralizing Zambia.
and loose women. our children have become hoodlums From homosexuality to drugs, perhaps we need the
with no purpose. They start using drugs at tender ages. clergy to join the Immigration Department and help
Destroying their future and that of the nation with it. police our borders.
Our daughters are becoming whores. Posting nude
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with all stakeholders.
he Electoral Commission Zambia (ECZ)’s The political parties, which included the ruling PF,
prescription of a 30-day period for the resolved also to withdraw from the political parties
registration of 9 million voters in Zambia
Liaison Committee of the ECZ.
ahead of the 2021 General Election is not
backed by and not provided for in the current law. This call from political parties on the Commission to
In addition, the Commission has no mandate whatsoever resign has serious electoral ramifications and if not
to amend/alter or negotiate the law in its current form. addressed quickly hinges on the credibility of the
Only Parliament has that mandate. outcome of the 2021 General Election.
The provisions of the current law are very clear. The How, then, is the country going into a major election
law states, in Section 7 of the Electoral Process Act No with such kind of stakeholders’ mistrust and loss of
35 of 2016, that “the Commission SHALL conduct a confidence in a commission?
continuous registration of voters”.
The failure, according to political parties by ECZ not
This is mandatory not optional to the ECZ and we to listen to its concerns has caused this loss of trust
wonder where the 30-day registration period of voters and confidence not only from the opposition political
is coming from and which law triggers it. parties alone but also the ruling party and appointing
The Commission is only mandated to prescribe, “cut authority.
off dates with respect to the registration of voters and This is a serious point of reflection by the Commission
compilation of the Register of Voters,” including the
to salvage its tattered public image from the 2016
date by which a person may apply to be registered or
change registration details (Section 20(1). General Election.
We have observed with concern this trend by the It is and must no longer be business as usual for the
Commission not to follow the well laid down Commission. These are serious dents on its image and
legal provisions in the conduct of its functions as a self-introspection is key by the Commission to trace
Commission. where it has gone astray.
One of the blatant breach of the law by the Commission Even the bringing in of the so called “eminent persons”
is the reduction in the Campaign Period. to advise the Commission will not save the Commission
Unilaterally and outside the provision of the law, the from this stakeholders’ backlash.
Commission has shortened the Campaign Period
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CORONAVIRUS (COVID-19)
What Every Healthcare Worker Must Know
T
he Patriotic Front Government is driving hospitalization.
what might be the most ambitious health Write down all your questions early. Your doctor
infrastructure project the country has will only come to your bed once a day (because
ever seen. The University Teaching they only get paid by Medicare to come once in a
Hospital is being expanded, along with General day) and any unanswered questions will have to
and district hospitals. Clinics are being expanded wait until the following day.
and upgraded. A further 650 health posts are being
rolled out across the country to increase access to Be patient. There is no clock in a hospital. Nobody
health in rural areas. knows when any of your tests are scheduled to be
done. Not the cleaning lady. Not your nurse. Not
With all this development in the health sector, even the doctor doing the procedure knows when
you can be rest assured that there is a bed waiting you’re up. You’ll know when you’re up when they
for you; yes, just for you, maybe with your name cart you away. Believing anything otherwise will
written on it. This is not to wish you ill health, but just make you frustrated.
just to reassure you that we are prepared should it
befall you. And even if you do not want to come You’re going to be told things that contradict
into the hospital, there are ambulances ready to each other multiple times a day. That’s normal.
pick you up from wherever you are. With all this Accept it. All your doctors and nurses carry their
in mind, it would be helpful to prepare for your own perspective and experience. There is no right
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answer to many of the questions you will seek. In she had to fight to stop her mother from receiving
order to feel the best, simply pick the answer that a dangerous medication during an emergency
makes you feel the best and run with it. visit to the hospital. She says her mother, who had
Being sick is highly unpredictable. If hospital breast cancer, was supposed to receive a dose of a
care was easy and straightforward, we would be steroid called Decadron before her chemotherapy
monitoring you from home. But we aren’t. You sessions. She said someone in the hospital made
may be stable one hour and unconscious the next. a mistake and wrote in her mother’s chart that she
That’s not your doctor’s or your nurse’s fault. was supposed to receive Decadron every twelve
That’s why you’re in the hospital. hours.
