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Managing Production Editor: Richard Hunt Amazon offers more than 180,000 parenting guides— more than double the num-
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ber of diet books, as psychology professor Robert Epstein notes in “What Makes
Senior Product Manager: A ngela Cesaro a Good Parent” (page 58). Clearly, many parents long for child-rearing advice. The
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articles in this issue offer a host of insights grounded solidly in scientific research.
Web Production Associates: N ick Bisceglia, The findings might surprise you. Academic testing, for instance, has a terri-
R A I S E G RE AT KIDS
Ian Kelly
ble rap these days. Yet done correctly, it beats other study methods for fixing infor-
Editorial Administrator: Ericka Skirpan mation in a student’s mind (page 38). Moreover, telling children that they are
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smart can backfire; if you want them to be eager learners and creative thinkers,
Senior Production Manager: Christina Hippeli praising effort is far more effective (page 10).
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Beyond wanting our children to love learning, we hope that they will get along
well with others, be happy and bounce back from adversity. More time for
President: Steven Inchcoombe
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unstructured play may be part of what is needed. This activity has been linked
Executive Vice President, Global Advertising to improved social development; it also enhances cognition and language skills
and Sponsorship: Jack Laschever
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(page 50). And go to page 58 for 10 scientifically validated steps parents can take
Associate Vice President, Business Development: to raise happy, well-adjusted kids.
Diane McGarvey
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Teens may seem like aliens, and their brains a re d ifferent from those of both
Christian Dorbandt adults and younger kids. Neuroscience reveals that the recklessness of the teen
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Richard Zinken
years is the product of a brain that has a newfound taste for exploration but under-
Associate Consumer Marketing Director: developed impulse control. Although this makes teens seem frighteningly rebel-
Catherine Bussey
Senior Consumer Marketing Manager: Lou Simone
lious, it also means that their brains are capable of great creativity and adaptabil-
Consumer Marketing Operations Manager: ity (page 92). Other unexpected positive news: peer pressure can work for good as
Kay Floersch
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well as ill; it can actually induce older kids to learn faster from both positive and
Marketing Director: Diane Schube negative experiences and improve their performance on school tasks (page 110).
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This collection also speaks to parents facing unusually taxing situations. For
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Marketing Research Director: Rick Simone children with intense anxiety and fear, for instance, investigators have shown that
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techniques enabling youngsters to gradually face worries head-on can do wonders
Christine Kaelin (page 76). Articles also tackle divorce (page 90) and defiance (page 64) and discuss
Head of Communications, USA: Rachel Scheer
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therapies that have proved helpful to children on the autism spectrum (page 70).
Matt Bondlow, Janet Yano (West Coast) Epstein reports that you will already be moving in the right direction if you
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follow this simple guidance: give your kids lots of love and affection. The pages
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Andrea Gawrylewski
Some of the articles in Scientific American Mind
are adapted from articles originally appearing
Collections Editor
in Gehirn & Geist. MindEditors@sciam.com
58 What Makes a Good Parent? 98 Bad Mix for the Teen Brain
A scientific analysis ranks the 10 most effective Heavy alcohol consumption may harm the
child-rearing practices. Surprisingly, some don’t developing brain, significantly impairing learning,
even involve the kids. By Robert Epstein memory and thinking in young people.
By Janet Hopson
64 Oh, Behave!
An interactive parent-training program can stamp 102 Where’s Dad?
out behavior problems in kids—and abuse from The influence of fathers on their teenage children
parents. By Ingrid Wickelgren has long been overlooked. Now researchers
are finding surprising ways that dads make
70 Help for the Child with Autism a difference. By Paul Raeburn
The disorder remains a medical mystery with no
cure in sight, but some existing therapies produce Also: Build Your Own Family
lasting benefits, and more are on the horizon. By Roni Jacobson
By Nicholas Lange and Christopher J. McDougle
110 The Positive Side of Peer Pressure
76 Fear Not, Child By not tapping the teenage fixation on social
Children with anxiety disorders can wallop life, schools are missing an opportunity to
their worries—and get back their life—by being motivate students.
encouraged to do just what they fear most. One By Annie Murphy Paul
doctor details how he helps his young patients.
By Jerry Bubrick
112 End Note
84 Beyond Shyness
That boy who never speaks in class? Chances
The Touch Screen Generation
are he has an anxiety disorder called selective
Are mobile devices ruining today’s children?
mutism that demands the one thing he dreads
Science weighs in.
the most: attention. By Claudia Wallis
By David Pogue
90 Is Divorce Bad for Children?
The breakup may be painful, but most kids adjust
well over time.
By Hal Arkowitz and Scott O. Lilienfeld
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at more predictable ones, and experi lieve that animals and plants have an “es can explain, for instance, if someone is
menters can use this behavior to figure out sence”— an invisible core that stays the acting oddly because he or she believes
what babies expect to happen. The stron same even if outside appearances change. something that is not true.
gest results, however, come from studies For babies and young children, the By the end of the 20th century exper
that observe actions as well: Which ob most important knowledge of all is iments had thus charted impressively ab
jects do babies reach for or crawl to? knowledge of other people. Andrew N. stract and sophisticated knowledge in
How do babies and young children imi Meltzoff of the University of Washing babies and the equally impressive growth
tate the actions of people around them? ton showed that newborns already un of that knowledge as children get older.
Although very young children have derstand that people are special and will Some scientists have argued that babies
a hard time telling us what they think, imitate their facial expressions. must be born knowing much of what
we can use language in more subtle ways In 1996 Betty Repacholi (now at the adults know about how objects and peo
to tease out what they know. For exam University of Washington) and I found ple behave. Undoubtedly, newborns are
ple, Henry Wellman of the University of that 18-month-olds can understand that far from being blank slates, but the
Michigan has analyzed recordings of I might want one thing, whereas you changes in children’s knowledge also
children’s spontaneous conversations want another. An experimenter showed suggest that they are learning about the
for clues to their thinking. We can give 14- and 18-month-olds a bowl of raw world from their experiences.
children very focused questions — for broccoli and a bowl of goldfish crackers One of the greatest mysteries of psy
instance, asking them to choose between and then tasted some of each, making chology and philosophy is how human
just two alternatives rather than asking either a disgusted face or a happy face. beings learn about the world from a con
an open-ended question.
In the mid-1980s and through the
1990s, scientists using these techniques
discovered that babies already know a Babies look longer at novel or
great deal about the world around them.
unexpected events than at more
R A I S E G RE AT KIDS
into everything”) they are also exploring basic ideas. First, they use mathematics adults at grasping this unusual causal
cause and effect and doing experiments— to describe the hypotheses that children structure. The adults seemed to rely more
the most effective way to discover how might have about things, people or words. on their prior knowledge that things usu
the world works. For example, we can represent a child’s ally do not work that way, even though
causal knowledge as a map of the causal the evidence implied otherwise for the
THE BABY COMPUTER relations between events. An arrow could machine in front of them.
Obviously children are not doing exper point from “press blue lever” to “duck In other recent research my group
iments or analyzing statistics in the self- pops up” to represent that hypothesis. found that young children who think they
conscious way that adult scientists do. Second, the programs systematically are being instructed modify their statisti
The children’s brains, however, must be relate the hypotheses to the probability cal analysis and may become less creative
unconsciously processing information in of different patterns of events—the kind as a result. The experimenter showed
a way that parallels the methods of sci of patterns that emerge from experimen four-year-olds a toy that would play mu
entific discovery. The central idea of cog tation and statistical analysis in science. sic if you performed the right sequence of
nitive science is that the brain is a kind of Hypotheses that better fit the data be actions on it, such as pulling a handle and
computer designed by evolution and pro come more likely. I have argued that chil then squeezing a bulb. For some children,
grammed by experience. dren’s brains may relate hypotheses the experimenter said, “I don’t know
Computer scientists and philosophers about the world to patterns of probabili how this toy works —let’s figure it out.”
have begun to use mathematical ideas ty in a similar way. Children reason in She proceeded to try out various longer-
about probability to understand the pow complex and subtle ways that cannot be action sequences for the children, some
erful learning abilities of scientists—and explained by simple associations or rules. that ended with the short sequence and
children. A whole new approach to devel Furthermore, when children uncon made music and some that did not. When
oping computer programs for machine sciously use this Bayesian statistical anal she asked the children to make the toy
learning uses what are called probabilistic ysis, they may actually be better than work, many of them tried the correct
models, also known as Bayesian models adults at considering unusual possibili short sequence, astutely omitting actions
or Bayes nets. The programs can unravel ties. In a study published in 2014 in Cog- that were probably superfluous based on
complex gene expression problems or help nition, my colleagues and I showed four- the statistics of what they had seen.
understand climate change. The approach year-olds and adults a blicket detector With other children, the experiment
has also led to new ideas about how the that worked in an odd way, requiring er said that she would teach them how
computers in children’s heads might work. two blocks on it together to make it go. the toy worked by showing them se
Probabilistic models combine two The four-year-olds were better than the quences that did and did not produce
By
Carol S. Dweck
maintained, was boring and pointless. Jonathan’s parents did, reinforces this blame. In 1972, when I taught a group of
Our society worships talent, and mind-set, which can also prevent young elementary and middle school children
many people assume that possessing athletes or people in the workforce and who displayed helpless behavior in
superior intelligence or ability— along even marriages from living up to their school that a lack of effort (rather than
with confidence in that ability—is a reci- potential. On the other hand, our stud- lack of ability) led to their mistakes on
pe for success. More than 35 years of sci- ies show that teaching people to have a math problems, the kids learned to keep
entific investigation suggest, however, “growth mind-set,” which encourages a trying when the problems got tough.
that an overemphasis on intellect or tal- focus on “process” (consisting of per- They also solved many more problems
ent leaves people vulnerable to failure, sonal effort and effective strategies) rath- even in the face of difficulty. Another
fearful of challenges and unwilling to er than on intelligence or talent, helps group of helpless children who were sim-
remedy their shortcomings. make them into high achievers in school ply rewarded for their success on easier
The result plays out in children like and in life. problems did not improve their ability to
Jonathan, who coast through the early solve hard math problems. These exper-
grades under the dangerous notion that THE OPPORTUNITY OF DEFEAT iments were an early indication that a fo-
no-effort academic achievement defines I first began to investigate the underpin- cus on effort can help resolve helpless-
them as smart or gifted. Such children nings of human motivation — and how ness and engender success.
hold an implicit belief that intelligence is people persevere after setbacks—as a psy- Subsequent studies revealed that the
most persistent students do not ruminate
about their own failure much at all but
instead think of mistakes as problems to
FAST FACTS
GROWING PAINS
be solved. At the University of Illinois in
the 1970s I, along with my then gradu
nn
Many people assume that superior intelligence or ability is a key to success. But more
than three decades of research shows that an overemphasis on intellect or talent— and ate student Carol Diener, asked 60 fifth
the implication that such traits are innate and fixed — leaves people vulnerable to failure, graders to think out loud while they
fearful of challenges and unmotivated to learn. solved very difficult pattern-recognition
oo
Teaching people to have a “growth mind-set,” which encourages a focus on “process” problems. Some students reacted defen-
rather than on intelligence or talent, produces high achievers in school and in life.
sively to mistakes, denigrating their
pp
Parents and teachers can engender a growth mind-set in children by praising them for
skills with comments such as “I never did
their persistence or strategies (rather than for their intelligence), by telling success stories
that emphasize hard work and love of learning, and by teaching them how the brain gets have a good rememory [sic],” and their
stronger as we learn. problem-solving strategies deteriorated.
Young people
who believe that
their intelligence
alone will enable
them to succeed
in school are often
discouraged
when the going
gets tough.
Others, meanwhile, focused on fixing rubbed his hands together, smacked his students with this attitude outperformed
errors and honing their skills. One ad- lips and said, “I love a challenge!” The their cohorts in these studies.
vised himself: “I should slow down and other, also confronting the hard prob-
try to figure this out.” Two schoolchil- lems, looked up at the experimenter and TWO VIEWS OF INTELLIGENCE
dren were particularly inspiring. One, in approvingly declared, “I was hoping this Several years later I developed a broader
the wake of difficulty, pulled up his chair, would be informative!” Predictably, the theory of what separates the two gener-
al classes of learners — helpless versus
mastery-oriented. I realized that these
different types of students not only ex-
plain their failures differently, but they
Mind-set and Math Grades also hold different “theories” of intelli-
Students who believed that intelligence is malleable (growth mind-set line) earned high- gence. The helpless ones believe that in-
er math grades in seventh and eighth grade than those who b elieved in static intelli- telligence is a fixed trait: you have only a
gence (fixed mind-set line), even though the two groups had equivalent math scores in certain amount, and that’s that. I call
the sixth grade. The grades of the growth mind-set group then improved over the two this a “fixed mind-set.” Mistakes crack
years, whereas the grades of the fixed mind-set students declined. their self-confidence because they attri-
bute errors to a lack of ability, which
78 – – – – –
Growth they feel powerless to change. They
77 – – – – mind-set
– avoid challenges because challenges
Math Grade (out of 100)
your social studies test. making the parts and assignment, but you
about you that you can’t really change.” You read the material building it. You are stuck with it until you
We then assessed their beliefs about oth- over several times, going to learn a lot got it done. You stayed
er aspects of learning and looked to see outlined it and tested of great things. at your desk and kept
what happened to their grades. yourself on it. your concentration.
As we had predicted, the students It really worked! That’s great!
with a growth mind-set felt that learn-
ing was a more important goal in school
than getting good grades. In addition, Parents and teachers can also teach children to enjoy the process of
they held hard work in high regard, be- learning by expressing positive views of challenges, effort and mistakes.
lieving that the more you labored at Here are some examples:
something, the better you would become
at it. They understood that even genius- Boy, this is hard—
es have to work hard for their great ac- this is fun.
complishments. Confronted by a set-
Oh, sorry, that was too
back such as a disappointing test grade,
easy—no fun. Let’s
students with a growth mind-set said
do something more
they would study harder or try a differ-
challenging that you
ent strategy for mastering the material. can learn from.
The students who held a fixed mind-
set, however, were concerned about look- Let’s all talk about
ing smart with less regard for learning. what we struggled with
They had negative views of effort, believ- today and learned from.
ing that having to work hard at some- I’ll go first.
thing was a sign of low ability. They
thought that a person with talent or intel- Mistakes are so
interesting. Here’s
ligence did not need to work hard to do
a wonderful mistake.
AGE FOTOSTOCK
admit to their deficit and thus passed up gave more useful advice. sorships at Columbia University, the
the opportunity to correct it. Mind-set can affect the quality and University of Illinois and Harvard Uni-
A fixed mind-set can similarly ham- longevity of personal relationships as versity and is a member of the Ameri-
per communication and progress in the well, through people’s willingness — or can Academy of Arts and Sciences and
workplace by leading managers and em- unwillingness—to deal with difficulties. the National Academy of Sciences.
ployees to discourage or ignore con- Those with a fixed mind-set are less like- She is the author of the bestselling
structive criticism and advice. Research ly than those with a growth mind-set to book M indset.
“Wow ... that’s a really good score. You problem set from which they would others attended a combination of study
must have worked really hard.” learn.) When we gave everyone hard skills sessions and classes in which they
We found that praising students’ in- problems anyway, those praised for be- learned about the growth mind-set and
telligence encouraged a fixed mind-set how to apply it to schoolwork.
more often than did praising their learn- In the growth mind-set classes, stu-
Chemist Marie Curie (left) and
ing process. Those congratulated for dents read and discussed an article enti-
inventor Thomas A. Edison (right)
their intelligence, for example, shied developed their genius through tled “You Can Grow Your Brain.” They
passion and tremendous effort.
