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The Community Letter February 2011
The Community Letter February 2011
T H E C O M M U N I T Y
LETTER
www.theletteronline.com VOLUME 22, ISSUE 2 • FEBRUARY 2011
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other assistance to state legislators, as well as public education and advocacy that
contributed to the bills passage.
for
Seven states and the District of Columbia now allow some form of rights for same-
sex couples. All allow marriage, except New Jersey, which permits civil unions.
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U of L Professor PFLAG Guest Speaker
Dr. Kaila Story, the Audre Lorde Endowed Chair in Race,
Class, Gender and Sexuality at the University of Louisville, will
share her story at a meeting of the Metro Louisville chapter of
Parents & Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG). The meeting
will take place on Sunday, February 20 beginning at 3:00pm.
The location is First Lutheran Church, 417 East Broadway,
Story teaches classes for both the Women and Gender Studies
and Pan-African Studies Departments. She currently serves as a
member of the Fairness Campaign’s Coordinating Committee.
Professor Story’s research has included the exploration
of the intersections of race, class, and sexuality in identity
performance, mass media and body politics. She has also done
research into how the “reality television” genre posits black
and female identity and reinforces past controlling images
of black women. Her other research interests include gender
socialization, transnational sexualities, black feminisms, and
Dr. Kaila Story transnational feminisms.
NICHOLAS BLOCK
for his many hours of hard work that has succeeded in
bringing new energy and many new members to the Metro Louisville
chapter of Parents & Friends of Lesbians and Gays. His unique sense
of humor is quite endearing. Because Nicholas can’t always
remember where to find our deadlines, we’ve created a special
reminder just for him at the bottom of page 4.
Louisvillian Kera
Bowling Tournament, cont’d from pg 1 McLain, the lesbian
heroine of George
tournaments in the eastern United Morrison’s critically
States.
A tournament committee of
acclaimed first novel,
approximately 20 bowlers works Out From It All
year-round to organize, fund and (www.outfromitall.
stage the Bluegrass Classic. The
committee is an extension of the gay
com), is back – on
and gay-friendly bowling league, also Mars in the 82-page
named Bluegrass Classic. The league novella Worlds. She
plays on Monday nights during the battles harassment,
fall/winter season at Kingpin Lanes,
along with an optional condensed homophobia and
summer season. Bluegrass Classic Bowling uncaring bureaucracy
Committee members chair Tournament committee member to win a spot on this
departments with responsibilities for Donald Palmore, right, sells 50/50
tournament activities that include historic journey, then
raffle tickets to Steven Hudson at
fundraising, marketing, awards,
Kingpin Lanes in Louisville. Half of
shocks her colleagues
hospitality, audit and others. The by uncharacteristically breaking the rules, risking
committee is lead by an executive the raffle sales go to one winner and
committee consisting of a director, the other half is used to help stage her life to save a seemingly doomed mission.
co-director, treasurer, secretary, the upcoming 28th annual Bluegrass Life on the Red Planet gives the misfit Kera
statistician and sergeant of arms. Classic Bowling Tournament. an unfamiliar yearning for Earth and she heads
In order to remain one of the top
gay bowling tournaments in our home for her greatest adventures yet.
region, you have to “up the ante,” bowler incentives such as higher-
said former director and current quality banquet food and a bowler
committee member Donald Palmore. gift.” WORLDS is on sale in
“In other words, you need more That’s why fundraising is essential
and always the committee’s biggest
Louisville at both Carmichael's
money to stage a top tournament
than the $90.00 tournament entry fee challenge and loftiest goal. “It’s also Bookstores & Day's Expresso
provides.” where committee camaraderie grows & Coffee Bar, 1420 Bardstown
“To be competitive, you have while out and about in the community
to raise funds to offer more prize letting folks know about the bowling Road. Or, to order, call
money than required by USBC rules tournament,” said Kennedy. This iUniverse at (800) 288-4677.
