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Note to Teacher ............................................................................................................2
Welcome .......................................................................................................................4
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suggestions to you as the teacher and will explain options in the
manner of teaching.
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notes, as needed.
9. Teach these truths and principles with a sense of faith that God
is going to use you to make a difference! We’ve seen these
principles impact hundreds of thousands of people in many cultures
globally.
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Teaching notes. The Student Outline has a page with the main
points and the scriptures of the Welcome that you will discuss
during your teaching.
WELCOME!
We’re so excited that you are here for the Purpose Driven Life
Seminar. You are about to join an alumni group of over
400,000 pastors and church leaders globally who have taken
Purpose Driven training. It is my prayer that God will use you
to fulfill His purposes in your own congregation and
throughout the world.
Teaching Tip
1. Honor
They’ve made the commitment to come and to learn: that
should be honored.
2. Humility
We are all fellow learners.
3. Humor
We are friends and family…. we can laugh together.
4. Unity
If you communicate at the beginning of the session that it
is not the SIZE of the church that matters, it helps
everyone to realize that we’re on the same team. “Big is
not better, small is not better…better is better!”
Teaching Tip
The next sentence gives you the opportunity to recognize
attending pastors that are from other denominations or
countries. This recognition brings home the point that this
training is truly “Global”. It also gives the pastors an
opportunity to connect with each other.
We’ve done this seminar many, many times, but I want to begin by
thanking you from the bottom of my heart for coming. We never
take these seminars for granted. We’re always thrilled to see
people who have come for the first time or those who are returning.
I say this each time I teach a seminar: “It says more about you than
it does about us. It says that you are a learner.” That is a valuable
concept to me because all leaders are learners. The moment you
stop learning, you stop leading. The moment I think I’ve got it all
figured out, I'm dead in the water. I am constantly learning,
constantly growing. So I honor you for being here today.
Teaching Tip
You may think that your ministry is small and insignificant, but you
are wrong! Your ministry matters to God. God knows why you’re
here and God put you where you are. I don’t care what your
background is, what your country is, what your language is, what
the color of your skin is, what your denomination is. If you love
Jesus, we’re in the same family. And you are my brother and my
sister. I love you and I want to encourage you.
Let me first encourage you by saying I’m proud of you for being
here. It says whole lot more about you than it does about me or
anyone else. What it says about you is that you are a learner. I
admire you for that. I tell the pastors and the people at Saddleback
church, all leaders are learners. The moment you stop learning you
stop leading. Growing churches require growing leaders. The
moment I stop growing, the moment I think I’ve got it all figured out,
that I’ve got all the answers and know it all, I’m dead in the water.
You must always keep growing yourself if your church is going to
keep growing. The way we do that is by learning.
This is where you will want to take some time to think through some
of the implications we’ve talked about for your church. This
conference is not about our church. It’s about your church. It is far
more important what you discover about your church than what
you discover about our church. It’s about how God wants to do His
purposes in your church. That’s what we’re going to talk about.
We want you to apply these things.
Circle “skill.” The Bible says skill will bring success. Not
dedication, not commitment, but skill.
A farmer needs to have the right skills in order to harvest his crop.
If he doesn’t have the right skills, he will not be able to harvest any
crop regardless of how much he prays. If I try to harvest corn and I
haven’t developed any skills about how and when and what tools to
use for harvesting – I will not be successful. If I try to harvest
bananas using a grape picker I will not be successful. I can pray all
I want but if I don’t have the right skills, if I don’t know how to do it
correctly, I’m not going to bring in a harvest. Skill will bring
success.
I’m tired of going to pastors conferences that make you feel guilty.
Many of those conferences tell you, “If you just prayed more/loved
people more/if you were just more dedicated then your church
would grow.” That’s just not true. Somebody needs to stand up
and say that’s not true. I’ve met tens of thousands of pastors who
are dedicated, who love the Lord, who are totally committed to
Christ, filled with the Holy Spirit, love people, love God’s Word and
yet their church grows at a very slow pace, has plateaued or is
declining. Why? Because it takes more than commitment and
dedication and desire. It has nothing to do with your level of
dedication. The fact that you are here today shows your dedication
to the calling of Jesus Christ. The Bible says it takes skill and we’re
going to talk about developing some skills today.
So if you learn something that we can also learn - share it with us.
I’m not proud. I can learn from anybody. Every time I see
someone that’s doing a good job I say, “Amen, brother! Keep on
doing it. Show me how to do it too.” I just want to learn. If you
can’t learn from other people you’ve got an ego problem. That’s
why God says
This applies not only in the local church where all the parts help
each other and the local church grows. This principle applies to the
church globally. We need to help each other. The church in Asia
needs to help the church in South America. The church in South
America helps the church in Africa. The church in Africa helps the
church in North America and the church in North America helps the
church in Europe. And the church in Europe helps the church in
Antarctica – is there a church down there? We need to help each
other. That’s the big idea. And we need to learn from everyone.
Rick began Saddleback Church with his wife, their daughter, and
one family, so he can relate to every size of church. When you say,
“We’ve got a church of fifteen people.” He can remember when we
had fifteen people. If you say, “We’ve got a church of 25 people.”
He can remember when we had 25 people. He can relate to every
single sized church in this conference today because his church
began very small, too.. So he has watched the church grow at
each stage remembering what it was like to have 60 people. It
wasn’t that long ago. He still remembers what it was like to have
150 people. So this is important – there’s no correlation between
the size and the strength of the church.
How many would agree with that? Because there’s more than one
way to grow a church, we should never criticize what God is
blessing. I have discovered that God likes to bless people that I
don’t understand. He sometimes even blesses people I disagree
with. Why does He do that? I don’t know. He even blesses people
I have doctrinal differences with. How could that be? God says,
“I’m all about Jesus.”
If you’re getting the job done, I like that. It may not be my style. It
may not be what God’s calling me to do. But I can show you 2
churches that are doing the exact opposite thing or 2 churches
doing the same thing but in different ways, and they’re both healthy.
Have you figured out that God likes to do things in different ways?
That God loves variety? Just look down your row! Thank God we
don’t all look the same, we don’t all think the same, act the same,
even smell the same. God loves variety. So He says I want you to
learn from each other. We don’t want any clones. Each church
has to have its own unique thumbprint, but the church must be
based on God’s eternal purposes. Those 5 eternal purposes aren’t
optional.
