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Duties of Parents Toward Their Children
Duties of Parents Toward Their Children
"But he that shall scandalize one of these little ones that believe
in Me, it were better for him that a millstone should be hanged about
his neck, and that he should be drowned in the depth of the sea."
(Matthew 18:6)
7. To see that they go to Mass every Sunday and on the six Holy Days.
Parents should not keep children home from Mass except for very
serious reasons.
8. To see that on Ash Wednesday and the Fridays of Lent they abstain
from meat altogether and that on the other Fridays of the year they
refrain from meat or perform a comparable penance.
--See Lesson 43, especially Question 11 -
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- Lesson 33.
17. To teach them respect for the rights and property of others.
Many parents sin seriously by bad example in this matter.
19. To give them wholesome recreation and keep them from evil
companions.
The Christian home should be the center of the child's social life, a
place where he feels free to bring his companions.
-- Parents should be extremely careful about allowing their children
to attend motion pictures; they should also examine their comic books
and govern their use of the radio and television, as well as the VCR.
Children receive many un-Christian ideas on life, marriage, crime,
drinking, body piercing, etc. from these sources of entertainment.
[One can imagine what Fr. Cogan would say of modern radio, motion
pictures and television.]
* Christian Education
The Catholic Church has always stressed the essential need for
parents to send their children to Catholic schools unless there is no
other possible option. Below are teachings from 5 different Popes on
the subject:
- "First, Catholics should not choose mixed schools but have their
own schools especially for children. They should choose excellent and
reputable teachers for them. For an education in which religion is
altered or non-existent is a very dangerous education" Militantis
Ecclesiae, Pope Leo XIII, 1897
"2. Does the provision of canon 1374 apply only to elementary and
high schools, or also the colleges and universities?
"b. The only thing which this canon adds to the obligation of the
natural law is the provision that it is for the Ordinary of the place
to decide in accordance with the instructions of the Holy See, under
what circumstances and with what precautions against the danger of
perversion, such attendance may be permitted... Does it apply equally
to colleges and universities? We think that no such strict canonical
requirement can be proved... In the absence of such legislation,
parents and young people are bound by the natural law to remove
effectively the danger of perversion by employing safeguards which
are really sufficient. It is prudent and advisable, not strictly
obligatory, to consult the Ordinary on the sufficiency of these
precautions." From Canon Law: A Text and Commentary, by Bouscaren and
Ellis (1951, pgs. 762-4)
Summary
Looking at Church teaching, parents have a serious obligation for
seeing to proper Catholic education of their children. Catholic
children must always be sent to Catholic schools unless not otherwise
possible.
And as we can see from the commentary on Canon Law, even adults must
use extreme caution when attending non-Catholic colleges and many
courses teach contrary to Catholicism, and are occasions of sin. If
we look at our page on "Occasions of Sin", it is itself a sin for us
to knowingly put ourselves in the occasion of sin.
-- "Christian Education" - taken from