and regulations,” Palmore said. “You (See Bowling Tournament,
also need additional money for other continued on pg 17)
february 2011 www.theletteronline.com The COMMUNITY Letter 9
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Celebrating God’s Wildly Inclusive Love 417 East Broadway. For more information call (502) 233- Sundays: February 6 & March 6
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GAY LOVE DOCTOR, cont’d from pg 13 relationship you aspire to have. If he remains resistant
or unwilling to negotiate time spent, you then may
former leaves partners feeling suffocated and lacking need to do a self-appraisal of your values and
a sense of separateness. Too much of the latter leaves determine if the amount of quality time you’re getting
partners feeling like roommates with little sense of now is sufficient to meet your needs in the long-run. Is
connection. A healthy balance of the two leaves both that a deal-breaker or would you be willing to bend on
partners feeling bonded, yet also free to have their own that? With this happening so early in the “honeymoon
personal pursuits and goals. This promotes individual phase” of your relationship, you will want to pinpoint
growth and also has the added benefit of rejuvenating the etiology and see if the situation can be remedied
the relationship and keeping it fresh as you’re both before investing too much of your heart.
bringing in “fresh air” so to speak. You may want to Feeling lonely in a long-term relationship can be a
speak to your partner about this concept. very deadening experience, so you’ll want to do your
Communicating your needs to your boyfriend prep work now to ensure you and your partner share
will be important here. Before making your request, the same vision and can co-exist as a team under
highlight what you enjoy and like best about him and similar needs and goals.
what you have together to validate your relationship
so he may be more open to hearing what comes
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T WORLD
Balancing Your Heart, Mind & Dick by Michael Kimmel, MA, MSW, LCSW
Testosterone: when you put two gay/bi/trans (GBT) Really good sex – and any successful ongoing
men together, you’ve got lots of it. Is this why we GBT relationship - requires the simultaneous involvement of
men are often accused by hetero society of putting too your thoughts, emotions and libido. Simply put: why
much emphasis on sex? Is it true that GBT guys have a not let your dick become good friends with your thoughts
lot more sex than straight guys do? If so, is it because and feelings? They’re really like the Three Musketeers:
we can, we want to, or we just can’t help it? How do we “All for one and one for all”. When they work together,
integrate sex and love in our relationships? life is sweet. They’re all interrelated anyway.
Are some relationships so sex-based that there’s no Ever noticed how a good sexual relationship is mostly
chance of an emotional or intellectual connection? Are mental? Check it out: the next time you’re making
other relationships so emotional and “heady” that when love with a guy you really like, notice what makes you
sex happens, it’s totally lame? How do we, as GBT men, excited…both mentally and physically.
balance our heart, mind and dick? When you masturbate, what fantasies do you have of
Whether you call it “high libido”, “too much this guy? What is he doing to you? What’s he saying?
testosterone” or “just plain horny”: how can you get your This is all in your head: it’s all your thoughts. Thoughts
thoughts, emotions and sex drive to work together? create feelings, and the feelings work in harmony with
In any meaningful man-to-man relationship, we need the pleasant physical sensations to create great sex, alone
to balance the desires and demands of our heart, mind or not.
and dick. And what about your heart? By this, I mean your
For example, when you meet a guy and feel an emotions. People who have addictive sexual behavior
attraction, how and when do you decide to have sex are rarely in touch with their emotions. Their dicks are
with him? Is it right off the bat, when your heart and running wild without any emotional connection to the
mind barely know the guy? Or is it later on, when your guys they have sex with. Their emotional hunger never
libido has been moderated by the wisdom of your mind gets satisfied and they need to keep looking for the next
and the feelings in your heart? lot nicer/smarter/funnier than I expected…could he be man, and the next one after that. Without having your
I’m not here to tell you that there’s one RIGHT way boyfriend material?” heart involved in a relationship, the sex is likely to be
to do it. You may also hear another voice, that says, “Oh yeah, meaningless and leave you
I had a client who met a guy at a bathhouse, had great right, like this sex date is going to turn into a deep, feeling empty. It’s hard on your self-esteem too.