Your doctors and nurses are not dumb or uncaring Maggie begged the nurses to take her mother off
because they don’t do things exactly as you wish the 12-hour schedule of Decadron, explaining
or respond to your every need or request with that she was a diabetic and it could hurt her heart.
immediacy. They see thousands of patients a year Within 10 minutes of talking to the nurse, her
who all carry their own life baggage in one way or mother experienced chest pain and had a heart
another. There is no protocol for making everyone attack, Maggie recalls, adding that her mother
happy. survived. Maggie says don’t give up if you
think something’s wrong. “You don’t need to be
Be nice. If you are mean to your doctors or nurses, aggressive, nasty, and mean. Be convincing and
they will consciously (or subconsciously) avoid confident.” But then, very Zambians have the
interaction with you and your family. There are medical knowledge to question a doctor. So trust
many safely guarded methods handed down the doctor and trust God.
through centuries of medical and nursing training
that have prepared doctors and nurses for the Best of luck!
difficult family. We know all the methods by heart.
Forge a relationship with a medical professional
in the hospital who can act as your point person.
You will interact with so many different personnel
who may or may not have read your medical notes.
You need one person to ask all your questions
to and follow through on your care. This person
can be very difficult to find but can make a huge
difference to your in patient care and experience.
Ask about every medication they give you. Nurses
say to double-check the name, dosage, and timing
of every medicine you receive in the hospital.
The trouble is very few Zambians know what
medicines they are allergic to, making it likely
that some may simply die from wrong medication.
Worse, some have no idea what their blood type
is. You need to get all your medical information
straight as you enter hospital.
If you think something’s wrong, don’t back down.
Maggie, a nurse from the Maryland, America, said
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he reflections of United States Charge d’ Affaires Today Zambians are afraid, scared to death in their own
to Zambia David Young on Freedom of Expression country because political hooligans have taken over the
and general degradation of democracy in Zambia streets and even the Courts of Law. However, no one should
highlight the trauma that many Zambians go take the peaceful citizens for granted because once your
through at the hand of the militarised government of life is threatened then you have no choice but to protect it
President Lungu. by any means necessary. We only have one Zambia so let
Unlike the post 1991when under Fredrick Chiluba when us not allow anyone to set it on fire because of the desire to
Zambia was the flag carrier of democracy and media either stay in power or get into power.
freedoms on the continent, today the country is a complete
shadow of its former self with
media houses opting not to report on
anything that might be perceived as
anti-establishment just to safeguard
their broadcasting licence.
People’s freedoms to freely express
themselves on governance issues or
to hold free protests are constantly
threatened by the selective application
of the Public Order Act by the ruling
party controlled Police Service.
This morning we woke up to yet
another dose of sponsored anarchy
when suspected political party thugs
caused mayhem at a named graveyard.
This follows recent open attacks on
media houses hosting opposition
politicians. We are back in dictatorial
days when one had to look around
before expressing their views and
therefore the remarks by the United
States envoy should be viewed as a
clear sign of oppressive governance.
There is degradation of law and order.
There is no freedom if politicians are
going to create ‘No-Go’ areas for other
citizens.
The solution to all these unfortunate
occurrences lie largely in the hand
of our leader President Edgar Lungu.
The President is not only leader of the
entire nation but also leader of one of
the parties that are at the forefront of
the violence and political intolerance
that is being witnessed in the country.
I sincerely believe that if President
Lungu was not capitalising on the
anarchy unfolding, then he has the
power to stop it.
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Comment & Opinion
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y fellow professionals and the middle We are embrassed almost on a daily basis by low
to upper class, where are you when it calibre “trigger happy” leaders.
comes to national affairs and speaking Can you imagine what foreigners think when they sit
against wrongs and for the voiceless in across the table of some of these fellows that represent
our society who don’t understand what is going on and us, they think we are all like that. It’s embarrassing to
the implications on their lives? say the least.
Are you so worried about losing what you have Can you imagine the failure to read, to analyse, to
accumulated over the years that you opt to remain conduct a simple due diligence and understand deals
mute? Whatever it is you have is slowly being erodedthey append signatures to all in the name of soliciting
in value anyway as the economy worsens. cheap foreign investment to the detriment of the
Career Civil servants and technocrats in government country and Zambians in general.
where are you? Have you been cowered into silence? We have witnessed numerous errors and retractions
Do you fear the 25-year-old, grade five cadres that all because of hasty deals, greed and shoddy work;
threaten you with transfer and dismissal from your meanwhile the professionals are comfortably sitting
cushy job? back not rocking the boat.
