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Lesson 13 Relationship: Think About It
Lesson 13 Relationship: Think About It
Lesson 13 Relationship: Think About It
RELATIONSHIP
STEP 8
"We made a list of all persons we had harmed and became willing to make amends to
them all."
1 Peter 3:11
He must turn away from evil and do good; he must seek peace and pursue it.
THINK ABOUT IT
Relationship is a big word and it covers all sorts of human connections. It you have a
friend, a sibling, a parent or a child, a cousin, a coworker, a neighbor, or just about any
other person in your life, and you maintain a connection with that person, you have a
relationship. You are indeed "in a relationship."
In fact, we cannot run away from having a relationship. We need to constantly manage
these links and interactions, whether they are meaningful, constructive or negative.
The first seven steps of our previous lessons provided the means through which our
relationship with God is restored. This restoration however, can only be complete if we
are willing to restore our relationships with others.
The exercises in Step 4 focused on our interaction with other people, especial our
family, helping us see how our behavior affected our relationship with them and vice
versa. After reflecting on what transpired, we learned to be accountable for our actions
through Confession in Step 5, which is another type of relationship we must develop
Steps 6 and 7 focused on the product of our habits and dysfunctional patterns that
molded our character. As we became aware of them we ask God to remove them using
His methods.
Step 8 will expand on our Step 4 inventory with our focus shifting on people we have
harmed rather than on the moral failures we committed.