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Hadith 1: 10 September 2019: Sahaba Ikraam Ajma'een All The Sahabas 1+2+3
Hadith 1: 10 September 2019: Sahaba Ikraam Ajma'een All The Sahabas 1+2+3
TERMS
Hadith = Qul (saying/speech) + Fael (actions done by #P) + Sakoot (affirmation, or the silence; someone did an
action, #P remained silent upon it. That means he says it’s right/ok) of the #P, and the Sahaba Ikraam and the
Tabi'un on any issue.
3 generations closest after the #P
*SIDEBAR = Syed Owais Qarni a man who had a great love for #P and wanted to meet with him but his mother was
very sick. With permission of his sick mother, travelled to Medina to meet #P. By chance, #P went out for a ghazwah
(trip) but Owais could not wait for him so left without meeting #P but had Imaan. Returns to look after his mother.
Eventually his mother passes away, and he immediately returned to Medina to meet #P. Unfortunately, #P just passed
away a few days earlier. However, #P had given signs of Owais Qarni to Hazrat Umar (ra) and Hazrat Abu Bakr (ra).
Said a man will come who is from the tribe of Karan, and has a certain mark on his body, and he loves #P very much.
So when he comes, you must honour him. So, when he came, he was recognized and was greeted by Hazrat Abu Bakr
(ra) and Hazrat Umar (ra) and was given him a lot of honour. However, he was not categorized as a Sahabi as didn’t
meet or see him. However, him not being a Sahabi doesn’t take away from Owais Qarni’s rank but he does not get
“ra” title after his name.
Sunna – general practices/habits of #P generally speaking during his life. So when #P prayed 4 rakaat before Zohr,
they are called Sunna. We live according to the #P’s Sunna, NOT hadith – that mashwera only given to ONE
Sahabi for his/her situation vs entire nation, esp since some hadiths will contradict each other, but need to
understand the context and have excellent understanding to apply.
o Sunna mua’kadda – rarely left e.g. 4 sunna namaaz at
o Sunna ghair mua’kadda – sometimes did e.g. nafl
o Sunna zawaid – habits related to #P’s daily life
Ahl al-Sunna wa al-Jama'ah – the people of the Sunna and the people of the group = the scholars, including
Sahaba Ikraam. That’s majority of the Muslims. We believe in Shahada.
2 Kinds of Wahi
Wahi = revelation that came to #P and it used to come directly into his heart
Wahi Matloo = only be in the Quran Wahi ghair matloo – not in Quran
exact words of #A and no change
Example, Hadith al Qudsi, words of #A but when
or alternation
#P relates those words, it is in a form of a gist;
i.e., Quran itself, and no change in when #P narrates, words may be changed but not
words of Quran meaning
Hadith – Wahi would come to #P and was put into his heart. At that time, nothing beats memorizing but was
written. In early Islamic years, Hazrat Umar (ra)’s sister. At the time of #P, said can’t write down any hadith as
he didn’t want to mix up the Quran and Hadith = was an order. Later, after Hijrah, in Medina when Muslims
matured and knew the difference of revelation, then #P allowed for hadith to be recorded. Written word can be
wrong, but not memorization.
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Hazrat Umar Abdul ibn Aziz, the great grandson of Hazrat Umar ibn Al-Khattab (ra) ordered first official
collection of hadith so many Hadith books compiled and graded i.e., weak/strong hadith.
ALSO COVERED CONTENT ON 30TH OCTOBER 2019
Hadith classified according to narrator number i.e. how many people are saying the same thing? So, if large
number of people saying same thing, then hadith.
Number of narrators = chain. Before it says, there are 3 to 5 names before him and then refers to #P.
So a chain of people reciting a hadith, the chain = a sunnad. No sunnad, then not accepted as hadith.
2 Types of Hadith (MK)
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The book has 261 Hadith and then 2 other chapters about the prophesies of the #P. Will try to cover ~100 hadith. This
book is a shorter form called “Mishtaqal Misaab” and written by Imam Tabbari.
PROPHETS
Our deen is from Rasool Muhammad (saw). He’s a Rasool and Nabi
Rasool = messengers/umbiya with scripture.
Nabi = prophet. All prophets sent by #A are called umbiya because they pass #A message.
Some chosen umbiya are given a scripture, but not all came in a book e.g., Rasool Ibrahim so used to write on
stone, but they were short. Musa (as) wrote on stone.
Umbiya that received a book or scripture are called Rasools.
4 books = Zaboor (Dawood as), Injeel (Isa as), Torah (Musa as), Quran (#P),
Start of the book says #P is #P was a person called Jawame al Kalim = comprehensive speech and he was
“jawame il hikam” and his speech was the ‘jewels of wisdom’.
Why is he called “jawal alay salam”? Because his speech was wahi. He could express sentiment with very few
words. Today, we need many words to get ideas across; his duas had the capacity to encompass everything and it
takes many books to explain the content. Example dua said in class encompasses this world and the hereafter. We
need to understand that everything #P said was Wahi i.e. #A’s speech/words, that’s why he had comprehensive
speech. Hence, his speech was so vast and eloquent yet concise and precise and hence no comparison. We
should try to be like him so we need to love him, respect him and give due to his honour.
Durood. It is wajib upon every Muslim to utter Durood on #P at least one. Whenever #P’s name mentioned in a
gathering, we should say Durood at least once during that gathering. And if you do it every time, even better as #P
said, “whoever sends him blessings on me once, #A sends his blessings on him 10 times”
Today we don’t respect and honour #P enough, partly because we don’t understand him anymore as we don’t study
his life. The love in our hearts for him is not what it should be. The biggest proof when seeing how the ummah
reacts to him.
Example 1: Pakistani’s response (retaliation) to anyone saying against #P by burning cars. Reference when #P
had opposition in Mecca, he and his ~40 followers did not lift a finger to anyone, so no revenge or retribution.
So, when armies went to conquer lands, it was completely for #A’s sake. When actual jihad took place, did
not harm the priest, women and children. Can protest, but not with intention of fitna or destruction and should
be done within boundaries of Shariah and Sunna.
Example 2: Reference life of Sahaba. When they did something wrong, they were corrected and then corrected
themselves.
Hadith um Mimbar – Gibrael (as) went to visit to #P. He was climbing up to the mimbar to give a speech. As he
was on the first step, he stops and says Ameen. Stops on 2nd and 3rd steps each time and says Ameen. When Sahaba
asked him why he did this, #P replied:
“Gibrael (as) said I am going to make a dua and you have to say Ameen. May that person be destroyed who sees
the month of Ramadan but does not make use of it. [Ameen] May that person be destroyed who hears
your name and does not say Salalah ho wa alay asalam. [Ameen] May be that person be destroyed, who
finds both his parents in old age and does not to enough to serve them in order to reach paradise. [Ameen]”
Azkar daily for students of Nur ul Ilm [prev class]
1. Istighfaar x 100 times in the morning and evening
2. Send Durood x 100 times in the morning and evening
3. Should read some Quran every day, whether 1 page. Must read with meaning
4. Murak’aaba – where you focus on heart and know your heart is saying #A
This book says “Albaba aloo” and the author says “in it is a collection of words and springs of wisdom and it is
beautiful advices.”
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HADITH #1 - START: THE PROPHET (SAW) SAID “INDEED THE ACTIONS ARE
WITH INTENTIONS AND SURELY A MAN IS WHAT HE INTENDED. THEN WHO
INTENDED HIS MIGRATION (HIJRAH) TOWARDS ALLAH AND HIS RASOOL, THEN
HIS MIGRATION IS FOR ALLAH AND FOR HIS RASOOL. AND THOSE WHO DID HIS
MIGRATION/HIJRAH TOWARDS THE WORLD/ DUNIYA OR A WOMAN, HE EARNS IT.
THEN HE MARRIES HER (THE WOMAN). THEN HIS MIGRATION IS WHAT HE
MIGRATED FOR.
[Copied from the book: The Prophet (saw) ~ said, "Actions are only according to intentions, and a person receives
only what he has intended. Therefore, whoever's emigration is for Allah and His Messenger, his emigration is [truly]
for Allah and His Messenger. And whoever's emigration is for any worldly gain or a woman he is to wed, then his
emigration is for what he emigrated]
[New info for 2019 class, shorter version] Hadith 1:
Inama – Kalima alhamar. Whenever a hadith starts with “inama”, means the words that come after it are extremely
important. Translates like “Indeed.”
The words Bismillah Arahman-niRaheem = words that differentiates between a dis/believer. We start with the words
of #A. Disbeliever does the same action, may do something similar in terms of worship/words,
Inimal.. is the start of hadith = this is kalima hal hasaar, used for hassar. When #P says this, then saying pay attention
to what I am saying.
Intentions / Niyaa
Every day, we all wake up and go about our day and we make breakfast for children and take them to school, iron
clothes for our children and husbands, pick them up, cook meals… all that we do during the day should have an
intention. We are people of no intention. We don’t do “niyaa” then how you can expect reward?
Difference between Muslims and non-Muslims. It’s in the heart and not on the tongue. In Pakistan, we taught to
say on tongue, probably as a reminder to make niyaah. Niyaa is a feeling of the heart. If it is not brought to the
tongue, it’s OK not mandatory except in exceptional cases.
The difference with Muslims is that ‘everything we do, we should start with Bismillah” so that whatever we do is
for the sake of #A. We must have an intention that we do everything for #A’s sake, extremely important. So we
train ourselves to say Bismillah at the start of all our action.
Challenge is we don’t mean our words after awhile. Alhumdulillah = all praise is for #A, thank you for giving me
this ‘thing’ so must have an understanding of what is being said
Everything has an intention.
Example: a scholar that uses the land cruiser for the sake of #A. His intention was to keep his kids safe during
their car rides, transport them for Islamic class, buy groceries for the Islamic institution… intention is for #A’s
sake. Compare with if intention is to show off, then it would be good intention. We can come same
gathering, but with different intentions.
If Amal is like prayer, can only have one intention and will be rewarded for them.
A nafli action can have multiple intentions… going to gatherings, want to learn to know #A, teach others, become
a hafiz of hadith so will be rewarded for all of them.
Definition: Intention = matter of the heart
Defined as something that’s in the heart, like knowledge/feeling. And it does not need to be brought to the
tongue. When you stand for the fard prayers, when heart knows your intention then not necessary to put on the
tongue. People put on tongue as a reminder only, but not necessary.
