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Death and Dying
Death and Dying
Death and Dying
Overview
Parental Response to Death
2. Preschoolers
a. See death as temporary; a type of sleep or separation.
b. See life as concrete; they know the word “dead” but do not
understand the finality.
c. Fear separation from parents; want to know who will take care of
them when they are dead.
d. Dying children may regress in their behavior.
3. School-age
a. Have a concept of time, causality, and irreversibility (but still
question it).
b. Fear pain, mutilation, and abandonment.
c. Will ask directly if they are dying.
d. See death as a period of immobility.
e. Interested in the death ceremony; may make requests for own
ceremony.
f. Feel death is punishment.
g. May personify death (bogey man, angel of death).
h. May know they are going to die but feel comforted by having
parents and loved ones with them.
4. Adolescents
a. Are thinking about the future and knowing they will not
participate.
b. May express anger at impending death.
c. May find it difficult to talk about death.
d. Have an accurate understanding of death.
e. May wish to write something for friends and family, make things
to leave, or make a tape.
f. May wish to plan own funeral.
Nursing Implications