I do want to say that when I use the word “Pastor”, please interpret
that as “church leader”. If you are at this seminar, you are
obviously a church leader and one of the people who carry the
burden of the church in ministry.
begin to share some of the insights we’re doing to live this Purpose
Driven Life, you will say, “Anybody can do that!”
That’s the point! What we are doing here is not a strategy for
superstars. People often think that the strategy we are suggesting
is only for big churches or mega churches. It is not. Remember,
that every big church began as a small church. That strategy has
allowed us to continue to grow.
Teaching Tip
Teaching Tip
If you give the audience the guidelines that follow and a few
minutes to talk with each other, you will be amazed at how it
will warm up the room. The humorous line at the end of the
next paragraph will also give people a chance to laugh and
this will put them at ease. It’s also a good break as you
prepare to go into a long teaching section.
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INTRODUCTION: WHAT ON EARTH AM I HERE
FOR?
The most important question you can ask in life is: What is my
purpose? Why am I here? What on earth am I here for? Let me
start by saying, It’s not about you.
1a It is not about YOU
If you want to know why you were put on this planet, you’ve got to
look at God not yourself. It’s not about you. Say, it’s not about me.
(Pause) Focusing on yourself will never reveal your life’s purpose.
It’s the wrong starting point.
If you want to know the purpose of your life, you can’t get there by
starting with yourself. I have probably 60 or 70 books I’ve
purchased over the years that have the word “purpose” in the title.
“How to Know your Purpose”. They would all be classified as what
I call “Self Help” books. They all say the same thing: “Look within
yourself, think about your dreams, consider your aptitudes, set
high goals, go for it, plan your life, believe you can achieve, get
other people to help you, never give up.” All those things are good
and you can become a success if you do those things. But you can
become successful in life and still miss your purpose. Success and
knowing your purpose and having meaning in life are not the same
thing. I minister to people all the time who are extremely successful
and have no meaning in their life, because they don’t know their
purpose.
If I handed you an invention and you had never seen that invention,
you would not know what its purpose was. You couldn’t ask the
invention, “What’s your purpose?” If you could figure out your
purpose by looking within, everybody would have figured it out a
long time ago. But you don’t do it that way. You must go to the
creator of the invention and ask him the purpose of the invention, or
you have to look in the owner’s manual.
You were made by God and you were made for God. Until you
figure that out, life will not make sense. Let me say that again: you
were made by God and for God, and until you figure that out, life is
never going to make sense. You were not put on this earth for your
own satisfaction. You were not put on this earth for your own
fulfillment. You were not put on this earth for your own happiness.
God made you for His purposes.
How do you discover that purpose? You only have two options –
speculation or revelation. Speculation is, you go buy a coffee, go to
the local university and sit down with the philosophy professor and
you talk about questions like, “Why am I here? Where am I going?
What is the meaning of it all? Is there a purpose to life?” You can
come up with some really creative answers but you’re just
guessing. You’re really just guessing. It’s just speculation.
3 • SPECULATION
3a • REVELATION
And that is to go to God’s word and say, “God, what did You put me
here on earth for?” That’s what we’re going to look at. God has
made it very clear what He’s put us on earth for.
This verse gives us two very profound insights into God’s purpose
for our lives.
Second, the purpose of your life fits into a much larger purpose that
God has designed for eternity. We’re just kind of a cog in a wheel.
It’s a much bigger purpose than just my own life. Let’s read the next
verse.
This is how much God loves and values you. God designed this
planet so we could live on it. We weren’t made for the planet; the
planet was made for us. We are the focus of His love, the most
valuable of all His creation. And the Bible says,
You are not an accident. You are NOT an accident. God had you in
mind from the foundation of the world. Regardless of the
circumstances of your birth, you’re not an accident. There are
illegitimate parents but there are no illegitimate children. God had a
purpose.
The first thing that the Bible tells us is that Life is a Test, a Trust,
and a Temporary Assignment.
God is testing your character, your faith, your obedience, your love
and a whole lot more. God is measuring your trustworthiness.
That’s the principle of stewardship. One day He’s going to ask you,
“What did you do with what I gave you?”
God is preparing you for eternity. Now let’s read some of the
verses.
The Bible is full of metaphors that teach the brevity of life. It’s
transitory, it’s temporary. The Bible calls life a mist, a vapor, a
shadow, a weaver’s spindle moving fast, a wisp of smoke. You are
going to spend far more time on that side of eternity than you do on
this side. At most, you get 60, 80, maybe 100 years ‘at the most’
on earth. You’re going to spend billions and gazillions of years on
that side of eternity. So this side of eternity is the warm up act.
This is the dress rehearsal. This is the preparation for eternity.
This is the preschool, this is the starting point, the getting-ready lap
for the real race. You will spend far more time on that side of
eternity than on this side. And life is preparation for eternity. It’s
the dress rehearsal, the trial run.
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PDL Seminar – Teaching Notes 2005 Version 1.0
Introduction – What On Earth Am I Here For?
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“So if you call God your Father, live your time as
temporary residents on earth…” 1 Peter 1:17 (GW)
Teaching Tip
11a
“For everything comes from God alone. Everything
lives by his power, and everything is for his glory...”
Romans 11:36 (LB)
How can I bring glory to God? That’s what this seminar is all about.
The Bible tells us that we bring glory to God by fulfilling the
purposes for which He created us.
And there are five purposes. And when we build our lives around
these things, we bring glory to God.
And, we bring glory to God the same way, by doing what He tells us
to do. Anytime anything fulfills the purpose God created it for, it
brings glory to God. Birds bring glory to God by chirping, by flying,
and by building nests, by doing “birdy” things that birds are created
for. Even worms bring glory to God, by being “wormy”. And God
enjoys watching you be you. Iraeneus, the philosopher said, “The
glory of God is a human being - fully alive.” And so you bring glory
to God by fulfilling His purposes for your life.
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There are three amazing secrets to the glory of God. Let me
mention just one of them.
13a
The Bible teaches us that if you fulfill God’s purposes on
earth, then you’re going to share in God’s glory in eternity.
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“And when the head Shepherd comes, your reward will
be a never-ending share in his glory and honor.”