B E T T M A N N /C O R B I S
ready had an effect. L [our unruly male Such lessons apply to almost every hu-
student], who never puts in any extra ef- nections form or strengthen when people man endeavor. For instance, many young
fort and often doesn’t turn in homework learn. Users can also advise virtual stu- athletes value talent more than hard work
on time, actually stayed up late to finish an dents with problems as a way of practic- and have consequently become unteach-
assignment early so I could review it and ing how to handle schoolwork difficul- able. Similarly, many people accomplish
A N D C. S . D W EC K , I N J O U R N A L O F P E R S O N A L I T Y A N D S O C I A L P SYC H O LO GY, V O L . 75, N O. 1; J U LY 1 9 9 8
R AISE
G RE AT By
Illustration by
Hank Osuna
student named Marti had just taught and paper-based exercises designed that such fundamental thinking capaci-
to bolster basic mental processes such
me the exercise, and I guessed I could ties were fixed. In research circles, evi-
as memory and reasoning.
have solved one of these clocks in a few dence is mounting that they may not be.
minutes. Jack was finishing one every The Arrowsmith program is inten-
seven seconds. private facility for the learning disabled sive, requiring students to dedicate
Jack’s incessant clacking is virtually on the second floor of a building on the 80 percent of their day for three to four
the only sound in this small classroom of campus of the University of British Co- years to brain remediation before re-
eight- and nine-year-olds. The others lumbia in Vancouver, Jack attends six turning to regular school. Although the
work silently. One or two wear an eye periods of brain exercises, among them school boasts a number of success sto-
patch, copying symbols onto grids. A reading clocks, copying symbols, trac- ries, support for its regimen’s effective-
dark-haired girl listens through head- ing complex designs, memorizing pat- ness is mainly anecdotal. Nevertheless,
phones to a list of words she must mem- terns and performing mental arithmetic. a commitment to its style of brain fitness
orize and repeat to a teacher. One boy Jack has one period of English and one for children is gathering steam in the sci-
stares at a Norman Rockwell painting; period of mathematics, but none of his entific, clinical and even mainstream ed-
his job is to extract its main idea and other classes resemble those in an ordi- ucational communities.
write it down. nary school. A small collection of brain-training
Jack, his long red sleeves poking out Arrowsmith students do not learn workouts has emerged from neurosci- C O U R T E SY O F S A N D R A H E U S E L E a t o n E d u c a t i o n a l G r o u p
from under a blue school T-shirt with about the branches of government or ence and psychology laboratories in re-
the initials “EAS,” cracks clock codes genres of literature. Their time is devoted cent years, and several are now being
for 35 minutes almost nonstop. As with instead to fortifying mental processes marketed and sold. Some build working
others at Eaton Arrowsmith School, a such as attention, memory and reasoning. (short-term) memory, a kind of mental
whiteboard that is linked to intelligence.
Others target basic number sense, for
FAST FACTS
math, or sound perception, for reading.
BEEFING UP YOUNG BRAINS
Another trains reasoning.
nn
Psychologists long believed that thinking capacities such as attention, memory
In many cases, the tools are aimed at
and reasoning are fixed, but evidence is mounting that they are not.
learning problems such as dyslexia,
oo
A smattering of brain-training workouts has emerged from neuroscience and psychology
laboratories, and several of the programs are now being marketed and sold. dyscalculia or attention-deficit/hyperac-
pp
In many cases, the brain workouts are aimed at kids with learning problems, but some tivity disorder (ADHD). But some edu-
educators are offering them to all children as part of regular instruction. cators are starting to offer brain training
of it as a muscle that could be trained,” owned by Pearson, the education firm, end of the instruction, the children who
he recalls.
With attention deficits in mind,
Klingberg and his colleagues created
workouts for recalling locations — such
as directions to a shopping mall— as well
as verbal information. In some exercises, Among kids who score in the
users try to reproduce the order in which lowest 10 percent on working
an array of red bulbs or asteroids light
up. As with all good training programs, memory tests, more than four
these adapt to the child: as his or her per- fifths have academic troubles.
formance improves, the game gets hard-
er. At higher levels, the asteroids move,
or the grid of lights rotates before the
player has to recall the order. A verbal
task requires remembering a series of
digits and repeating it in reverse. to market the software. (Klingberg is no did the more intensive exercises showed
In a study published in 2005 by longer associated with Cogmed.) a big boost in all aspects of working
C O U R T E SY O F T H I N K F U N , I N C. w w w. t h i n k f u n . c o m
Klingberg’s team, 22 kids aged seven to Scientists have since garnered addi- memory, whereas the other kids reaped
12 who had severe attention problems tional support for these games as reme- only minimal gains. Moreover, six
played these games for 35 to 40 minutes dies for ADHD. In 2010 psychologist months later the kids who got the real
a day for 25 days. The children im- William B. Benninger of Ohio State Uni- training scored significantly higher on a
versity and his colleagues found that standardized test of mathematical rea-
children and adolescents with ADHD soning than they had at the beginning
THE AUTHOR who did the drills at home became more of the trial, indicating that they used
attentive and better organized and had their trained brains to learn more math.
INGRID WICKELGREN is managing fewer symptoms, according to their par-
editor of Spectrum News, an editorially ents, than those who did not exercise GETTING OUT OF A JAM
independent division of the Simons their recall. In 2012 psychologist Julie B. Another critical component of academ-
Foundation Autism Research Initiative. Schweitzer of the University of Califor- ic success is reasoning, the capacity to
scores, we’ve taken a huge step for- ber of dots in two different arrays or ic backgrounds. Some of the children
ward,” Mackey notes. subtract or add dots. Scientists have tied played Number Race for six 20-minute
In a 2014 study, Andrea Paula Gold- this sense to a location in the brain: a sessions, and others used a commercial-
in of the University of Buenos Aires and narrow indentation on its surface called ly available reading program, after
her colleagues took that step with com- the intraparietal sulcus. Without a well- which the kids switched tasks. Number
puter training. They asked half of more developed sense of number, children will Race, but not the reading software, im-
than 100 six-year-olds from disadvan- have trouble with math and may devel- proved the kids’ ability to compare num-
bers represented as symbols, suggesting brain has trouble recognizing and pro- circuitry responsible for processing rap-
that the program honed the ability to cessing words, afflicts 5 to 17 percent of idly changing sounds. In a 2015 study, a
connect number symbols to quantity. children. In the early 1990s neuroscien- team led by neuroscientist Sabine Heim,
The team has since developed a more ad- tist Paula Tallal of Rutgers University also at Rutgers, revealed small changes
vanced game, called Number Catcher, hypothesized that a root cause in many in brain activity in 21 school-aged chil-
that exercises basic calculation skills and cases was auditory, specifically a deficit dren with language impairments after a
represents numbers in different ways. in detecting rapid changes in similar month of intensive training using Fast
Lumosity, a company based in San sounds, such as “da” and “ba.” Such dif- ForWord. The changes hinted at im-
Francisco, offers a suite of brain-training ficulties, she argued, prevented children provements in sound, language and cog-
games aimed at various capacities, in- from acquiring good language skills, nitive processing in these children.
cluding several related to math. One in- leading to dyslexia. Not all studies back up Fast For-
volves arithmetic problems that appear In 1996 Tallal and neuroscientist Mi- Word’s efficacy, however. In a 2011 meta-
in falling raindrops that must be solved chael Merzenich, now an emeritus pro- analysis (quantitative review) of six large
before the drops splash into water at the fessor at the University of California, San studies, psychologist Charles Hulme of
bottom of the screen. In another, users Francisco, founded Scientific Learning the University of York in England, and
compare the value of mathematical ex- to develop computer software to correct his colleagues, concluded that the pro-
pressions presented in pairs. auditory-processing problems in chil- gram had little effect on children’s lan-
Such drills have shown promise in dren with reading difficulties. The pro- guage or reading difficulties. The mixed
boosting math proficiency in children gram, called Fast ForWord Language, results may reflect differences in how the
with inborn impediments to learning the helps children hear and discriminate software was tested, including the de-
A program called
Fast ForWord
Language asks
R A I S E G RE AT KIDS
users to distin
guish sounds such
as “ada” and “aba”
by choosing the
acorn that uttered
the target pho
neme (left) and to
parse sentences
such as “The girl
is chasing the
dog” by clicking
on the picture
the sentence
describes (right).
subject. In a 2011 pilot study, psychia- phonemes by first slowing them down gree to which adults monitored its use
trist Shelli R. Kesler of Stanford Univer- and emphasizing certain rapidly chang- and motivated children to engage with
sity and her colleagues found that play- ing parts of speech, Jenkins says. Then it it. After all, kids who quit using the
ing these games 20 minutes a day for six gradually speeds up and softens the em- program out of frustration or boredom
weeks ameliorated characteristic math- phasis. The software also morphs the are unlikely to benefit. In addition, not
C O U R T E SY O F S C I E N T I F I C L E A R N I N G C O R P O R AT I O N
related deficiencies in 16 girls who had a sounds, making them more or less simi- all children with dyslexia suffer from
genetic condition called Turner syn- lar, depending on a child’s proficiency. auditory problems. Indeed, the latest
drome. After the training, the girls Several small studies indicate that versions of Fast ForWord are designed
scored significantly higher on tests of the program is helpful. In 2007 neurosci- to serve a wider swath of the student
number sense, processing speed and entist Nadine Gaab of Harvard Medical population by drilling reading skills,
cognitive flexibility. School, along with Tallal, among other from phonological awareness to com-
colleagues, reported significant improve- prehension strategies, along with exec-
SOUNDING IT OUT ment in language and reading skills in 22 utive functions.
As with math, reading involves a com- children with dyslexia who used the pro-
plex set of intellectual capacities, includ- gram 20 minutes a day five days a week GAMES IN THE MAINSTREAM
ing reasoning and executive skills. Dys- for eight weeks. They also saw in these Most of the current student brain-train-
lexia, a reading disability in which the youngsters increased activation in brain ing programs are aimed primarily at
By
Gary Stix
Andrew Hetherington
that will prove a burdensome handicap mentary school, because some studies which could later impede fluency in read-
when first entering elementary school. show that the brain is most able to ing. These findings offer more rigorous
Benasich is one of a cadre of re- change at that time. confirmation of other research by Bena-
searchers who have been employing brain- sich showing that children who encoun-
recording techniques to understand the THE AHA! INSTANT ter early problems in processing these
essential processes that underlie learn- Benasich studies anomalies in the way sounds test poorly on psychological tests
ing. The new science of neuroeducation the brains of the youngest children per- of language eight or nine years later.
seeks the answers to questions that have ceive sound, a cognitive process funda- If Benasich and others can diagnose
always perplexed cognitive psycholo- mental to language understanding, future language problems in infants,
gists and pedagogues. which, in turn, forms the basis for read- they may be able to correct them by ex-
How, for instance, does a newborn’s ing and writing skills. Benasich, a former ploiting the inherent plasticity of the de-
ability to process sounds and images re- nurse, who later earned two doctorates, veloping brain—its capacity to change in
late to the child’s capacity to learn letters focuses on what she calls the aha! in- response to new experiences. They may
and words a few years later? What does stant— an abrupt transition in electrical even be able to improve basic function-
a youngster’s ability for staying mental- activity in the brain that signals that ing for an infant whose brain is develop-
ly focused in preschool mean for later ac- something new has been recognized. ing normally. “The easiest time to make
ademic success? What can educators do Researchers at Benasich’s lab in New- sure that the brain is getting set up in a
to foster children’s social skills — also vi- ark, N.J., expose infants to tones of a cer- way that’s optimal for learning may be
tal in the classroom? Such studies can tain frequency and duration. They then in the first part of the first year,” she says.
Games, even in the crib, could be one
answer. Benasich and her team have de-
FAST FACTS vised a game toy that trains a baby to re-
EARLY EXERCISES act to a change in tone by turning the
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The technology and research methods of the neuroscientist have started to reveal, at the head or shifting the eyes (detected with a
most basic level, what happens in the brain when we learn something new. tracking sensor). When the movement
oo
As these studies mature, it may become possible for a preschooler or even an infant to occurs, a video snippet plays, a reward
engage in simple exercises to ensure that the child is cognitively equipped for school.
for good effort.
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If successful, such interventions could potentially have a huge effect on educational practices
In a study reported in 2014 babies
by dramatically reducing the incidence of various learning disabilities. But scientists,
educators and parents must beware overstated claims for brain-training methods that purport who went through this training detected
to help youngsters but have not been proved to work. tiny modulations within the sounds fast-
The pace of tone sequences speeds up, and the child learns to respond more and
years of interacting with blocks, Cheeri-
more accurately to this fast tempo.
os or other objects. They eventually
learn that when the little oat rings get
A tones B tones
pushed around a table, the location dif-
fers, but the number stays the same.
The neuroscience community has
Visual reward for correct
amassed a body of research showing that head-turn response
humans and other animals have a basic
numerical sense. Babies, of course, do not
spring from the womb performing differ-
ential equations in their head. But exper-
iments have found that toddlers will rou-
tinely reach for the row of M&Ms that
has the most candies. And other research
has demonstrated that even infants only a
few months old comprehend relative size.
If they see five objects being hidden be-
hind a screen and then another five added
to the first set, they convey surprise if they
see only five when the screen is removed.
Babies also seem to be born with oth- did, yet most are unable to answer how crippling. “They earn less, spend less, are
er innate mathematical abilities. Besides many objects remain when four objects more likely to be sick, are more likely to
being champion estimators, they can also are removed from a group of six. be in trouble with the law, and need more
distinguish exact numbers—but only up This approximation system is a cor- help in school,” notes a review article
to the number three or four. Dehaene nerstone on which more sophisticated that appeared in May 2011 in Science.
was instrumental in pinpointing a brain mathematics is constructed. Any deficit in As with language, early intervention
region—a part of the parietal lobe (the in- these innate capacities can spell trouble may help. Dehaene and his team devised
traparietal sulcus) —where numbers and later. In the early 1990s Dehaene hypoth- a simple computer game they hope will
approximate quantities are represented. esized that children build on their internal enhance mathematical ability. Called the
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which also exists in dolphins, rats, pi- ber of studies have found that impaired er of two quantities of gold pieces before
geons, lions and monkeys, is probably an functioning of the primitive numerical es- a computer-controlled opponent steals
evolutionary hand-me-down that is re- timation system in youngsters can predict the biggest pile. The game adapts auto-
quired to gauge whether your clan should that a child will perform poorly in arith- matically to the skill of the player, and at
fight or flee in the face of an enemy and metic and standard math achievement the higher levels the child must add or
to ascertain which tree bears the most tests from the elementary years onward. subtract gold before making a compari-
fruit for picking. Dehaene, along with “We realize now that the learning of a do- son to determine the biggest pile. If the
linguist Pierre Pica of the National Cen- main such as arithmetic has to be found- child wins, he or she advances forward a
ter for Scientific Research in France and ed on certain core knowledge that is avail- number of steps equal to the gold just
colleagues, discovered more evidence for able already in infancy,” Dehaene says. won. The first player to get to the last step
this instinctive ability through work with It turns out that dyscalculia (the on the virtual playing board wins.
the Mundurukú Indians in the Brazilian computational equivalent of dyslexia), The open-source software, which has
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Amazon, a tribe that has only an elemen- which is marked by a lag in computation- been translated into eight languages,
tary lexicon for numbers. Its adult mem- al skills, affects 3 to 7 percent of chil- makes no hyperbolic claims about the
bers can tell whether one array of dots is dren. Dyscalculia has received much less benefits of brain training. Even so, more
bigger than another, performing the task attention from educators than dyslexia than 20,000 teachers have downloaded
almost as well as a French control group has for reading—yet it may be just as the software from a government-sup-
From the time we are born, we have some concept of number. Children with deficits in this innate skill often
Count on It: end up struggling in later life. Stanislas Dehaene and his colleagues have created a game, the Number Race,
Born to intended to bolster our natural-born ability to estimate quantity. A preschooler judges which group of gold
pieces is larger before the computer’s animal avatar can steal the bigger pile (top left). A correct guess by the
Estimate child advances his or her avatar a comparable number of spaces from its previous position; the loser moves
ahead by a number equal to the smaller quantity of coins (bottom right). The winner is the one to reach the
end of the number line first.