sex with him, exchanged numbers…you know. Then, meaningful relationship. Don’t be an idiot, you got Emotions are what bond us to other people; they’re a
the next day, he thought about this guy and wondered your rocks off, move on!” You might hear both voices primal part of any good sexual relationship.
if there might be much more possible with this guy, e.g., giving you conflicting advice simultaneously. This isn’t While testosterone (e.g., our libido/sex drive) is a
a relationship. Initially, my client’s dick had called the unusual, but it’s these internal debates that often keep powerful force, we don’t need to let it run our lives.
shots, but now his mind (thoughts) and heat (feelings) us stuck. When you can’t stop arguing with yourself, it Just because we can have lots of sex, will it bring us
had kicked in. He came to me asking, “How can I turn can be crazy-making! This is your head at its worst. real satisfaction? We seldom benefit from relationships
a hot trick into a possible relationship?” Another way There are lots of articles about getting in touch with totally focused on sex, nor the opposite.
to say this is: How can I have a relationship where my your feelings (heart) and getting clear on what you’re When we’re conscious about the role our heart, mind
mind, heart and dick are all working together? thinking (mind), but surprisingly few on making and dick play in our relationships, we can maintain a
Let’s look at the heart first: the heart is all about peace with your testosterone-driven friend: your dick. good balance of the three. Sure, some days the balance
emotions and feelings. When you’re getting to know a Watching man-on-man porn, you’d think that hard may be a bit skewed, but, overall, the best relationships
guy, take some time and check in with yourself: what dicks and great orgasms are all that counts in GBT life. (monogamous or not) are those where your mind is
are you feeling? What emotions are you aware of? This Very few porn videos show more than dicks in charge: attracted to someone, your heart feels affection and
is your heart speaking. To hear it, you have to look where is the intelligence, the emotion? Heart and mind connection and your dick gets just the right amount of
inward. Is your heart happy when you think about this have been left behind. Sure, there’s kissing in some of attention too.
guy? When you hear his voice, do you feel good? When them, but do they ever have intelligent conversations?
you’re near him, does your heart beat faster? Your may Heart-to-heart conversations? Rarely.
be heart telling you that there are deep feelings there. Way too much GBT culture emphasizes the dick LIcensed Psychotherapist Micheal Kimmel is a
Now let’s check in with your head: your thoughts, part of relationships and leaves the mind and heart far native of Ohio and former resident of Louisville.
the rational, logical part of your brain. This is where behind. Indeed, the mind and heart are almost seen as He offers individual and couple therapy from his
most of us live most of the time: thinking, judging, “girly” or “feminine” parts of man-to-man relationships. practice in San Diego. For more information about
analyzing, obsessing, etc. Sometimes we have lots of And yet, without the mind and heart’s involvement, our his counseling practice visit www.lifebeyondtherapy.
“voices” in our head, and they fight each other. One relationships – from dating to long term relationships – com.
voice says, “There’s potential here with this guy, he’s a are doomed.
Bowling Tournament, cont’d from pg 9 to continuing this relationship.” The committee partnered with difference.”
The winners of the Halloween the House of Ruth organization Kennedy explained that raising
year’s tournament committee banded costume contest are determined by for a Crazy Bowl event with both funds to host the best possible
together for several fundraisers, with $1.00 votes, Raymond said. “And 100 organizations sharing laughs and tournament is the top financial goal.
the most successful being its annual percent of the contest money collected proceeds. House of Ruth was also “However,” he emphasized, “We
Halloween cruise aboard the Belle of is donated to the Louisville Youth the tournament’s designated charity also want to be an organization that
Louisville. Group”, which is a local organization to receive the nearly $1,000 in tips is able to provide financial gifts to
“The Halloween cruise is the event whose mission is to boost the self- collected at the hospitality party non-profit organizations focused on
that the non-bowling community esteem of GLBT youth by providing during the 2010 tournament weekend. serving the GLBT community. That is
associates with the tournament,” a safe place that encourages This year’s charity recipient has not important to us, too.”
