Observance of Pastoral Behaviors

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Be humble
1. Spend time listening to others
7. Find a person you believe in
2. Practice mindfulness, and focus
8. Spend time with people in need
on the present
9. Spend time with a generous
3. Be grateful for what you have
person
4. Ask for help when you need it
10. Live a more minimalist life.
5. Seek feedback from others on a
regular basis Be respectful
6. Review your actions against the
1. Listen
language of pride
2. Affirm
Be compassionate 3. Serve
4. Be kind
1. Start with yourself
5. Be polite
2. Communicate verbally and non-
6. Be thankful
verbally
3. Touch (if appropriate) How to deal with difficult
4. Encourage others people
5. Express yourself
6. Show kindness 1. Be calm

7. Respect privacy 2. Understand the person’s

8. Learn how to advocate intentions

9. Volunteer 3. Get some perspective from

10. Consider your words others

4. Let the person know where you
Be generous are coming from
5. Build rapport
1. Consider the benefits of
6. Treat the person with respect
generosity
7. Focus on what can be actioned
2. Embrace gratitude
upon
3. Start really small
8. Ignore
4. Give first
9. Escalate to a higher authority for
5. Divert one specific expense
resolution
6. Fund a cause based on your
passions