Defence Forces, where are you when your superiors There is a failure to understand the long term
are involved in scandals, court cases and exercising implications of some of the decisions that are made
double standards? purely due to lack of capacity, and the belief that all
Medical staff where are you when you are subject to that is foreign is good and all that is local is bad and
work conditions with poor or no tools, when scandals that our salvation will come on a boat or plane.
rock your ministry and your boss is trooping in and out Professionals have been grouped with the unqualified
of ACC? cadres that perform shoddy jobs and abandon work
Engineers where are you when projects are inflated, sites when a down payment is made.
when shoddy works done, when unqualified cadres We have taken this sitting down and accepted to be
and foreigners are given contracts to the detriment of grouped with these individuals (Ati Zambians are
deserving qualified Zambians? doing bad work, which Zambians?
What happened to right and wrong, to integrity, to the Am sure they mean cadres) who are experts in short
oaths some professions demand and to standing for the cuts, bribes, subcontracting and selling off contracts to
greater good? the Chinese.
We have been stereo typed with these commercial
mercenaries, whilst being blocked from performing
any meaningful contracts in State-Owned-Enterprises
and quasi-government institutions.
We have even stopped buying tender documents, there
is truly no point as this would be academic, a waste
of time and resources; the perception is that they are
predetermined so why bother?
My question stands, professionals where are you?
We need you. Stand up and be counted, it’s time for
you to take your rightful place.
Stop hiding behind desks.
The late Michael Chilufya Sata (MHSRIEP) was right,
we are the biggest cowards.
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that our aged people need social security/welfare, and watched’. It’s not too late to steer our titanic
they need legitimate representation and they need away from the iceberg. We are who we are a great
information in a language they are familiar with. peace-loving nation because of their individual
They represent a small but important portion of contributions. We are stronger because they were
our population which we can provide for without strong. God bless Zambia, God bless our veterans.
external assistance, if only we set our priorities
right.
Let us not dare
anglicize them nor
abandon them, let us
combine our efforts to
meet their needs and
respect them by giving
them due privilege in
hospital queues and
many other queues.
Let us commit
to ensuring that
they have a
dignified passage
to their afterlife
by providing
them with social
welfare and vital
information that
can make their
life meaningful.
Let us remember
that as each day
passes, we draw
closer and closer
to those 70 years
numbers. And
when our time
comes the future
young will ask
‘where were you
when your senior
citizens couldn’t
access medication,
information, food
and shelter?’
The answer we should
avoid being true is
that ‘we just stood by
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A CHAT WITH TIBALENGE
1. Am tired of being just his side chick heal. Danny, things happen for a reason, you
(Q) Dear Tibalenge, my name is Jenna and I am a might not see the reason why this has happened
25 years old lady and I have being dating a married but one day you will.
man for 4 years now. He rents an apartment for 3. He told me he loved me
me which is fully furnished and pays all my bills. (Q) Dear Tibalenge, my name is Gwen and am
On top of that he gives me enough upkeep money. aged 28. I met this guy who actually for the first
This man takes very good care of me and I really time in my life made me feel like I was good
love him. 2 years ago after I told him that I will enough and that I am worth it. He was such a
break up with him if he doesn’t divorce his wife gentle man, so loving and caring and always knew
he engaged me and has never brought up the issue the perfect things to say all the time. I fall for him
of leaving his wife and marrying me. Every time I without knowing and then we had sex and he told
bring up the topic he gets upset and leaves. I love me that he loved me but not in that way. I really
him but I am tired of being just his side chick. Do love him, how do I make him love me back?
think he will leave his wife?
(A) Dear Gwen, in life not everyone means what
(A) Dear Jenna, am sorry to break this to you but they say and some people will act and say anything
dating a married man and expecting him to leave just to get what they want in this case what he
his wife and marry you is like expecting to catch wanted was to get you in his bed. If he didn’t love
at a train at a bus station. It won’t happen. He in that why, why did he have sex with you in the
will never leave his wife but will continue keeping first place? Don’t believe everything you hear
you on the side. You are wasting your time, you Gwen. Unfortunately, you can’t make anyone
need to let him go and move on. You deserve a fall in love with, especially if all they wanted or
man of your own and you are still young. Jenna want from you is sex. Next time don’t sleep with
in life what you do to others has a way of coming someone just because they say the perfect things.
back to you, one day you will too be married, will Some people we love from a distance and I think
you be happy if your man had another woman for the safety of your heart it is best you love this
on the side or rather if he left you to marry a side man from a distance. Love will find you again,
chick? But it is not too late to do the right thing. have faith.