said committee secretary Mike positive life choices, teaches healthy yet been named. The committee depends heavily
Raymond, who also chairs the event. interactions with peers and adults “House of Ruth, which provides upon help from the local gay bars
“We’re very fortunate to have had and develops activities in which housing and supportive services for and nightclubs with its fundraising,
Miller Lite on board as the corporate youth are challenged to reach their those affected by HIV and AIDS in Raymond said. “Tryangles,
sponsor of this event for many, many full potential. metro Louisville is grateful to partner Connection and Starbase Q have
years,” Kennedy said. The committee Other fundraisers for the upcoming with the Bluegrass Classic bowlers” all supported the tournament
works with the local beer wholesaler tourney included a car wash, a weekly said Linda Underwood, House of committee’s efforts in one way or
River City Distributing to secure this 50/50 raffle during league play, a yard Ruth executive director. “We had so another,” Raymond said. “Their help
sponsorship. sale, a Ms. Bluegrass drag pageant, much fun at last year’s Crazy Bowl. is invaluable to us. And we hope
“River City Distributing and the a “Dining Out” raffle during the We are proud to work with a group it translates into more business for
Miller Lite brand are glad to have annual Kentuckiana Pride Festival who cares so much about others and them, too.”
been part of the success of these events and a holiday basket drawing. Funds appreciate their support. The fight For more information about the
over the last few years,” said Michael also come from advertising sales in against AIDS is not over and together tournament and serving on the
Renzi, vice president of sales at River the Bluegrass Classic Tournament with partners like the Bluegrass event’s planning committee visit
City Distributing. “We look forward Guide and Advertising Program. Classic bowlers we can make a www.bclou.org.
february 2011 www.theletteronline.com The COMMUNITY Letter 17
VIDEO RECOMMENDATION
BY CUBBIE BRITCHES
Howl
James Franco throws himself into the personage of he reminisces about his mother’s tragic death, his
Allen Ginsberg with passionate abandon, cementing 8-month period in a mental institution, his coming-out
his status as an alternative gay icon. Dismissing the to Jack Kerouac, his sexually-charged relationship with
contrived conventions of your average biopic, Howl notorious lothario Neal Cassady, his loving relationship
has a somewhat narrow focus: a two year period in with long-term partner Peter Orlovsky, and how his
the writer’s life. The film manages to capture the natural homosexuality served as a catalyst for self-
essence of Ginsberg, the man, while presenting the examination.
poetry and ensuing events that transformed him into a Though the film depicts a specific time in American
countercultural legend. history when blue blood social conformity defined the
Based on transcripts of interviews given by Ginsberg, status quo, Ginsberg’s struggle for legitimacy and his
as well as records of the 1957 obscenity trial over his desire to express himself openly in 1957 is emblematic
seminal work, Howl employs archival footage and of our current struggle for equal rights. Howl examines
photographs, selective black and white cinematography and celebrates one influential gay artist who challenged
that lends beat-era authenticity, and absorbingly hetero-normative conventions and the suppression of
inventive animation that illustrates Ginsberg’s words free speech.
in both literal and abstract ways. As of press time Howl had not yet arrived at Wild
Most engrossing, though, are the scenes in which & Woolly Video, 1021 Bardstown Road in Louisville.
Ginsberg talks about the evolution of his writing So be sure to call ahead to verify availability: (502) 473-
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DINING OUT
Third Avenue Cafe: Good Food & Great Atmosphere by Beth Ann Rubin
Third Avenue Cafe; 1164 South Third to me. The Black Bean Burger served for me because I really liked the savory
Street; Louisville, KY 40203. (502) 585- with roasted red pepper aioli on focaccia legume mixture.