Music training can work as well. Re- Angeles. Dozens of students participat- solid scientific proof of their effectiveness
searchers are finding that assiduous prac- ing in the project have graduated from have been questioned. A meta-analysis
tice of musical instruments may yield a high school and gone on to college, usu- that appeared in the March 2011 issue of
payoff in the classroom—invoking shades ally the first in their family to do so. the Journal of Child Psychology and Psy-
of “tiger mom” author Amy Chua, who Kraus has worked with the Harmony chiatry reviewed studies of perhaps the
insisted that her daughters spend endless Project and published a study in 2014 that best known of all brain-training meth-
hours on the violin and piano. Playing an showed that children in one of its pro- ods— software called Fast ForWord, de-
instrument may improve attention, work- grams who practiced a musical instru- veloped by Paula A. Tallal of Rutgers,
ing memory and self-control. ment for two years could process sounds Michael Merzenich of the University of
Some of the research providing such closely linked to reading and language California, San Francisco, and their col-
findings comes from a group of neurosci- skills better than children who only did so leagues. The analysis found no evidence
entists led by Nina Kraus of Northwest- for a year. Kraus is an advocate of the gui- of effectiveness in helping children with
ern University. Kraus, head of the Audi- tar over brain games. “If students have to language or reading difficulties. As with
r a p h s)
tory Neuroscience Laboratory there, choose how to spend their time between the methods used by Benasich, a former
cal compositions — and whether neural anisms underlying success in the “four since the studies were conducted.
changes that result from practicing mu- Rs,” three traditional ones (reading, The clichéd refrain—more research is
sic improve cognitive faculties. Her lab writing and arithmetic) with regulation needed—applies broadly to many endeav-
has found that music training enhances of one’s impulses as the fourth, many sci- ors in neuroeducation. Dehaene’s number
working memory and, perhaps most im- entists involved with neuroeducation are game still needs fine adjustments before it
portant, makes students better listeners, taking pains to avoid overhyping the in- receives wide acceptance. One controlled
allowing them to extract speech from the terventions they are testing. They are ea- study showed that the game helped chil-
all-talking-at-once atmosphere that ger to translate their findings into practi- dren compare numbers, although that
sometimes prevails in the classroom. cal assistance for children, but they are achievement did not carry over into bet-
Musical training as brain tonic is still also well aware that the research still has ter counting or arithmetic skills. A new
in its infancy, and a number of questions a long way to go. They know, too, that version is being released that the research-
remain unanswered about exactly what teachers and parents are already bom- ers hope will address these problems. Yet
type of practice enhances executive func- barded by a confusing raft of untested another finding has questioned whether
tion: Does it matter whether you play the products for enhancing learning and that music training improves executive func-
piano or guitar or whether the music was some highly touted tools have proved to tion and thereby enhances intelligence.
written by Mozart or Justin Bieber? Crit- be disappointing. In a nascent field, one study often
ically, will music classes help students In one case in point, a small industry contradicts another, only to be followed
who have learning difficulties or who developed several years ago around the by a third that disputes the first two. This
come from low-income school districts? idea that just listening to a Mozart sona- zigzag trajectory underlies all of science
But Kraus points to anecdotal evi- ta could make a baby smarter, a conten- and at times leads to overreaching claims.
dence suggesting that music training’s tion that failed to withstand additional In neuroeducation, teachers and parents
impact extends even to academic classes. scrutiny. Kraus’s research suggests that have sometimes become the victims of
The Harmony Project provides music ed- to gain any benefit, you have to actually advertising for “science-based” software
ucation to low-income youngsters in Los play an instrument, exercising auditory- and educational programs. “It’s confus-
processing areas of the brain: the more ing. It’s bewildering,” says Deborah Reb-
you practice, the more your abilities to huhn, a math teacher at the Center
THE AUTHOR
distinguish subtleties in sound develop. School, a special-education institution in
GARY STIX is a senior editor at S cien- Listening alone is not sufficient. Highland Park, N.J., that accepts stu-
tific American. H
e writes the blog Talk- Similarly, even some of the brain- dents from public schools statewide. “I
ing Back at ScientificAmerican.com. training techniques that claim to have don’t know which thing to try. And there’s
Cerebral
BETTER LISTENERS cortex
Musicians perceive sound more clearly than nonmusicians
because practicing an instrument trains the entire brain. The
sounds of an instrument travel from the cochlea in the inner ear
to the primitive brain stem before moving to the cortex, a locus
of high-level brain functions, and then back again to the brain
stem and cochlea. This feedback loop allows the musician to
recruit various brain areas to produce, say, the proper pitch
for a tune. Monitoring of an electrical signal in the brain stem
(yellow graph line) reveals the musician’s exquisite sensitivity
to pitch: the musician tracks an incoming sound wave (red
graph line) more accurately than a nonmusician does.
Musician Nonmusician
140 140 Sound
Incoming sound
Frequency (hertz)
Brain Generalized
stem signal pathway
90 90
Brain stem signal
40 40
Time Time
not enough evidence to go to the head of detect reading problems by age six and evaluated before entering school and, if
the school and say that something works.” allow for intensive early intervention warranted, be given remedial training
that might eliminate many dyslexia cas- based on the findings that are trickling
A PRESCHOOL TUNE-UP es among school-aged children. in today from neuroscience labs. If Ga-
Scientists who spend their days mulling One study has already found that brieli’s vision comes to pass, brain sci-
over EEG wave forms and complex digi- EEGs in kindergartners predict reading ence may imbue the notion of individu-
tal patterns in magnetic resonance imag- ability in fifth graders better than stan- alized education with a whole new
ing realize that they cannot yet offer de- dard psychological measures. By under- meaning— one that involves enhancing
finitive neuroscience-based prescriptions going brain monitoring combined with the ability to learn even before a child
for improving learning. The work, how- standard methods, each child might be steps foot in the classroom. M
ever, is leading to a vision of what is pos-
sible, perhaps for Generation Z or its
progeny. Consider the viewpoint of MORE TO EXPLORE
John D. E. Gabrieli, a professor of neu- ■ ■ Mind, Brain, and Education Science. Tracey Tokuhama-Espinosa. W. W. Norton, 2010.
roscience participating in a collaborative ■ ■ Maturation of Auditory Evoked Potentials from 6 to 48 Months: Prediction to 3 and 4 Year
program between Harvard University Language and Cognitive Abilities. Naseem Choudhoury and April A. Benasich in Clinical
and the Massachusetts Institute of Tech- Neurophysiology, Vol. 122, pages 320–338; February 2011.
■ ■ The Number Sense: How the Mind Creates Mathematics. Revised edition. Stanislas Dehaene.
nology. In a review article in 2009 in Sci-
Oxford University Press, 2011.
ence, Gabrieli conjectured that eventual-
■ ■ Nina Kraus’s Auditory Neuroscience Laboratory at Northwestern University: www.brainvolts.
ly brain-based evaluation methods, com- northwestern.edu
bined with traditional testing, family ■ ■ Watch a video of April A. Benasich’s research: ScientificAmerican.com/article/
history and perhaps genetic tests, could benasich-baby-brains-signal-later-language-problems
By
Clancy Blair
Stress may
be silently
sabotaging
success in
school. Its
effects are
especially
potent for
children
in poverty
and create opportunities for them to ac- the children whose parents displayed the loving care. We have also shown that an
complish small tasks, such as stacking positive parenting style were more likely innovative curriculum that gives kinder-
e t t y I m a g e s ; T H I S PA G E : R O S E M A R I E G E A R H A R G
blocks. Although impoverished parents to exhibit a healthy cortisol response — a garteners and preschoolers more control
can and do provide sensitive care, they rise and fall—to fear (triggered by an ex- over their learning activities has large
are less likely to do so, given the realities perimenter in a mask) and frustration effects on learning and executive func-
of their situation and, potentially, their from a toy placed just out of reach. At age tions for children in high-poverty
own high stress levels. 15 months these children again had low- schools. Although this work is in its ear-
To investigate further, we have been er cortisol levels and were more likely to ly stages, we are encouraged by the pos-
following 1,292 children, starting at respond appropriately to the emotional sibility that informed changes to envi-
birth, and their families, most of whom challenges. We now had evidence that ronments can boost children’s self-con-
live in poverty in rural communities in parenting style shapes the developing trol and academic competence, giving
Appalachia and the Deep South. For stress-response system. many of our youth a far greater chance
about 10 years now our team has been We next sought to sketch the com- of succeeding in life. M
visiting these homes annually to collect
P R EC E D I N G PA G E S: S A L LY A N S C O M B E G
Annie
Murphy
Paul
Mario Wagner
to orbit Earth?
an astronaut!”
Bain moves on to the next question,
briskly repeating the process of asking,
answering and explaining as she and her
students work through the decade of
A NEIL ARMSTRONG the 1960s.
B YURI GAGARIN
C JOHN GLENN The failed Bay
D NIKITA KHRUSHCHEV of Pigs invasion
involved the
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basis for selection. “Our minds are sen- searchers call test-potentiated learning). in the text than was the concept-map-
sitive to the likelihood that we’ll need Hundreds of studies have demon- ping group. More striking, the former
knowledge at a future time, and if we re- strated that retrieval practice is better at group was also better able to draw infer-
trieve a piece of information now, there’s improving retention than just about any ences and make connections among
a good chance we’ll need it again,” Kar- other method learners could use. To cite multiple concepts contained in the text.
picke explains. “The process of retriev- one example: in a study published in Overall, Karpicke and Blunt concluded,
ing a memory alters that memory in an- 2008 by Karpicke and his mentor, Hen- retrieval practice was about 50 percent
ticipation of demands we may encounter ry L. Roediger III of Washington Univer- more effective at promoting both factu-
in the future.” sity, the authors reported that students al and deep learning.
Studies employing functional mag- who quizzed themselves on vocabulary Transfer— the ability to take knowl-
netic resonance imaging (fMRI) of the terms remembered 80 percent of the edge learned in one context and apply
brain are beginning to reveal the neural words later on, whereas students who it to another— is the ultimate goal of
mechanisms behind the testing effect. In studied the words by repeatedly reading deep learning. In an article published
the handful of studies that have been them over remembered only about a third in 2010, University of Texas at Austin
conducted so far, scientists have found of the words. Retrieval practice is espe- psychologist Andrew Butler demon-
that calling up information from mem- cially powerful compared with students’ strated that retrieval practice promotes
ory, as compared with simply restudying most favored study strategies: highlight- transfer better than the conventional
it, produces higher levels of activity in ing and rereading their notes and text- approach of studying by rereading. In
particular areas of the brain. These books, practices that a recent review Butler’s experiment, students engaged
brain regions are associated with the so- found to be among the least effective. either in rereading or in retrieval prac-
called consolidation, or stabilization, of And testing does not merely enhance tice after reading a text that pertained
memories and with the generation of the recall of isolated facts. The process of to one “knowledge domain”— in this
cues that make memories readily acces- pulling up information from memory case, bats’ use of sound waves to find
sible later on. Across several studies, re- also fosters what researchers call deep their way around. A week later the stu-
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searchers have demonstrated that the learning. Students engaging in deep dents were asked to transfer what they
more active these regions are during an learning are able to draw inferences had learned about bats to a second
initial learning session, the more suc- from, and make connections among, the knowledge domain: the navigational
cessful is study participants’ recall facts they know and are able to apply use of sound waves by submarines. Stu-
weeks or months later. their knowledge in varied contexts — a dents who had quizzed themselves on
According to Karpicke, retrieval is process learning scientists refer to as the original text about bats were better
the principal way learning happens. “Re- transfer. In an article published in 2011 able to transfer their learning about bats
calling information we’ve already stored in the journal S cience, K
arpicke and his to submarines.
in memory is a more powerful learning Purdue colleague Janell Blunt explicitly
event than storing that information in the compared retrieval practice with a study REAL-WORLD EVIDENCE
first place,” he says. “Retrieval is ulti- technique known as concept mapping. Robust though such findings are, they
mately the process that makes new mem- An activity favored by many teachers as were until recently almost exclusively
ories stick.” Not only does retrieval prac- a way to promote deep learning, concept made in the laboratory, with college stu-
tice help students remember the specific mapping asks students to draw a diagram dents as subjects. McDaniel had long
information they retrieved, it also im- that depicts the body of knowledge they wanted to apply retrieval practice in real-
proves retention for related information are learning, with the relations among world schools, but gaining access to
that was not directly tested. concepts represented by links among K–12 classrooms was a challenge. With
Researchers theorize that while sift- nodes, like roads linking cities on a map. Bain’s help, McDaniel and two of his
ing through our mind for the particular In their study, Karpicke and Blunt Washington University colleagues,
piece of information we are trying to directed groups of undergraduate volun- Roediger and Kathleen McDermott, set
recollect, we call up associated memo- teers — 200 in all— to read a passage tak- up a randomized controlled trial at Co-
ries and in so doing strengthen them as en from a science textbook. One group lumbia Middle School that ultimately
well. Retrieval practice also helps to pre- was then asked to create a concept map involved nine teachers and more than
vent students from confusing the mate- while referring to the text; another 1,400 students. During the course of the
rial they are currently learning with group was asked to recall, from memo- experiment, sixth, seventh and eighth
material they learned previously, and ry, as much information as they could graders learned about science and social
it even appears to prepare students’ from the text they had just read. On a studies in one of two ways: 1) material
minds to absorb the material still more test given to all the students a week lat- was presented once, then teachers
thoroughly when they encounter it again er, the retrieval-practice group was bet- reviewed it with students three times;
after testing (a phenomenon that re- ter able to recall the concepts presented 2) material was presented once, and stu-
in Fort Myers, Fla., and has used exam cation may acquire this skill as a matter lies a dilemma for American public
wrappers in her AP Biology class. When of course, but this capacity is often lack- school students, who take an average of
she hands back graded tests, the exam ing among low-income students who 10 s tandardized t ests a year in grades
wrapper includes such questions as: attend struggling schools —holding out three through eight, according to a re-
the hopeful possibility that retrieval prac- cent study conducted by the Center for
Approximately how much time did tice could actually begin to close achieve- American Progress. Unlike the instruc-
you spend preparing for the test? ment gaps between the advantaged and tor-written tests given by the teachers
(Be honest.) the underprivileged. and professors profiled here, standard-
This is just what James Pennebaker ized tests are usually sold to schools by
Was the TV/radio/computer on? and Samuel Gosling, professors at the commercial publishing companies.
Were you on any social media site University of Texas at Austin, found when Scores on these tests often arrive weeks
while studying? Were you playing they instituted daily quizzes in the large or even months after the test is taken.
video games? (Be honest.) psychology course they teach together. And to maintain the security of test
The quizzes were given online, using soft- items — and to use the items again on fu-
Now that you have looked over the ware that informed students whether they ture tests — testing firms do not offer
test, check the following areas that had responded correctly to a question im- item-by-item feedback, only a rather un-
you had a hard time with: mediately after they submitted an answer. informative numerical score.
The grades earned by the 901 students in There is yet another feature of stan-
• Applying definitions ___ the course featuring daily quizzes were, dardized state tests that prevents them
• Lack of understanding concepts ___ on average, about half a letter grade high- from being used more effectively as oc-
• Careless mistakes ___ er than those earned by a comparison casions for learning. The questions they
• Reading a chart or graph ___ group of 935 of Pennebaker and Gosling’s ask are overwhelmingly of a superficial
previous students, who had experienced nature — which leads, almost inevitably,
Based on your responses to the a more traditionally designed course cov- to superficial learning.
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questions above, name at least three ering the same material. If the state tests currently in use in
things you will do differently in pre- Astonishingly, students who took U.S. were themselves assessed on the dif-
paring for the next test. Be specific. the daily quizzes in their psychology ficulty and depth of the questions they
class also performed better in their oth- ask, almost all of them would flunk.