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Walking Ngombe Ilede
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Edem Djokoteo
1. Don’t spend too much time worrying about the you just do what your heart says. The day you stop
the opinions of jealous, little people. caring what other people think is the day their opinions
What you have to know is that nothing will define you don’t mean anything, because you’re not there to give
unless you let it. You are only whoever you decide you them weight.
are. You are not a democracy. There is nothing that 3. What’s important is that you have to be kind to
anybody can say that will change who you are, unless people
you take it to heart and you let it. You have to do your best. Learn to put other people
2. There is no designated time for anything in your first. Learn to not freak out over little, petty things.
life. There are much bigger problems in life that you will
You don’t have to have your first kiss at any certain one day have to worry about, and while I know your
time, you don’t have to get married in your 20’s and 9th grade drama seems like the be-all-end-all trust me,
you don’t have to do anything just because other people it’s not.
think it’s best. In fact, you will be much better off if 4. I know a big concern is whether or not you’re
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attractive.
Whether or not you’re fat or
skinny, whether or not the
music you listen to is “cool,”
but here’s the thing: you’re
seeking an answer that doesn’t
exist. You are only as much or
as little of any of those things
as you think you are. But
what’s more important is that
you have to realize that there
are a thousand things that are
more important than being
“cool” or “beautiful.” Find
those things, and take pride in
them instead. They won’t fade
with time.
5. One of the absolute truths
about life is that
People will forget what you
did, they will forget what you
said, but they will not forget you’re worth anything right now. Stop trying to hide
how you made them feel. I cannot stress this enough. who you are or cover it up because you think if people
Listen to Maya Angelou. attack your armor they won’t affect who you really
6. It’s okay to not be okay. are. But the truth about that is you are allowing them
to control your ego because you’re not in tune with
You don’t have to be happy all the time. Life is not your true self.
supposed to be a joy ride every single day. It’s okay to
have a broken heart or hurt feelings or to be anxious 9. Learn to sit back and enjoy the ride.
or nervous. It’s resisting these things that give them Immerse yourself in the joy you find in lazy Sundays.
their choke hold on you. Let it be a beautiful and sad Eat your favorite foods. Do the things you love to do,
part of the story, but only a page or a chapter here and and don’t feel bad because it’s not “cool” or something.
there, not the whole book. One day you will realize You have to realize that just because your life doesn’t
how important these dynamics are. look like someone else’s doesn’t mean it’s less than
7. You need to work on having a little more blind theirs. In fact, embrace the fact that your life isn’t
faith in things anything like anybody else’s, it’s personally tailored
for you. So put on that suit and wear it like the beautiful
Yes, I know, this seems counter-intuitive to all the woman you will one day become.
messages that you’re receiving from society. But
there is a difference between taking control of your 10. You don’t need love, now or ever.
life by pursuing things that are important to you and You will have your heart seriously broken a few times,
learning when to let go and let whatever is supposed to but you know what? You’ll pick yourself right the hell
be unfold by itself. It’s a little anxiety-inducing to be up and become even more fabulous than you were
blindly led by the universe, but please, please take my before. Do not settle. If you have your own love, and
word for it: you will be led to far greater places than by that I mean you’re okay with being with yourself
you could even comprehend to take yourself. Trust it, and you can find happiness in your life as it is, you’ll
and go with the flow babe. realize that you are waiting for someone else to come
8. Stop being afraid of being who you are. and make your life worth living. But here’s the truth:
people will come and go. Love will fade and reignite
At the end of the day, people can hate on you as much and you will be headed for nothing but problems if
as their little cold hearts desire, but what it should all your love for someone is contingent upon what they
really tell you is that there is some gaping insecurity can do for you. Embrace your independence now, and
within them that forces them to be mean to you. You keep your head high always. There are far better things
are a bad ass. You are a fantastic person. You are going ahead than you can even imagine.
to do great things, even thought you don’t feel like
Lifestyle
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Raise your hand if you’ve treated a woman well but lose your job or your source of income
she did not return the favor. I see that everyone’s Years ago, the gooey part of me wanted to conclude
hand is up. I don’t need to tell you that if a woman that not all women are like that. They wouldn’t cut
loses her attraction for you or meets a man better me off on a dime just because they briefly got bored
than you, or cheats on you with a man who may with me or because I made some game errors, so I
give her better sex than you, she will begin to treat decided to make two classifications to the women
you worse than homeless men she encounters on I met: (1) sluts and (2) nice girls. I would give the
the street, regardless of how well you have treated nice girls better treatment and kindness. I’d be more
her in the past (even if you’re the father of her open and available for them. I’d be less calculating
children). and stringent with my game.