Our profit and loss in this life is according to our intentions. Suppose a situation is where you decide you are going
to do something.
Example: make intention to reward beggar from next pay check. When pay check arrives, you remember and
you give the money to the beggar. Another person does the same intention, but doesn’t have the money to
give as has unexpected household expenses, then what to do if it’s hard to pay? Actions are according to your
intentions.
[EXAM QUESTIONS]
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Now question arises, now ‘what if there’s an action starts with Ikklaas (pure intention/sincere) but then intention
starts erodes as people praising you, then over time the intention starts to mix. Is that intention still
acceptable?
If feeling that came into heart and came for just a second, but does not stay in your heart and you continue
prayer like you normally do, then action is valid
Different opinions: If entertain and allow to rest in your heart f
o Opinion 1: Imam ibn Ahmad Humbal and Hasan Basry – they say we hope this action will be
accepted/rewarded by #A as initial niyah was pure
o Opinion 2: Imam Ibn Jalil ibn tabiri (ra) but depends on the action that you were doing (e.g.,
farayd such as fasting, hajj, they are valid. But like other naffli ibadaat, (teach, learning, charity) if
not free from ostentation from throughout action, then this action is invaid.
3 Differences of Opinions on Riyaa (FSM)
i. If feeling of riyaa is fleeting and did not let it persist on heart or mind i.e. doing for sake of #A, then the action is
valid, so no harm in it.
ii. If riyaa stays with you and you entertain it, and start to self-praise
Example: teaching orphans, then Imam Ahmad ibn Humbal (ra) – the Hambali school – and Hassan Basry (ra)
say that: “we still hope the person will be rewarded based on his initial intention”.
iii. Ibn Jarir al-Tabarih (ra) – if riyaa mixes in and stays for a long time, then still reward according to the action.
Example: for fard acts (fasting, prayer, hajj), as long as niyaa was pure initial, then the action remains valid.
But if action is nafli ibadaat (rewardable acts), giving sadka, zikr etc, then your intention is not valid as no
mixing.
Bukhari Sharif: #P said that a scholar will be forwarded to #A on the day of judgement, and he will be asked “why
did you seek knowledge?” The scholar’s answer will be “for you.” #A will reply “you are a liar (Qazib)” you
sought knowledge as you wanted honor of people, wanted respect of people, wanted to teach people. You are a liar.
I rewarded you on earth according to your intention and there is no reward for you at this time and he will be
thrown into the fire. Then a martyr Shaheed will be brought forward to #A and will ask him why did you do
jihaad? And the man will say for Him. Then #A will say Qazib, you are liar. You did it, the next person did it and
you were scared people said you were coward. You struggled for them, and not for my sake. Now your
destination is the hellfire. The third person who was a very generous person and gave a lot of charity. The person
says for the sake of #A. #A called him a liar. Said he gave openly so that others would know how charitable he is.
He will be thrown into the hellfire.”
The first people according to this hadith, who will be the people of the hellfire, are not going to be the drug
addicts but the insincere… Alim who claimed was teaching for #A, the Shaheed (not courageous, only
followed others and not #A) who died for #A and the generous person (showed off wealth) who did something
for #A.
Try to make multiple intentions for nafli ibaadah
So, if you are rewarded, then rewarded multiple times
The #P said I am not scared for my Ummah for doing Shirk Akbar (start to worship an idol), but fear for Shirk
Askbar when you beautify your prayers for the sake of others. Huge challenge, so need to fix. This is Riyaa.
Example: control anger in public, but not privately, and this person is a hypocrite. Point is hard are we struggling
against the hypocrisy.
Be truthful to oneself so can deal with these spiritual diseases. Always refresh your niyaas as a source of
reminder.
#P could never do anything wrong. He was still protected as he was a prophet. We have to choose what is right or
wrong.
Some of these hadith are about society and then move to spiritual diseases.
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1,000 niyats. BUT not true for qa’dah or fard actions, only ONE niyya for the sake of #A. Multiple niya, multiple
rewards. Example 2: For nafl namaaz, can make niyaa for family, friends, rizk,
5. The #P said: “I am not scared that my Ummah will do Shirk Akbar (larger) but scared they will do Shirk Asghar
(smaller).” The smaller shirk = #P said: “When you beautify your prayer for the sake of others.”
6. The scholars say that the niyaa of ibadat, the intention of worship is of 3 types:
1. Fard ibadaat that requires a fard intention. Without an intention, that fard is
zero. If you do not have niyaa that faryd, then it’s not a fast anymore.
3. Niyaa for those worships that you make to let yourself know who you’re
doing it for.
Example: Making a niyya to remind yourself who you’re doing it for, like
charity so for zakat, must have intention else it becomes invalid and becomes
sadaqah. But if you go to marketplace and you give them charity, and make
niyya before giving, then reward is immense.
[Copied from the book: 1. The Religion (Islam) is to act with sincerity (Muslim).]
Learning points: deen definition/ 5 sincerity of intention (APBLM)
Deen translation = the way we lead our life.
Nasiyah = will give beneft. In this context, nasiyah will bring you benefit.
#P says should lead life with sincerity, ikklaas. And should be done with different types of people according to
their rights.
Sincerity/Nasiyah of Intention (5) -APBLM
1ST sincerity with your deen is with #A: sincerity should be reflected in EVERYTHING we do, so it becomes
ibaadat. We are doing everything for His sake, so fulfilling first. Quran, says “Indeed my prayer/salah, my
sacrifice, my life and my death are for #A, Who is the Lord of the world.” Innafalati wa sukiyya…
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There is no obedience for the creation, obedience is first to Creator/Khaliq. So, if someone is encouraging you to
do something outside of Shariah, then do not follow them. Do not hurt others, use hikma in how you talk to
them with love. Note, how to deal with parents.
Non-Muslims do everything for themselves, and we do everything with #A’s remembrance.
When start something, say Bismillah easily. Note, cannot say Bismillah before a ‘bad’ task e.g., watching TV.
First two sincerity of intention are ranked as #A and #P.
Sincerity should be reflected in Biggest way for sincerity to the #P is do
1st: #A
2nd: #P
Quran: "That indeed my prayers, sacrifices, Only 1 prophet who'll intercede at the
my living and my dying, is for #A, the beginning. At least trying to follow him.
Lord of the Worlds." Out of the 100 hadith covered in class, min.
Our prayers, sacrifices e.g., sadka, zakat, 70 are directly linked to our life and
zabiha animals, is in preparation for death. implementation.
A dua is for ghair, so our end will be with Example: Avoid raw onions before going to
ghair. masjid, and also scares the angels away so
Our doing is such, is that we sow what we just avoid them
reap, we will be happy.
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Look for good points for other person, stop yourself from doing bad (haya) and remember, strive to give the right
of the other person.
IKHLAQ: Every believer should have Haya and is part of our Ikhlaq (morals/virtues)
PROPHET TRAIT: In Tirmidihi Sharif, 4 things common in all prophets and one of them is Haya and that’s how
strong it has been through all the Shariahs.
Hazrat Musa (as) when he left Egypt, he arrived in Madian and goes to a water well where 2 women getting
water; he says to them they he will carry the water and will walk ahead of them, and told them to walk behind
to direct him. He’s watching modesty of his eyes –} modesty of nazaar. The women directed him to the
house of Hazrat Shoaib (as).
ISLAM CHARACTER: Syed Anas (ra) said: “Indeed every deen has a character, and the character of Islam is
haya”.
JANNAH: Hazrat Aisha (ra) says “whoever does not have Haya, then he does not have a deen! And whoever
does not have Haya in this duniya, he will not enter into Jannah”. No haya, then not complete, need a sound heart.
To understand, Haya is an integral part of our deen. Not just modesty i.e. niqab, hijab, but from definition of “state
from comparing benefits and shortcomings. That state will help us from doing wrong things.
IMAAN: #P says: “Haya is from Imaan, and Imaan will take people into paradise.” (sign from the people of Imaan
is haya. If you lack haya, then you are lacking in your imaan.
LOYALTY: “Immodesty is from disloyalty (wal jiffah), and disloyalty is in the fire.” The disloyalty is to #A.
Our first Haya is with #A, as He watches us at all time and so we need to view our state at all times and must
understand we need to be better. People forget this, so will bribe, lie and cheat or be disloyal as no awareness of
#A. If you have feeling that #A is among us, we lack in the awareness of #A.
[Copied from book: 3. A person will be with whom he loves (Bukhari, Muslim).]
Learning points: Shan-e-Nazool vs Gharood / Revelation reasons (JLF) / Blessed People (PTSR)/Train
Shan-e-Nuzool = reason of revelation of an ayat/surah in Quran.
In a hadith, revelation called Shan-e-gharood. It was revealed for a reason.
This is a shan-e-nuzool.
3 Reasons Hadith Revelation Referenced (JLF)
1. First reason of revelation: Once a *Sahabi came to #P and asked: “when is the day of judgement?” #P instead of
answering him, asked him a counter question: “what have you done for this day of judgement?” The Sahabi
replied that he hasn’t prepared anything, “except that I love #A and I love his Rasool #P”.” #P replied with this
hadith (A man will be with whom he loves) “they will be gathered with them on the Day of Judgment.” The
sahabi was overjoyed to listen to this reply.
*Note: Ref: these people come from non-believing backgrounds when they were burying their daughters,
drinking, listening to music etc.
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If you love the righteous, then you’ll love the #P and will be in the company of them. So it’s so important to have
good company.
2. Second reason of revelation: Another Sahabi said to #P, “"0 Messenger of Allah, what do you say about
someone who loves a group of people, but is unable to join them?" #P replied with this hadith. So, if you love
a group of people and you want to be a part of them, then you will be with them in Jannah. So, it does not
matter if your actions are like the people of jamaat, you will be with the people that you love on the day of
judgement.
SIDE BAR story about intention: A woodcutter who was busy in time of Imam Ahmad Humbal (ra) (4th imaam),
had a large family and worked long hours, every night that he was so exhausted, would immediately fall asleep.
One day he saw Imam Humbal (ra) on his rooftop lost in his nawafil prayer. The woodcutter was too tired to stay
up to pray, but before he went to sleep, he would say to #A, “please let me pray like Imam Humbal (ra)”. The
Woodcutter eventually died and one night, he came into someone’s dream where he was with Imam Humbal (ra).