1 Peter 5:4 (NLT)
So, you have two choices to make: Will I live for temporary
pleasures, or am I going to live for God’s eternal purposes? My
temporary pleasures or God’s eternal purposes?
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“But his (God’s) plans endure forever; his purposes last
eternally.” Psalm 33:11 (TEV)
16 PURPOSE #1:
16a You were planned FOR GOD’S PLEASURE
How many of you are parents? Can I see your hands? Do you
take pleasure in watching your kids? Most of the time. Same with
God. God takes pleasure in watching you be you. You were made
to bring enjoyment to God. God did not need to create you. He
wanted to create you. You were created for His delight, for His
pleasure. You exist for His benefit, His glory, His purpose, and His
pleasure. And the moment you were born into this world, whether it
was in a hospital or somewhere else, God was there at that
delivery, at the point of your delivery, smiling at your arrival into the
world, because God wanted you alive. He took pleasure watching
you be born.
Circle the word “worship” and draw a line to the word “pleased”,
because bringing pleasure to God is called worship.
Worship has nothing to do with the style or the speed or the volume
of a song. God loves every kind of music because He invented
music. You may not like it but He does, as long as it’s done in spirit
and in truth.
People will say, “I just didn’t get anything out of worship today.” It
wasn’t for you. If you say, “I didn’t get anything out of worship,” you
worshipped for the wrong reason. It’s NOT for you! It’s not ABOUT
you! It’s about God. We don’t worship for our pleasure, we
worship for His pleasure. Worship is bringing pleasure to God.
Worship is far more than music. Worship is, (Write this down):
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Worship is A LIFESTYLE
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“I don’t want your sacrifices -- I want your love; I don’t
want your offerings -- I want you to know me.”
Hosea 6:6 (LB)
Circle the word “love” and the word “know”. That is the first purpose
of your life – to know God and to love God. To know Him and to
love Him. That’s the first purpose of your life. The Bible calls it
worship. That’s the most important thing. The most important thing
to know in life is that God loves you. And the most important thing
to do in life is to love Him back.
Because you are made in God’s image, you are different from
animals and you’re given the capacity to do something that animals
can’t do. You’ll never see a dog kneeling in prayer before it eats.
You’ll never see a cow meditating. But this is the privilege of being
a human being. So every morning when you get up in the morning
you should say, “God, if I don’t get anything else done today, I want
to get to know You a little bit better and I want to love You a little bit
more.” Because if you don’t do that, you’ve just missed the first
purpose of your life. You’ve just wasted that day. You were put
here to know and love God. Nothing is more important.
“Jesus replied, ‘Love the Lord your God with all your
26 heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This
is the first and greatest commandment.”
Matthew 22: 37-38 (NIV)
Are you happy when your kids trust you? Sure. And the Bible
says,
Notice the word that begins and ends that verse. Circle it. It begins
with “offer” and it ends with “offer.” That is what worship is all
about. Offering yourself to God, surrendering yourself to God. In
the Old Testament they offered animals for worship. In the New
Testament God wants us.
Teaching Tip
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PURPOSE #2:
39a
YOU WERE FORMED FOR GOD’S FAMILY
“God is the One who made all things, and all things are
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for his glory. He wanted to have many children share in
his glory...” Hebrews 2:10 (NCV)
This spiritual family is going to far outlast your physical family. The
physical family is just a shadow. It’s so inferior to the spiritual
family that God is preparing for eternity.
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“…(God) has given us the privilege of being born again
so that we are now members of God’s own family…”
1 Peter 1:3b (LB)
There’s only one way. You’ve got to be born into His family.
Spiritually born. Born Again.
Let that amazing truth sink in! Because Jesus makes you holy,
God is proud of you. Jesus is not ashamed to call you His brother
or His sister. Being included in God’s family is the highest privilege
and the greatest honor you will ever have on earth – being a part of
God’s family. Nothing even comes close.
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Your Christian life is not just a matter of BELIEVING.
It is also a matter of BELONGING.
The Bible says that if you become a believer, you belong to the
family of God and you belong to the body of Christ. And the Bible
says that all the members belong to each other. We belong to each
other. I want you to turn to the person seated next to you and say,
“You belong to me.” (pause). Now say, “I belong to you.” (pause)
The Christian life is not just believing, it is belonging. That is a truth
that is not emphasized enough today. Wherever we live, we live
with a spirit of independent individualism that says, It’s Jesus and
me. We’ve got our own thing going. We don’t need anybody to tell
us what it’s all about. But you do. When you became a believer,
you became a “belonger”, and you belong to me and I belong to
you. We are in the family of God together and we are not
independent. We are dependent upon each other.
What is God’s family on earth? You know what it is. It’s the church.
45a
“…God’s family is the church of the living God, the pillar
and foundation of the truth.” 1 Timothy 3:15b (GW)
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“Each part gets its meaning from the body as a whole,
not the other way around. The body we’re talking about
is Christ’s body of chosen people. Each of us finds our
meaning and function as a part of his body. But as a
chopped-off finger or a cut-off toe we wouldn’t amount
to much, would we?” Romans 12:4-5 (MSG)
That kind of lays it out there, doesn’t it? If an organ gets severed
from its body, it shrivels and dies. The Bible says we find our
meaning in connection not in independence, that our value and
our meaning comes as what we are a part of – the body of Christ.
Membership in the family of God is not something to be casually
ignored or tossed away as something not important. We need each
other far more than we realize. It’s the Second Purpose of your life.
To bring pleasure to God and to be a part of His family – worship
and fellowship.
The Bible says throughout the New Testament, that we’re put
together, we’re joined together, we’re built together, we’re
members together, we’re heirs together, we’re linked together,
we’re held together and we will be caught up together. It’s not any
of this individual stuff you hear about in the media. While your
relationship to God is personal, it is not private. That is a radical
thought in today’s world. The Bible says it’s personal but it is not
private. Because we belong to each other. You are connected to
every other believer and we’ll all belong to each other for eternity.
In America we have these “floating believers” who kind of float
around from church to church – go here this week, go there next
week, somewhere else the next week. If you’re the liver in the body
of Christ and one week you connect to this and then you get
severed and then you’re the liver in another body and the next
week you’re disconnected and you’re over there. You’re going to
shrivel up and die. It is a misunderstanding of the importance of
your role in the body of Christ.