Her treatment of you is just as conditional as if What girl is nicer than a virgin? These girls have
working for a corporation where you receive an the least amount of experience with men out of all
income based on the value you provide for the females and definitely can’t be classified as a slut.
company. If you stop working, you’re out on your But surprisingly, my experiences with virgins have
ass. It’s the same with women, though they can be told me that I can’t even treat them well without
even more heartless when they decide to “fire” you. being cognizant of my game at all times.
You will see the true colors of a woman when you
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I have a couple other experiences with women who by being absolutely methodical with your game at
had less than five partners where I was voted off all critical moments.
the island after taking her inexperience for granted All women will screw you in the end if you assume
and treating her too well without being strict about her attraction is not dependent on the game you
receiving my needs in return. give her, even virgins and nice girls whose brothers
Now I truly believe that some girls really want a and sisters you had to meet on the tenth date. If
beta male as a partner, but when I attempted to use they have other options on the table, and your game
two different games—one for sluts and one for nice slips just an inch from what she became attracted
girls—I always regretted it in the end. I made the to initially, you’re done, and there is often nothing
mistake in assuming that my niceness with them you can do to get her back after she decides that
would translate into everlasting compliance where you are no longer important in her life. Because of
I’d get sex on demand and not have to deal with a this, you must approach the relationship like a job,
girl’s emotions and bullshit. I was wrong. putting in the required amount of labor (game) to
Lowering my guard and relaxing my game on the get the consistent payment (sex) you desire.
nicest of girls was no defense to receiving the same I would love to be a nice guy, to be “myself,” but I
kind of ill treatment that frigid sluts would give me can’t with women. Maybe I can be myself 90% of
when they were ready to replace my cock with a the time, but the 10% of me has to be the Godzilla
newer model. While not all women are like that of game. Modern relations with women are purely
at first glance, they’re all the same in the end, no transactional, a competition on who gets served
matter what part of the country they come from first. To ensure that you get what you want before
and how many sex partners they’ve had. The true she tosses you out like garbage, you must remain
nature of women always seems to rear its ugly ruthless and aware every time you see her, never
head once her attraction for you dims, and the only stopping for a second in playing the best game that
defense against that is maintaining strong attraction you can.
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High cholesterol or high blood pressure can damage blood An occasional short ride is unlikely to cause trouble. But
vessels, including those that bring blood to the penis. men who spend a lot of time biking should make sure their
Eventually, this may lead to ED. bike fits them properly, wear padded cycling pants, and
stand up frequently while pedaling.
Make sure your doctor checks your cholesterol levels and
“No-nose” bike seats protect against genital numbness and
sexual dysfunction, according to the National Institute for
Occupational Safety and Health.
6. Don’t rely on Kegels.
One form of exercise that doesn’t seem helpful is Kegel
exercises, which involve repeatedly contracting and
relaxing the muscles in the pelvis. Kegels can be helpful for
men and women suffering from incontinence. But there’s
no evidence that they prevent erectile dysfunction.
7. Keep tabs on testosterone.
Even in healthy men, testosterone levels often begin falling
sharply around age 50. Every year after age 40, a man’s
testosterone level typically falls about 1.3%.
Symptoms like a low sex drive, moodiness, lack of stamina,
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or trouble making decisions suggest a testosterone the blood vessels. That slows the flow of blood to the
deficiency, as do lackluster erections. Your doctor can penis, making an erection difficult to get. Atherosclerosis
check on that. (hardening of the arteries), high blood pressure, and
8. Avoid anabolic steroids. high cholesterol are among the most common causes of
ED.
These drugs, which are often abused by athletes and
bodybuilders, can shrink the testicles and sap their ability Prostate cancer: Prostate cancer doesn’t cause
to make testosterone. ED, but treatments can lead to temporary or permanent
erectile dysfunction.
9. If you smoke, stop.
The physical causes of ED are not only disease-related.