“Students usually just want to know er courses, during the semester they That is the conclusion reached by Kun
their grade, and that’s it,” Xikes says. were enrolled in Pennebaker and Gos- Yuan and Vi-Nhuan Le, both then be-
“Having them fill out the exam wrapper ling’s class and in the semesters that fol- havioral scientists at RAND Corpora-
makes them stop and think about how lowed — suggesting that the frequent tion, a nonprofit think tank. In a report
they go about getting ready for a test and tests accompanied by feedback worked published in 2012 Yuan and Le evaluat-
whether their approach is working for to improve their general skills of self- ed the mathematics and English lan-
them or not.” regulation. Most exciting to the profes- guage arts tests offered by 17 states, rat-
In addition to distributing exam sors, the daily quizzes led to a 50 per- ing each question on the tests on the cog-
wrappers, Xikes also devotes class time cent reduction in the achievement gap, nitive challenge it poses to the test taker.
to going over the graded exam, question as measured by grades, among students The researchers used a tool called
by question — feedback that helps stu- of different social classes. “Repeated Webb’s Depth of Knowledge — created
dents develop the crucial capacity of testing is a powerful practice that direct- by Norman Webb, a senior scientist at
“metacognitive monitoring,” that is, ly enhances learning and thinking skills, the Wisconsin Center for Education Re-
keeping tabs on what they know and and it can be especially helpful to stu- search — which identifies four levels of
what they still need to learn. Research dents who start off with a weaker aca- mental rigor, from DOK1 (simple re-
on retrieval practice shows that testing demic background,” Gosling says. call), to DOK2 (application of skills and
can identify specific gaps in students’ concepts), through DOK3 (reasoning
knowledge, as well as puncture the gen- STANDARDIZED WOES and inference), and DOK4 (extended
eral overconfidence to which students Gosling and Pennebaker, who (along planning and investigation).
are susceptible — but only if prompt feed- with U.T. graduate student Jason Ferrell) Most questions on the state tests
back is provided as a corrective. published their findings on the effects Yuan and Le examined were at level
Over time, repeated exposure to this of daily quizzes in 2013 in the journal DOK1 or DOK2. The authors used level
testing-feedback loop can motivate stu- PLOS ONE, credited the “rapid, target- DOK4 as their benchmark for questions
dents to develop the ability to monitor ed, and structured feedback” that stu- that measure deeper learning, and by this
their own mental processes. Affluent dents received with boosting the effec- standard the tests are failing utterly. Only
students who receive a top-notch edu tiveness of repeated testing. And therein 1 to 6 percent of students were assessed
That compare studying ver- ended with the passage of No Child Left
sus testing, published in Behind. She acknowledges that the
movement toward more sophisticated
Teach Clear Benefits from 2008 in the journal S ci-
Repeated Testing ence, psychologists tests also stalled because of concerns
asked four groups about logistics and cost. Still, assessing
Participants studied and were tested on the entire list of college students students in this way is not a pie-in-the-
in every study interval and exam to learn 40 Swahili sky fantasy: Other nations, such as Eng-
vocabulary words. The land and Australia, are doing so already.
first group studied the “Their students are performing the work
Participants were tested on the entire list in every exam, words and was repeat- of real scientists and historians, while
but correctly recalled phrases were dropped from subsequent study edly tested on them. our students are filling in bubbles,” Dar
Other groups dropped ling-Hammond says. “It’s pitiful.”
the words they had She does see some cause for optimism:
Participants studied the entire list, in every study interval, memorized from subse- A new generation of tests are being devel-
but correctly recalled phrases were dropped from subsequent tests quent study or testing, oped in the U.S. to assess how well stu-
or both. One week later dents have met the Common Core State
students who were Standards, the set of academic bench-
repeatedly quizzed on all marks in literacy and math that have been
Correctly recalled phrases were dropped from subsequent study and tests
the words remembered adopted by 43 states. Two of these tests—
80 percent, whereas Smarter Balanced and Partnership for As-
0 10 20 30 40 50 60 70 80 90 100 students who only stud- sessment of Readiness for College and
ied the words remem- Careers (PARCC)— show promise as tests
Foreign Language Phrases Recalled Correctly
(percent, one week after conclusion of full study and testing period) bered about a third. of deep learning, says Darling-Ham-
mond, pointing to a recent evaluation
conducted by Joan Herman and Robert
Linn, researchers at U.C.L.A.’s National
Center for Research on Evaluation, Stan-
S O U R C E : “ T H E C R I T I C A L I M P O R TA N C E O F R E T R I E VA L F O R L E A R N I N G ,” B Y J E F F R E Y D. K A R P I C K E
tests measure matters because what’s on pose open-ended questions (the answers from questions at DOK3 and DOK4.
the tests tends to drive instruction,” ob- to which are evaluated by teachers, not “PARCC . . . may not go as far as we
serves Linda Darling-Hammond, emeri- machines), that call on students to devel- would have liked,” Herman conceded in
tus professor at the Stanford Graduate op and defend an argument, and that a blog post in 2014, but “they are likely to
School of Education and a national au- ask test takers to conduct a scientific ex- produce a big step forward.” M
thority on learning and assessment. That
is especially true, she notes, when re-
wards and punishments are attached to
CIENCE, V
MORE TO EXPLORE
the outcomes of the tests, as with the No
■ ■ The Critical Importance of Retrieval for Learning. Jeffrey D. Karpicke and Henry L. Roediger III
Child Left Behind law, and states’ own
in S
cience, V
ol. 319, pages 966–968; February 15, 2008.
AND HENRY L. ROEDIGER III, IN S
“accountability” measures. ■ ■ The Value of Applied Research: Retrieval Practice Improves Classroom Learning and
According to Darling-Hammond, Recommendations from a Teacher, a Principal, and a Scientist. Pooja K. Agarwal et al. in
the provisions of No Child Left Behind Educational Psychology Review, V
ol. 24, No. 3, pages 437–448; September 2012.
effectively forced states to employ inex- ■ ■ Improving Students’ Learning with Effective Learning Techniques: Promising Directions
from Cognitive and Educational Psychology. John Dunlosky et al. in P
sychological Science
pensive, multiple-choice tests that could
in the Public Interest, V
ol. 14, No. 1, pages 4–58; January 2013.
be scored by machine — and it is all but
■ ■ Developing Assessments of Deeper Learning: The Costs and Benefits of Using Tests
impossible, she contends, for such tests That Help Students Learn. Linda Darling-Hammond and Frank Adamson. Stanford Center
to measure deep learning. But other for Opportunity Policy in Education, 2013.
in English makes Moo.” I produced an inviting plush cow Our research revealed that if we under-
G E T T Y I M A G E S; I M A G E S F O R I L L U S T R AT I O N P U R P O S E S O N LY
from behind my back. “Can you say hi stand how the developing brain makes
Then, inevitably, came the post-test tention to how things usually get talked learning is that we are constantly sur-
breakdown: “Is my child color-blind?” about — for instance, the word “red” rounded by a vast array of hues. This
The baffled response is not new. tends to come up a lot with “fire trucks” overwhelming ubiquity is not a feature
Charles Darwin was startled by his own but not so much with “ice cream.” of other common words, such as nouns.
children’s failings when it came to col- Take away that crucial context, and Imagine, for example, that a child is try-
or, writing in 1877: “They could not most two- and three-year-old kids are ing to learn to distinguish “dog” from
name the colors, although I tried stumped— they cannot correctly identi- “bear.” The learning problem is not so
repeatedly to teach them.” About a cen- fy colors in a lineup or accurately use difficult in this case: unless you are watch-
tury later developmental psychologists color words in novel scenarios. What is ing Old Yeller, dogs will tend to be seen
began to systematically determine what more, psychologists have found that and talked about in contexts in which
it was that made learning color words so even after hours and hours of repeated bears are not present, and vice versa.
hard for kids. The obvious hypotheses training on color words, performance Contrast this with the problem of
were soon ruled out. First, children are typically fails to improve noticeably, and learning color words. In most situations
not color-blind. They can perceptually children who are as old as six continue when a three-year-old hears “red” there
distinguish colors within a few months to make major errors naming colors. will be a kaleidoscope of other colors
of birth. Nor do kids lack experience This last fact is seriously bizarre when present. Sorting out which hues are
with color words, which are common in you consider all the other things that “red” and which are “orange” is much
speech and some of the first words in children at that age can do: ride a bike, harder than figuring out which furry
their vocabularies. tie their shoes, read the comics and — beasts are “bears” and which are “dogs.”
A typical toddler, for example, can mistake a blue cupcake for an orange This may explain why children, across
use colors appropriately in common one? Really? every language studied, invariably learn
their nouns before their colors.
As it happens, English color words
FAST FACTS
may be especially difficult to learn be-
LEARNING COLORS
cause English speakers throw in a curve-
Surprisingly, most kids struggle with learning colors and numbers — foundational elements
nn ball by using color words “prenominal-
to developing language skills.
ly,” meaning before nouns. For instance,
oo
The way English speakers form sentences, by placing adjectives before nouns, can make it
difficult for children to learn colors and numbers. we will often say things like “the red bal-
pp
Parents can help their children learn colors by inverting the descriptions they use for colored loon,” instead of using the postnominal
items; for example, "the fire truck that is red," as opposed to "the red fire truck." construction, “the balloon is red.” Our
Michael Ramscar, Daniel Yarlett, Melody Dye, Katie Denny and Kirsten Thorpe in C
ognitive
we hoped). In both cases, we would sim-
Science, V
ol. 34, No. 6, pages 909–957; August 2010.
ply show them familiar objects and say
■ ■ The Enigma of Number: Why Children Find the Meanings of Even Small Number Words Hard to
encouraging things such as “this is a Learn and How We Can Help Them Do Better. Michael Ramscar, Melody Dye, Hanna Muenke
blue crayon” or “this crayon is yellow.” Popick and Fiona O'Donnell-McCarthy in P
LOS ONE, V
ol. 6, No. 7, Article e22501; July 27, 2011.
By
Aaron Goodman
51
Texas murderers for a pilot study, he dis- [see box on page 55].
covered that most of the killers, includ- Worries over the demise of play be-
ing Whitman, shared two things in com- gan surfacing as far back as 1961, when
mon: they were from abusive families, the International Play Association was
and they never played as kids. founded in Denmark to protect, preserve
Brown did not know which factor and promote play as a fundamental right
was more important. But in the nearly for all children. But the idea became
50 years since, he has interviewed more more popular in the past few decades,
than 6,000 people about their child- When animals play, their body language when many more nonprofit founda-
hoods, and his data suggest that a lack signals that any nipping or tumbling is tions — such as the National Institute for
of opportunities for unstructured, im meant to be friendly and fun. Play similarly Play in Carmel Valley, Calif., started by
teaches kids to better communicate with
aginative play can keep children from Brown, and other organizations, includ-
one another.
growing into happy, well-adjusted ing the Alliance for Childhood and the
adults. “Free play,” as scientists call it, is Association for the Study of Play— began
critical for becoming socially adept, in the Archives of Pediatrics & Adoles- forming to promote the value of play.
coping with stress and building cogni- cent Medicine, children’s free-play time
tive skills such as problem solving. Re- dropped by a quarter between 1981 and FREEDOM COUNTS
search into animal behavior confirms 1997. Concerned about getting their But kids play soccer, Scrabble and the
play’s benefits and establishes its evolu- kids into the right colleges, parents are sousaphone — so why are experts con-
tionary importance. sacrificing playtime for more structured cerned that these activities are eating
Most psychologists agree that play activities. As early as preschool, young- into free play? Certainly games with
rules are fun and are sources of learning
experiences — they may indeed foster
better social skills and group cohesion,
FAST FACTS
GO AHEAD, HORSE AROUND for instance, says Anthony D. Pellegrini,
an educational psychologist at the Uni-
nn
Childhood play is crucial for social, emotional and cognitive d
evelopment.
JUPITERIMAGES
FACE TIME
How do these seemingly pointless activ-
ities benefit kids? Perhaps most crucial-
ly, play appears to help us develop strong
social skills. “You don’t become social-
o t t o m)
tend play, for instance, “they have to structed by teachers. By age 23, more rats that are not isolated during the
communicate about something that’s not than one third of kids who had attended same two-week period. And a study
physically present, so they have to use instruction-oriented preschools had that was published in 2002 in Develop-
complicated language in such a way that been arrested for a felony as compared mental Psychob iology revealed that
they can communicate to their peers what with fewer than one tenth of the kids male rats reared in isolation during
it is that they’re trying to say,” Pellegrini who had been in play-oriented pre- their youth fail to display normal avoid-
says. For example, kids can’t get away schools. And as adults, fewer than 7 per- ance behaviors when introduced to
with just asking, “Vanilla or chocolate?” cent of the play-oriented preschool at- dominant male rats that repeatedly at-
as they hand a friend an imaginary cone. tendees had ever been suspended from tack them. Could play deprivation spe-
They have to provide contextual clues: work, but more than a quarter of the di- cifically cause these behavioral prob-
“Vanilla or chocolate ice cream: Which rectly instructed kids had. lems — or could social isolation in gener-
one would you like?” Adults, on the oth- Animal studies lend support to the al have been the culprit?
er hand, fill in the blanks themselves, idea that play deprivation leads to poor Another study suggests that play
making things easier for kids. social skills. According to a study pub- promotes neural development in “high-
If play helps children become so lished in 1999 in Behavioural Brain Re- er” brain areas involved in emotional
cialized, then lack of play should impede search, rats that are kept isolated during reactions and social learning. Scientists
social development— and studies suggest the two weeks of development when reported in 2003 that play fighting re
that it does. According to a 1997 study they most frequently play— the fourth leases brain-derived neurotrophic factor
of children living in poverty and at high and fifth weeks after birth — are much (BDNF) — a protein that stimulates the
risk of school failure, published by the less socially active when they later en- growth of new neurons — in these re-
HighScope Educational Research Foun- counter other rats as compared with gions. The researchers allowed 13 con-
dation in Ypsilanti, Mich., kids who en- trol rats to play freely with companions
rolled in play-oriented preschools are for three and a half days and kept 14
more socially adjusted later in life than Many children (especially boys) like to other rats isolated for the same period.
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PETER MASON G
STRESS RELIEF
Research suggests that play is also criti-
cal for emotional health, possibly be-
cause it helps kids work through anxiety
and stress. In a 1984 study published in
the Journal of Child Psychology and
Psychiatry, r esearchers ass essed the
anxiety levels of 74 three- and four-year-
old children on their first day of pre-
school as indicated by their behavior— Although researchers usually emphasize the positive effect
whether they pleaded, whined and of play on the developing brain, they have found that play
begged their parents to stay— and how is important for adults, too. Without play, adults may end up
getting burned out from the “hustle-bustle busyness that we
much their palms were sweating. Based
all get involved in,” says Marc Bekoff, an evolutionary biolo-
on the researchers’ observations, they la-
gist at the University of Colorado Boulder. Adults who do not
beled each child as either anxious or not play may end up unhappy and exhausted without under-
anxious. They then randomly split the standing exactly why.
74 kids into four groups. Half of the kids So how can adults get more play into their lives? Stuart
were escorted to rooms full of toys, Brown, psychiatrist and founder of the National Institute for
where they played either alone or with Play in Carmel Valley, Calif., suggests three ways:
peers for 15 minutes; the other half were
told to sit at a small table either alone or
with peers and listen to a teacher tell a BODY OBJECT SOCIAL
story for 15 minutes. PLAY PLAY PLAY
Afterward, the kids’ levels of dis- Participate in some Use your Join other
tress were assessed again. The anxiety form of active hands to create people in
levels of the anxious kids who had movement that has something you seemingly
played had dropped by more than twice no time pressures enjoy. (It can purposeless social
or expected be anything; activities, “from
as much as compared with the anxious
outcome. (If you again, there small talk
kids who had listened to the story. (The are exercising just doesn’t have to verbal
kids who were not anxious to begin to burn fat, that to be a jousting,” Brown
with stayed about the same.) Interest- is not play!) specific goal.) suggests.
ingly, those who played alone calmed
down more than the ones who played If you are still not sure what to do, try to remember what you
with peers. The researchers speculate enjoyed doing as a child. “Find your childhood play’s ‘true north’ ”
that through imaginative play, which is and try to translate those memories into activities that fit the
most easily initiated alone, children current circumstances, Brown says. You might even spark your
build fantasies that help them cope with memory better if you spend a little time around kids, notes
difficult situations. Gordon M. Burghardt, an evolutionary biologist at the University
of Tennessee.
