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OPTIMISM (We Should Still Work On This Given Info When We Incorporate It Sa Final Paper Naten, I Honestly Didn't Organize This As Much As I'd Hoped)
OPTIMISM (We Should Still Work On This Given Info When We Incorporate It Sa Final Paper Naten, I Honestly Didn't Organize This As Much As I'd Hoped)
OPTIMISM (We Should Still Work On This Given Info When We Incorporate It Sa Final Paper Naten, I Honestly Didn't Organize This As Much As I'd Hoped)
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Cherry, K. (2020, March 27). Martin Seligman: The Father of Modern Positive Psychology.
https://www.verywellmind.com/martin-seligman-biography-2795527.
Elizabeth Scott, M. S. (2020, October 11). The Differences Between Optimists and Pessimists.
https://www.verywellmind.com/the-benefits-of-optimism-3144811.
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Seligman, M. E. P. (2018). Learned optimism: how to change your mind and your life. Nicholas
Brealey Publishing.
PERSONAL EXPERIENCE (we can definitely summarize this, I just wanted to write this in
detail so you’d fully understand haha) I can recall an instance wherein optimism stood out in my
life and I do regard myself as a fairly optimistic person. It was during my life as a grade 12
student, most of us were preparing and taking college admissions exams, but I was definitely not
as thrilled. I dreaded the thought of having to take a college course I did not want, apparently my
family and I were not on the same page during that time. They were dead set on making me take
something that had to do with humanities, the arts, business, or IT. I, on the other end of the
spectrum, was clearly determined to pursue a medical related course/ a pre-med since I am an
aspiring doctor. It made complete sense for me take a course that was relevant and beneficial to
my dream career. But my family did not support me on this, they thought I was better off
pursuing something else. I couldn’t deny it and lie to myself that I didn’t also excel in their fields
of suggestion. As my family said, I was somewhat the jack of all trades, in a good way I suppose.
They certainly thought I was just confused but I wasn’t, I knew deep down that I was ready to
endure the long term journey of becoming a doctor, a surgeon perhaps. Their disapproval about it
really brought me down, they even stripped me of the right to decide in regards as to what school
I’ll be entering. So they eventually gave me a condition, “Pass the UPCAT and you’ll get what
you want.” This was a major setback but clearly I was out of my mind and driven by pure
emotion, therefore silly me didn’t take it seriously. I barely made an effort to review, just to rebel
against them. I cried after realizing the stupidity of my actions because who would just take the
UPCAT for granted? Well, it just happened to be me. I started to wallow in self-pity, thinking I
was really going to let go of my ambitions. Fast forward in time, the results came in, I passed but
I didn’t make the quota, meaning I was a candidate for recon. There was a sigh of relief and
worry at the same time. Although, I was faced with another problem yet again, I didn’t want to
take any of the courses, not even dentistry. I could vividly remember the disappointment that was
plastered on my dad’s face, it was agonizing. I’ve never seen him look at me that way and I had
to bear that exact look for a week or so. I kept praying for some sort of sign to lift my spirits up
or for guidance. I told myself that maybe I’m set for greater things than this. I made sure to etch
in the tiny emotional, immature brain of mine. After all, it was the all that was left of me apart
from a glimmer of hope. Suddenly, my Uncle and Aunt who are residing in Australia called us
up, they offered to shelter me and aid me to study there. They called out of nowhere, I can't even
describe how shocked we all were. My dad was extremely apprehensive at first, going there
would mean I was on my own and that I had to be independent. Sooner or later after a couple
hundred arguments, I was able to convince him to allow me to become an international student.
This was it, my answered prayer, I really was set for greater things. The pandemic is surely
delaying my plans but all is well now. They let me study here in FEU Manila while waiting for
international student updates which have been quite positive so far. I’m not rushing into things
anymore, we’ve all got our own timelines, we should never give up and lose hope. They even let
me decide and take control of my decisions in life. They gave me this unimaginable freedom I
thought I would never have until I graduated. I literally was on the verge of letting go but as said
by Ada Adams, “There is a light at the end of every tunnel. Some tunnels just happen to be