Smoking cigarettes can harm blood vessels and curb There are many other potential causes, including:
blood flow to the penis. And nicotine makes blood vessels
contract, which can hamper blood flow to the penis. Surgery: Surgery for both prostate cancer and
bladder cancer can damage nerves and tissues necessary
10. Steer clear of risky sex. for an erection. Sometimes the problem clears up,
Believe it or not, some cases of erectile dysfunction stem usually within 6 to 18 months. But the damage can also
from penile injuries that occur during sex. Taking your be permanent. If that happens, treatments exist to help
time and avoiding certain positions can help. It may be restore your ability to have an erection.
uncomfortable, but consider talking to your doctor about Injury: Injuries to the pelvis, bladder, spinal cord,
what to do and, more importantly, what not to do. and penis that require surgery also can cause ED.
11. Curb stress. Hormone problems: Testosterone and other
Psychological stress boosts levels of the hormone hormones fuel a man’s sex drive, and an imbalance can
adrenaline, which makes blood vessels contract. That can throw off his interest in sex. Causes include pituitary
be bad news for an erection. Anything a man can do to gland tumors, kidney and liver disease, depression, and
ease tension and feel better emotionally is likely to give hormone treatment of prostate cancer.
his sex life a big boost. Venous leak: To keep an erection, the blood that
Physical Causes of Erectile Dysfunction flows into your penis must stay in your penis. If it flows
back out too quickly -- a condition called venous leak, in
Behind the scenes, a lot goes into achieving an erection. which the veins in your penis don’t constrict properly --
When you’re turned on, nerves fire in your brain and travel you will lose your erection. Both injuries and disease can
down your spinal cord to your penis. There, muscles relax cause venous leak.
and blood flows into the blood vessels. The result, if all
goes well, is a rigid penis, ready for sex. Tobacco, alcohol, or drug use: All three can damage
your blood vessels. That makes it difficult for blood to
Unfortunately, all does not always go well. Many diseases reach the penis, which is essential for an erection. If you
-- and, in some cases, their treatment -- can lead to erectile have hardened arteries (arteriosclerosis), smoking will
dysfunction (ED). So can injuries, lifestyle choices, and dramatically raise your risk of ED.
other physical factors. ED can often be treated, and finding
the right cause can lead to successful treatment. Prescription drugs: There are more than 200
prescription drugs that can cause ED.
Diabetes: This chronic disease can damage the
nerves and blood vessels that aid in getting an erection. Prostate enlargement: Prostate enlargement, a normal
When the disease has not been well controlled over time, part of aging for many men, may also play a role in ED.
it can double a man’s risk of erection problems.
Kidney disease: Kidney disease can affect many
of the things you need for a healthy erection, including
your hormones, blood flow to your penis, and parts of
your nervous system. It can also sap your energy level
and rob you of your sex drive. Drugs for kidney disease
can also cause ED.
Neurological (nerve and brain) disorders: You
can’t get an erection without help from your nervous
system, and diseases that disrupt signals between your
brain and your penis can lead to ED. Such diseases include
stroke, multiple sclerosis (MS), Alzheimer’s disease, and
Parkinson’s disease.
Blood vessel diseases: Vascular diseases can block
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T
he U.S. Supreme Court on Thursday Liberal Justices Sonia Sotomayor, Ruth Bader
rebuffed a bid by voting rights advocates Ginsburg and Elena Kagan dissented from
to block a Republican-backed Florida law Thursday’s decision. Sotomayor wrote in
mandating that people with past felony dissent that the Supreme Court’s action prevents
convictions pay court fines and fees before being thousands of otherwise eligible voters from casting
able to register to vote. ballots “simply because they are poor,” adding
The conservative-majority high court left in place that the decision “continues a trend of condoning
a July 1 decision by the Atlanta-based 11th U.S. disfranchisement.”
Circuit Court of Appeals to put on hold a judge’s The law was signed last year by Republican
earlier ruling declaring the law an “unconstitutional Governor Ron DeSantis, a Trump ally. Voting
pay-to-vote system” imposed on citizens who rights advocates and Democrats have accused
genuinely cannot pay - or even know if anything Republicans in a number of states of passing laws
is owed. aimed at suppressing the voting ability of groups
U.S. District Judge Robert Hinkle’s ruling had who tend to support Democratic candidates.
cleared the way for potentially hundreds of The 11th Circuit decision effectively halted the
thousands of Floridians to register to vote in the voter registration of former felons who cannot
key election battleground state ahead of the Nov. afford to pay the fines and fees as required under
3 election in which President Donald Trump is the law to have their voting rights restored.
seeking a second term in office. A group of Floridians and voting rights
organizations sued DeSantis, arguing the law
amounted to an illegal poll tax in violation of the
U.S. Constitution’s guarantee of equal protection
under the law.