The astonished man goes the next day goes to the woodcutter’s wife to ask what her husband did as he saw him in
his dream. She said whenever he came home every evening, he would say (had a wish): “Ya Allah make me like
that man on that roof.” He wanted to have tawfiq of #A like Imam Humbal (ra). This story illustrates sincere
intention.
3. Third reason of revelation: Once a Sahabi went to #P and made effort to see him every day – day begins and ends
by looking at your face. I make a special effort to see your face. He said to him: “I look at your blessed face
every day but after we die, what will happen? How will I meet you?” He thought they are not on the same
intention. And when he asked this, #A sent an ayat of Quran: “Whoever obeys #A and obeys the #P, then he
will be blessed with the company of those #A has blessed/had mercy on.” (Prophets, truthful, martyrs,
righteous)
*Note: People #A blessed (PTSR): (a) prophets, (b) truthful/sadiqeen ones, (c) the Shuhudaa and the (d) righteous
ones.
o At this time, #P, said “you will be with the people you love.” So, we have to become people who love the
ones who are on the path to #A and hope we will be attached with them.
o Train Concept: A train has First, Business and Economy class carriages.
We have to believe that we cannot expect to be in First class (the 4 groups stated earlier), and hope to get on
business class, or with the righteous people.
Last train carriage is the ‘garbage’ where we’ll likely be! Good news is we all reach the destination as it was
attached to first class, so we should have hope that our worship and deeds are what they are and because we
hooked up with the first 4 groups, may #A bring us to the same destination!
Difference of opinion with scholars about “the people who you love”:
1) You will be of the same rank; 2) be able to meet this person very, very often.
Dua: Alahooma inni asaluka yahobba bay hooka XXXXXX
Translation: Oh Allah I beg of You Your love. And the love of those who love You. And I ask of you such deeds
that will bring me Your Love.”
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Qamar definition = alcohol specifically made from grapes VERSUS the lab-made ones. It covers your intellect and
cannot distinguish between haram and halal. 4 Types of Alcohol
1. Alcohol derived from grapes is haram.
2. Synthetic alcohol, lab-derived alcohol is NOT haram, even if medicines e.g. Strepsils, so careful about consuming
things especially imported foodstuffs.
3. Perfumes: DNET written on boxes so means no alcohol and cannot be put on body or clothes. It is haram.
XXX
ALCOHOL IS FORBIDDEN/HARAAM (other examples, RIBA, spiritual diseases of the heart --backbiting,
gossiping). There are ayats that clearly state they are acceptable though. We’ve been given 2 blessings from #A:
a) QULB our heart, though the one in Quran given structure, also means to turn and change, and heart can do that.
So #A said I hold the Qulb of a man in my fingers and can turn, so we must ask for Tawfiq and dua to ask from
#A to keep us in Imaan “Rabana latoozil, batayna, XXXXXX”
b) INTELLECT. Alcohol messes one’s intellect, clouds judgement and unable to choose between halal and haram.
Anything with capability with intoxication that are highly disliked, “Makhruuh al Tahrimi” is close to haram but
not haram
Example: cigarettes, hashish, cocaine, drugs, hazing, even ‘drunk’ on movies. Note anything out of moderation
that takes you away from #A such as praying (no TV or movies).
[SIDEBAR]
How did alcohol become haram? (Nahal/Baqarah-prohibition/Nisar-salah/Maeda-forbidden)
Refer to story below. In the beginning, ayat in Quran came at time when alcohol was a practice and a custom and at
that time, no ayats had prohibited yet. Qhamar being forbidden came in 4 steps:
Step 1
At the time, [Ayat #1] Surah Nahal Ayat 67 shared, where #A says: “and from the fruits of date palms and
grapevines, you obtain intoxicants (“sakaraan”), and a good provision”.
At this time, Sahaba asked #P about Sakaar vs Qhamar in the ayat. Why? #A didn’t make alcohol haraam yet.
Step 2
So #P then referred to [Ayat #2] Surah Baqarah ayat 219, #A says: “that they ask about Qhamar and Maysiri
(gambling), say to them, that in both (gambling/alcohol) there are great sin and benefit for the people, and their sin
is greater than the benefit.”
Qhamar are of benefit, but the sin is greater… Still no alcohol prohibition yet.
Step 3
After this, Syed Abdur Rehman ul Rauf had a dinner party with Sahabas, and during this gathering alcohol was
consumed (still not forbidden yet) and at maghrib time, they had to pray but Imam of that Jamaat recited Surah Al
Kafirun, he forgot some words (i.e., the “Lahs” which means “no”) so meaning changed
Immediately after that, #A sent [Ayat 3] Surah Nisar Ayat 43, “Oh you who believe, do not go near Salah/prayer
when you are intoxicated”
This is the first ayat starting with alcohol prohibition – but did not use the word haraam. Still not fully prohibited
but becomes difficult as salah is 5 times/daily plus Tahajjud. But alcohol would become limited to consume.
But only time they can consume alcohol is after Isha so drinking had reduced greatly.
Step 4
At another dinner party after Isha, Syed Saad ibn Waqaas (ra) who consumed alcohol, was reciting a poem and he
mocked the Al Ansaar (helpers) where the message was where Al Quraishi have done much but Ansaar have not
done much. A young Ansaar is at the same gathering and also slightly intoxicated, picked up a camels’ jawbone,
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and hit Saad ibn Waqaas (ra) on head with a camel bone and injured him. Saad ibn Waqaas (ra) went to complain
to #P
And now conferred to #A and now sends down [Ayat #4] Surah Maeda Ayat 90 forbidding alcohol & 3 others,
saying: “Oh you who Believe in Qhamar (refers to alcohol from grapes), Maysir (gambling), gathering (stone
altars), drawing lots of arrows (specific game of dare at the time) are all filth and these are from the actions of
shaytaan. (says words of Ammar) You must all stay away from this so that you will be the successful ones.”
Sura Maeda, ayat 90: “Oh those who believe, indeed alcohol and gambling and stone alters and the drawing of lots
of arrows are filth/rijsoon from the amal/work of shaytan. Stay away from it so that you may be successful.”
#A is saying that indeed alcohol and other things are filth and the work of shaytan, stay away and say successful.
Still not forbidden.
EXTRA FROM LAST YEAR NOTES: When last Ayat came down, the reaction was interesting. Usually, when
someone there with #P when revelation, would tell Qaityeems (writer) of the Quran, then there was a crier that
went around the city and announced and the Sahaba Ikraam at the time, right there and then, let go of their goblets
and the streets of Medina flowed of alcohol that day. NEED TO MAKE EFFORT to change, especially when
made intention, don’t allow others to mess with your Nafs as no-one will encourage you. People have a lot of
arrogance, even done unconsciously, and don’t like change towards the Deen. Refer to Surah Al Naas, “that the
people who put waswasaa (whispers) is from shaytaan and from the humans.”
[Copied from book: 4· Calmness and patient deliberation is from Allah and haste is from Satan (Tirmidhi).]
Before you do something/action, you should think about it before you do it
Your calmness is from #A and hastiness is from shaytan. Calmness is a sign of a Mo’min.
Before you do any action/amal from tongue or limb, think about two types of consequences:
1. Duniya – effect in worldly affairs. Example: when hurt someone, you will do prayer ‘at the last minute’
2. Akhira – separate consequences. You can be punished in the hereafter.
Before you do an action, you can do the following: istkikhara or istishara.
Seek guidance
Step 1: ISTIKHARA: ask #A to guide you for what is the best for you. Istikhara is a masoom dua and should be
done for self.
o If in dilemma and seeking #A’s guidance, pray 2 rak’ahs and recite dua of istikhara and in that dua ask #A
“please guide me towards for what is best for me in this duniya and the akhira and keep away from me this
action if it’s not good for this duniya and the akhira.
o Lots of people think there’s a dream, but no dream. You only have to listen what your heart says is right and
start doing that action. Because you have done Istikhara, #A will guide you to do that action which is right for
you.
o If that action results in a calamity, then know that it’s qadr, #A had written that for you and so
destined/ordained. Results are not always good, but irrelevant as we did with ghair.
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o Istikhara can be done as many times as you like, no limit daily etc. Example: selling a house.
“Shariah qadr” = start to do Istikhara. Keep doing until your heart is content on a decision.
o If on mensturation, then just read the istikhara dua only then.
Step 2: ISTISHARA: from mashwara word, Istishara, or guidance, sought from the righteous people (=follow
Deen and Shariah) who will guide you best for #A’s sake. So, know Muslims who know the Shariah and the
Sunna to guide on a decision that are within the bounds of Sunna and Shariah.
o If you have someone you trust, and you know they follow sharia and sunna, then you should seek istishara
from them as that will put bara’kah in the action. S/he is a wali of #A so if you ask his/her mashwara, then
should believe those actions are coming as a result of what #A wants you to do i.e. the will of #A. Better to
do istikhara first with Istishara, but no difference as depends on the situation as to when you can do first. As in
the decision, bara’qah will be given
o Shorter dua – when need to make instant decision for something there and then: “Oh #A, choose/select for me
option A or option B.”
Hastiness
Hastiness is from shaytan – takes bara’kah away as doing without thinking or understanding the consequences
When something happens and everyone goes into ‘crisis’ mode… the world does not end! It’s fine to slow down.
Stay away from haste.
o Example 1: Argumentative statement from someone who wants to argue about religion, best to hold tongue.
o Example 2: Sania bajji to drive to school via a different route!
How to get calmness?
Calmness via zikr of #A.
#A says in the Quran: “That the ones who believes and their hearts are peaceful with the remembrance of #A, so
listen so that the hearts will find peace in the remembrance (zikr) of #A.”
Itminan = peace/sukoon. Lots of people don’t have Itminan at homes.
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irrelevant that impacts someone’s life, then backbiting. So like the groom is currently having an affair with
other women. If don’t ask specific information, then don’t mention anything.
o c. Get business reference – when someone seeking character reference, must be truthful. When person goes
into business relationship, it’s like a marriage as they are going into character, about current status.
HADITH #11: THE ONE WHO INITIATES THE SALAM IS FREE FROM ARROGANCE
Al badioo bissalaa me bareeyoo ama nal kibri hee
[Copy from book: 15. The one who initiates the salaam is free of pride (Bayhaql, Shu'ab aliman).]
Arrogance is called kibbr and also oojab, same EXCEPT angle of vanity (see below).