2233. Online: www.thirdavecafe.com./ sounded tempting as did the Hot Turkey Based upon our server’s
I always like to eat in a restaurant Melt. I considered The Third Avenue recommendation I ordered the Blue
where I can leave feeling positive about Cafe Burger mainly because the meat Cheese Pasta that came with a salad.
the experience. Third Avenue Café in Old is supplied by the Green River Cattle The greens were a spring mix and the
Louisville promises this to diners opting Company, a Kentucky-based independent homemade balsamic vinaigrette was
to enjoy a meal at their neighborhood beef producer and all the beef they offer is simply outstanding. My pasta included
eatery. free of hormones, chicken, black olives, bacon, spinach and
The restaurant prides itself on offering antibiotics and preservatives. The Greek mushrooms in a creamy blue cheese sauce.
vegan, vegetarian and non-vegetarian Pasta served with feta cheese, peppers The dish was pleasant but I would have
food in a fanciful and eclectic interior. On and olives was another option and the liked to have tasted a stronger blue cheese
a wall behind the stage there is a mural Curry Roasted Vegetables accompanied influence in the sauce with maybe some
of Victorian homes in Old Louisville and by rice and mashed sweet potatoes also chunks of the cheese with the pasta.
there are a number of Elvis items dotting spoke to me. The portion size of both our entrees was
the restaurant. It’s all very colorful and My dinner companion focused on the large and we took home half of my pasta
haphazard yet quite comfortable. meat items and he liked the Third Avenue and most of my friend’s chick pea stew.
We dined late so there was no a huge Stuffed Chicken Breast. The bird is filled We ended our meal with the dessert of
crowd despite it being a Friday night. We with a mixture of feta cheese, sun dried the day, a flourless chocolate torte. The
were also treated to live music that was tomatoes and mushrooms and dressed cake was plated beautifully and sat atop
less obtrusive than canned music in other with a Dijon sauce. In the end, he selected a chocolate sauce that only added to the
restaurants. You might experience an “Elvis the Moroccan Steak (another product intense chocolate flavor of the dessert.
Of course I started with a glass of sighting” at Third Avenue Cafe. of the Green River Beef Company). His This restaurant is on my list of those to
chardonnay. They were down to the last grilled flank steak was served over a which to return in the future. They offer
drops in their last bottle but served me a and appetizers as well. Although they chickpea, tomato, cilantro and date stew, delicious options for whatever mood you
half a glass for what they indicated would specialize in vegan and vegetarian food, hence the Moroccan influence. He was might find your appetite. And how can
cost me a quarter. I did have another the restaurant has numerous choices not sure how he felt about the stew so you pass up the opportunity to eat with
glass of pinot grigio later in the meal and for omnivores as well. Prices are quite requested it be placed in a separate bowl. Elvis?
imagine my surprise when we received reasonable as well with no sandwich His meal included two side items and
our check. They did not charge me for priced higher than $7.95 and entrees he opted for the dinner salad and cheese Beth Ann Rubin has been reviewing restaurants
for THE LETTER for nearly four years. A Chicago
the chardonnay which I found to be a nice starting at $10.99 up to $14.99. grits. His grilled meat was extremely native, Beth Ann and her family live just south of
gesture. I was not sure whether I was interested flavorful and well cooked but he did not Louisville's Highlands neighborhood. A talented
cook in her own right, over the years her baked
The dinner menu includes a selection in a sandwich or entrée as there were prefer the chick pea stew. Lucky for him goods have earned her numerous awards at the
of sandwiches and entrees with salads many choices that looked interesting he had those grits on the side. And lucky
Kentucky State Fair.
Marie Davis is an internationally syndicated cartoonist. Her lesbian cartoon strip is published in five languages. Her first novel, Hey Diddle Diddle — for Lesbians
and Other Grownups, can be purchased through Amazon.com. Her e-mail address is mmmarie1961@aol.com.
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