Opponents argued the law goes against the wishes
of Florida voters who approved an amendment
to the state’s constitution in 2018 to grant voting
rights to felons who served their time and were not
convicted of murder or sex crimes.
The 11th Circuit put a temporary hold on Hinkle’s
decision while it considered an appeal by DeSantis.
That action put the rights of these former felons in
limbo for months, well past deadlines to register to
vote in the presidential election.
Florida Democratic Party Chair Terrie Rizzo said
in a statement after the Supreme Court’s action,
“Florida Republicans have a shamefully transparent
electoral strategy: voter suppression.” REUTERS
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he Trump administration is considering shows the lengths to which Trump’s aides may be
banning travel to the United States by all prepared to go as they make the tough-on-China theme
members of the Chinese Communist Party a thrust of his campaign for re-election in November.
and their families, a person familiar with the Trump and prospective Democratic presidential
matter said on Thursday, a move that would worsen nominee Joe Biden have competed to outdo each other
already tense U.S.-China relations. on which can take the strongest stand against China.
Senior officials discussing the matter have begun Trump’s aides have made the Communist Party a main
circulating a draft of a possible presidential order, but target for what they call Beijing’s “malign” activities.
deliberations are at an early stage and the issue has But Trump has held off on direct criticism of Chinese
not yet been brought to President Donald Trump, the President Xi Jinping, whom he has praised as a friend.
source said, speaking on condition of anonymity.
Among the options is to base such a visa moratorium
The discussions, first reported by the New York Times, on immigration laws used by the Trump to justify his
center on whether to deny visas to tens of millions of 2017 travel ban from a group of predominantly Muslim
Chinese in what would be one of Washington’s toughest countries, according to the person familiar with the
actions yet in a widening feud with Beijing that some discussions.
have likened to a new Cold War.
Trump could also have authority to make exceptions
Such a ban, if implemented, could hit the ruling for certain individuals or categories, the source said.
Communist Party from the highest levels down to its
rank-and-file and would be certain to draw retaliation One difficulty would be determining which Chinese
against Americans who travel to China. This could nationals are party members, since U.S. authorities do
include not only diplomats but also business executives, not have full lists, the source said. REUTERS
potentially harming U.S. interests in China.
Chinese Foreign Ministry spokeswoman Hua Chunying
said earlier such action by the United States, if true,
would be “pathetic.”
U.S. Secretary of State Mike Pompeo stopped short of
confirming it was under consideration but said: “We’re
working our way through, under the president’s
guidance, about how to think about pushing back
against the Chinese Communist Party.”
White House Press Secretary Kayleigh McEnany told
reporters: “We keep every option on the table with
regard to China.”
Relations between the world’s two largest economies
have sunk to the lowest point in decades as they clash
over China’s handling of the coronavirus outbreak, its
tightening grip on Hong Kong, its disputed claims in
the South China Sea, trade and accusations of human
rights crimes in Xinjiang.
U.S. officials across multiple agencies are involved in
the process, which includes consideration of whether
to block Communist Party members’ children from
attending American universities, said the source, who
has been briefed on deliberations.
The fact that such a sweeping ban is being discussed
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Ole Gunnar Solskjaer lauded his “fantastic” but two fantastic goals won it for us.
Manchester United squad after a crucial win over “The finish was great for Marcus Rashford’s goal
Crystal Palace, insisting the players “have earnedbut there was quick inter-changing passing in the
the right” to smile. build-up. We did not do it enough because they
United put the disappointment of Monday’s 2-2 are a handful to play against, they have to trust
draw at home to Southampton behind them by themselves more.
picking up all three points against the Eagles on “It looked like Victor Lindelof kicks the ball first
Thursday night. and it is a tight decision but probably the same on
Solskjaer’s men needed a victory to keep pace Anthony Martial. I don’t think it was a penalty.
with Leicester and Chelsea in the race for a top- “When we go the second goal, that is when they
four finish, and ran out 2-0 winners at Selhurst started strutting about. It is tight scheduling but we
Park thanks to goals from Marcus Rashford and cannot afford starts like this.
Anthony Martial.