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Cure of Arrogance
1. INITIATE DUA
The one who initiates the Salaam is free from arrogance. If we’re waiting for our helper to do
Salam, then she is free from arrogance and we are not. What’s the reality? However, exception is with
men, especially with non-mehram so can walk by, not considered rude.
So, when you see someone, say “Asalaama oh alaykaam” = may the peace of Allah swt be upon you
“wa Rehmatullahi wa Baraqaatahoo” = and his Rehmat/mercy be upon you and his Baraqat/blessings
be on you.
Do not need to initiate with a foreigner as it's a term used between Muslims.
2. REPLY
Reference: is once someone gifts you with something, you need to return it.
Replying to a salam is wajib
Best reply: “Walaykam asalam wa Rehmatullah wa Baraqaatahoo”.
Hadith: At time of #P, when Aishah (ra) was talking to someone, noticed ppl responding with
“Assaaam alayakam” = death and curse upon you. Just say “Wa Alaykam” = and on you
3. ETIQUETTE/TIMING
Should say in full Salam – should not say/type AOA. So must write in full.
Younger ones should say salaam to older ones -- but older ones should also do first so as to teach
them i.e. teach them to initiate. Must keep reminding them
Walking into a gathering – last one joining the gathering should say salaam. EXCEPTION: where
something going on e.g., talk, lecture, then don’t say Salaam as takes focus away, then Makkruh, as
disruptive. If give Salaam, then Wajib to give reply which is disruptive. However, if gathering like a
Coffee morning (gupshup), then can say Salaam then no issue.
If 2 people in conversation and appear to be discussing a private matter, do not interrupt – say
Salaam later when they are done
When people eating, better to avoid as wajib to reply and they may have food in mouth
When people in process of worship – better to avoid as they should not be attentive towards you if in
Ibaadat, then the focus is with #A
[Copy from book: 8. A believer is simple and noble and a transgressor is deceitful and ignoble (Abu Dawud,
Tirmidhl).]
#P describing the qualities of a believer and a sinner.
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Momin qualities
Because on a path of #A, busy purifying himself i.e. not worried about others around him/her. So, leaves him/her to
be innocent as trying to do good so only sees good in others.
o Example: If experience swimming, know what water feels like and how waves created, so one who has never
cannot understand the experience.
o Example 2: Someone who confides with someone that they are homosexuals, so difficult for Momin to
understand the feelings/reason.
o A Momin is a mirror of another Momin. Means that if you can see the faults of others, then means you can
recognize the other person’s fault
o So, if you see others’ faults, then means you have it so try to fix it in yourself.
Tries to remain consistent. Ghirmooh = gullible/naïve/simple. Person believes in the best of people and cannot see
the bad in them. Inherently he is naïve and innocent. They don’t expect ‘bad things’ as they are Momin, expect
everyone else also. Innocence reasons:
o Doesn’t know about sins as never experienced so keeps Will come to
o He is Noble, so keeps own promise like returns money borrowed. Doesn’t do anything degrading to himself
or others; lives with nobility. Language used is not foul, actions are good. He has an inherent humbleness in
him and nobility, as can see goodness in him.
Momin can be innocently tricked as noble. Momin is smart and doesn’t get bitten twice with business transaction
Example: taken for a ride once, but next time he should know not to be made a fool of again so naïve doesn’t
mean being stupid. Should still interact nicely as sin is bad, not the sinner
Sinner = Faajr
= someone who is deceitful and disgraceful. He cheats people and does those things that are wrong. Wants
everything for himself. If sinner, becomes dishonorable. He lacks in his connection with #A. He is not worried
about his akhira, only worried about this duniya. If you sin, a dot darkens your heart, and when you sin again,
another spot is added. Eventually one sins so much, that his/her dark upon his heart. Momin’s when they sin, they
do tauba so the dot is removed. He goes so far away, that he does not come back.
We should be focused on the akhira because that’s our reality. So, in this duniya, give them those rights.
Our test is about the khabbar and the akhira. Shaytaan also tests us in a lot of ways, so says to people ‘just do it
once, and then says ok’.
Example: hijabi decides to take hijab off for the wedding, battling with nafs. During that time, you sinned
knowingly as acknowledged it was wrong and implemented for certain period of time and you fall.
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Recognize we ask dua from #A as we humans are weak, not supposed to be strong. When we think we are strong,
then arrogance takes us away and our humility is at the highest peak.
Make a dua like a fakir. Don’t be scared to cry! Your time between you and #A. We always ask #A for all big
things, but also ask #A for small things, even salt. #A can give you anything and everything you want, but we
doubt in Him.
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o Then he says “Lowest of this branch of imaan, is to remove the harm from the path” Example: remove a stone
on the path is to remove harm to others.
o And #P said: “And Haya is a branch of imaan”. #P talked about no. 1 the highest and the lowest is 60, so then
58 other branches. #P doesn’t mention any other of the other branches except haya.
o If you’re not in a state of Haya all the time, then you’re in disobedience to #A.
#P said: “If you leave (tastiyah) Haya, then it doesn’t matter (do what you wish).” He says you left everything i.e.,
do whatever you want. If we let go of Haya, then we leave Islam. These are very strong words so we must be
people of haya, that we have guilt in ourselves. Teachers have to be careful to give Hikma, as implementation has
to be done carefully.
Haya Definition (RIG PLIJI)
A lot of people think Haya is modesty, covering up but that’s part of it but not actual meaning/true definition.
GUILT: Another awliya of #A is Hazrat al-Qasim al Junayd al-Baghdadi (ra) said: “That Haya is that you look at
your blessings and you look at the takseer (shortcomings), and you look at yourself and the state between these
two. When compare these 2 states, that emotional state that you arrive, that is called haya.” Should review your
own blessings and look at your own shortcomings e.g., disobedience from #A, that ‘guilty’ feeling is haya.
The #P said “that if you leave haya, then do whatever you want.”
Haya helps to connect a person to deen. We do what #A wants us to do, according to shariah and sunnah,
according to rules and regulations. We’re not animals!
3 Categories of Haya (SAU)
Haya ul Shareeh – shariah Haya ul Aqli – intelligence Haya ul Urfi – culture
Top state of the three There are certain things that your If your
To have that state to know intellect tells you that are good, culture/surroundings
what shariah says is and what is bad. or environment says
forbidden, what is allowed Haya ul Aqli cannot supersede that “something is
and your remain within that of Haya ul Shareeh which good, then good as long
the boundaries. takes precedence. as doesn’t go against
Therefore, reason why we Example: watch TV and ask if Shariah.
must have ilm (knowledge) forbidden/haraam – as TV never Example: in Pakistan,
so we know what’s the existed during #P times (no the urf is to eat with the
boundary. Sunna), so need to use Qiyaas hand. But people don’t
If one abstains what is using reference below realize that rice is a food
forbidden and what is When sahaba asked #P about that #P never ate, so if
allowed, then can stay alcohol and gambling, #A said eat rice with spoon,
Person who is opposite a in answer “in both of them there then totally fine as not
person following haya ul are both sinful. And there is some going against Shariah or
Shareeh is a sinner = Fasiq. benefit the people. And their sin Sunna.
is bigger than the benefit” What we should
Principle i.e. you may have understand is what is
something in front of you that’s permissible and not and
beneficial, but if harm is bigger remain within the
than the benefit/good, then avoid. bounds.
Same for TV, the Fuqaha would
apply these rulings. Whenever
the harm is more than the good
e.g., TV documentaries, but Haya
Shareeh will tell you it’s bad.
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Learning = some children are introverts and others extroverts. Encourage introverts and don’t tell them they’re not
confident.
[Sidebar question from classmate] How wo/men interact in current society? Men are susceptible to
women.
Step 1: Niqaab is the first physical barrier between man and woman. Based on teacher’s experience, most men
will not approach.
Step 2: should have firm demeanor, so women who has to speak to a man with a firmer voice tone and stick to the
subject
Hijaab = barrier between two genders, even within the same room. Haya should be modesty and dressed in a
manner that men cannot tell. This is why the ruling of hijaab – the first rule in Shariah is that women should
remain in their houses. Dress however you like e.g., long skirts, jeans, short sleeves, no issue. But now society,
women have to step out, so the onus falls on the woman to cover up so don’t attract attention.
2. Haya al Albiyat (?)
= you realize you’re #A’s slave. We’re smaller than a grain of sand, but we still have significance for him,
especially when we consider that #A has created the galaxy and solar system and he created us, and #A says: “I am
watching you with a focus”.
Hadith from #P: a man worshipped for 500 years 24/7 and went to jihad in the day and prayer all night. Said
wanted life to be pure and die in a state of sajjdah. When he died, he was picked up in state of sajjdah, and goes to
gates of Jannah, #A says allow my Ulb enter to Jannah because of my mercy. However, the man says “wait a
minute. What you mean by your mercy? Did jihaad all day for your sake and worshipped all night you and always
did good all my life, and never bad. Says I deserve it. That was his thinking. #A ordered the scales and puts all the
man’s deeds on one side and puts the blessing of his eyes on the other and scale then tips in favour of eyes. The
blessing of eyes not sufficient enough. Then man starts to cry and asks #A enter me to Jannah to your mercy.
However, #A said take him to the Hellfire. Only if chance to do good, be grateful that #A gave us the opportunity
i.e., tawfiq of #A.”
Even after praying to #A, still say Astaghfirullah as still don’t do enough.
3. Haya al Ibadaat
= applies to people of highest rank in deen status like Muftis, Sheiks, Ulema, Fuqaha, teachers and students of
knowledge gaining deen. (Students have among the highest ranks for those gaining ilm and angels spread their
wings under our feet as students, from time leave house, be there during learning until they return home. Being
honored by angels.]
Haya of lbadaat – to recognize that even though I may be a person of rank, my ibaadat can never be the kind that
needs to be for #A.
Abu Bakr Sadiq (ra), who was closest to #P, and had highest status after #P, says about him: “I have given back the
favors of everyone, but only #A can give back the favors of Abu Bakr Sadiq”. But despite his rank, Abu Bakr
Sadiq (ra) used to say: “I wish I was an animal, I wish I was a leaf on a tree, I wish I was dust… because I will be
raised up and I will have to give an accounting. How will I account?”