I had a lady tell me one time, “I’m a part of the invisible church.” I
said, “That’s wonderful! When you get sick and you’re in the
hospital, who visits you? The invisible pastor? Where do you give
your invisible tithes? Where do you give your invisible service?
Where do you get the invisible support you need?” It’s visible in the
body of Christ. People say, “I like Jesus. I just don’t need the
church.” The Bible says the church is the body of Christ. How
about if I were to say to you, “I like you, I just can’t stand your
body.” You’d be offended! The Bible says the church is the bride
of Christ. What if I said, “I like you, I just can’t stand your wife.”?
Jesus would be offended and I would, too.
The more mature you grow in your faith, the more you’re going to
love the church, treasure the church and sacrifice for the church.
Jesus gave His life for the church. That’s how important it is. He
died for the church. The Bible says He died for the church. The
more you become like Christ, the more you’re going to love the
church. Whenever I find somebody who doesn’t understand the
importance of the church, I know they’re an immature believer.
They’ll say, “I like people in the abstract, just not in the concrete.”
“To dwell above with those we love, oh, that will be a glory. But to
dwell below with those we know, well, that’s another story!”
If you don’t like fellowshipping with Christians on earth, then you’re
not going to like heaven. Because Christians are the only people
who will be there!
The church is the bride of Christ. I’ve discovered that some people
today want to casually date the bride of Christ. Or they want to live
together without commitment. Or they want to practice serial
marriage. Or they want to practice wife swapping every week.
We’re talking about serious stuff here. This is the bride of Christ.
And Jesus died for the bride of Christ.
Circle the phrase “live together”. That’s the second purpose of your
life – experiencing life together with other children of the family of
God is called fellowship.
It’s the second purpose of your life. Worship is the first purpose
and fellowship is the second purpose of your life.
Or, you ask people, “Where do you fellowship?” What that means
is, “Where do you attend?” Most Christians have never
experienced genuine, biblical, New Testament, intimate, deep
fellowship. Fellowship is life together. Real fellowship is being as
committed to each other as we are to Jesus Christ. Most people
know John 3:16, but most Christians don’t know 1 John 3:16, which
says,
50a 1. 1. AUTHENTICITY
Of course that’s quite a risk. If I really tell you why I am afraid to tell
you who I am, it’s because, if I tell you who I am and you don’t like
me, I’m “up a creek without a paddle”. Because I’m all I’ve got!
Real fellowship means facing our fears. Yet our fear of exposure,
our fear of rejection, our fear of being hurt by other people holds us
back from risking. Why would anybody take such a risk? Because
it is the only way to grow as a Christian. You only grow through
exposure, honesty and authenticity.
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The second mark of biblical fellowship is:
52a 2 . MERCY
Have you noticed that in every church God puts some “heavenly
sandpaper people”? They are (known as) EGRs—“Extra Grace
Required”. If you don’t instantly think of them right now, guess
what? You’re IT! If they didn’t instantly come to mind, you’re IT!
We need these people in the body of Christ. It’s the only way we
grow. It’s easy to love lovely people. If God’s going to teach you
real love, He’ll put you around some unlovely people.
Every time you get hurt, you’ve got a choice to make. Am I going to
use my energy for retaliation or resolution? And you can’t use it on
both.
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The third mark of biblical fellowship is:
54a 3. UNITY
The third biblical mark of real fellowship is unity. God loves unity.
God cherishes unity. He loves it when His family gets along, when
there’s harmony.
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“How wonderful it is, how pleasant, for God’s people to
live together in harmony.” Psalm 133:1 (TEV)
Ten times in the first five chapters of the book of Acts, the word
“one” is used – they were in one accord, they were all in one place,
they were all together, they were of one heart. We will have the
power of Acts when we have the unity of Acts. Unity – God loves it.
Over and over in the Bible we are commanded to have unity.
Teaching Tip
The next paragraph talks about the ways to protect the unity of
your church. You can review these methods in Chapter 21 of
“The Purpose Driven Life”. If people have questions, you can
refer them to that chapter.
There are many ways to protect that unity. Let me mention one.
Focus on what we share in common, not our differences.
58a
“So let us concentrate on the things which make for
harmony, and on the growth of one another’s character”
Romans 14:19 (Ph)
The local church lab – and it is a lab – is a lab for learning to love.
Why does God want us to fellowship on earth? Because the rest of
your life in eternity, you’re going to be fellowshipping with other
believers. So here He’s giving you time to practice. The church is
the laboratory here on earth to practice learning to love. Why?
Because God is love and God wants you to learn to love. So He
puts you in a church with some unlovely people, so you can learn to
love and so you can be prepared for eternity. We’re to practice it
here on earth.
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“…And since we’re all one body in Christ, we belong to
each other, and each of us needs all the others.”
Romans 12:5 (NLT)
One of the most important truths that we all have to learn in life is
that we all need each other.
61 PURPOSE #3:
61a YOU WERE CREATED TO BECOME LIKE CHRIST.
From the very beginning, God decided you would become like His
Son. You were created to become like Christ. The Bible says
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“We look at this Son, and see God’s original purpose in
everything created.” Colossians 1:15 (MSG)
From the very beginning. This is not God’s Plan B. God’s plan has
always been to make people like himself. God announced it at
creation. He didn’t just think it up halfway after He created the
world. It’s been His plan from the beginning. Remember at
creation in Genesis 1:26
From the very beginning of time, God has wanted to make us in His
image.
Let me be very clear about this: God wants you to become godly,
not a god. You will never, ever become a god. That’s Satan’s lie.
There are whole cults built on that one. You’re never going to
become a god. God is God, and you’re not. But God does want
you to become godly, take on His moral character, and He wants
you to become like His Son, Jesus Christ.
Now God is far more interested in what you are than in what you
do, because you’re not going to take your career into heaven. You
are going to take your character. So God doesn’t care about your
career. You could have 100 different careers, and these would all
be in the will of God. What He’s much more interested in is what
you become within that career. He’s much more interested in your
character than He is anything else. The Bible says in Philippians
2:5 that Jesus prayed,
65 “In your lives you must think and act like Christ Jesus.”
