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Fake One-Sided Interviews
Age: 20
Education: In college
Look, when I hear people say “I’m not like other girls” I assume
it’s sarcastic. It’s such a dumb phrase, I can hardly imagine
someone saying it with all seriousness. I know I haven’t. It’s a
stupid phrase that only boxes people in while they think they’re
being set free. It’s futile.
Like- you know the term ‘basic’? I hate it. It’s used as an
insult on girls so they stop enjoying popular things; pumpkin
spice, Hamilton, Starbucks, selfies, etcetera. It’s ridiculous.
Seriously what kind of
societal-pressure-we’re-gonna-tell-you-what-to-like bull**** is
that?
“Not like other girls”? Ugh, don’t get me started. First thing
that pops into my head is edgy Tumblr girls from 2013 that are
full of internalized misogyny- yeah that’s right, I know what
that means. I’m educated.
Have I ever said it? Well… yeah. It’s hard for me to think of
someone who hasn’t. Heck, I’m pretty sure our whole friend group
in elementary school thought they were “not like other girls”
too. We weren’t particularly feminine, except maybe you, and we
thought we were better. Plus, with the rise of calling girls
basic, we wanted to make sure we weren’t called that. I’ve tried
to grow past caring if I get called it now, I just try to ignore
it and like what I like for the most part.
First thought when I hear the phrase “I’m not like other girls”
is that the girl thinks having a “unique” personality makes her
so special and deserving of having a boyfriend, friends,
popularity, and whatnot. They think they’re so special for not
being particularly feminine or popular, which is just… ugh. The
idea or denotation of "not being like other girls" is positive
because being unique is something that should always be a good
thing. Meanwhile, the connotation of "not like other girls" is
bad because it refers to those who think they are better than
everyone else often through slut-shaming and other not great
things.
Have I ever used that term? Yes, when I was nine or so. I knew I
was attracted to both girls and boys when I was young, and
coming out to my sister at 9, then my mom at 12 put that in my
mind a long time ago. I don’t think it was because I looked down
on them, I just knew deep down that I really was different.
Anonymous: I’ve never heard anyone say “I’m not like other
girls”. I’m serious. I’ve never heard of it. Though, if you’re
asking me what I think it means I think it just means that
they’re not as touchy as other girls, you know? Like- they
aren’t as feminine. I think it’s a good thing: it’s a way to
separate yourself from everyone else. It’s especially good if
the girls around you aren’t successful.
Have I ever thought I was “not like other girls”? I think so,
though it was a long time ago. I’ve been friends with opposites
to my own personality my whole life, so I’ve always considered
myself different. I mean, social media also helps, but I’m sure
you already know that. Overall though, I think my girliness sets
me apart.
Not to sound like a boomer, but I really think the media around
me almost forced me to think like that. The media I consumed
made it seem like girls could only be one way: blonde,
brainless, skinny, so beautiful it looks fake, and only caring
about superficial things that didn’t matter in the end. The
media made it seem like it was bad to be that way.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m definitely not perfect, there have been
times I’ve caught myself starting to judge someone on how they
look. But overall I am past my ‘I’m not like other girls’ phase,
and thank god for that.
Subject: Anonymous
Age: redacted
Education: In highschool
Anonymous: Oh god, not “I’m not like other girls” syndrome. That
phrase just gives me flashbacks to when I was twelve and thought
I was “so quirky” and bleh. It’s such a toxic phrase. Its whole
purpose is to bring other women down because of your own
internalized misogyny. I hate it. I hate that I used to say it.
I didn't have many friends when I was younger, and I kinda was
into Pinterest/Tumblr things so I was seeing a lot of "I’m not
like other girls" posts, and I was friends with a lot of boys.
This brought me up to believe that being friends with boys was
somehow easier and better than being friends with girls. It made
me look down on them, which is just sad looking back.