The document discusses how sociology views the development of the self through socialization. It argues that the self is formed through interactions with others and learning social norms. A young child first sees themselves through the views of family members, developing a fragmented self. Over time, as they learn to see themselves from the perspective of society as a whole, they develop a complete self that understands and follows broader social rules and expectations. While socialization empowers individuals and allows them to function in society, it also constrains personal freedom by restricting people to social norms. The document examines various sociological theories about the relationship between self and society.
The document discusses how sociology views the development of the self through socialization. It argues that the self is formed through interactions with others and learning social norms. A young child first sees themselves through the views of family members, developing a fragmented self. Over time, as they learn to see themselves from the perspective of society as a whole, they develop a complete self that understands and follows broader social rules and expectations. While socialization empowers individuals and allows them to function in society, it also constrains personal freedom by restricting people to social norms. The document examines various sociological theories about the relationship between self and society.
The document discusses how sociology views the development of the self through socialization. It argues that the self is formed through interactions with others and learning social norms. A young child first sees themselves through the views of family members, developing a fragmented self. Over time, as they learn to see themselves from the perspective of society as a whole, they develop a complete self that understands and follows broader social rules and expectations. While socialization empowers individuals and allows them to function in society, it also constrains personal freedom by restricting people to social norms. The document examines various sociological theories about the relationship between self and society.
Sociology and the self: between freedom and constraint
THE SOCIALIZATION OF THE SELF: THE SOUP-SPILLING KID • SELF, the
modern thinking and acting individual, cannot come to being without the input and influence of society making a strong case for the interrelated and inextricable links between the two. • George Herbert Mead (1863-1931) identified the Self as the product of the individual's interaction with others in society that occurs in the process of socialization. • So how does society engender a complete and functional Self? EVOLUTION OF THE SELF FROM BEING, AT FIRST, FRAGMENTED AND THEN LATER, COMPLETE • First rudimentary terms that map out the key figures in our social world – the members of our immediate family, our significant others. . An important element in how a person gains a rudimentary and yet incomplete Self is to learn how other people regard him or her. • It is only through the standpoint of one's significant others, they add, that a child first achieves a sense of rudimentary identity. • It is therefore through the basic social unit of society or the family that a young person is enabled and equipped to achieve its full potential at the onset. FORMATION OF A FRAGMENTED INCOMPLETE SELF • Maria realizes that not only her sister disapproving of soup-spilling but that belief is apparently also shared by other members of her immediate family, her significant others. She also comes to the conclusion that the other customers in the restaurant including the waiters were also in disapproval of her act. • Maria has come to the awareness that "one does not spill soup” in general. • Generalized other – simple shift in consciousness that actually elevates our identity and self-regard to a complex level of awareness that now includes within our personal vista not just our significant others, included for our consideration is what Mead refers to as the "generalized other" • Generalized other is indicated by the term "one" as a nonspecific but mass noun commanding all of us not to spill soup. • Who therefore is the voice exhorting us to follow his general commandment against soup-spilling? Isn't it no one else but the loud booming voice of Society? • This allegory of the soup-spilling Maria is actually the sociological narrative of how individuals achieve complete Selves according to the re-interpretation of Berger and Luckmann of Mead's pioneering ideas. • We begin to have an idea of who we are as we put ourselves in the shoes of our loved ones. • However, we only become completely human once we have properly inculcated the views and expectations of society-atlarge as voiced by the generalized other in our heads. • We only become wholly human if we are able to see ourselves from the vantage point of society's expectations. • We only become bonafide members of society with socially acceptable Selves if we already know the rules and norms of society which goes beyond just the knowledge that one does not spill soup. • It is also paradoxical situation here: we are given skills and the consciousness, the desire, to be truly free but in the same breathe also restricted from attaining such full and unmitigated freedoms in favor societal norms and rules MODERNITY AND THE SELF: THE LUMAD ASTRONAUT • Has the Self always been mired in this paradoxical situation of being empowered and yet restricted? Has there always been a modern and self-aware Self across history whose freedoms are constantly mitigated by society? • Sociologists share in their analysis is the belief that transformations in the economy of society have given birth to the modern individual's autonomous and independent practices. • Collective consciousness – the totality of beliefs and sentiments common to average citizens of the same society • Gemeinschaft and Gesellschaft societies referring to the intrinsic differences between rural and urban societies. • We are born into specific social epochs (period, time) whose characteristics either enable us towards certain desired ends or severely restrict us from going beyond established limitations. • We are indeed free, but only within the confines of predetermined borders. • Structure – overarching sociological structure where individuals navigate their limited freedoms • Collective effervescence - kind of social spirit borne out of people's interactions in society. The social nature of life exerts considerable influence on individuals by empowering them on the one