Philippians 2:5 (NCV)
So, if I’m to think and act like Jesus Christ, become like Jesus
Christ, what is Jesus Christ like?
What is Jesus Christ like? I think the best picture of Jesus Christ in
the Bible is Galatians 5:22-23
Jesus is total love, total joy, total peace, total patience—all those
things wrapped up in one—are what Christ is all about.
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THE HOLY SPIRIT USES THREE THINGS TO DEVELOP
CHRISTLIKE CHARACTER
It takes truth to transform us. Let’s read these next three verses
aloud together in Acts 20:32 and the ones following:
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“Through the Word we are put together and shaped up
for the tasks God has for us.” 2 Timothy 3:17 (MSG)
Now the second way that God makes us like Jesus Christ is, he
uses people to make us Christlike, to produce Christlike character.
There are many, many passages of scripture in the Bible about this.
So many times we pray for miracles in our lives, but most of the
time, God chooses to use people to change us. Sometimes those
people are a little irritating, but God wants to “sand off” the rough
edges in our lives. And God uses people to make us more like
Jesus. But the one I really want to focus on in this session is:
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3. The Holy Spirit uses CIRCUMSTANCES to produce
Christlike character.
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“For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us
an eternal glory that far outweighs them all.”
2 Corinthians 4:17 (NIV)
The question is: How does God produce the fruit of the Spirit in our
lives? Do I just walk down the street one day and ZAP! I’m filled
with love? I’m just walking down the street and BAM! I’m just filled
with joy! No. Let me give you the key. This is one of the most
important spiritual truths you’ll ever learn: God produces the fruit of
the spirit in your life by allowing you the exact opposite experience,
in order to provide the opportunity for Christlike character to be
developed.
Key: God develops the fruit of the Spirit in your life by allowing
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express the exact OPPOSITE QUALITY!
For instance, as I’ve said earlier, If God wants to teach you about
love, it’s easy to love you. You’re lovely. So he’s going to put you
around un-lovely people, to teach you ABOUT real love.
God produces the fruit of the Spirit in your life by allowing you in a
situation where you have a choice to do the opposite. You cannot
say you’re faithful, if you’ve never been tempted to be unfaithful.
You cannot say you are good if you’ve never been tempted to be
bad. You cannot say you’ve got self-control, if you’ve never been
tempted by your weakness like in an ice-cream parlor! God will
allow you (to be) in the exact opposite situation to make you like
Christ. Now, once you understand this, life makes a whole lot more
sense. You stop asking, “Why is this happening to me?” It’s for
your character development! It’s the only way you’re going to learn.
You don’t learn character through comfortable situations. And
there is no situation in life you cannot learn from, if you’ll just
respond with the right attitude.
The reason all things work together for good is that they are there
to make us like Jesus, which is the Third Purpose for my life. God
is using circumstances to make me like Christ.
Now, you need to understand that in this process, there are four
kinds of problems, which I will quickly explain.
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THERE ARE FOUR KINDS OF PROBLEMS THAT WE HAVE IN
LIFE and most times we get these mixed up.
Paul said,
Peter said,
Third, trespasses are hurts that are caused by the sins of others.
When you’re hurt by another person, that’s not a temptation, it’s not
a trial. That’s a trespass.
And the fourth are troubles. And troubles are usually, but not
always, the consequences of our own sinful choices.
And David says, “I brought this trouble on myself.” Most of the time
when we’re worried about the devil, the devil doesn’t have to bother
with us—we’re bringing on the trouble ourselves. The devil’s
probably saying, “Man I haven’t thought of you in 30 years! Why
should I worry about you?! You’re a ‘basket-case’! You caused
yourself enough problems. The world and the flesh can take care
of you.” You say, “Oh, it’s the devil!” Well, maybe not. It just may
be other people trespassing against you.
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If it’s a trial from God, then I need to relax in it. I just need to
REST and trust God - let go, and let God.
86b If it’s a temptation from Satan, the Bible says you need to
RESIST it.
87a If the trouble is your own fault, the Bible says, you need to
REPENT of it.
Jonah got into a storm because it was his own fault; he was out of
the will of God. Paul, on the other hand, got into a storm because
he was IN the will of God. Actually, the disciples were in the will of
God - they went out in the middle of a storm in a boat. Paul got into
a storm because there were other people who were out of the will
of God. So, storms can be caused by other people, or caused by
yourself, or by could be caused by God. You need to understand
the differences.
never in a hurry. Have you ever been in a hurry when God wasn’t?
That is one of the most frustrating places to be in life.
I can tell you how to mature in Christ, but I cannot tell you how to
do it quickly. It’ll take you the rest of your life.
—this becoming like Christ? Well, one reason is, we’re slow
learners! Another reason that the process is so is that we have to
“unlearn” a lot of stuff— stuff we did in the past that was wrong.
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One of the reasons it takes so long is because we are afraid to
HUMBLE ourselves and FACE the truth.
If you didn’t rate yourself very high on this one, and you are
thinking, “I’m not too much like Jesus”, don’t be discouraged.
You’re not what you’re supposed to be, what you’re going to be.
But, you’re not what you used to be either. Thank God, you’re not
the same anymore. You’re different and you need to stop
periodically and think about how your life has changed.
And, you ought to treat other people the same way. Those people
in your church - not as far along as you - don’t look at how far
they’ve got to go—look how far they’ve come. Some of them have
had horrible backgrounds, so look at how far they’ve come! This is
why I absolutely love watching baptisms, and can’t watch them
without crying. We’ve baptized about 15,000 in the last ten years,
and every time I watch, it reminds me of God’s power to change
lives, and it reminds me of God’s power in my life, how He has
changed me. If you ever get cynical about the Christian life, or
apathetic about ministry, just go watch a baptism, and remind
yourself that God is in the life changing business. Look at this next
verse:
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PURPOSE #4:
95a You were shaped FOR SERVING GOD.
96a
“… which God planned in advance for us to live our
lives doing.” Ephesians 2:10 (NCV)
Before you were even born, God planned the way that He wanted
you to serve Him: your ministry, your service. He planned it in
advance and He SHAPED’d you for that service.
Today, there are a lot of popular books that explain how to get the
most out of life. But, that’s not why God put you on earth. God did
not put you on earth to get the most out of life. He put you on this
earth to add to life, not to take from it. He made you to be a
contributor, not a consumer. He did not put you on earth just to
take up space, breathe, use resources, retire, and die. He made
you to make a difference on this planet, to be a contributor, not just
a consumer. You were put here to serve God by serving others.