4.Haya al Maklooq
= from creation from around us. Haya al Maqlooq distinguishes between people’s relationships.
o Example: distinguishes a mother from a wife from other women, or a sister from other women, brother from
another man. This haya is from the maklooq
5.Haya al Sattar
Sattar = Haya of man. Whatever is from between his navel and knees = awra = is considered private parts for
man and should never be seen by anyone else i.e., needs to be covered at all times.
o For woman, everything is sattar except hands and feet.
o Imam Shaafi (ra) said to his teacher: “I am not retaining things I cannot remember things.” His teacher said
“you must have done something. Think back to what you did.” He recalled he saw the foot of a woman by
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mistake a few days earlier and took away his memory. So his teacher said make tauba and your memory will
come back.
o When feel guilty, probably means done something bad. Good feeling as can fix
o Boys playing football: length of shorts does not cover down to their knees.
There’s not compromise on farayd. Salah has to be done. We need to be people of strength.
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[Copied from book: 17. Backbiting is worse than unlawful intercourse (Bayhaqi, Shu'ab al iman).
Learning concepts: Zinnah / 3way connection / 4 swords training
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If tongue makes dua, then soul goes into state of gentleness, peace etc. So, the soul vocalizes what the soul feels
and we start to cry.
When our soul/heart is angry, then that image is vocalized as anger and then affects our soul and then repeats.
Soul is disturbed. BE CAREFUL OF WHAT AND HOW WE SAY IT. We must be careful of how we speak.
THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK.
Fuqaha say major problem with the women is tongue. The disease of immodesty is men and so is the disease of the
eyes.
Should listen to sermon/Khuttbah at start of class. Rabbana al-ilma (Allah swt grant us knowledge). Should focus
on every task one does, not towards talking.
4 swords of training (SEEP)
The Auliya say “fight against your Nafs
SLEEP little
EAT little – m oderation
Should be based on need but minimum 4 hours.
W hatever your diet is, do it in moderation and with Do not sleep more than 6 hours.
Hikma.
If sleep more, then deficient in something so fix it!
Eating little is a weapon against spiritual disease of
lust, then people fast – should be the kind that is hard
on your body. So that the body becomes weak so body
cannot do that act.
Fasting must be hard, body is delibitated so won’t think
about lusting.
Hadith: W hoever has control between his two thighs 4 SW ORDS OF
and his two jaws, then controls everything.
TRAINING
Eat, Be patient
Sleep, with
Speak, people when they harm you
Patience
SPEAK little
Keep calm and say “Alhumdulillah” as must have
Spiritual reward of silence. Leave talking done/say something wrong so ‘deserved’ it!
altogether. W e need to be taught a lesson, so they come as tests.
A lot of Barakat in remaining silence. So don’t
speak out of necessity.
Umar (ra) said saw Sadiq (ra) holding tongue w two
fingers, he replied: "That “this will take me into the
hellfire.”
Hazrat Isa (as) asked for him to teach them
something into Jannah, he replied leave talking,
students said cannot do that, so Isa (as) said then
"only say good".
W hen two women sit together and we become quiet,
difficult to maintain. W e feel the need to have to
talk to each other.
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So, when going to Ummrah/Hajj, general apology, especially if done something direct to their face. Then truly
repent, want to say in their face.
If other person does not forgive you, then that apology is between them and #A. There will come a day, when we
seek the forgiveness of #A and he may not forgive you, if you cannot forgive others.
#A said whoever dies after repenting from backbiting is the last to enter Jannah. If he did not repent, he will be the
first into Jahannum. We are not forgiven, we will be held accountable and we will all get Jannat, but when?
What is backbiting?
Definition: You say something about someone in his absence, and if he heard it, would be displeased. And even if
what you said was true, then this is categorized as backbiting.
The Fuqaha say, that if you talk about them would displease them and what you say is a lie, then bigger sin, it’s
“SLANDER” and a major SIN. MUST DO TAUBA.
Everything we do is a major sin, and we don’t realize that it’s a major sin. It’s an impossible stage to reach so need
to be a people of self-awareness. Our reality of life is filled with major sins.
Hadith: Hazrat Isa (as) his disciples were walking together and passed a dead dog. His disciple said: “what a
stinking thing”. Isa (as) said the whiteness of his teeth are beautiful (nice thing to say) and said backbiting has a
greater stench. Students were baffled. Then a pig passed by after a few minutes and Isa (as) and says Salams to a
pig i.e. says go in peace (still a Makloof of #A). Disciples surprised and asked if need to speak to the pig like that.
Then Isa (as) said must always speak what is good. SAY ONLY GOOD THINGS OR MAINTAIN SILENCE.
Q: How to avoid backbiting at majlis/older people
Ans: Try to avoid gatherings where backbiting, and if still have to go, be careful.
Ask #A to forgive in the heart and to protect you. Don’t get up and leave the gathering. Try not to be an active
participant.
Unfortunately, when ‘trying to unburden’ thoughts/issues, then avoid names and try to do hikma. We should be
people who are self-contained who have hikma. Understand that the bearer of ‘bad’ news about you from
someone else that maybe ‘incorrect’.
Husbands are not necessarily the best people to take ‘tales of woes’ as may backfire, and negative situation
created – we should look up to our husbands.
Should do a dua of the oppressed which goes straight to #A. If someone sharing marital issues, remember that
divorce is the ‘most hated thing’ of all the halal things so always direct person to goodness.
How to treat backbiting? (Tafaqar/Reflect)
All of us are Insaan and we make mistakes. Must try to fix it. If think you don’t have it, then disease of arrogance
and pride is there. Treat in 2 ways:
1. Do Tafaqar (stories)/Ghaur on the traditions and the stories. Understand the good deeds of whatever
transpires is transferred to the victim. There is a hadith where “Momins will be standing at the Siraat in the
hereafter, their goods will be piled up very high and then there will come a person who says “this person did bad”
so #A will allow it and enable the victims will take one good deed at a time e.g., take Hajj, Ummrah. There will
still be people who have a grudge and hold something about you. Then when all good deeds run out, then you
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will then take a bad deed from the other person (goes into Manfiq, minus). So depressing after gathering all good
deeds in this Duniya will be gone. WATCH TONGUE, TRAIN NAFS.
2. Reflect on own shortcomings e.g. Jealousy, anger management. #P says “A momin is a mirror of another
momin” = when look at another Momin, see a reflection of who you are e.g. if see anger, then have anger in
yourself so can identify. If true reflection, it’s debilitating enough and go to the point of frozen. Very dangerous
sign.
[Copied from book: 25. Traders will be gathered on the Day of Judgement as transgressors, except those who feared
Allah, were righteous [in their oaths], and spoke the truth (Tirmidhi, Ibn Miija, Diiriml)]
Example: how managed the cost of products. Abu Hanifah (ra) had a cloth shop and one day passing by his shop
on a cloudy, the shopkeeper was told to close. If someone buys cloth thinking another color because of the
darkness of the day, he would be held accountable.
Tauriya = making statement literally but hidden meaning that the receiver doesn’t understand. Should be used for
good reason.
Reference 3 stories of Ibrahim (as) of 3 significant points covering such situations:
(i) asked to go to festival where there was idol worshipping and said was sick to avoid going. Ibrahim (as) said
spiritually sick;
(ii) Said wife was sister when tyrant king taking her away. Ibrahim (as) meant sister in Islam;
(iii) XXXX
Harm of tongue = FALSE PROMISES (LPMCFI)
#P says involved in any of these three, he is a hypocrite
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1. When he speaks, he lies – Hazrat Ismail (as) said gave word to someone to meet him to meet at a place, so stood
at that place for 22 days. Same with #P, stood at a place for 3 days. Imagine amount of Istakamaat (patience) to
wait. We have to understand that if break that trust, esp with timing, is hypocrite.
2. When he promises something, then he breaks it / When trusted with something, he betrays the trust
3. Mockery and ridicule – cannot even say this as joking or teasing. Hazrat Aisha (ra) referring to someone short,
#P said was wrong, was backbiting. Understand that there are ‘identifications’ given within names from the olden
days, then not ridicule
4. Cursing – big problem in our society, e.g. “Toom peh lanaat” – it has an effect. May Allah (swt) take that mercy
away from that person. Imagine how dark someone’s heart is to utter those words. When cursing on someone and
the curse is a lie, then Jannah doors shut, and it bounces back to the person. We can only curse those who were
cursed by Allah (swt) e.g., Abu Lahab, Firawan, Abu Jahal, selected. May Allah (swt) send his curse on the liars,
oppressors, people who do filthy things – CANNOT NAME ANYONE
5. Foul language – Has become the norm, especially if the children are saying this. The words “stupid and idiot” are
no longer considered foul. Other than that, it’s foul language. Your tongue is an imagery of your soul. Must
avoid the wrong cycle otherwise become a cycle of blackness.
6. Iddle chatter – can be used in places for hikma e.g. sitting with mother in law but try to divert the topic as
pointless. Very normal in women.
[Copied from book: 25. Traders will be gathered on the Day of Judgement as transgressors, except those who feared
Allah, were righteous [in their oaths], and spoke the truth (Tirmidhi, Ibn Miija, Diiriml).]
Interesting hadith as #P saying traders gathered on day of judgement with sinners except one with all three qualities
(TRT):
1. Who had taqqwa
2. Were righteous
3. And spoke the truth
Business was encouraged by #P but should be according to standards. Back then, the way trade works, either lying
or you can break your word or these things that don’t make your righteous. We must be in business of trade, but
can easily be lead to lying.
Example: when go to restaurant and ask a waiter which the best food is, the waiter will refer to the previous day’s
leftovers. This will lead you to land among sinners on the day of judgement.
Example: Cloth sellers letting go of stock saying “at below cost” but not true; or knowingly sell bad quality.
BE CAREFUL WHICH WORDS ARE CHOSEN.
[Copied from book: 26. A truthful and trustworthy trader will be in the company of the prophets, the very truthful, and
the martyrs (Tirmidhr, Darimf, Daraqutnf).]
The businessman who is truthful and trustworthy, will be ranked among the umbiyaa, the sidiqueen and shuhaada.
When you are doing the bare minimum (the faryad) is the baseline, then you should know you will get Jannah but it
will not be Firdaws. #P told Sahaba Ikraam and aim for Firdaws and a higher aim than that is #A.
What’s the concept of pleasure if already in Jannah and pure? Enjoyment is anticipation of what is not good for
you… our pleasure in Jannah will be the praise of #A, and that’s what we’ll be loving and enjoying. Our ultimate
reward is meeting and talking to #A. People will be allocated different times, maybe a month, week, day, minute or
never. So #A saying that a trader who manages to remain truthful and trustworthy will attain a very high place.