Animal studies also support the idea
M I K E P O W E L L G e t t y I m a g e s
previously worn by a cat, which made play do? Is it the vanguard of learning
them visibly anxious. Later, the cham- something— so does play precede those
ber was cleaned so it no longer smelled
Through play, sorts of skills — or is it merely practice or
of the cat, the rats were put back in with- animals learn consolidation of skills that are already
out the cat collar, and the rats immedi- developing?” he asks. In 2012 research-
ately became anxious again, probably
to try new ers at the University of Virginia ana-
because they associated the space with things, and lyzed the scientific literature and con-
the cat. But if Siviy and his colleagues cluded that play could simply be a sign
then introduced another rat into the
those that do of healthy development or, alternative-
chamber— one that had never been ex- not play simply ly, that it might be one of many ac
posed to the cat collar and was not tivities that makes a difference to the
afraid— the two would begin playing by
do not acquire developing brain. But Pellegrini main-
chasing each other, tumbling and pre- this same tains that “either way, at some level, it
tend fighting. And shortly thereafter, the would be beneficial.”
first rat would relax and become calm,
behavioral Does lack of play, then, impede the
suggesting that play helped the rat to flexibility. development of problem-solving skills?
lessen its anxiety.
ing, the better they scored on a test of so- tended to score much better. treat. A few days later they switched the
cial problem solving. During the test, re- Pellegrini does question, however, setup so the rats would have to push the
searchers presented kids with five how much cause and effect one can same ball to get the treat. The isolated
pictures of a child trying to get a toy from glean from these studies. “What does rats took much longer to try new ap-
have had their neocortex removed — a Review. M. Brussoni et al. in International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health,
large brain region that is involved in Vol 12, No. 6, pages 6423–6454; June 8, 2015.
By
Robert Epstein
ed over the past 50 years shows fairly outcomes with children. The 10 skill ar- on a 10-point scale from low to high.
clearly that some parenting practices eas measured by the test were also evalu- With scores in hand for each parent
produce better outcomes than others — ated by 11 parenting experts unknown on all “The Parents’ Ten,” along with
that is, better relationships between par- to Fox and me, and we in turn were un- their general assessments regarding the
ent and child and happier, healthier, bet- known to them (in other words, using a outcomes of their parenting, we could
ter functioning children. And just as we double-blind evaluation procedure). now use a statistical technique called re-
use medical science cautiously and stra- On the test, parents indicated for 100 gression analysis to determine which
tegically to make everyday health deci- items how much they agreed with state- competencies best predict good parent-
sions, we can also make wise use of re- ments such as “I generally encourage my ing outcomes. For an outcome such as
search to become better parents. child to make his or her own choices,” “I the child’s happiness, this kind of analy-
A recent study I conducted with Shan- try to involve my child in healthful out- sis allows us to say which parenting
non L. Fox, then a student at the Univer- door activities” and “No matter how skills are associated with the most hap-
sity of California, San Diego, which we busy I am, I try to spend quality time with piness in children.
presented at a meeting of the American my child.” Test takers clicked their level
Psychological Association, compared the of agreement on a five-point scale from LOVE, AUTONOMY
effectiveness of 10 kinds of parenting “agree” to “disagree.” Because all the AND SURPRISES
practices that have gotten the thumbs-up items were derived from published stud- Our most important finding confirmed
in various scientific studies. It also ies, the answers allowed us to compute an what most parents already believe, name-
showed how parenting experts rate those overall skill level for each test taker, as ly, that the best thing we can do for our
practices and looked at just how many well as separate skill levels in each of the children is to give them lots of love and
parents actually use those practices. In 10 competency areas. Agreement with affection. Our experts agreed, and our
other words, we compared three things: statements that described sound parent- data showed that this skill set is an excel-
what experts advise, what really seems to ing practices (again, according to those lent predictor of good outcomes with
work and what parents actually do. studies) yielded higher scores. children: of the quality of the relationship
R A I S E G RE AT KIDS
Our study confirmed some widely The 10 kinds of parenting competen- we have with our children, of their hap-
held beliefs about parenting—for exam- cies, which we call “The Parents’ Ten,” piness, and even of their health. What’s
ple, that showing your kids that you love include obvious ones such as managing more, parents are better at this skill than
them is essential — and it also yielded problem behavior and expressing love they are at any of the others. We also con-
some surprises, especially regarding the and affection, as well as practices that firmed what many other studies have
importance of a parent’s ability to man- affect children indirectly, such as main- shown: that encouraging children to be-
age stress in his or her own life. taining a good relationship with one’s co- come independent and autonomous helps
parent and having practical life skills [see them to function at a high level.
TEN IMPORTANT COMPETENCIES box on opposite page for a complete list]. But our study also yielded a number
To figure out which parenting skills were In addition to asking test takers basic of surprises. The most surprising finding
most important, we looked at data from demographic questions about their age, was that two of the best predictors of
about 2,000 parents who had recently education, marital status, parenting expe- good outcomes with children are in fact
taken an online test of parenting skills rience, and so on, we also asked them indirect: maintaining a good relation-
I developed (which is accessible at http:// questions about the outcomes of their ship with the other parent and managing
MyParentingSkills.com) and who also parenting, such as “How happy have your your own stress level. In other words,
answered questions about their children. children been (on average)?”; “How suc- your children benefit not just from how
Parents did not know this when they cessful have your children been in school you treat them but also from how you
took the test, but the skills were orga- or work settings (on average)?”; and treat your partner and yourself.
nized into 10 categories, all of which de- “How good has your relationship been Getting along with the other parent
rive from published studies that show with your children (on average)?” For is necessary because children inherently
that such skills are associated with good questions such as these, test takers clicked want their parents to get along. Many
years ago, when my first marriage was
failing, my six-year-old son once led me
FAST FACTS
by the hand into the kitchen where his
ESSENTIAL PARENTING SKILLS
mom was standing and tried to tape our
nn
Decades of research reveal 10 essential parenting skill sets. A study of 2,000 parents
hands together. It was a desperate act
determined which skills are most important to bringing up healthy, happy and successful kids.
that conveyed the message: “Please love
oo
Giving love and affection tops the list. Then comes a surprise: managing stress and having a
good relationship with the other parent are more helpful than some child-focused behaviors. each other. Please get along.” Children
All types of people are equally competent at child-rearing— and anyone can learn how to be
pp do not like conflict, especially when it in-
a better parent with a little effort. volves the two people in the world they
for example —is essential for good par- whether or not they have ever been mar- individual’s competence as a parent, you
enting, our study casts doubt on this ried, and divorced parents appear to be should measure that competence direct-
idea. Behavior management ranked low every bit as competent as those who are ly rather than default to commonly held
across the board: it was a poor predictor still married, although their children are stereotypes. In the U.S., after all, wom-
of good outcomes with children; parents somewhat less happy than the children en did not get the vote until 1920 be-
scored relatively poorly in this skill area; of parents who were never divorced. cause of faulty assumptions about fe-
and our experts ranked it ninth in our list Neither race nor ethnicity seems to male limitations. I believe this is one of
of 10 competencies. contribute much to parenting compe- the main lessons of our study: there is
In general, we found that parents are tence, and gays and straights are just simply no substitute for the direct mea-
far better at educating their children and about equal in parenting ability. In fact, sure of competence.
keeping them safe than they are at man- gays actually outscored straights by Perhaps the best news is that parents
aging stress or maintaining a good rela- about 1 percentage point in our test. are trainable. Our data confirm that par-
tionship with the other parent, even One characteristic that does seem to ents who have taken parenting classes
though the latter practices appear to make a difference is education: general- produce better outcomes with their chil-
have more influence on children. Getting ly speaking, the more the education, the dren than parents who lack such training
along with one’s co-parent is the third better the parenting. This might be be- and that more training leads to better out-
most important practice, but it ranked cause better educated people also work comes. Training programs, such as the ev-
eighth on the parents’ list of actual abil- harder to improve their parenting skills idence-based Parenting Wisely program
ities. Even more discouraging, stress through parent education programs developed by Donald A. Gordon, of Ohio
management (number two in impor- (confirmed by our data). It is also possi- University, can indeed improve parenting
tance) ranked 10th. ble that good parents—those with a high practices. Programs are available in major
parenting g— are also generally compe- cities around the country, sometimes
WHO MAKE GOOD PARENTS? tent people who are better educated. In sponsored by local therapists or state or
Setting aside “The Parents’ Ten” for the other words, the g for parenting might be county agencies. The National Effective
R A I S E G RE AT KIDS
moment, our study also shed some inter- the same as the g for intelligence, a mat- Parenting Initiative, which I have been as-
esting light on what characteristics a ter to be explored in future research. sociated with since its inception in 2007,
good parent has. The bottom line on such findings is is working to make quality parent train-
A general parenting ability appears that if you really want to know about an ing more widely available (see http://
to exist— something like the “g” factor EffectiveParentingUSA.org for addition-
that exists for intelligence (also known Ewww ... gross! Maintaining al information).
as general intelligence). The g factor for a healthy relationship with your
parenting emerged very strongly in our co-parent (spouse or otherwise) WHERE EXPERTS FAIL
is one of the most important
study using a statistical technique called Although parenting experts do indeed
child-rearing practices. It is good
factor analysis, which organizes large for kids to see respect, forgiveness offer conflicting advice at times (perhaps
amounts of test data by clustering test and, yes, even love and affection.
items into a small number of highly pre-
dictive variables. Some people just seem
to have a knack for parenting, which
cannot be easily described in terms of
specific skills.
We also found that a number of
characteristics that people often associ-
ate with good parenting are probably
not very significant. For example, wom-
en appear to be only a hair better than
men at parenting these days — a huge
change in our culture. Women scored
79.7 percent on our test, compared with
TA N YA L I T T L E G e t t y I m a g e s
BRINGING IT HOME
Tempering one’s parenting with relevant
scientific knowledge can truly have great
benefits for one’s family. It can reduce or
eliminate conflict with one’s children,
for one thing, which in turn can improve
a marriage or co-parenting relationship.
It can also help produce happier, more
capable children.
I have seen how this works in my own
parenting. I am a much better parent with
my younger children (who range in age
from nine to 17) than I was with my old-
er two (now 34 and 36). The more I have
learned about parenting over the years,
the more loving and skillful I have be-
come, with obvious benefits. These days
I really do hug my children and tell them
I love them several times a day, every day,
without exception. When love is never in
question, children are much more under-
standing and tolerant when a parent
needs to set limits, which I do regularly. I
have also learned to stay calm — to im-
prove the way I react to things. When I
am calm, my children are, too, and we
avoid that deadly cycle of emotional esca-
lation that can ruin relationships.
Parents who focus too much on
keeping their children safe may see Most important, I am much more a
because they don’t keep up with the their efforts backfire, winding up with facilitator now than a controller. While
studies!), our experts generally did a unhappy kids or a poor parent-child building my own competence as a par-
relationship. Kids fare better when
good job of identifying competencies ent, I have also put more effort into rec-
parents encourage autonomy.
that predict positive outcomes with chil- ognizing and strengthening the compe-
dren. There were two notable excep- tence of my children, helping them to be-
tions: First, they ranked stress manage- or spiritual training for children. Why come strong and independent in many
ment eighth in our list of 10 competen- they were so far off on stress management ways. My 17-year-old son is now a calm,
cies, even though it appears to be one of is truly a mystery, however, given psy- helpful role model to his siblings, and by
the most important competencies. Sec- chology’s long interest in both the study the time she was 10, even before I had
ond, our experts seemed to be biased and treatment of stress. I can only specu- gotten out of bed, my daughter had often
against the religion and spirituality com- late that stress management is not widely made scrambled eggs for all of us — and
petency. They ranked it rock bottom in taught in graduate programs in psychol- cleaned up, too. M
the list of 10, and several even volun-
teered negative comments about this
competency area, even though studies
MORE TO EXPLORE
suggest that religious or spiritual train-
■ ■ TheEncyclopedia of Parenting Theory and Research. Edited by Charles A. Smith. Greenwood
ing is good for children.
Press, 1999.
Historically, clinicians and behavior-
■ ■ ThePositive Parent: Raising Healthy, Happy, and Successful Children, Birth-Adolescence.
al scientists have shied away from reli-
GE T T Y IMAGES
By
Ingrid
Wickelgren
you’ve been choosing the activities.” To- corner, getting dressed — ignites a con- of serious antisocial behavior later on.
day, Kurtz says, “Mom is going to take frontation, parents often seek help. De- “Previous research is very clear: if early
turns with you.” signed for kids who are two to seven child behavior problems are not correct-
“Hey— I have this car. I have this years old, PCIT changes the way parents ed, they are likely to escalate to behav-
car!” the boy interrupts. He is holding respond to their children. It strengthens iors that are more destructive and in-
one of the toy cars in the room. Kurtz the bond between parent and child while tractable,” says Jennifer Wyatt Kamin
continues: “When Mom chooses the ac- providing consistent rules and incentives ski, a developmental psychologist at the
tivity, it’s very important that you follow for cooperation. National Center on Birth Defects and
her directions. If you don’t, she is going Rather than treating a disorder, Developmental Disabilities. “Preventing
to tell you to go in this chair. If you stay PCIT is aimed more broadly at disrup- risky and violent behavior in adolescents
in this chair, you get to go back and play tive behavior, which can range from is an important public health issue.”
with her again. If you don’t, you have talking back to severe aggression. The Because of its scientific backing,
to go in this room.” He gestures toward most common mental health concern for PCIT is gaining international recogni-
the door of a narrow enclosure in one young children, disruptive behavior is a tion and making rapid headway into
corner of the room. “No, I will stay in feature of several different diagnoses, in- clinics in about 20 percent of the coun-
here!” Ryan yells. cluding oppositional defiant disorder try— principally, Delaware, California,
Kurtz exits and sets up shop in a (ODD) — extreme disobedience and hos- the Carolinas, Pennsylvania, Oklaho-
small observation room behind a wall of tility toward authority figures — and ma, Iowa, Minnesota, Oregon and
one-way glass. Kurtz can watch the pair, conduct disorder, in which kids flaunt Washington—where large-scale training
but they cannot see him. Maria will lis- rules, fight, lie, steal and engage in oth- programs are in effect. The therapy is
ten to his directions through an earbud er alarmingly bad behavior. poised to become more widely dissemi-
she is wearing. Ryan has attention-deficit/hyperac- nated now that PCIT International, an
Maria tells Ryan that their special tivity disorder (ADHD), which often organization established in 2009, has
time is beginning. “Would you like to spurs conduct problems. He is not so rolled out its protocol for certifying ther-
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pick an activity?” she asks. Ryan is much driven to defiance as he is inexora- apists. More than 200 therapists are
throwing toys around the room. “Hold bly drawn to whatever is most alluring at now certified to conduct PCIT.
off on all instructions until later,” Kurtz the moment — a television show, hot Recent adaptations have retrofitted
advises. “What is he doing?” The thera- chocolate, a playground, even sleep. His the approach to suit older children,
py calls for narrating a child’s actions, to need to pursue his current activity causes and — taking advantage of its emphasis
show interest and help focus a child’s at- him to refuse conflicting requests or de- on parenting skills — to prevent relapse
tention on a task. “Right now he’s play- mands. Every morning Maria had forci- in abusive parents. PCIT offers useful
ing with the cars,” Maria says. bly pulled Ryan out of bed and dressed tactics, too, for controlling more moder-
Cars are flying around the room. him. When Ryan’s grandmother had tak- ate forms of troublesome behavior in
Bang! Crash! Bang! Maria does not en care of him after school and turned children. “It is a way to change your vo-
scold, shout or even look at Ryan. She off the TV, Ryan angrily threw all the cabulary and speak to your kids in a
stares straight ahead. “Look for that available books and toys onto the floor. positive manner,” says Joshua Masse,
split second he does something you About 150 research articles, includ- a clinical psychologist at the University
like,” Kurtz advises. “When he stops ing eight randomized trials, have dem- of Massachusetts at Dartmouth. Kurtz,
throwing ... for a second ...” onstrated that PCIT is highly effective in who now runs his own private practice,
Most young children willfully dis- ameliorating such reactions, and the adds, “This is the manual that parents
obey or throw tantrums from time to gains are lasting. The stakes go beyond should be given.”
time. Yet when every routine task— fas- family dynamics. Little kids with signif-
tening a seatbelt, holding hands at the icant behavior problems are at high risk “YOUR IMAGINATION FLIES
LIKE YOUR ROBOT”
PCIT got its start in the early 1970s,
FAST FACTS when Sheila M. Eyberg was a clinical
FAMILY MATTERS psychology intern at the Oregon Health
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A brand of parent training called Parent-Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT) can correct Sciences University. She treated behavior
oppositional behavior in children two to seven years old.
problems with play therapy, in which a
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Little kids with significant behavior problems are at high risk of serious antisocial
therapist coaches a child to describe his
behavior later on.
or her emotions during playtime, as a
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Because of its scientific backing, PCIT is gaining international recognition and making
headway in states where large-scale training programs are in effect. route toward self-acceptance. Eyberg no-
The approach has stopped parents in the child welfare system from continuing to abuse ticed that her charges “seemed to calm
their children. down, ‘self-correct,’ and try to please
some but not all of her requests. When in PCIT, in turn, were more likely to do tions of parent-training programs pub-
Laura says she wants to do a puzzle, Ga- what was asked of them. These parents lished in 2008, Kaminski and her col-
briel protests: “I am tired of listening! I noted large improvements at home as leagues found that requiring parents to
don’t want to do this. Can we go out?” well, rating their child’s behavior within practice the appropriate actions with
Gabriel does not work on the puzzle for the normal range, on average, by the end their children during the training ses-
long, but he does eventually agree to sit of treatment. Many of these kids no lon- sions seemed to be critical to correcting
next to Laura and put the pieces away— ger qualified for a diagnosis of ODD. A parent behavior. Kaminski’s team also
and he never needs to sit in the time-out 2003 study revealed that the treated noted that parent proficiency tended to
chair, although Laura threatens to put children became even easier to handle in improve whenever moms and dads were
him there. the following three to six years, perhaps taught to talk to their kids about emo-
Gabriel and Laura have already because children and parents reinforce tions and to effectively listen to them. In
come a long way. Earlier in the year Ga- one another’s good behavior over time. addition, the researchers identified the
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therapy along with a motivational inter- ■ ■ Parent-Child Interaction Therapy for Oppositional Children. Mary Y. Brinkmeyer and Sheila M.
