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Chapter-3 3
Chapter-3 3
Activity 4
“ME AND MY COPING”
Step 2. After listing down your coping strategies, choose a partner to share
your list.
Meditate
Stretch
Listen to music
Exercise aerobically
Watch television
Go to the movies
Read
Work on puzzles or play games
Go to a health club
Go fishing or hunting
Engage in a hobby
Act violently
Yell at someone
Overeat
Smoke tobacco
Kick something
Throw something
Bite fingernails
Take tranquilizers
You should compare the number of positive and negative responses. If your negative responses
outnumber your positive responses, you have reason to be concerned about your stress level. You
will need to try some of the positive responses in an attempt to reduce your level of stress.
Modified from Anspaugh DJ, Hamrick MH, Rosato FD: Wellness:
concepts and applications, St. Louis, 1991, Mosby.
What is stress?
Eustress
Neustress
“Neutral” stress
A sensory stimulus that has no direct consequence or effect on the person
A situation or activity that you do not find threatening yet not enjoyable
Example: Incidents you hear in the news
2. Emotion-focused Coping
• It involves lowering, if not eliminating, negative emotional responses
(i.e., embarrassment).
• It is an option when the source of stress is external and beyond the person’s
control
3. Cognitive coping
• It involves a conscious intellectual activity of managing stressful situations
• You use your mind to combat stress-inducing thoughts.
Emotional Strategies
10. Social support and relatedness
11. Self-nurturing (yes, you are worth it)
12. Good communication
13. Assertiveness
14. Recreational activities (“playtime”)
15. Emotional release
16. Sense of humor (ability to see things in perspective)
Cognitive Strategies
17. Constructive thinking (ability to counter negative thinking)
18. Distraction (ability to distract yourself from negative preoccupations)
19. Task-oriented (vs. reactive) approach to problems
20. Acceptance (ability to accept/cope with setbacks)
21. Tolerance for ambiguity (ability to see shades of gray)
Philosophical/Spiritual Strategies
22. Consistent goals or purpose to work toward
23. Positive philosophy of life
24. Religious/spiritual life and commitment
The effect of culture on stress and coping is so pervading that the people within
the cultural group does not notice it. But when cultural contexts are compared, the
differences between how people deal with stress become striking.
It makes the person weak, timid, Not trying to achieve makes for
and meek. a less harried and stressful life.
Ningas cogon It makes a person an underachiever This trait makes for a peaceful
because he/she cannot persevere and tranquil life because one
in seeing things (i.e., projects, is unruffled should things go
tasks, or goals) to its fruition. wrong.
Social Class
Those who are in the lower social class have higher mental and emotional stress than
those who are affluent. Three common factors are:
1. Inadequate financial resources;
2. Greater use of ineffective coping strategies; and
3. Less access to social support.
Race
Research shows that responses to stress vary, and the person’s ethnicity is relevant
to his/her stress response. Ronald Kessler and Harold Neighbors (1986) found out
that even when social class is controlled, race continues to be an important predictor
of distress. Their study showed that African American women still feel more stressed
compared with European American females of the same social class. However, African
American women also have more access to social support than European American
females. This may help explain the pattern that even though African Americans often
experience higher levels of stress than white American females, they have lower levels
of mental disorder.
Type of Stressor
Different cultural groups live in different geographical, economic, and political
areas. Hence, the types of stress a cultural group is exposed to will also depend on their
general location. For example, for Filipinos a 2017 survey showed that their jobs/studies
were their leading cause of stress. However, for someone who lives in war-torn Syria, the
primary concern would have been something else.
Perception of Stressors
Cultures differ according to what their members perceive as stressful. For example,
Southeast Asian neighbors like Korea or Japan, academic success is given higher
importance. This degree of educational stress is reflected in the number of Japanese
students committing suicide for not passing an exam (Naughton, 1997). However, such
occurrences though not unheard are very rare in the Philippines.
Taking care of the self: The need for self-care and compassion
Adapted
Maslow called the four bottom levels (physiological, safety, belongingness and love,
esteem) as deficiency needs because a person does not feel anything if these needs are
met, but he/she becomes anxious if these needs are not met. On the other hand, the fifth
level (self-actualization) according to Maslow was a growth need because it enables the
person to reach his or her full potential as a human being.
Maslow’s theory holds that human beings are motivated by unsatisfied needs. Thus,
lower needs take precedence over higher needs, and they must be satisfied first. If a need
is unmet, the person feels agitated, and this motivates him or her to act and find ways to
satisfy the need. When a need is mostly satisfied, it is no longer a source of motivation
and the person moves on to the next higher need. Maslow further stated that a person
could only move up to the higher level of need once the lower level is securely met, and
only then will a person be motivated to work on self-actualization. Maslow’s concept
provides a glimpse on underlying causes of difficult behavior, as well as emotional and
mental problems.
This table illustrates how a person may react when needs are unsatisfied.
MASLOW’S HIERARCHY OF NEEDS IF NOT SATISFIED
*feel sick, irritated, uncomfortable
PHYSIOLOGICAL NEEDS *if pathological, we can eat, drink too
(A need that must be met every day) much or engage in hoarding behaviors
*will cause death
*can affect our perception, e.g.,
paranoia
SAFETY NEEDS * can lead to neurosis, insecurity
* if pathological, can develop phobias,
such as agoraphobia
*become increasingly susceptible to
loneliness and social anxieties
BELONGING - LOVE NEEDS
* if pathological, can lead to antisocial
behavior
ESTEEM NEEDS * low self-esteem
Two forms: * inferiority complex
* if pathological, can lead to depression
1) Lower-form needs :
Such as respect from others, for status,
fame, glory, recognition, attention, reputation,
appreciation, dignity, even dominance
2) Higher form:
Involves self-respect, including such
feelings as confidence, competence,
achievement, mastery, independence, and
freedom
* can cause feelings of lack of meaning
in life
*if pathological, metapathologies,
SELF-ACTUALIZATION NEEDS
such as boredom, cynicism, alienation
(feeling isolated, detached, lack of
sympathy, estrangement)
Source: http://www.benchmarkinstitute.org/
Everytime you are stressed you say, “I had a rough day, so I’m going for a drink to
unwind. Self-care!”
Everytime you like something, “This is really not in my budget, but I should not
deprive myself ‘coz you know, self-care!”
Or, “I am so hungry, but I’m on a diet so I won’t eat. Taking care of my weight is self-
care!”
These notions of self-care are oversimplified. Proper self-care is taking a very active
and powerful choice to engage in activities that will result in acquiring or maintaining
optimal health that cover the physical, psychological, emotional, social, and spiritual
components.
Self-care is vital for the management of daily stressors and challenges, as well
as overall health and wellness. Self-care is neither overindulging nor unnecessarily
depriving yourself. The keyword to self-care is balance; being good to yourself will
enhance the likelihood of living to your fullest potential.
Human beings are actually wired for compassion, rather than self-interest, according
to scientific research. What is compassion? Compassion, framed as an emotion, is the
felt response to perceiving suffering that involves an authentic desire to ease distress
(Goetz, Keltner, & Simon-Thomas, 2010). It is a kind and caring emotional response to
perceived suffering that acknowledges the shared human experience of imperfection,
and that involves an authentic desire to help.
Compassion is often confused with that of empathy and altruism although
compassion does involve empathy and altruistic behavior. However, empathy as defined
by researchers is the visceral or emotional experience of another person’s feelings
(Psychology Today, 2013; De Souza, 2016). In reading a sense, it is an automatic mirroring
of another’s emotion, like feeling sad when reading a soldier’s goodbye letter to his
family, even though the soldier and his family are unknown to you.