Ayat of Quran: The people who are granted the highest place in Jannah will obey #A and His Messenger.
#A has blessed the umbiyaa, shuhaada, and sidiqueen – who are sidiqueen? Their outward and their inward are exactly
the same. Whatever is in their heart is reflected on outside and whatever is inside. The person’s whose in/outward
don’t match, they they’re hypocrites. There’s a barrier and blocker. Our outward is we have another face for others.
So, a Siddique has cleansed his heart and is pure.
Quite a deception if you think you can achieve cleansing of the heart on own. Because we use a terminology today
“self-purification” as everyone wants to be their best person and think they can, but delusional. Can manage some
diseases of heart, and those that you can see in your own self. How many diseases can you see in your own heart? But
an onlooker can see a lot more and it’s true. We know our children, husbands and parents. We can see certain things
inside them.
Example: Others can see if you have a problem e.g., jealousy.
The two kinds of people true to you, are your:
a) PARENTS - usually as they continuously do tarbiyaat for your entire life, ultimately want best for you.
Unfortunately, nowadays, parents focus on manners so friends like them vs. teaching for #A sake. Norm in most
houses is use of bad language.
b) TEACHERS – if of ikklaas, their goal/job is to get you to Jannat. Must struggle for it. Concept of Sheikh as well.
We tend to behave in front of our teachers. Teacher invests time/effort and so we give power to teacher, remain
within limits of Shariah and Sunna. Understand, self-purification amount is limited. Need to look into heart =
self-awareness. But must be higher authority over you to say, “be careful,” so develop love and trust of teachers.
So, if do anything wrong, someone can help correct. Fourth step is to be in obedience for #P and #A ultimately
and teacher is just a medium to hook you up and connect to #A – the concept of Sheikh. Teacher leads you to #A
and helps you to remain strong on Deen as end goal is #A.
Taskiyaa of Nafs. Then we’ll work on and put in the higher ranks. Trustworthiness is important e.g., #P waiting for
someone for 3 days. #A gave us limbs, eyes, feet, tongue etc., to be used in the right manner. Note, careful to buy
abridged versions of hadith books, which alters the meaning and breaches trust. BECOME PEOPLE OF TRUST.
Should not have to say “promise” as our word should always be a promise. When take an oath or say “by #A” so have
to say tauba if break oath or may have to pay compensation. If ounce of arrogance in you, cannot even smell the
flowers in Jannah. If not learning, need to work on being humble. Path towards humbleness opens up
HADITH #29: THE SIGNS OF A HYPOCRITE ARE THREE: THAT WHEN HE SPEAKS,
HE LIES; AND WHEN HE PROMISES, HE BREAKS IT; AND WHEN HE IS TRUSTED
WITH SOMETHING, HE BETRAYS IT (THAT TRUST).
Ayatoolmoonaa feqee thaatoon: Idah hada tha kathaba, wa Idtha wa adah aghlafa wa idha wootoo mena ghaana
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[Copied from book: 27. The signs of a hypocrite are three: when he speaks he lies, when he makes a promises he
breaks it, and when he is trusted he betrays the trust (Bukhiirf, Muslim).]
HADITH #30: THE MAJOR SINS (KHABEERAH) ARE: TO ASSOCIATE WITH #A,
DISOBEDIENCE OF THE PARENTS AND THE KILLING OF THE SOUL (ANOTHER
HUMAN BEING) AND THE IMMERSING OATH
Alkhaba neroo: Ishraa koo Bilahi, wa orgkhoo koo wa Iledaynee, wa katloonaf see wal yamenool ghamoo soo
[Copied from book: 28. The major sins are worshipping others besides Allah, disobeying parents, killing a human
being [unlawfully], and the immersing oath (Bukhari, Muslim).]
Learning points: Repentance GIP / Minor sins repentance / 4 major sins / :
Lots of khabirah, but #P pinpointed 4. Major sins are only free from khabbirah, is to do sincere tauba, i.e.
REPENTANCE,
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Minor Sins
Minor washed away by giving charity/saddaqah, Ummrah, prayer, do a good deeds
If minor sins keep repeating or becomes habitual, then turns into a major sins
4 Major Sins
SHIRK - Associate partners with #A. Two types, Shirk al kabbirah – associate any partner to #A.
DISOBEDIENCE TO PARENTS – Jannah lies under the feet of your mother. The Fuqaha say “the mother,
along with the father” is because mother carries the child for 9 months, goes through process of birthing and then
raises child until s/he can stand on own feet. The parents are like our “Rubb”.
In stories of Yusuf (as), people referred to their leaders at the time as their Rubb as one who takes care of us and
nurtures us. So parents share sifth.
Parents’ ranking is after #A, so we cannot be disobedience to our parents BUT as long as parents are saying in
accordance with Shariah and Sunna.
Example: girl who does hijab (or son grows beard) and parents complain. But they are saying anything against
#A’s command. There’s no obedience in the disobedience to the Creator. If parents go against them and must
be done in a manner that DOES NOT instigate anger or make it hard on your parents. Must become soft with
parents, make alternative comments. Point out other good changes that are also made, especially with outward
actions/content. Cannot go against them.
KILLING – cannot kill another human being. If happens, must be Qisas ( )قصاصmeaning "retaliation in kind" or
"revenge”. Cannot take another life
IMMERSING OATH -- can only be taken on #A.
3 Kinds of Oaths (LMG):
1: Yameen-ullah / al-yameen al-laghw – an unintentional oath – when take oath thinking something happened
in the past was true.
Example 1: By A#, your brother has arrived Karachi, but not true.
Example: I take an oath by #A that man came yesterday at 11.30am. But he didn’t’ come, he came at 12pm.
But you were sure as he came based on his information source.
Or take an oath in the future. Both are wrong, but NOT ACT of SINS and no repentance (taubbah/kaffarah)
required.
2: Yameen- Al-Mun'aqidah – an enacted oath – taking oath by #A that ‘something’ will happen in the future.
No tauba/kaffara for it as something that will happen, that one wills/not due.
Example: By #A, I will do xyz.
If he breaks oath, i.e., does not fulfill, then has to pay a Kaffara by priority:
a. Set a slave free;
b. Clothe 10 destitute people (if cannot afford it do next;
c. Feed 10 needy people.
d. If cannot do any of the above, then fast 3 consecutive days.
3: Yameen al-ghamus – an immersing oath – can take an oath on it but are lying about it. Bad oath and does not
require Kafarrah and must repent/ask for tauba.
Example: Attesting a man had an affair with XYZ 10 years earlier. It’s a false oath. [** referred in the book]
6 words/phrases of oath:
1. I swear, must be on #A;
2. I swear by #A;
3. I swear an oath;
4. I swear an oath by #A;
5. I testify;
6. I testify by #A.
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HADITH #33A: A MUSLIM IS WHO OTHER MUSLIMS ARE SAFE FROM HIS
TONGUE AND HIS HANDS.
Al mooslemoo man salemalmoslee moon na mil saneehe wa yadeehee
[Copied from book: 31. A [true] Muslim is he from whose tongue and hand other believers remain safe (Bukhari,
Muslim)]
Musafareen say the tongue is worse than the two.
If you hurt from the hand, the bruises fade away.
But cannot truly forget what has been heard. We should give preference to other people above their own self.
The Ansari had given everything up when came to Medina – and this brotherly love was quoted many times in our
history. We tend to do good for others when it’s easy for us e.g., give leftover to others. We don’t ‘sacrifice’ i.e.,
make it hard on our own Nafs.
Story 1: After war, there was a Sahabi who heard a sahabi was close to death and went running to give water, but
then the first Sahabi could hear someone else crying out asking for water and so said to water-bearer to give to
the other who was also calling out and again this happened. At the end, the third man died so then the Sahabi
went to the 2nd Sahabi, but he died and then went to the first Sahabi, but he died.
Story 2: Ali (ra) and Fatima (ra) were fasting and then gave whatever dates (food for the day) they had for the
beggar at the door. They kept fasting for 3 days as everyday a beggar would come. See the sacrifices!
We should reflect: how many times have we harmed people by our tongues and the hand?
Hitting is wrong in our deen, especially on the face as it’s an honorable part and of respect – if hit the face, it’s
haram and must do Tauba. When “hit” a child,
a. only allowed to hit when teaching Farayad e.g., zakat, fast, pray and not willing to learn
b. child must be 10 years old
c. only can hit with hand, no sticks or belts!
d. hit only on body parts where it does not hurt e.g., on upper arms or legs so pain not as bad;
e. when hit, CANNOT leave a mark on the child e.g., bruise, and that’s abuse.
Must learn WHY one needs to hit a child. Is it because of own anger issues? Must never hit a child when in anger.
Should always be about the Faraydh. If hit regularly, then will not listen to them so must discipline with Hikma.
When something bad happens, need so say “Inna lillahi Wa Inna Ilayhi Raji'un.”
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HADITH #33B: AND A MOMIN IS HE WHO THE PEOPLE TRUST HIM WITH THEIR
BLOOD (LIVES) AND THEIR WEALTH.
Waal moo meenoo man ameenohoonah soo ala demaaehim wa amwa leehim
[Copied from book: 32. And a [true] believer is he whom people trust with their lives and possessions (Tirmidhi).]
HADITH #33C: AND A MUJAHID IS WHO STRUGGLES WITH HIMSELF (OR IS HIS
OWN NAFS) IN THE OBEDIENCE OF #A AND A MUJAHIR (IMMIGRANT) WHO
LEAVES THE WRONGS AND SINS.
Wal moojaheedin man jaa hada nafsohoo fee taa’atee Lillah
[Need to insert Arabic]
#P is defining a Muslim as someone who will not take the wealth or life of another Believer. He considers another
man’s wealth and life.
Hadith in Abu Dawud Sharif: if any Muslim inflicts an injustice on another Muslim, if there’s a pact between them
that they will leave in peace with each other, then he has to answer to #P.
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SB Story 2: Man climbing on a cliff, then stumbled and was about to fall off the cliff so grabbed a bush as he was
fulling, in his moment of “imminent death”, he shouted “Ya Allah help me” with complete ‘Tawaakul’ and a voice
boomed down said let go of the bush. He said “is there anyone else up there’? Point of story, means he didn’t have
complete faith (tawaakul) and should have let go of the bush
We need to get through difficulties with sabr, without losing hope/anger/heart dying inside and that requires spiritual
strength. We must understand that #A knows best, as He is the best of olanners. So, difficulties have “khair”
(wisdom). We are Insaan (people) so we forget that our Tawaakul in #A has to be complete. Our response/reaction to
the calamity is what counts.