Eyberg in E
vidence-Based Psychotherapies for Children and Adolescents. Edited by Alan E. Kazdin
view. “Even if you are motivated, typical
and John R. Weisz. Guilford Press, 2003.
group therapy doesn’t give you a lot of ■ ■ Outcomes of Parent-Child Interaction Therapy: A Comparison of Treatment Completers and
benefit,” Chaffin concludes. Study Dropouts One to Three Years Later. Stephen R. Boggs et al. in C
hild and Family Behavior
The children involved in Chaffin’s Therapy, V
ol. 26, No. 4, pages 1–22; 2005.
studies ranged from four to 12 years old, ■ ■ A Meta-Analytic Review of Components Associated with Parent Training Program Effectiveness.
so he and his colleagues adapted the Jennifer Wyatt Kaminski, Linda Anne Valle, Jill H. Filene and Cynthia L. Boyle in J ournal of Abnormal
Psychology, V
ol. 36, No. 4, pages 567–589; May 2008.
treatment to older kids. Time-outs were
■ ■ A Combined Motivation and Parent-Child Interaction Therapy Package Reduces Child Welfare
replaced with logical consequences — Recidivism in a Randomized Dismantling Field Trial. Mark Chaffin et al. in J ournal of Consulting
such as taking away objects that a child and Clinical Psychology, V
ol. 279, No. 1, pages 84–95; February 2011.
is actively misusing— and loss of privi- ■ ■ Parent-Child Interaction Therapy International: www.pcit.org
By
Nicholas
Lange and
Christopher
J. McDougle
Photographs by
Timothy
Archibald
When Adrianna and Jermaine Han- sired. He continued to be captivated by the 70 years since psychiatrist Leo Kan-
non’s second child, Jayden, was 14 months toy car wheels, rolling them without ner first coined the term “early infantile
old, the California couple began to worry pause. He also was enthralled with a autism,” scientists have yet to find any
that something was wrong. The child be- Mickey Mouse video on his iPad, which objective measurement— whether a mol-
came preoccupied with toy cars, turning he would play over and over until asked ecule, a gene, electrical activity in a brain
them over and rolling their wheels cease- to stop. Jayden loved, too, a program fea- circuit or a consistent difference in brain
lessly at an age when most other toddlers turing the chugging Thomas the Tank size— to pinpoint how it originates.
flit from one activity to another. Jayden Engine, with its crashing sound effects. Researchers are desperately trying to
would also line up cars, magazines or His parents eventually decided to bring identify such biological clues in the hope
blocks on the floor or a table in as straight Jayden to a nearby early intervention that the information will facilitate diag-
a line as he could make, never stacking clinic for children suspected of having nosis and the development of better
objects as other kids would. autism, or, in clinical terminology, au- treatments. To date, some drugs have
At 16 months, Jayden began to stop tism spectrum disorder— a condition shown that they can manage the irritabil-
blurting the short phrases he had been us- marked, to varying degrees, by persistent ity, mood swings and tantrums that af-
ing for four or five months—“Up, Mom,” deficits in communicating and interact- flict the child with autism. But nothing
“Picky-up” and “Abby,” his big sister’s ing with others and a propensity to en- approved by the Food and Drug Admin-
name— and he rarely looked toward fam- gage in repetitive behaviors, such as rock- istration deals with the basic symptoms:
ily members when they called. One day ing or repeating sounds over and over. the language, social problems and repet-
around that same age, a large pot dropped Based on the careful observation of itive gesturing.
by accident near to where Jayden was sit- Jayden over the course of a few hours and The need is pressing. Estimates by the
ting, but the toddler did not respond at all. on the wealth of details furnished by his Centers for Disease Control and Preven-
The pediatrician told Adrianna not to parents, a psychologist at the clinic gave tion of the prevalence rate of autism (the
worry about Jayden’s behavior, because Adrianna and Jermaine the devastating percentage of people with autism at a par-
child development tends to occur in bursts, news that their child did, indeed, have au- ticular date) have increased from one in 88
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especially in boys, and speech often devel- tism. Both parents initially wondered if to one in 68 between 2012 and 2014, a 30
ops later than in girls. At the pediatrician’s they could have done something to cause percent increase, and the rate continues to
request, Adrianna and Jermaine took the disorder. And, despite their suspi- move upward. Some of the rise stems from
their child to an audiologist to test his cions, Adrianna recalls, Jermaine, an en- increased screening; the American Acad-
hearing, which turned out to be normal. gineer, took a while to “get his head emy of Pediatrics recommends examining
Jayden took another turn for the worse around” the clinic’s confirmation of their all children at 18 and 24 months of age for
at 18 months when a high fever of 104 re- fears. Having taught special education the telltale signs. The trend also results
quired a visit to the emergency room. A classes for 12 years, Adrianna took the di- from a broadening of the complex diag-
complete medical workup failed to locate agnosis more in stride. She kept going by nostic criteria for autism spectrum disor-
the source of the fever, and the child re- repeating to herself silently: “I can’t quit,” der. But even if those changes had not oc-
turned home with his parents. The tem- adding in another inspirational motto: “If curred, the numbers of families needing
perature eventually subsided, but Jayden I can’t give him my all, then what can I ex- help would be large.
never spoke another word. Neither did he pect anyone else to give him?” A counterweight to this seemingly
respond when his name was called, and he Adrianna and Jermaine’s experienc- bleak outlook lies in encouraging recent
made eye contact only with his mother. es with Jayden resemble those of the developments. In the past few years med-
This alarming series of events in thousands of parents whose children re- ical professionals have begun to spread
Jayden’s life still had not tapered off by ceive a diagnosis of autism spectrum dis- the important message that a few non-
22 months. If he wanted something, he order every year. As in Jayden’s case, the pharmaceutical treatments can pro-
would grab Adrianna’s or Jermaine’s condition remains a vexing enigma that foundly help children like Jayden. Begun
hand and bring them to the object he de- taxes a physician’s diagnostic powers. In early, therapies that ground the child with
autism in appropriate forms of social be-
FAST FACTS havior— such as looking at a mother’s face
HELP FOR AUTISM as she speaks— may mean the difference
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A deep-seated inability to interact with parents, siblings and other children can sometimes between years in a special school or insti-
lead to a toddler’s receiving a diagnosis of autism at about two years of age. tution versus a normal track for the ele-
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Help may come from early delivery of therapies that improve social communication. Better mentary and secondary years and the
skills can lay the groundwork for entering regular schools and pursuing relationships with eventual hope of an adulthood with a job
friends and family.
and family. In coming years, what is
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Improved understanding of the biology of autism may permit development of new diagnostic
techniques and a range of drugs to complement behavioral therapies aimed at enhancing more, behavioral therapies may be sup-
social communication. plemented by new technologies that will
A drug that could replace or hasten haviors (SOARS-B) should determine number variants in 1,544 children with
this process would make a world of dif- whether oxytocin becomes a routine part autism from the Autism Genetic Re-
ference to children and their families. The of treatment. Ascertaining whether the source Exchange (AGRE) and Children’s
latest research has started to target a hormone is an effective drug is especially Hospital of Philadelphia (CHOP) and in
range of medications that address symp- important because a large number of par- 5,762 control subjects, unrelated to one
toms, including impaired social commu- ents already administer oxytocin to their another or to the children in Utah. A
nication, hyperactivity and inattention, children with autism. Yet the evidence so stringent molecular checking procedure
as well as repetitive, ritualistic behaviors far is not conclusive enough to justify the eventually narrowed down the total to 15
and sleep disturbances. practice. If oxytocin receives validation familial and 31 literature copy number
A leading prospect for a drug that through this study, it might be recom- variants that seemed most likely to be im-
could mimic the benefits of early-inter- mended to facilitate early intervention plicated in some fashion.
vention programs is the brain hormone programs by readying a child to respond More analysis is needed to clarify
oxytocin, which has made headlines in to the ministrations of a therapist. how the variants might contribute to au-
the popular science press variously as the tism and to explain the contribution of
“cuddle chemical,” the “moral molecule” GENETIC CLUES other nongenetic autism triggers, such as
and the “trust hormone.” Known in the The long road to a cure— or at least better hormonal imbalances in the womb and
medical textbooks for its role in pregnan- therapies—will require a more incisive un- exposure to chemicals in the environ-
cy, oxytocin readies a woman’s body for derstanding of what lies behind the mental ment. But important studies such as this
childbirth. As levels rise, breasts swell and and physical symptoms of autism. The ge- and their ability to eliminate from consid-
fill with milk, and later the hormone trig- netic underpinnings, one of many impor- eration many of the originally targeted
gers labor. In the past 25 years researchers tant factors, remain largely a mystery be- copy number variants provide evidence
have learned that oxytocin, present in men cause identifying the relevant mutations is that a large number of genetic factors pu-
as well, appears to play a role in promot- a daunting task. Some studies suggest that tatively linked to autism in the scientific
ing the bonding of infant to mother and
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Reversal
Oxytocin treatment may trigger of autism’s
a domino effect by boosting the impaired
communication
child’s inclination to participate
skills
in social activities
Drive to Opportunity Learning Cognition and Drive to
participate for social promoted functioning Communication participate
Without treatment, the domino in social engagement by social in school and skills remain in social
effect is less likely to occur activity feedback at home impaired activity
sembling Rett syndrome show fewer stored umbilical cord blood of a child these stem cells and then exposed to ther-
symptoms after dosing with a compound with autism. Now the researchers have apeutic learning experiences, such as
derived from IGF-1. A small trial of the the equivalent of neurons or glia taken those provided by early intervention.
IGF-1 derivative in as many as 50 children from the brain of a person with autism, This combination of genetic and behav-
with autism has passed initial safety test- replete with genetic anomalies. ioral therapies could then reshape the
ing, and work is now beginning to assess An analysis of the particular genetic nervous system at the cellular and molec-
its ability to reverse symptoms. makeup — and which genes are active in ular levels and perhaps dramatically im-
As research progresses, future studies the newly minted neurons— might assist prove communication difficulties and re-
must come to grips with the complexity of in determining where a young child could petitive behaviors. If such futuristic sce-
a disorder with multiple causes, differing be placed on the autism spectrum, wheth- narios ever materialize, we may one day
degrees of severity, and the involvement of er he or she is afflicted with a mild form of be able to say that we indeed are nearing
networks in the brain that regulate basic the disorder or has a severe case that will a cure for children such as Adrianna and
CIENTIFIC AMERICAN
social behaviors and communication prevent the uttering of even a single word. Jermaine’s young Jayden. M
skills. A multipronged approach will be
needed to develop ways to accurately de-
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tect the initial onset of symptoms in an
■ ■ EarlyBehavioral Intervention Is Associated with Normalized Brain Activity in Young Children
18-month-old toddler and to devise treat-
GR APHIC BY S
with Autism. Geraldine Dawson et al. in J ournal of the American Academy of Child & Adolescent
ments that extend ultimately to correct the Psychiatry, Vol. 51, No. 11, pages 1150–1159; November 2012.
functioning of defective brain cells. Be- ■ ■ Autism Spectrum Disorder. U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, National Institutes
yond an analysis of genetics, researchers of Health, National Institute of Mental Health. NIH Publication No. QF 15-5511, Revised 2015.
By
Jerry Bubrick
Illustrations By
PJ Loughran
When I first met Julia, she was the most anxious, depressed
child I had ever seen. Twelve years old, she had stopped going
to school and seldom left her apartment. Her eyes were big
with fright. When she spoke, it was in a very soft, crackly
whisper, and she would stammer, as if struggling to find words.
Julia was terrified that anyone who was not able to see friends or go any-
might see her would know instantly where comfortably, and her confine-
that something was wrong with her. ment made her feel hopeless.
When she did build up the courage to Julia suffered from social anxiety, a
venture out, she would open the door fear that stems from a sense of being
and peek out; if she saw a neighbor in evaluated, judged and found wanting by
the hallway, she would close the door others — and by oneself. About 1.8 mil-
and wait until the coast was clear. She lion children in the U.S. suffer from
clinically serious anxiety, according to
the Centers for Disease Control and
EDITORS’ NOTE: All patient names in this article are pseudonyms.
Prevention, with the type of anxiety
tied to a child’s developmental level.
FAST FACTS
CONQUERING DREAD Separation anxiety is the most preva-
lent in preschool or early grade school,
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About 1.8 million children in the U.S. suffer from clinically disabling anxiety.
for example, when children typically
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Cognitive-behavioral therapy helps people recognize dysfunctional thoughts and
change behaviors that reinforce harmful feelings. learn to separate from attachment fig-
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In exposure and response prevention, a therapist helps a child face fears so he or ures. Social anxiety tends to show up
she can habituate to them rather than avoiding or escaping them. around puberty, when children become
UNLEARNING ANXIETY
Traditional psychotherapists view anx- views, he developed what he called cog- symptoms by altering the function of
iety disorders as a function of unre- nitive therapy as a way of helping them this circuit.
solved issues in childhood, such as reframe such notions. The roots of the Unfortunately, many of the children
unsuccessf ul toilet training or disturb- behavior-modification part of CBT who could benefit from CBT do not re-
ing sexual urges. Therapy is a process emerged in the early decades of the ceive it. This problem stems in part
of trying to identify and resolve those 1900s and beyond, when pioneers in from a lack of experienced clinicians. In
past problems, which are often buried behaviorism such as Ivan Pavlov, John addition, many pediatricians, school
in the subconscious. Cognitive-behav- Watson and B. F. Skinner experiment- psychologists and others are unaware of
ioral therapists, on the other hand, be- ed with conditioning— linking actions the benefits of the therapy and so fail to
lieve that anxiety is caused partly by to environmental stimuli — and using refer children. Meanwhile some doctors
genes and partly by learned patterns of positive and negative reinforcement to
thought and behavior. alter behavior. The cognitive and be-
CBT is geared toward unlearning havioral approaches were merged in the THE AUTHOR
those negative habits. It is based on the late 1970s.
hypothesis that how we think and act Research over more than 20 years JERRY BUBRICK is senior director
both can affect how we feel. By chang- has shown definitively that CBT is the of the Anxiety and Mood Disorders
ing thinking that is distorted or dys- most effective treatment for reducing Center at the Child Mind Institute
functional, we can positively affect our symptoms of severe anxiety. In a meta- in New York City. He is a nationally
emotional state. Moreover, if we recog- analysis (statistical review) of 48 con- renowned cognitive and behavioral
nize that some behaviors generate and trolled studies of CBT for anxiety in psychologist and is widely recognized
reinforce feelings that harm us, we can children published in 2012, clinical for developing one of the world’s
lessen those emotions by changing psychologist Shirley Reynolds, then at most intensive pediatric programs
those behaviors. the University of East Anglia in Eng- for anxiety.
and therapists mistakenly believe that ANXIETY > ANTICIPATORY ANXIETY > sketched out that chain of events, Julia
the therapy is too tough on children AVOIDANCE > DEPRESSION got it, and I had her buying in, a little
when, in fact, the treatment is very gen- As a sixth grader, Julia had hung bit, to the idea that this therapy was go-
tle. We work at a child’s pace, supply out with friends, gone to restaurants, ing to be different. Her buy-in was im-
emotional support, and ask youngsters played the violin and walked in the portant because the next step — facing
to do only what they are ready to do. park. Now she did none of those things. down her fears —would depend on her
A year ago she counted seven kids as trusting me.