hand, but also impinging on their choices and limiting their potentials, on the other. • Death through one's own hand may be the most private and willful act a person can do. The most private act of suicide, according to Durkheim, is more than the willful choice of individuals. Rather, it is an indication of a society's health. • The existence of social inequality is the strongest case for the power and influence of structure over individuals. • Compare two young individuals: one born into a first world setting with middle class parents, while the other, a Lumad child from rural Mindanao whose education is periodically interrupted by evacuations due to the militarization of their communities. • Which of the two will have greater chances of achieving their dreams? Who will have more obstacles blocking his or her way? • The case of the Lumad aspiring to be an astronaut is an example of how social structures define our life-chances. • The Sociological Imagination brought attention to the structural limits of individual life-chances. • Individuals that occupy the same social position and have the same socially-determined traits shall have the same lifechances. • Sociological imagination promotes this quality of mind that looks into the relationship of "biography, history, and of their intersections within society" • Useful in the practice of the sociological imagination was the differentiation of personal troubles from social issues • Troubles - have to do with problems that concern only people and circumstance within one's immediate milieu (environment, setting) and whose resolution can also be found within this limited realm • Issues – pertain to shared realities with a greater number of people within a larger social and historical milieu. THE SELF AS A SOCIALLY CONSTRUCTED AND IMPRISONED ONION • Self remains the basic unit of society upon whom the larger structures of society rely on to make them functioning and real. • Goffman likens everyday social reality as the site of a performance akin to what takes place on a theatrical stage. • Everyday life can now be dissected according to parts of a theater where there is a setting, script, and actors. • We put our best foot forward in our dealings with people in everyday life and this constant pretentious performance is accessible to others through our front stage even as we hide and suppress our real selves in the back stage. • Goffman is often quoted to have said that the Self is an onion, all layers and no core. • Constant social pressure to perform and a social audience where we don layers of masks one after the other. • Another metaphor is Self as a coat hanger. • It only achieves true form and function when a coat is placed on it. Remove all the masks or the coat from the coat hanger, then it is only emptiness at the core. Foucault • Looks at the constitution of the modern Self and society through the prism of the modern penal system particularly in his work Discipline and Punish: the Birth of the Prison System. • It serves more as a symbolic representation of the power of the State and society, a physical reminder of its power to take away freedoms when its laws are violated. • Panopticon - architectural element plays an important surveilling function. The inmates believe that they are being watched because of the presence of the tower and its one-way windows even if no guard is actually inside. • That feeling of always being watched or that nagging voice inside our heads that exhort commands and edicts indicate the presence of the panopticon beyond the prison into the most mundane and commonplace of locations in modern life, that is in each of our minds erected there stealthily by society through the process of socialization. • Self achieves completion when it has finally internalized society's mores and expectations. • One only becomes wholly human once the panoptic power of society has been properly imbibed and planted in your mind. BEYOND THE SELF: PRACTICING FREEDOM AMID CONSTRAINT • We complete the process of achieving Selves once we are taught the rules that govern the social order. • We are imbued with potential as well as social skills at the start of our journey but always with the caveat that we follow society's established rules. • Choices that we make in life as practices of freedom, are actually contextually determined by larger historical forces that evolve independently from human will. • We do not choose the circumstance of our birth and the differentiated struggles we face confronting the social structures. • The sociological imagination actually encourages us to have a sensitivity for the impact of these socio-historical forces in our personal lives, an understanding of how our biographies intersect with history so that we will not lose our bearings navigating social life. • Sociology has been rightly insisting on the dialectical relationship between Self and Society. • Only by understanding the circumstances of our "unfreedom" that we share with others, will we be able to begin the magnificent task of transforming society for the freedom not just of our individual Selves but also of one and all. Sociology - the study of the development, structure, and functioning of human society. 1 2 Rudimentary – undeveloped 3 4 5 Inculcated – instill, implant, fix in 6 Bonafide – genuine, real 7 8 Intrinsic – belonging naturally, essential 9 Collective effervescence (CE) is a sociological concept introduced by Émile Durkheim. According to Durkheim, a community or society may at times come together and simultaneously communicate the same thought and participate in the same action. 10 11 Understanding and being able to exercise the sociological imagination helps us understand the relationship between the individual and society. Mills focuses on the distinction of personal troubles and public issues 12 Personal troubles occur on individual level (limited by the scope of one's biography), while public issues transcend the individual and are collective interests or values felt to be threatened. Man is a social and an historical actor who must be understood, if at all, in close and intricate interplay with social and historical structures. (The Social Imagination, 1959) Take unemployment for example. One can become unemployed because some factors on individual level: lack of skills, low self-esteem, personal decision, lazyness, etc. It's a personal problem if only one person being unemployed among millions of individuals within a nation. But it can be a public issue if let's say 25% of a nation's population is being unemployed. 13 14 15 16 Mores – traditions, way of life 17 18 19