Every Thursday night at 10-12pm Pakistan time, 2-hour gathering of all students including online and is about
‘character on building character’. Learning from him is immense barakaat.
b) A (true) Mujahahir (warrior) is who struggles with his Nafs in the obedience of Allah and a (true) Mujahir
(immigrant) is who moves away from wrongs (khattaya) and sins (zenubas)
[Add Arabic]
c) And a (true) immigrant is the one who abandons all that is wrong and sins*
[Copied from book: 34. And a [true] emigrant is he who abandons all wrongs and sins (Ahmad, Bayhaqi, Shu'ab al-
iman).]
*NOTE:
Explanation: There is a foul smell comes out of a person’s mouth when he lies – reaction of an action.
Definition Taqwaa = “we are a people that has to abstain from sins”, which this is a harder battle as it is hard to say
no to music, put on the hijab/niqab/cover, avoid movies/TV, manage families when know something is wrong and
understand what is right, not put our picture up on FB/WhatsApp.
When buried, our bodies deteriorate in the graves due to our sins.
Ref story in Medina: where there was a flood and the bodies of the Sahabas bodies came out of their graves and
they were intact and some even still had fresh blood emanating.
The first thought when something goes wrong and trying to deal with that, first thought that comes is “there are my
sins! It is my fault!” We need to fix those wrongs and trying to improve self and cut down sins in our life.
The Mujahid (true warrior) struggles with his Nafs in the path of #A.
HADITH #24: THE INTELLIGENT (AL KAYSSO) IS HE WHO MAKES HIS NAFS
SUBMISSIVE, AND HE ACTS ( WA AMEELAH BADAUWEE) FOR WHAT WILL COME
AFTER DEATH, (WAL AJEE ZHOO) AND THE STUPID IS HE WHO FOLLOWS THE
DESIRES OF HIS NAFS AND HE HOPES ON ALLAH ( WA TAMMANA AL…).
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Alkhaysoo man dana nofseehoo wa amelah lemah bahdalmao tee wal’aa jeezoo man tabah ah nafsoahoo hwaa ha
[Copied from book: 22. The intelligent one is he who has subdued his lower self and who has worked for what comes
after death, and the stupid one is he who has put his lower self in pursuance of its desires and who has vain hopes
about Allah (Tirmidhi, Ibn Maja).]
The stupid one continues to sin but has hope that #A will forgive. He is doing what is wrong, knows what is wrong but
continues to do wrong and then says has hope in #A. We must become people who are intelligent (Al Khaysoo), goal
is to get to Jannah.
2 Definitions of Nafs:
1. The SOUL – the “rooh” and what’s inside us, we’re made of this. Your soul leads you to the good, it’s nur.
2. NAFS – is our lower self, and the opposite of rooh. Wants to listen to shaytan, but not governed by shaytan. Our
Nafs has become so fat and well fed so cannot take hardship and doesn’t want to listen. We do what Nafs says and
he justifies ourselves. The Mujahid struggles with own Nafs.
Hadith on Nafs
#P sent Sahaba to the battle and had won the war, #P said to them “blessed are those who have performed the
minor Jihaad but have yet to perform the major Jihaad”.
The Sahaba Ikraam were confused as thought that was a major Jihaad. #P clarified, the major Jihaad is the Jihaad
of the Nafs. We are in major versus minor jihaad and we must be successful in Jihaad.
Our Khabireen said 4 swords of training your Nafs
1. Eat little- eat only what is pure so heart remains pure. Over time, eat enough to sustain yourself. Stomach is 1/3
for air, water and empty. A child tends to eat enough. We force them then they become used to it.
2. Sleep little - 4 to 6 hours depending on body type. Teens need to sleep more. We tend not to get out of bed
becomes waste time. We need to get out of bed so not to waste life.
3. Speak little – women don’t understand this concept and we go on and on. Must have purpose to speak.
4. Be patient with people when they harm you – reference is the harm. Must have some difficulty when harming
you.
Nafs
Sufiyaan ul Tauri (ra), a man of massive knowledge from Khabireen in the 3rd or 4th generation, said “I never dealt
with anything stronger than myself – one time it’s with me, another time it’s against me.” That’s the game of Nafs
e.g., do good like give charity but then limits with the amount given, Rs. 10 vs Rs. 50.
We tend to blame shaytaan as he whispers in our ears, another part is our Nafs. In Surah Naas, “the one who
whispers in the hearts of people from within the Jinns and the people” so 2 types of shaytaan from Jinns and from
the people, such as our friends and family. Shaytaan usually attacks who are shaky on their path of Islam, who are
trying to fix themselves and trying to become better. Such friends should become acquaintances if trying to push
you off deen, as don’t let them deter them. ACTIONS are bad, but PEOPLE are NOT. Must think “they are still
my friends, I still love them and instead of coffee mornings I will try to bring them to class!”
6-Step Nafs Controls (Reflect/Resolve/Mushaba/Commitment/Guard/Zikr)
The #P said it’s a major jihaad so challenging. Long battle, some ppl can overcome. It’s a battle to the grave. All
about intention.
Example: Niyaa is becoming hifz of Quran, and if make sincere effort and want to struggle for it, then even if
died before completion, then still considered Hafiz of the Quran.
Should always have ‘Talib ul Ilm’ = this was my student studying my deen for my path. We must continue with
the struggle until our graves as I will never be perfect.
Step 1 – Reflect (Blessings/Death/Unachieved)
a) Reflect on blessings first
b) Reflect on death – realize, death is not a bad thing but definitely a calamity. Should celebrate that this person has
gone to meet his Lord. Death is a journey to barzak, transference from one place to another
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c) Regret on what you have not achieved – must have guilt on wrongs, but still move forward
Step 2 – have will and resolve/consistency to start struggle against things wrong in Nafs (5)
Need willpower and so MUST pray Tahajjud, even if consistently is to pray 2 rakkat. How to gain resolve, the Salik
(seeker who wants to become closer to #A
1. must clear oneself from all sins
2. must perform obligatory acts (faraydh) e.g., five times namaaz. Must think where are am I going to pray?
3. must make an intention to compensate for all days lost in faraydh and try to make up e.g., namaaz
4. be a human e.g., keep bathrooms clean, put footwear properly, speak in “toom” vs “aap” so talk about a certain
amount of adhaab, sit down to eat (animals stand to eat/drink and not people)
5. be a person of consistency – Salik’s manners should be in the imitation of life of #P. Follow Sunna as closely as
possible. Study “Saadul Talabeen” – start to implement the 30 hadith.
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Alimahs, Ustadaas… the Sahaba Ikraam are higher than the Muftis, they are the sahabas and they are the
biggest of the titles i.e., were in soohbah of the #P.
3. When guard against evil, keep away from things that can lead you to sin. An action itself may not be sinful but
can lead you to sin.
Example: We cannot go to a restaurant that serves alcohol. Even if food is halal, Fuqaha say not to go as still
alcohol is being served, so best not to go down that path as it may slip.
Step 6: Do zikr of #A
Whether in form of reading in Quran or prayer, fast or tasbih.
Shaytan frightens you with poverty and he bids you towards indecency. #A says then promises you forgiveness
from his Grace. And he is all-embracing, all known. #A promises you forgiveness, and get back again. Shayatan
say it will not be good enough and will burn in the hellfire.
Momin says: “I will fall, and I will keep trying as I have faith and trust in #A.” We lack in that 100% trust in #A.
#A is all-embracing and all knowing.
Story from the book “Wonders of the Heart” by Imam Ghazali (ra):
“1. A wiseman said, Shaytan approaches the son of Adam from the acts of disobedience.
2. If that man abstains from these acts of disobedience, then shaytan comes to him giving advice to cause him to fall
in a form of biddah.
[Example: celebrating #P’s birthday, shaytan moves away from Shariah. Reference the sahabas who never
celebrated his birthday and they love the #P more than anyone else. We should celebrate his birth every single
day, versus on only birth date].
3. If that person refuses to do that biddah, then shaytan makes him doubt regarding his wudu and his prayer [example
3 raqaat].
4. If this person can even push shaytan at this point, then makes that person that the good deeds you are doing are easy
for you to do
Example: Put pride and arrogance in you so say I am saabir (pure), I am very pure].
5. At this point, the man is in great need for there is an extreme degree of temptation and if a man passes through this
stage of pride and arrogance, then he will go straight to the garden of paradise.”
ADDITION for 24Nov18: HADITH 24: THE INTELLIGENT IS THE ONE WHO SUBDUES
HIS NAFS AND HE ACTS FOR WHAT IS AFTER DEATH AND THE STUPID IS THE ONE
FOLLOWS HIS NAFS AND HE HOPES IN #A
Alkaysoo mandana nafsahoo wa ameela lemaa ba’adal mao tee, waal aa jeezoo man atbah ah nafsahoo hawa ha.
[Copied from book: 22. The intelligent one is he who has subdued his lower self and who has worked for what comes
after death, and the stupid one is he who has put his lower self in pursuance of its desires and who has vain hopes
about Allah (Tirmidhl, Ibn Maja).]
Already covered from previously. An important aspect to cover.
Nafs (Ammarah/Luwwamah/
Humans = rooh + nafs
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One of the #P's tasks is to train the people to control their nafs, as it leads us to subdue it and it leads us to subdue it. 3
kinds of nafs:
1. An-Nafs al-Ammārah
- “inciting nafs”
the nafs that wants to enjoy itself. do what it wants to do e.g., processed food, watch movies, wants to go out,
YOLO. We don't only live once and we're in a long series of stages.
2. An-nafs al-Luwwāmah –
Second stage. “Self-accusing”
A person who tries to act in the path of #A but he slips. But when he slips, he realizes it. Know should live in the
obedience for Sunna and Sharia.
3. An-nafs al-Muṭmaʾinnah (from Surah Fajr)
“at peace”- the contented soul, that nafs completely in obedience in #A and has 100% trust in #A. Understands
that whether going through easy/difficult time, know it's from #A, and accepts his fate in a contented manner. So
say "Inna Lillia...." when lost something. Accepts both states are from #A.