HIERARCHY OF FEARS her good friends; now she was down to The core behavioral technique in
For children with anxiety disorders, the one she saw very rarely. She was not the treatment of anxiety is exposure
process begins by helping them, and sleeping. Julia’s depression was a result and response prevention. Adopting
their parents, distance themselves from of her anticipatory anxiety, a free-float- poet Robert Frost’s claim that “the only
way around is through,” this method
slowly and systematically helps young-
sters face their fears, so they can habit-
uate to them rather than avoiding or es-
caping them by continually seeking re-
assurance or engaging in ritualistic
behaviors such as hand washing.
The first step is to identify triggers.
We design a “hierarchy of fears,” a se-
ries of incremental challenges, each of
which is tolerable, that together amount
to significant progress. Instead of
thinking in black-and-white terms — I
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family therapy showed a 79 percent re- site of the one espoused by her previous school to see her friends perform in a
duction in anxiety symptoms compared therapist: stay inside until they un- talent show. The lead singer of one of
with a 53 percent improvement in those earthed the roots of her anxiety. her friends’ groups was sick, and the
who had been in the therapy without After six weeks of intensive therapy, other members asked Julia, on the spur
parent participation. Julia was feeling— and acting— close to of the moment, to sing in her place. In
Many anxious children can also her old self again, and we switched to front of the entire school, Julia sang an
benefit from medication, especially an- weekly sessions. She had not returned Adele song. She came out of that perfor-
tidepressants, either alone or in combi- to school, however, because she felt the mance on top of the world, and the ex-
nation with CBT. Unless a child is too environment was too demanding and perience crystallized for her how much
impaired for CBT or the family is un- critical. Julia’s parents found a new better her life has become after shed-
willing to do the work involved, we rec- school for her. ding her ever present apprehension.
ommend therapy alone for the first few During the summer, Julia went on a “Time goes by so much faster,” she
months to better evaluate its efficacy family trip to Europe, armed with an ac- says, “when you’re not constantly dread-
and then add medication when neces- tion plan for her anxiety and a lifeline to ing things.” M
sary. The combination of CBT and
medicine has been shown to be the most
effective approach for moderate to se-
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vere cases of anxiety.
■ ■ Systematic Changes in Cerebral Glucose Metabolic Rate after Successful Behavior
Modification Treatment of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder. Jeffrey M. Schwartz et al.
ON TOP OF THE WORLD in A
rchives of General Psychiatry, V
ol. 53, No. 2, pages 109–113; February 1996.
For the first three weeks, I saw Julia ■ ■ANew Look at Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder. Melinda Wenner Moyer on ScientificAmerican.
three to five times a week for two hours com, May 1, 2011.
each time. I wanted to boost her confi- ■ ■ Effects
of Psychotherapy for Anxiety in Children and Adolescents: A Meta-Analytic Review.
dence and get her back out into the Shirley Reynolds, Charlotte Wilson, Joanne Austin and Lee Hooper in C
linical Psychology
Review, V
ol. 32, No. 4, pages 251–262; June 2012.
world. Once she was feeling more ener-
■ ■ Treating
Childhood and Adolescent Anxiety: A Guide for Caregivers. Eli R. Lebowitz and
gized and the depression was fading, Haim Omer. John Wiley & Sons, 2013.
I gave her homework. I assigned her to ■ ■ To
learn about CBT for anxiety disorders, visit the Anxiety and Depression Association
go for a 10-minute walk in the park; she of America’s Web site: www.adaa.org/resources-professionals/teaching-slides
By
Claudia Wallis
called selective mutism, a condition that gram. A small percentage of children re-
often looks and feels like very painful dants on the playground. They are the kin- main mute into high school.
shyness but with a twist. These kids will dergartners who wet their pants, or worse, Psychologists and educators familiar
generally speak— and some will blithely because they are too mortified to ask per- with selective mutism now believe inter-
chatter away—when out of the public eye mission to use the bathroom. One child at vening to break the mute behavior pat-
and in the comforting cocoon of their Camp Courage accidentally hammered tern is important so that it does not com-
own homes. But in certain settings and his thumb during a school craft project promise a child’s academic, social and
most typically in school, they shut down and said nothing; a teacher finally came psychological development. That belief is
and go silent. to his aid after noticing the trail of blood. in keeping with a broader trend toward
The zoo outing is part of a four-day Pediatricians often dismiss the disor- early intervention in other childhood
program called Camp Courage, offered der, which typically emerges when a conditions that affect learning and social-
by the Child Study Center at New York child begins preschool or kindergarten, ization, such as attention-deficit/hyperac-
University. It is the model for half a doz- as a passing phase that will resolve itself. tivity disorder, communication disorders
en summer camp programs for kids with In the meantime, parents get in the hab- and autism. Selective mutism is less well
selective mutism. Once thought to be ex- it of speaking for their child, asking oth- recognized, however, and many kids who
tremely rare, the disorder is now believed ers to accept shrugs and gestures as com- would benefit from therapy either receive
to affect between 0.5 and 0.8 percent of munication, and explaining their young- the wrong kind or none at all. Only in the
youngsters—meaning there is at least one ster’s “shyness” to baffled teachers and past few years has rigorous research val-
P R EC E D I N G PA G E S A N D T H I S PA G E : G E T T Y I M A G E S;
A L L I M A G E S F O R I L L U S T R AT I O N P U R P O S E S O N LY
such child in most elementary schools. neighbors. But selective mutism does not idated a therapeutic approach to selective
These are the kids who never speak in always fade away. Survey findings and mutism. At the same time, scientists are
class or whisper to only one or two confi- clinical experience suggest that many af- beginning to explore the mysterious —
and in some cases, surprising—roots of
this once obscure disorder.
FAST FACTS
STRUCK SPEECHLESS
NAMING THE SILENCE
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Selective mutism, a disorder that leaves individuals too anxious to speak in certain contexts
Spend a few days around children who
(usually school), is now believed to affect between 0.5 and 0.8 percent of young children.
have selective mutism, and you begin to
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Evidence suggests that genetics plays a significant role in the disorder. Issues with auditory
processing may also contribute. wonder if they have a hidden on/off
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Therapies focus on gradually increasing a child’s exposure to speaking in distressing switch. In the large, airy classroom
situations and providing rewards for braving his or her fears. where Camp Courage convened, I saw a
hood anxiety disorder marked by a fail- the child who is acting out and not stay- CLAUDIA WALLIS is an award-
ure to speak in certain settings that ing in his seat.” winning science writer whose work
cannot be explained by communication Another common issue is mislabel- has appeared in numerous national
or language difficulties [see box above]. ing. In her clinical practice, Bergman has publications. She is managing editor
Most children who are treated for se- seen youngsters with selective mutism of S
cientific American Mind.
volving a total of 75 subjects with selec- ing challenges can cause a child to shut quired simple, predictable utterances
tive mutism, psychologist Yair Bar-Haim down in a noisy, overstimulating class- (“Do you have any zebras?”). At the end
MIK A C
of Tel Aviv University and his collabora- room. “We may see a deficit in their nar- of each day, they could pick a big or
dren during this troublesome process. in the longer term. In a quantitative re- her associates reported that some chil-
Some parents are so worried that they view of the literature in 2001, sociolo- dren who are exposed to high levels of
remain in unhappy marriages, believing
it will protect their offspring from the
trauma of divorce.
Yet parents who split have reasons for
hope. Researchers have found that only a
relatively small percentage of children ex-
perience serious problems in the wake of
divorce or, later, as adults.
RAPID RECOVERY
Divorce affects most children in the short
run, but research suggests that kids recov-
er rapidly after the initial blow. In a 2002
study psychologist E. Mavis H etherington
of the University of Virginia and her then
graduate student Anne Mitchell Elmore
found that many children experience
short-term negative effects from divorce,
THE AUTHORS
cognitive or emotional problems. They and positron-emission tomography has tween infancy and adulthood, permit-
are a natural result of brain develop- offered some progress, but because these ting extensive and elaborate networking
ment, a normal part of adolescents learn- techniques emit ionizing radiation, it among brain regions.
ing how to negotiate a complex world. was unethical to use them for exhaustive Recent investigations are revealing
The same understanding can also studies of youth. The advent of magnet- another, more nuanced role for myelin.
help adults decide when to intervene. A ic resonance imaging (MRI) finally pro- Neurons integrate information from
15-year-old girl’s departure from her vided a way to lift the veil, offering a safe other neurons but only fire to pass it on
parents’ tastes in clothing, music or pol- and accurate way to study the anatomy if the incoming input exceeds a certain
itics may be a source of consternation for and physiology of the brain in people of electrical threshold. If the neuron fires,
Mom and Dad but does not indicate all ages. Ongoing studies are tracking that action initiates a series of molecu-
mental illness. A 16-year-old boy’s pro- thousands of twins and single individu- lar changes that strengthens the synaps-
pensity to skateboard without a helmet als throughout their lives. The consistent es, or connections, between that neuron
or to accept risky dares from friends is theme that is emerging is that the adoles- and the input neurons.
not trivial but is more likely a manifesta- cent brain does not mature by getting This strengthening of connections
tion of short-range thinking and peer larger; it matures by having its different forms the basis for learning. What re-
pressure than a desire to hurt himself. components become more interconnect- searchers themselves are now learning is
Other exploratory and aggressive ac- ed and by becoming more specialized. that for input from nearby and distant
tions might be red flags, however. Know- In MRI scans, the increase in connec- neurons to arrive simultaneously at a
ing more about the unique teen brain will tivity among brain regions is indicated as given neuron, the transmission must be
help all of us learn how to separate un- greater volumes of white matter. The exquisitely timed, and myelin is inti-
usual behavior that is age-appropriate “white” in white matter comes from a mately involved in the fine-tuning of this
from that which might indicate illness. fatty substance called myelin, which timing. As children become teenagers,
Such awareness could help society re- wraps and insulates the long wire, or the rapid expansion of myelin increas-
duce the rates of teen addiction, sexual- axon, that extends from a neuron’s body. ingly joins and coordinates activities in
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ly transmitted diseases, motor vehicle ac- Myelination—the formation of this fatty different parts of the brain on a variety
cidents, unwanted pregnancy, homicide, sheath — takes place from childhood of cognitive tasks.
depression and suicide. through adulthood and significantly Scientists can now measure this
speeds up the conduction of nerve im- changing interconnectivity by applying
GREATER CONNECTIVITY pulses among neurons. Myelinated axons graph theory, a type of mathematics that
Few parents of a teenager will be sur- transmit signals up to 100 times faster quantifies the relation between “nodes”
prised to hear that the brain of a 16-year- than unmyelinated ones. and “edges” in a network. Nodes can be
old is different from the brain of an eight- Myelination also accelerates the any object or detectable entity—a neuron
year-old. Yet researchers have had diffi- brain’s information processing by help- or a brain structure such as the hippo-
culty pinning down these differences in ing axons recover quickly after they fire campus or a larger region such as the pre-
a scientific way. Wrapped in a tough, so that they are ready to send another frontal cortex. Edges can be any connec-
leathery membrane, surrounded by a message. Quicker recovery time allows tions among nodes, from a physical con-
protective moat of fluid and completely up to a 30-fold increase in the frequency nection such as a synapse between
encased in bone, the brain is well protect- with which a given neuron can transmit neurons to a statistical correlation such
ed from falls, attacks from predators — information. The combination of faster as when two parts of the brain are acti-
PA G E 9 2: P H O T O G R A P H F O R I L L U S T R AT I O N P U R P O S E S O N LY
and the curiosity of scientists. transmission and shorter recovery time vated similarly during a cognitive task.
The invention of imaging technolo- provides a 3,000-fold increase in the Graph theory has helped me and oth-
gies such as computerized tomography brain’s computational bandwidth be- ers to measure how different brain re-
gions develop and become interconnect-
ed to one another and to correlate such
FAST FACTS features with changes in behavior and
ONE-OF-A-KIND MIND cognition. Brain changes are not con-
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MRI studies show that the teenage brain is not an old child brain or a half-baked adult brain; it is fined to adolescence. Most brain circuits
a unique entity characterized by changeability and an increase in networking among brain regions. develop in the womb, and many contin-
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The limbic system, which drives emotions, intensifies at puberty, but the prefrontal cortex, ue to change throughout life, well be-
which controls impulses, does not mature until the 20s. This mismatch makes teens prone
yond the teen years. It turns out, howev-
to risk taking but also allows them to adapt readily to their environment.
er, that during that period there is a dra-
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Earlier onset of puberty in children worldwide is expanding the years during which the
mismatch occurs. matic increase in connectivity among
Greater understanding of the teen brain should help parents and society better distinguish brain regions involved in judgment, get-
typical behavior from mental illness while helping teens become the people they want to be. ting along with others and long-range
Increasing Communications among Brain Regions over Time More connections Stronger connection
Age 12 Age 30
planning— abilities that profoundly in- hood, reaches a maximum around age 10 losopher Karl Popper phrased it, instead
C O N N EC T I V I T Y B E T W E E N A G E S 1 2 A N D 3 0 : A 4 -T E S L A D I F F U S I O N I M A G I N G S T U DY I N 4 3 9 A D O L E S C E N T S A N D A D U LT S ,”
fluence the remainder of a person’s life. and declines through adolescence. It lev- of putting ourselves in harm’s way, “our
D AV I D K I L L PA C K (b r a i n s) A N D J E N C H R I S T I A N S E N (n o d a l d i a g r a m s); S O U R C E : “ D E V E L O P M E N T O F B R A I N S T R U C T U R A L
els off during adulthood and declines theories die in our stead.” As we mature
TIME TO SPECIALIZE somewhat further in senescence. The pat- cognitively, our executive functioning
As the white matter along neurons is de- tern also holds for the density of receptor also makes us more likely to choose larg-
veloping with age in adolescents, another cells on neurons that respond to neu- er, longer-term rewards over smaller,
B Y E M I LY L . D E N N I S E T A L ., I N N EU R O I M AG E , V O L . 6 4; J A N U A R Y 1, 2 0 1 3 (S U P P L E M E N TA R Y V I D EO 2)
change is taking place. Brain develop- rotransmitters—molecules such as dopa- shorter-term ones.
ment, like other complex processes in na- mine, serotonin and glutamate that mod- The prefrontal cortex is also a key
ture, proceeds by a one-two punch of ulate communication among brain cells. component of circuitry involved in social
overproduction, followed by selective Although the raw amount of gray cognition— our ability to navigate com-
elimination. Like Michelangelo’s D avid matter tops out around puberty, full de- plex social relationships, discern friend
emerging from a block of marble, many velopment of different brain regions oc- from foe, find protection within groups
cognitive advances arise during a sculpt- curs at different times. Gray matter, it and carry out the prime directive of ado-
ing process in which unused or maladap- turns out, peaks earliest in what are lescence: to attract a mate.