“Marcus Rashford and Anthony Martial are
Palace proved stiff opposition throughout the 90 enjoying themselves, when they go out onto the
minutes with their high press and pace on the pitch for a shift, they go out with a smile and they
counter, but the Red Devils made the most of their defend each other too.
opportunities and defended resolutely against the
threat of Wilfried Zaha and Jordan Ayew. “We need to smile and go into this, we have earned
this right, no-one thought in January that we would
Rashford’s opener came right on half-time, as he be in with a shout for top four. We have done
completely deceived the Palace defence with a fantastic since the restart.
lovely change of direction after receiving the ball
from Bruno Fernandes in the box, before slotting “These are the games that matter. That is the thing
the ball past Vicente Guaita. at Manchester United, you have to step up and
show your personality.”’ GOAL
The home side had their chances in the second
period, but United doubled their advantage through
Anthony Martial, who produced an expert finish
after being played in by Rashford with 12 minutes
left on the clock.
The Red Devils have now gone 19 games
unbeaten, and they will be guaranteed a place in
the Champions League if they win their final two
fixtures, with Solskjaer pleased to see the team
come through another tough test.
The Norwegian believes his side have made great
strides forward since last month’s Premier League
restart, as he told BBC Sport post-match: “It is a
tight game and didn’t get the rhythm in our passing
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Wada Is
Lusaka
Dynamos
Coach
Wedson Nyirenda has returned to the bench following Division table, six points behind leaders Forest Rangers
his appointment as coach of Lusaka Dynamos today. and just three points outside the top four continental
The ex-Chipolopolo coach is back on the job after he bracket with nine games left before the season ends.
quit South Africa PSL side Baroka FC last December. Dynamos are also breathing down the neck of
Dynamos said Nyirenda has signed a short-term deal Nyirenda’s ex-charges and defending FAZ Super
with the Lusaka club and that Ian Bakala has been Division champions Zesco United who are fifth on 42
relegated to assistant coach. points.
“It is great to be associated with Lusaka Dynamos FC. Ironically, Zesco, who he guided to their debut league
For the next 3 months we shall work tirelessly to see title in 2017 and successfully defended it a year later,
that we end this current season in the best position. are expected to be his first opponents on August 2 at
If everyone works accordingly, and pull in the same home in Lusaka.
direction we can achieve the unthinkable. God will Nyirenda returns to the FAZ Super Division after a brief
guide us through,” Nyirenda said. period at Green Buffaloes in 2015 before a two-year
He takes over at Dynamos who are currently sixth with stay in Mozambique at Ferroviario Beira. LUSAKA
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esco United coach George Lwandamina believes “And that is what actually happens to the players, they
every team is heading into uncharted waters when need someone to push them to go beyond the pain barrier,
the league restarts this weekend after they recently the body mechanism has it that not until you go beyond
trooped back to full training following the four- the pain barrier, that is when the body will be even able to
month Covid-19 lockdown. compensate, and that is the fitness that is even required in
Team’s returned to full training on July 1 ahead of the July our game of football.
18 behind-closed-doors league restart after being restricted “But it is not the case, that is how challenging it is. We are
to individual training since March. just hoping that whatever we are doing will be beneficial.
The defending champions Zesco will resume their quest to “No one knows, not even our friends in Europe, it is all
retain the FAZ Super Division title on July 19 when they experimental, they are lucky they have a lot of facilities
host Kansanshi Dynamos at Levy Mwanawasa Stadium in so maybe they will eventually be able to come up with
Ndola. something that is tangible.”
“It is the same everywhere when you stay out of business for And Lwandamina added that the provisional FIFA law of an
four months and then you are told to start,and with the little additional two substitutes, from the standard three, during
time of preparations, it becomes a challenge,” Lwandamina this restart period will help all teams.
said. “Definitely it is beneficial for all the teams. Let me just put it
Lwandamina said there is no substitute for the intimacy of this way; the entire World will benefit because looking at the
full team training. magnitude of the games that we will play, three substitutes
“Yes, I understand that players have been training will not suffice. So with the increase of two it will help, it
individually but a player can only do better with the coach will be better than the usual three,” Lwandamina said.
behind him,” Lwandamina said. The last nine games of the 2019/2020 season have been
“Even you yourself, if you say you are going for road-run squeezed from August 1-30 excluding the seven rescheduled
and you plan to run for 10 Kilometers, just halfway through matches over the coming last two weeks of July involving
that distance your body will tell you to stop and if you are Zanaco, Zesco and Buildcon. LUSAKA TIMES
not strong enough, you will stop and start walking.
Lwandamina
Speaks As
Zesco United
Prepares For
Restart