And this is the Fourth Purpose of your life.
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As you go through the New Testament, the Bible says very clearly
that we were created to serve, we are saved to serve, we are
called to serve, we are gifted to serve, we are commanded to
serve, we are commissioned to serve, and, we are shaped to
serve. The Bible says in Isaiah 43
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And the same is true for us. God has shaped each of us
individually. Notice this next verse: “God has given each of you
some special abilities. Be sure to use them to make a lot of money
and retire…..” (Pause) Oh, that’s not what it says!… Let me try it
again:
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The shape that you have been given is not for your benefit. The
shape that you have been given is for the benefit of others, to help
other people. The gifts that I have been given are for your benefit,
not my own, and vice versa.
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“You shaped me, first inside, then out, you formed me in
my mother’s womb.” Psalm 139:13 (MSG)
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Now, those of you who have been through the Purpose Driven
Church Conference, or have read the book , “The Purpose Driven
Life”, or have been through Class 301, you know that there are five
things that God uses to shape you. God has used:
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THESE 5 GIFTS DETERMINE WHAT IS TO BE YOUR AREA OF
SERVICE OR MINISTRY.
SHAPE. These five things wired you or shaped you, and they
determine what is to be your area of service, what is to be your
ministry.
And, He doesn’t want you wishing you were somebody else, or had
their heart or personality or experiences.
And that is the Fourth Purpose of your life, and again, like worship
and fellowship, we have another word that is often misunderstood
and abused. Because a lot of people today think that ministry is
just for pastors or missionaries or paid professionals. But the Bible
says every member, EVERY MEMBER, is a minister. Need
scripture?
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“Your attitude must be like my own, for I, the Messiah,
did not come to be served, but to serve and to give my
life...” Matthew 20:28 (LB)
Circle the words “serve” and “give”. Those two words serve and
give, summarize the Christian life. The Christian life is all about
serving and giving. Somebody told a pastor, “That’s all you talk
about is: give, give, give!” Well, that’s the best definition of a
Christian I know:
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Now, let me say it like this, and you want to write this down: my
SHAPE reveals my ministry--my Spiritual gifts, Heart, Abilities,
Personality, and Experiences reveal my ministry, but my servant’s
heart reveals my maturity.
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Real servants:
1. Make themselves available to serve.
2 Timothy 2:4 (NASB)
2. Pay attention to needs. Galatians 6:10 (GW)
3. Do their best with what they have.
Ecclesiastes 11:4 (NLT)
4. Do every task with equal dedication. Colossians 3:23
5. Are faithful to their ministry. Matthew 25:23 (NLT)
6. Maintain a low profile. Galatians 1:10 (NIV)
That’s the first sign of a real servant—they do every task with equal
dedication. The Bible says
You’re never going to arrive at the state in life where you are too
important for mundane tasks. You will never arrive at the state in
life where you are too important for menial jobs. It’s part of your
character development.
Real servants do every task with equal dedication. Big task, little
task, known task, unknown task—hidden or upfront—they do it all
with equal joy and equal energy.
Second:
You see, real servants don’t serve for the applause and approval of
others. They live for an audience of One. JESUS.
Did you hear that? You’ve got to decide who you’re going to serve.
Are you going to serve for denominational rewards, or are you
going to serve for Christ? Are you going to serve for glory in your
local congregation, or are you going to serve for Christ?
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“I served the Lord with great humility and with tears,
although I was severely tested…” Acts 20:19 (NIV)
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When you’re “put”, you’d better stay put, until God says, “Okay, I’m
going to move you somewhere else.” This week, you’re going to be
served by many volunteers, none of whom are being paid. They do
it because they have a servant’s heart. In fact, I see some of them
here. If you’re here serving, would you raise your hand? Now, let’s
just appreciate them—I see some of them at the back. God bless
you guys. Thank you, thank you.
Real servants don’t worry about what other servants are doing.
They’re just too busy doing the work that God has given them. So,
they don’t have time to criticize, or compare, or compete with other
servants, or with other ministries.
In Romans 14:4 -I’d like to put this one in every Christian magazine:
“Be sure to do what you should, for then you will enjoy
119 the personal satisfaction of having done your work well,
and you won’t need to compare yourself to anyone
else.” Galatians 6:4 (NLT)
If you are a real servant, competition is illogical. It’s illogical for four
reasons:
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COMPETITION BETWEEN GOD’S SERVANTS IS ILLOGICAL
BECAUSE:
Jesus said:
“…He will not forget how hard you have worked for him,
123 and how you have shown your love to him by caring for
other Christians...” Hebrews 6:10 (NLT)
Remember those verses when you start to feel down about serving.
Now, maybe you’ve been feeling a little burned out in service lately
or burned out in ministry. What do you do? You do what Paul told
Timothy:
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PURPOSE #5:
126a You were made FOR A MISSION.
The Fifth Purpose of your life is this: You were made for a mission.
You were made for a mission. And the Bible makes this very, very
clear, over and over again. God put you on earth for a mission. In
John 17, verse 18, Jesus said:
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“In the same way that you gave me a mission in the
world, I give them a mission in the world.”
John 17:18 (MSG)
They are different. You need a ministry for believers and a mission
to unbelievers. You need both. You need a ministry to the body of
Christ, and you need a mission in the world.
And you need both, you need a ministry of service to the body of
Christ, to the family of God, to believers. And, you need a mission
to unbelievers in the world.
Jesus said:
Now what is my mission? Well, it’s very, very clear: Let’s read this
one verse among many we could have used - 2 Corinthians 5:18 &
20:
So, “We have been sent to speak for Christ.” Now listen: If you
want God’s blessing on your life in a great way, you must care
about what God cares about most. And what does He care about
most? He wants His lost children found. Does God care about
lost people? I guess so. How much does God care about a lost
world?
The Fifth Purpose of your life is to tell other people the Good News.
Now, why is my mission so important? Well, there are at least a
dozen reasons we could cover, but let me give you four reasons.