So always peaceful. This person has worked upon himself. This person has struggled over a long period of time
(lifetime) to get to this. Along with remaining with obedience to #A, faraydh, wajib and nafl. Every action is for
the sake of #A. These people will enter into the place where #A's righteous slaves are.
There's a story from: Abdullah ibn Abbas (ra) - when they were burying him wrapped in his kuffin (cloth) and
when throwing dirt on his coffin, a strange bird came flying and went straight into the grave and disappeared.
Afterwards, there was discussion whether to open the grave to let it out. Thoughts - some say an angel, it was
knowledge... After the burial, while standing on the grave, these ayats from Surah Fajr were revealed. This is the
state we need to reach, which requires major struggle. To get to this state, requires changing our lives and struggle.
Dua oobal
Amaramul kittaba
Adaatoo
#6 – almaraano
Ajatooo
Al hayatoo
Al kamaroo eethni
Al moomin al jamoon kaffir
Albadi bid Islaami
Alribba tunish salam
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[Copied from book: 9. Oppression will be darknesses on the Day of Judgment (Bukhari).]
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3. Soohbah – stay in company of soonah/company of good people. No one is free from not being able to fall so
need people to guide us. So stay in company of the righteous is another way to preserve the noor.
HADITH #14: THE HIGHER/UPPER (GIVING) HAND IS BETTER THAN THE LOWER
(SOOFLAH) (RECEIVING) HAND
Al-yaadool ul yaa khaiyah ghooroom manal ya dahs sooflah
[Copied from book: n. The upper [giving] hand is superior to the lower [taking] hand (Bukhari, Muslim).] [A] To be in
the position of giving something to someone is superior to taking from someone]
The higher hand = giving hand. Lower hand = receiving hand.
#P saying the higher hand is better. Hand that gives is better than the hand that takes.
Visually, when give, the hand is higher. The one who is receiving, his hand is below and is humble. He is better.
Intrinsic to understand, we have been taught in adaab/etiquette when give something with parents, then envelope on
your hand and let them pick it up because the upper hand is better. So, we should keep our hand down, and the one
who takes it, he is the one is humble.
Concept of sabaab
#A is razaak, written rizk with everyone. From the time your child is born to the time they die, their rizk is written.
The rizk/provision is written, whether in wealth, ilm/knowledge, morality etc. all of rizk is written for everyone
when born.
Must be cognizant we have been given ability and wealth to give. So, to understand, if we can give Rs. 50k, then
there’s a reason we can give. Then #A put it in your heart to give. Our participation – when we have the choice to
give or not give at that time, we should understand that #A made us the sabaab. If we didn’t give, then someone
else will give. Cannot stop that money from going to someone but if blessed enough to give that amount, then
know that you are blessed as chosen to give that amount.
Also giving is financially, and is another form of taking care of someone, visiting a sick person, being good to
other people, taking care of kids.
This hadith specifically about financial giving.
Is it haram to beg?
It is haram/forbidden to beg without a need but if there is a need, then it is not prohibited to ask. But 4 conditions to
have:
1. The person asking should not put themselves in a situation of humiliation
2. The Ulema said should not ask for more than what he is in need of
3. He should not harm the person who he is asking, and not threaten
4. When we are in need, first step is make dua to #A to fulfill that need
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Hadith meaning
Understood that imaan is referring to prayers so #P says purification is half of your prayers because in the Quran,
where #A uses the word imaan, it is sometimes referred to as prayer
Purification is half of your faith which is referenced as obedience to #A. So when in a state of purification, then
that’s half of your obedience to #A. And to understand that your taharat is najaazata need to do wudu or ghusl.
o This is hadasah akbaar (major impurity) by removing via ghusl or
o Hadasah asghaar is minor impurity and remove wudu.
The #P said “when you do wudu, it removes two kinds of sins
o Minor sins = savaaha. Example: Sunna Muqadhair and leave Sunna prayer but if leave habitually then
becomes major sin
o Major sin = Kaba’ir = remove by ask #A for tauba = steps are feel guilty, ask for forgiveness, and make
sincere effort to not do the sin again.
HADITH #20: THE ONE WHO EATS AND IS GRATEFUL IS LIKE THE ONE WHO
FASTS AND IS PATIENT
Atayeemoon ashakaroo kassaa’eemee saabeeree
[Copied from book: 14. The one who eats and is thankful is like the one who fasts and is patient (Tirmidhi, Darimi).]
Fasting is a special worship and only #A will reward the one who fasts unless you announce it. Worship done
solely for the sake of #A and that’s why #A will give the reward accordingly.
The one who eats and is grateful, then he is like the one who is fasting and is patient.
o Shukkar – #A said: the one who is grateful to me, I will increase him (in blessings, give barqaat in rizk).”
Every good action/blessing, must always invoke #A’s name.
o Not shukkar = Complains: #A said “And the one who is ungrateful (kafartoon) to me, then for him is a strong
punishment (Azaabi al Shaheed)”. When someone complains, then #A then sends them another situation for
him then he complains again, and then a third… so may continue until he leaves the fold of Islam. Must be
patient
o If #P was not to his liking, he would eat a little and then leave it. So Sunna is if you don’t like the food, then
don’t complain about it. Just leave it and not partake in it. Relationship between husband/wife about food
don’t like, relationship is different as lifelong. So, wife should be cognizant. For feedback at a restaurant,
give honest feedback.
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Why do miswaak?
Use miswaak No odor, mouth is fresh.
Can we replace toothbrush with miswaak? The #P’s Sunna is miswaak so complete reward lies to do Sunna. So,
the reward is not the same as the miswaak, first toothbrush. MUST make the niyaa that the toothbrush replaces the
miswaak, but the reward will be less. If make no niyaa, then cannot take the place of miswaak. Make the niyaa
that the replacement is the brush, and not the toothpaste. Example reference of replacement: Breast milk. There is
no replacement for formula. None will ever replace the original.
Bleeding gums: if choose not to do miswaak because of this, then do not have to do so.
Nowadays, miswaak is not enough as we have processed foods, which is different, so foods stuck in teeth. In the
old days, we ate big foods, mostly vegetable so raw and organic food. So, scholars say for today use miswaak for
Sunna, but also use brush with toothpaste for cleanliness (nazeefah)
If choose to use floss, it's fine. No issue. Again, for the nazeefah (cleanliness)
If don't keep mouth clean, will have an effect on people around us. If action is displeasing to others, then reason to
purify/clean mouth so we don't effect around us. That's why men recommended to do ghusl for Jumma and there's
a lot of people. With so many, makes praying very difficult, as concentration impacted. So it's important for Ittahar
and Nazaffat, very important. Cleanliness of mouth is for people around.
Cleanliness of mouth is also for the angels. #P says men should refrain from eating onions as angels run away
from them.
Some mushayad also gave the comment that those who die with kalima on their lips are those with the habit of
doing miswaak.
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HADITH #17: THE QURAN IS A PROOF FOR YOU (LAKA) OR ON YOU (ALAYKA)
[Copied from book: 18. The Quran will either be evidence for you or against you (Muslim).]
PROOF: The Quran is a proof for you or against you on the day of judgement. There are a lot of things will speak
for us or against us:
1. Hands - will use them for the sake of deen
2. Feet, hands... all body limbs will speak for/against for the sake of #A
3. Earth will also testify whether it was mis/used for the sake of #A. Surah Zilzalla, #A said on the day that the earth
will give the news. Example: harm earth by pollution by throwing garbage outside, abused seas etc. Know it is
against our deen
The same way Quran will speak for me. He will make the effort to read your Kalaam. If choose not to read the
Quran or choose to misuse it (e.g., don't respect it, or use words for black magic) then know the Quran will testify
against you on judgement day. Some people will take it very literally.
Sometimes the Quran is given so much respect, that people put it away, so difficult to access and end up not
reading it. However, needs to be read and understood.
So Mush’aaf = the physical shape of the Quran i.e., the book, which has more than 50% is the kalaam (word) of
#A. Must be treated with respect (so not used as pillow to sleep on) and not put at level close to feet, should
be raised. Should be easily accessible, next to bedside table and on a bookshelf close to you. Quran is the
kalaam of #A and sent to us to understand and read from it.
Some ayats easily understood, especially when talking about spiritual diseases of the heart, stories for lessons.
However, some ayats need interpretation and understanding should come via traditional teachers from
understanding of the first three generations of #P.
Example: Coffee mornings to discuss Quran ayats but need to have traditional scholars present. Should not do
personal interpretations. So, follow opinions of the first three generations. Who are we to interpret?
Only Grand Sheikhs who gained the great ilm can write books and they will still reference the first 3 generations
after #P versus their own interpretations i.e., Never put their own opinion on it.
INTERCESSION: hadith where #P said "#A will accept the intercession (shifaa'at) of Quran".
Another hadith "The Quran will fight with the people. Why didn't act upon you and why didn't you act upon you?
You did not give me my right which was due."
Need to understand Quran has its rights and if you gave it’s rights in this duniya, then it will stand and give proof
for you e.g., did not understand the Arabic, and will stand as a proof against you.
CURE: The Quran is Shifa: all of Quran is Shifa. It's a cure. Read anything from the Quran. Pick up from
anywhere and know it will give you Shifa.
There are certain incidence: Sahabi came across someone very sick, so said that #P said it has shifa. So he blew
"Surah Fatiha" seven times. Sahabi later asked #P and he said it was fine. Understand the whole Quran is
Shifa.
#P sent as a purifier to the people. #A gave an immense blessing upon us. His task as a messenger to the #P.
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4. Teach Sunna - the best way to live via his speech and actions. So important to understand its not academic
learning.
Hasaba soofa. Scholars of the deen wrote his every action down. The Sahaba followed his actions. When #P
came back from his fajr prayer and women would come out with water and asked #P to put in his hand into
each of their water vessels so the water would be blessed. Should notice how they sit, stand and talk. Do they
remain silent or do they talk? This a more effective way of learning than books.
Problem with our Ummah in Pakistan - memorized the books but they have no practical implementation in their
lives.
Another way for taskiya is via reminders - this advice is meant for me. Most of us should walk about hearing
advice for self. Right now, individual 'taskiya', is hard as individuals' ego is very high. We always need to
say we have this problem when we hear the recordings. And if truly don't have the problem, then still
working on the nafs.
Copied from book: 13. Bells are the flutes of Satan (Muslim).
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