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Managing Expectations
Managing Expectations
MANAGING
EXPECTATIONS
GEORGE PITAGORSKY
A MINDFUL APPROACH
to ACHIEVING SUCCESS
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Introduction
M anaging expectations is something we
all do every day in real-world situations. Managing
expectations is influencing the beliefs people have
about something being the case in the future. Its
purpose is to increase the likelihood that people will
be satisfied with the outcome of a project, relationship,
performance, or product. The goal is to manage
expectations to achieve success in whatever you do.
What do I mean by success? Success is
measured in how well and how regularly you satisfy
the people who have a stake in your performance.
You satisfy them by setting and meeting rational and
meaningful expectations—your own and those of all
of the stakeholders. Managing expectations relies
on blending a crisp analytical approach with the
interpersonal skills needed to negotiate a vision that
leads to a win-win outcome. In this case, the vision
(another term for expectations) is what is supposed to
be delivered—by when, for how much, by whom, and
under what conditions. The vision is not limited to the
nuts and bolts of concrete objectives. It includes the
look and feel of the end result, and the process to get
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Critical Elements
When defining any project or operation, key
things to keep in mind are:
Objectives: Identify and briefly describe all
of the objectives—what do you want to accomplish,
by when, and for how much? Clearly stated and
mutually understood objectives are crucial to
success. They express the specific expectations
of those involved, and describe the nature of the
product and the process to achieve it. Objectives
must be specific, measurable, achievable, realistic
(practical), and time bound. They must include
a cost constraint. They should address expected
relationship characteristics such as healthy conflict
and collaboration.
While objectives and expectations seem
the same, there is a subtle difference. Expectations
add the question of whether the objectives will
be met. For example, among the objectives of our
Office Move is getting it done by a certain date.
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Expect Change
Projects and business operations alike are
dynamic processes within dynamic environments.
While it is useful to adhere to established expectations
as goals, it is equally important to assess those goals
from time to time to see if they are still worthwhile.
Similarly, expectations that a standard approach will
be used in the work should be reassessed in light of
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Expect Expectations
Expectations are a fact of life. People, perhaps
with the exception of the fully enlightened, have
expectations. Knowing this, expecting expectations, is
a first step in managing them.
In an absolute sense, the best strategy, according
to the wise, is to have no expectations or to limit your
expectations to continuous change and uncertainty in
everything. Expect the discomfort that comes with not
getting what you want or getting what you don’t want.
Without expectations, you would be in the moment,
accepting whatever comes and adapting fluidly.
In a relative sense—from the point of view
of our day-to-day experience working with other
people—expectations exist and many of them are quite
practical. For example, Pat’s expectation that the Office
Move will be done without disruption to the business
is extremely important. It sets very clear criteria for a
successful project. Bob knows he cannot simply find a
new location, get everyone to pack up their stuff, and
move.
Since expectations are present and practical, the
issue then becomes how best to manage them using a
measured approach rather than just jumping into the
work and hoping for the best.
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Context: Optimal
Performance
H ow can you effectively set and meet all of
those expectations? The key is to aspire to optimal
performance. Optimal performance is sustainably
achieving multiple, often competing, objectives
efficiently and effectively, while considering real world
constraints and maximizing the use of capabilities and
resources. It means doing your best and aspiring to do
better. Optimal performance strikes the right balance
between peak performance, high performance, and
taking the time to recover from the effort you expend.
Working 24/7 on a project might be necessary for short
spurts; continuously working that way will diminish
the capacity to perform.
In our Office Move, optimal performance
will be achieved though the creation and execution
of a plan that considers the most efficient approach,
recognizing risks and the need for flexibility, as well
as the capabilities, personalities, and needs of the
individuals.
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Cohesive Approach
Achieving optimal performance requires
a cohesive approach that integrates individual
performance factors such as motivation, the desire for
personal mastery, and the effective management of
energy with a set of capabilities that enable individuals
and teams to maximize their efforts.
These capabilities are:
1. Core capabilities that operate on the
intrapersonal level—Mindfulness and
Open-mindedness. Bob, the Office
Move project manager, will need to be
objective and observant of what is going
on in and around him to get the job
done in a way that satisfies expectations.
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Components of
Optimal Performance
Performance
Team
Communi- Change
cations
Sustained
High
Performance
Conflicts
Expectations
big picture and the details and how they relate to one
another.
Looking at the Office Move, there is the need
for the participants to accept and manage change—
with the change in office location come life changes
for employees, disruption of normal operations, etc.
The stakeholders must make sure they have the right
processes to do what they want to do, including project
management methods, policies, and procedures. They
need to communicate with one another and resolve
conflicts. In the Office Move, optimal performance has
two dimensions—perform the move really well and
create a new setting within which the company can
operate optimally.
Performance Assessment
and Lessons Learned
How do you know if you have succeeded? You
can tell whether you have met expectations only after
the fact. Review performance against expectations.
Were the results in keeping with the expectations? Are
expectations realistic? What can be done going forward
to improve performance? What have you learned?
The chapter on assessment (see Chapter 8)
delves more deeply into the subject of performance
reviews.
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Managing Healthy
Expectations
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Set
Expectations
Adapt Plan
Assess Perform
Healthy Expectations
Establishing healthy expectations helps avoid
the disappointment that comes when expectations are
not being satisfied. Healthy expectations are:
• explicit,
• mutually understood,
• realistic, and
• not too easy to meet.
Healthy expectations have a high probability
of being met given the conditions present at the time
the work is being done. Stretch expectations—those
that aren’t overly easy to meet, but are still possible to
achieve—can help motivate higher quality and better
performance.
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Expectations Happen in
All Aspects of Life
Managing expectations is relevant to personal
as well as business situations. My friend, Mary, told
me about planning a kayak trip with a friend along the
coast of Maine. The friend was quite fit and had a sleek
kayak while Mary was less fit and had a borrowed,
slower boat. Once the trip started there was discord.
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Barriers
There are barriers to setting healthy expectations.
People want what they want when they want it. This
wanting often clouds and closes the mind to rational
thought. It takes mindfulness, skill, and courage on the
part of those who question whether what is wanted can
be delivered. There is often a fear to push back against
the demands of senior executives, managers, clients,
and others who have power and are not open to setting
realistic expectations.
In the Office Move scenario, imagine what
would happen if Bob took hitting the move deadline
as an order that must be obeyed and fails to inform his
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