1. It is COMMANDED BY JESUS.
Now, this Great Commission is given to every believer. It’s not just
for pastors or missionaries, and by the way, it’s not the “Great
Suggestion”. Your mission is mandatory. It is not optional. Are
you aware that God holds you responsible for the unbelievers in
your life? He does. Look at this next verse:
We could end right there, on that one. But there’s more. The
second reason:
It’s the greatest thing I can do for someone. It’s the greatest thing I
can do for anybody. God has given us the privilege of urging
everyone to come into His favor and to be reconciled to Him. If
your neighbor had cancer or AIDS, and you knew the cure, and you
didn’t tell them, what would you call that? I’d call it criminal. And
yet we have something better: the way to peace, purpose,
forgiveness, power, eternal life—the world is far more ready to
receive the Good News than we are willing to share it. Part of the
problem is, we forget how hopeless it is without Christ. We forget
how good the Good News REALLY is.
“Only those who throw away their lives for my sake and
138a for the sake of the Good News, will ever know what it
means to really live.” Mark 8:35 (LB)
William James said: “The best use of life is to invest in that which
will outlast it.” Well, there’s only one thing that will outlast life here
on earth —the kingdom of God. It’s the only thing that’s going to
last. Everything else is going to burn up at the judgment.
“But the day of the Lord will come like a thief. The
139 heavens will disappear with a roar; the elements will be
destroyed by fire, and the earth and everything in it will
be laid bare.” 2 Peter 3:10 (NIV)
Given enough time, one day, all your trophies are going to be trash.
I hate to tell you that, but your kids aren’t going to keep your
trophies. Your purpose gives life meaning.
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4. God’s timetable for history’s conclusion is connected
to the completion of the Commission we’ve been given.
You know, prophecy scholars are always trying to figure out the
signs of the time. I always think that’s kind of interesting, since
Jesus said in Matthew 24:36
“No one knows about that day or hour, not even the
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angels, nor the Son, but only the Father...”
Matthew 24:36 (NIV)
Jesus said, “Even I don’t know the sign for the return, only the
Father knows….” If only the Father knows, how am I going to figure
it out on my own?
Realize that there’s more to life than just here and now. Fix your
eyes on eternity. Live in light of eternity. There’s more to life than
just this.
You know, so much of what we do with our time and our energy
isn’t going to last a year from now, much less for eternity. It just
isn’t going to matter. How much of what we do isn’t going to matter,
even ten years from now? So don’t “major on minors”. Know the
difference between what’s urgent and what’s ultimate, and focus on
that.
Third,
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“…let us strip off anything that slows us down or holds
us back...” Hebrews 12:1 (LB)
God is not willing that any should perish—He wants His lost
children found. The church that basically says, “We don’t want to
grow” is saying to the world: “You can go to hell. We’re all saved,
we’re happy little clams, we’re all going to heaven, and the rest of
the world can go to hell.” As long as there is one person within a
comfortable traveling distance of your church, you have to keep
growing. You don’t grow for your benefit. You grow because
people without Christ go into an eternity without Christ. Love
demands, Love leaves no choice: we have to care, because God
cares. And, as long as there’s one person who doesn’t know
Christ, we still have the Great Commission to fulfill.
I want you to rate yourself on this one: How well are you
completing your mission of evangelism? How important would God
say it is to you? Would you just write that down?
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This next section is a personal story about the last hours before
Rick Warrens father passed away. We have left this story in to
inspire you and to serve as an example of how you can tell people
about recognizing the purpose of your life and focusing on the
eternal.
You have two options – You can share Rick’s story, telling the
conference that it is Rick’s story or you may want to relay a
personal story that demonstrates the same truths.
didn’t talk about books he’d read or movies he’d gone to. He talked
about the things that mattered most to him—building churches.
One night, just a few days before he died, my wife and my niece,
Alyssa, were in his room. When all of a sudden, my dad became
agitated and tried to get up, all the while in this dreamlike state.
And my wife, Kay, said: “Jimmy, you’ve got to lie down, you’re
frail.” And he kept trying to get out of bed. And she said: “Jimmy,
why are you trying to get out of bed?” And he said, “Gotta save
one more for Jesus. Gotta save one more for Jesus. Gotta save
one more for Jesus.” He kept saying this, over and over and over,
“Save one more for Jesus, save one more for Jesus, gotta save
one more for Jesus.” He said this maybe a hundred times in the
next hour.
As I sat next to the side of his bed, I put my head down, tears were
coming down my cheeks, and my dad reached out and put his hand
on my head, almost like a blessing, and said: “Save one more for
Jesus. Save one more for Jesus.” I intend for that to be the theme
for the rest of my life. I DON’T KNOW a more important task!
I decided a long time ago, I’m NOT going to waste my life. And IF
there is something more important, I want to know. But there is
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In the next 365 days, 234,000 Californians will die, and most of
them will go into an eternity without Christ. In the next 365 days,
2.3 million Americans will die. And most of them will go into an
eternity without Jesus Christ. In the next 365 days, 54 million
people in the world will die, and most of them will go into an eternity
without Jesus Christ.
149 What are you going to do about what you’ve just heard?
(Pause)
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Will you commit the rest of your life to the eternal purposes of
God? The Bible says,
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“…We beg you, Please don’t squander one bit of this
marvelous life God has given us.”
2 Corinthians 6:1 (MSG)
“A Great Commitment
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to the Great Commandment
and the Great Commission
will grow a Great Christian.”
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Matthew 22 says:
“ ‘LOVE THE LORD YOUR GOD with all your heart and with all
153 your soul and with all your mind’. This is the first and
greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘LOVE
YOUR NEIGHBOR as yourself’. All the Law and Prophets
hang on these two commandments.”
Matthew 22:36-40 (NIV)
158 “Baptize them in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy
Spirit”—that’s bringing them into the family and into the
fellowship.
159 “Teach them to do everything that I commanded you”—
that’s discipleship
Jesus said:
I hope you’ll start on that. But it all begins with a simple “yes”. My
life was changed many years ago, with a single verse. It’s an
unusual verse, tucked away in Acts 13:36,
Who wants to stay around here anyway when God’s through with
you? Now think about this. David served God’s purposes. He did
that which is timeless. But he did it in his generation. He did it in a
timely way - the timeless in a timely way. Jesus served God’s
purposes—that which was eternal. He did it in a contemporary way.