tive brain cell connections are pruned called primary sensorimotor areas de- Adolescence is therefore marked by
away. Frequently used connections, mean- voted to sensing and responding to sight, changes in gray matter and in white mat-
while, are strengthened. Although prun- sound, smell, taste and touch. It peaks ter that together transform the network-
ing and strengthening occur throughout latest in the prefrontal cortex, crucial to ing among brain regions as the adult
our lives, during adolescence the balance executive functioning, a term that en- brain takes shape. The prefrontal cortex
shifts to elimination, as the brain tailors compasses a broad array of abilities, in- functions are not absent in teenagers;
itself to the demands of its environment. cluding organization, decision making they are just not as good as they are go-
Specialization arises as unused con- and planning, along with the regulation ing to get. Because they do not fully ma-
nections among neurons are eliminated, of emotion. ture until a person’s 20s, teens may have
decreasing the brain’s gray matter. Gray An important feature of the prefron- trouble controlling impulses or judging
matter consists largely of unmyelinated tal cortex is the ability to create hypo- risks and rewards.
structures such as neuron cell bodies, thetical what-ifs by mental time travel—
dendrites (antennalike projections from to consider past, present and possible fu- A MISMATCH IN MATURATION
the cells that receive information from ture outcomes by running simulations in Unlike the prefrontal cortex, the hor-
other neurons) and certain axons. Over- our mind instead of subjecting ourselves mone-fueled limbic system undergoes
all, gray matter increases during child- to potentially dangerous reality. As phi- dramatic changes at the time of puberty,
which traditionally begins between ages ROOTS Teenagers are more likely than children or adults to engage in
10 and 12. The system regulates emotion OF RISK risky behavior, in part because of a mismatch between two
and feelings of reward. It also interacts TAKING major brain regions. Development of the hormone-fueled limbic
with the prefrontal cortex during adoles- system (purple), which drives emotions, intensifies as puberty
cence to promote novelty seeking, risk begins (typically between ages 10 to 12), and the system matures
Emotion over the next several years. But the prefrontal cortex (green),
taking and a shift toward interacting with vs. which keeps a lid on impulsive actions, does not approach full
peers. These behaviors, deeply rooted in Control development until a decade later, leaving an imbalance during
biology and found in all social mammals, the interim years. Puberty is starting earlier, too, boosting hor-
encourage tweens and young teens to sep- mones when the prefrontal cortex is even less mature.
arate from the comfort and safety of their
families to explore new environments and
seek outside relationships. These behav-
iors diminish the likelihood of inbreed-
ing, creating a healthier genetic popula-
Limbic region
tion, but they can also pose substantial
dangers, especially when mixed with
modern temptations such as easy access
to drugs, firearms and high-speed motor
vehicles, unchecked by sound judgment.
What most determines teen behavior,
Prefrontal cortex
then, is not so much the late development
of executive functioning or the early on-
set of emotional behavior but a mismatch
in the timing of the two developments. If
R A I S E G RE AT KIDS
D AV I D K I L L PA C K (b r a i n) A N D J E N C H R I S T I A N S E N ( g r a p h i c); S O U R C E : J AY N . G I E D D
lengthens the gap of time between the on-
Age: 0 5 10 15 20 25 30
set of increased risk taking and sensation
seeking and the rise of a strong, stabiliz-
ing prefrontal cortex.
The lengthening mismatch supports struct when a person achieves indepen- gy. They show that the pace of biological
the growing notion that the teen years dence and assumes adult roles. In the maturation of white and gray matter can
are no longer synonymous with adoles- U.S., attainment of an adult role — often be influenced somewhat by the environ-
cence. Adolescence, which society de- characterized by such events as getting ment but that the fundamental timing is
fines as the transition from childhood to married, having a child and owning a under biological control. Sociologists see
adulthood, begins in biology with the home —is occurring approximately five this, too: risk taking, sensation seeking
onset of puberty but ends in a social con- years later than in the 1970s. and a move toward peers happen in all
The large influence of social factors cultures, although the degree can vary.
in determining what constitutes an adult
THE AUTHOR has led some psychologists to suggest VULNERABILITY AND
that adolescence is less of a biological re- OPPORTUNITY
JAY N. GIEDD is chair of the division ality than a product of changes in child- The gray matter, white matter and net-
of child and adolescent psychiatry at rearing since the industrial revolution. working developments detected by MRI
the University of California, San Diego, Yet twin studies, which examine the rel- underscore the observation that the most
and a professor at the Johns Hopkins ative effects of genes and environment by striking feature in teen brain develop-
Bloomberg School of Public Health. following twins who have different ex- ment is the extensive changes that occur.
He is also former editor in chief of the periences, refute the view that social fac- In general, this plasticity decreases
journal Mind, Brain, and Education. tors can substantially override the biolo- throughout adulthood, and yet we hu-
er amounts of alcohol consumed more of- Youths whose brain maturation is showed fewer and weaker connections
ten because extremely high blood alcohol slower than usual may be in particular between the frontal and parietal brain re-
levels are toxic to organs, severely impair jeopardy. In a study published in 2011 a gions involved in planning, decision mak-
sensory and cognitive functions, and en- team led by Tapert and her then graduate ing and inhibitory control.
courage habit formation or addiction. student Andria L. Norman, now at Studies published in 2014 and 2015
Scientists have also identified a sub- Wayne State University, tested the inhibi- have confirmed that teens who go on to
tler, longer-lasting effect of heavy alcohol tory control skills of 38 12- to 14-year- drink heavily— especially those with fam-
consumption among teenagers and young olds while they were in an MRI machine. ily histories of alcohol problems—have re-
adults: deficits in learning and memory. They then tracked the youths for four gions of slower brain maturation that may
An emerging body of data indicates that years to see who would start using alco- help identify at-risk teens before they
alcohol damages specific regions of the hol. The 21 kids who had begun heavy transition into heavy drinking.
maturing brain. In addition, a youthful drinking had, in their original scan,
brain has weaker controls that would stop shown less activation in 12 brain re- THINKING TOO HARD
a person from drinking too much. Scien- gions—including parts of the prefrontal Not only are teenagers susceptible to the
tists are finding clues in the brain that may cortex and the adjacent parietal cortex, temptation of alcohol, but evidence sug-
help them identify the most vulnerable which helps to produce planned move- gests that drinking may harm their brains.
young people—in hopes of halting prob- ments — than the 17 who abstained. In The effects of drinking on the brain are
lem drinking before it starts. According to not always straightforward. Yet clear dif-
psychiatry researcher Reagan R. Weth- ferences in brain performance distinguish
erill of the University of Pennsylvania, the teetotalers from heavy imbibers. During
aim is to bolster brain development “just the past decade pharmacology researcher
P R EC E D I N G PA G E : C R A I G S T E N N E T T A l a my ; T H I S PA G E : F R O M “A LT E R E D W H I T E M AT T E R I N T EG R I T Y I N A D O L E S C E N T B I N G E D R I N K E R S ,”
enough” so that young people can “inhib- Fulton Crews of the University of North
it their own drinking behaviors before Carolina at Chapel Hill School of Medi-
they act.” cine and others have shown that a high
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er, after they became drinkers, signs of less ■ ■ The Effect of Alcohol Use on Human Adolescent Brain Structures and Systems. L. M. Squeglia,
efficient information processing. In late J. Jacobus and S. F. Tapert in Handbook of Clinical Neurology, Vol. 125, pages 501–510; 2014.
■ ■ New Research Findings since the 2007 Surgeon General's Call to Action to Prevent and
2012 the team reported scanning the
JOE RAEDLE G
Reduce Underage Drinking: A Review. R. Hingson and A. White in Journal of Studies on Alcohol
brains of 40 youths twice, three years and Drugs, Vol. 75, No. 1, pages 158–169; January 2014.
apart, starting when the kids were 15 ■ ■ Brain Development in Heavy-Drinking Adolescents. L. Squeglia et al. in American Journal
years old, on average, while they did visu- of Psychiatry, Vol. 172, No. 6, pages 531–542; June 2015.
By
Paul Raeburn
The influence of fathers on their
Photoillustrations By
C.J. Burton
teenage children has long been
overlooked. Now researchers
are finding surprising ways
in which dads make a difference
Adapted from D o Fathers Matter?
What Science Is Telling Us about the
Parent We’ve Overlooked, by Paul Raeburn,
by arrangement with Scientific American/
Farrar, Straus and Giroux, LLC. Copyright
© 2014 by Paul Raeburn. All rights reserved.
sex earlier and more often. A lot of us what we call, in evolutionary sciences, a
might say the same thing. We know that developments faster reproductive strategy,” Hill said.
teenagers are impressionable, and the
idea that they would be swayed by MTV
in the study In contrast, a girl who grows up in a
family in which the bond between her
makes sense. of children parents is more secure and who has a
father who lives in the home might well
But psychologists Sarah E. Hill and
Danielle J. DelPriore, both then at Tex-
and families. (subconsciously) adopt a slower repro-
as Christian University, took note of a Our failure to ductive strategy. She might conclude
more subtle fact about Tennessee. Near-
ly one in four households was headed by
address the that she can take a bit more time to
start having children. She can be more
a single mother. For Hill and DelPriore, question of thorough in her preparation. “If you’re
that observation was a tip-off that some-
thing entirely different was going on.
fathers’ value going to have two invested parents,
you’re investing more reproductive re-
“Researchers have revealed a robust as- is more than sources. If the expectation is you are not
sociation between father absence — both
physical and psychological— and accel-
simply a matter going to receive these investments, you
should shift toward the faster strategy,”
erated reproductive development and of academic Hill explained.
sexual risk-taking in daughters,” they
wrote in a 2013 paper. You might expect
bickering. THE MISSING LINK
sexual maturation to be deeply inscribed For a long time, until women began en-
in a teenager’s genes and thus not likely tering the workforce in bigger numbers
in the 1960s and 1970s, fathers had a
uniquely valuable familial role to play.
FAST FACTS
They brought home the paychecks that
OF FATHERS AND TEENS
housed and fed their families and pro-
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Fathers have long been neglected in research on child and family psychology, but recent work
vided a little extra for dance lessons, Lit-
is identifying numerous ways in which they affect the development of their teenage children.
tle League uniforms and bicycles for the
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Among them are unexpected effects on the reproductive development of daughters and the
cultivation of empathy in children of both sexes. kids. Although bringing home a pay-
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The new research suggests that a father’s love and acceptance are at least as important as check might not seem like the most nur-
the love and acceptance of a mother. turing thing a parent could do, it was vi-
was seeing in the daughters. An alterna- And did that age vary depending on how out two committed parents
tive explanation was that girls who their fathers behaved? The second ques- need not face a disadvantage
begin puberty early and engage in risky tion was added because fathers with a because of that fact.
sexual behavior do so because they history of violence, depression, drug Distilling a large body
inherited certain genes from their par- abuse or incarceration can affect chil- of research down to its es-
ents. Fathers might pass on genes linked dren’s development. sentials reveals a few key fac-
to infidelity to their daughters, in whom Ellis’s suspicions were confirmed. tors. The most important ele-
they could be associated with risky sex- Younger sisters in divorced families ments of child-rearing are not
ual behavior and early puberty. Or had their first periods an average of the identity or gender of the
something else in the family’s environ- 11 months earlier than their older adults involved but the quality
ment could be responsible for the chang- sisters — but only in homes in which of care coming from those
es in their daughters. the men behaved badly as fathers. people, as well as its consis-
tency over the years. In cases
where one parent is absent,
unreliable or uncommitted,
research suggests that fami-
“The great emphasis on mothers lies keep the following priori-
ties in mind.
and mothering in America has led to
an inappropriate tendency to blame
mothers for children’s behavior
problems and maladjustment when,
in fact, fathers are often more
implicated than mothers in the
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“We were surprised to get as big an 18 and 36. He limited his search to el of risky sexual behavior,” Ellis said.
effect as we did,” Ellis told me. The families in which the birth parents sep- “Their younger sisters, who had less
conclusion was that growing up with arated or divorced when the younger time with him, tended to show the high-
emotionally or physically distant fa- sister was younger than 14 years. Ellis est level of risky sexual behavior.”
thers in early to middle childhood could and his colleagues were able to recruit The next question, then, is exactly
be “a key life transition” that alters sex- 101 pairs of sisters, some from families how do fathers exert this effect on their
ual development. in which the parents had divorced and, daughters? One possible explanation, as
The next step Ellis took was to look using a different ad, some whose par- unlikely as it might seem, is that a fa-
at whether these circumstances could ents had not. ther’s scent affects his daughters’ behav-
affect the involvement of girls in risky This time the researchers found that ior. Many animals emit pheromones,
sexual behavior. This time he turned to risky sexual behavior was not related to chemical messengers that can be picked
Craigslist and posted announcements in how long daughters lived with their fa- up by others and can alter their behav-
several cities that began, “SISTERS thers but to what the fathers did in the ior. “There is certainly evidence from
WANTED!” The criteria were very spe- time they spent with their daughters. animal research, in a number of species,
cific: he was looking for families with “Girls who grew up with a high-quality that exposure to the pheromones of un-
two sisters at least four years apart in father— who spent more time as a high- related males can accelerate pubertal
age and currently between the ages of investing father— showed the lowest lev- development and some evidence that ex-
posure to pheromones of a father can
slow it down,” Ellis explained.
If the same is true of humans, pher-
omones could help explain how the
presence or absence of fathers affects
their daughters — although that remains
an untested hypothesis. Some research
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puterized driving game in which the play- er researchers examined the question of of 2010. Her next book, forthcoming
er must avoid crashing into a wall that ma- why t eens were more apt to take risks in from Crown, is entitled B rilliant: The
terializes, without warning, on the road- the company of other teenagers, they Science of How We Get Smarter.
the next; that’s predictable and human. tech review group Common Sense Media
Apparently digital devices are ruining our found that more than half of American
N OTE
youth, just the way that rock music ruined teens feel that social media—now accessi-
DRE
their parents, and television ruined their bly anywhere thanks to touch screens —
R A I SEENG
parents and motorcars ruined theirs. So I has helped their friendships (only 4 per-
guess we’ve been ruined for generations. cent report that it has hurt). In 2014 the
But I got to wondering: What does sci- U.K.’s National Literacy Trust found that
ence say about the ruinous effects of the poor children with touch screen devices at
latest technology? home are twice as likely to read every day.
Part of the answer depends on your Also, a study published in C omputers in
definition of “ruining.” True, things are Human Behavior found that texting is
different now. Most American kids no beneficial for the emotional well-being of
longer “go outside and play,” unattended, gets (touch screen tablets and smart- teenagers— especially introverts.
for hours (the stickball industry may nev- phones) to the ruination of youth. Re- Clearly, we still need broader, longer-
er recover). Students no longer need to search takes time, and the touch screen term studies before we begin a new round
memorize the presidents and the periodic era is very young. Nobody had ever even of cluck-clucking. And they are coming;
table, because Google is just a keystroke seen an iPad, for example, until 2010. for example, results of a huge British sur-
away. We are also losing old skills. Few There is, however, early research out— vey of 2,500 children called SCAMP
kids know how to use carbon paper or and it provides some insight into how these (Study of Cognition, Adolescents and
tend horses; handwriting and driving suddenly ubiquitous gadgets might be af- Mobile Phones) will arrive in 2017.
skills may be next. fecting kids. One study, published in the In the meantime, the warning bells
Still, different is not the same as worse. February 2015 issue of Pediatrics, found raised by early research are not loud
And, as I discovered, it’s surprisingly dif- that children who sleep near a small screen enough to make us rip our kids’ touch
ficult to find studies linking modern gad- get an average of 21 fewer minutes of sleep screens away and move to Amish coun-
than kids without gadgets in their rooms. try. Yet they are already enough to sug-
(As for the reason: the researchers suppose gest practicing a very wise, ancient pre-
HARRY CAMPBELL
THE AUTHOR
that kids are staying up late to use their caution: moderation. Too much of any-
DAVID POGUEis the anchor columnist gadgets, or maybe light from the screen thing is bad for children—whether it is
for Yahoo Tech and host of several N
OVA produces “delays in circadian rhythm.”) modern electronics, watching TV or
miniseries on PBS. What about social skills? A 2014 study playing stickball. M