He served that which never changes in an environment that is
always changing. He was biblical and relevant at the same time.
With all my heart, I want people to say that about me when I die:
that I served God’s purposes in my generation. Then I died. But I
also want people to be able to say that about you, too. That you
served God’s purposes in your generation, then you died. If you
came here discouraged, you need to start focusing on God’s
eternal purposes.
And one day, we’re going to stand and we’re going to shout,
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Ask people to come forward and to get on their knees with you and
pray. Ask them, “If you are willing to commit your life to God’s
purposes – as one who takes risks and believes God and who is
choosing to never give up – would you come forward right now and
join me on my knees as we pray together.” If the front fills up quickly,
invite people to get on their knees in the aisle or right where they are.
Invite them to follow you in this prayer (or a prayer like it) OUT LOUD.
(You pray a phrase, and then let them pray that phrase)
Father,
I want to be used by You. Use me for your purposes, God. Anytime,
Anyplace, Anywhere. Give me the faith to trust you, and the courage
to act on that faith. By your grace, I am choosing to never give up.
Use me to bring people into your family, to build people up to maturity,
to train your people for ministry and to send your people out for their
life mission. All to your glory. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
After praying this prayer, take a few moments to personally pray for
them.
If you have a music team, sing together and worship as you close the
conference.
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Will you live the rest of your life for the purposes of God? Will
you?
Let’s bow our heads. If you would say, “More than anything else, I
want God’s blessing on my life, and on my ministry, my family, and
I want to refocus my life on these five eternal purposes that God
has created me for.”
Then I invite you to follow me in this prayer, and I invite you to pray
it aloud: If you’re ashamed to be identified in front of a bunch of
other believers, you’ll certainly never do it in the world. So just
repeat this after me, where you’re seated:
Father, more than anything else, I want to fulfill the purposes that
You created me for. I want You to use me any time, any way, any
place. I want my life to bring You pleasure. I surrender my heart in
worship. And I want to grow in loving You. I want to be used to
build Your fellowship, instead of tearing it down. Thank You for the
privilege of being a part of Your family. It is my heart’s desire to
become like You, Jesus. Do whatever it takes to cause that to
happen in my life. If that means pain, so be it. Help me to discover
my SHAPE for ministry. And help me to have a servant’s heart,
and not worry about what other servants are doing.
Father, I want to thank you for these who prayed this prayer. Even
before we were born, You knew we’d be here today in Southern
California, in May of 2002. May this be a turning point—may we
never be the same again. May we serve Your purposes in our
generation. Father, for those who are discouraged, give them
encouragement. Help them to realize how much You love them.
That You planned them for Your pleasure. You created them, You
formed them. You fashioned them for a ministry in the church and
for a mission in the world. And we want to give glory to You. We
want You to take the honor, the power. You created all for Your
glory!
Lord, help us to remember that it’s not about us. It’s ALL about
You. And we exist for Your glory, Your pleasure, Your benefit, Your
desire. To the best of our abilities, we commit to live a life that is
pleasing to You, and to fulfill these purposes.
In Jesus’ name, Amen
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1. Spiritual gifts (1 Corinthians 12; Romans 8; Ephesians 4)
First, God uses the spiritual gifts that he gave you to shape you.
The moment that you become a believer, you are given spiritual
gifts. These are mentioned in the book of Romans, the book of
Ephesians and the book of I Corinthians.
The Bible tells us that some are given the gift of teaching, and
some are given the gift of wisdom, and some are given the gift of
helps and encouragement, and on and on. And so we want to help
people discover their spiritual gift, because if you’re gifted to be a
teacher, then you should be a teacher in the body of Christ. If
you’re gifted at being a leader, then you should be a leader in the
body of Christ.
Now let’s say, that I have the gift of teaching. My heart will also
influence that gift. For instance, if I am gifted at teaching but I have
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SHAPE Addendum
The Bible gives us plenty of proof that God uses all types of
personalities. Peter was a sanguine. Paul was a choleric. Jeremiah
was a melancholy. When you look at the personality differences in
the twelve disciples, it’s easy to see why they sometimes had
interpersonal conflict. There is no “right” or “wrong” temperament
for ministry. We need all kinds of personalities to balance the
church and give it flavor.
And then the last thing you look at are the experiences you have
had. God never wastes an experience. And there are four kinds of
experiences that you have had that help determine what your
ministry should be in your church.
3a 1. educational
God looks at your educational experiences. I’m not just talking
about going to school, I’m talking about the things you have learned
in life – the things you’ve learned from parents, the things you’ve
learned from relatives, aunts and uncles and brothers and sisters.
The things you’ve learned from friends, those are educational
experiences.
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2. vocational
God also uses vocational experiences, jobs that you’ve had, skills
that you’ve learned in different jobs that you’ve developed over the
years of your life.
3a 3. spiritual
Next, God uses spiritual experiences to shape you and to make you
the kind of person he wants you to be and to make you effective for
ministry. Spiritual experiences that were a turning point in your life
are especially important in your development. God uses times of
commitment to the Lord, church services or spiritual experiences at
a camp retreat or a conference. You may have read a book,
listened to a tape or attended a seminar that added to these
spiritual experiences. God even uses the words spoken to us by
other Christians as an opportunity for spiritual growth
3a 4. painful
But most importantly of all, God uses painful experiences to shape
us. Did you know that the Bible says in II Corinthians chapter 1 that
God intentionally takes us through certain problems, trials and
difficulties in our life. He takes us through those difficult
experiences and comforts us in our sorrow and in our pain, so that
we can then turn around and comfort others with the same comfort
that we have been given. God never wastes a hurt. And one of the
ways that you can learn what you ministry is to be, is to look at the
painful experiences that you have gone through in life. For
instance, who could help a parent grieve the loss of a child better
than another parent who has lost a child? Who could help
someone with a disease such as cancer better than someone who
has had cancer in their own life? Who could help someone recover
from a problem or an addiction like a drug addiction or alcoholism
better than someone who has dealt with the same addiction? And
who could help someone who has had a spouse die or divorce
them better than someone who had a spouse die or divorce them?
What I am saying is this – when you look at your life, you need to
go back and examine all of the painful experiences you have had,
because God often wants to use the very thing that has hurt you
the most in order to help and to heal other people.