THE#1SECRETTO

EXTRAORDINARYLOVE
HOW TO TRANSFORM YOURRELATI
ONSHI
P
The #1 Secret to Extraordinary Love 1

The movies made it look so real, simple

INTRODUCTION
and easy. Thus, every time I fell in love
with someone and entered into a new
relationship, I was shocked to find out
how impossible it was to stay in that
wonderful, blissful honeymoon stage.
Hey Beautiful! You know exactly what I’m talking about.
First off, I’m so glad you’ve downloaded
this guide. If you’re reading this, then
What started off as a romantic, swept-off-
you’re probably ready to take your
my-feet dream, turned into a devastating
relationship to the next level, which
nightmare every time .
means you are ready to take yourSELF to
the next level.
An onslaught of painful emotions would
make their way to the surface all at once,
S o, I t h a n k yo u f o r m a k i n g t h a t
causing extreme insecurity, jealousy,
commitment to yourself and being on
rage, f rustration, annoyance and
this journey with me. This journey
despair.
fundamentally changed my life. Before I
Honestly, I couldn’t understand it.
reveal the #1 secret to extraordinary love,
let me tell you a bit about my past, and
How could I feel so negatively about the
where I am now.
person I loved most?

My name is Sarinia, and for as long as I

How could I go from falling madly, fully,
can remember, I’ ve dreamt about
deeply in love - to positively loathing my
meeting my soulmate; falling madly in
partners?
love, and living happily ever after.

Despite my notes taken f rom every

single Romantic Comedy under the sun,
it took years to find the real answer to
that question.

The answer.

Yes, there is an answer to all of this, and

I’ve found it:

All of the pain, jealousy, insecurity and

cycles of broken, confused love came
down to one simple fact:
I felt negatively about myself.
The #1 Secret to Extraordinary Love
Fast forward to today, I am in the most
loving and fulfilling relationship I’ve
ever been in.
Now, if you share my previous mindset,
you may be thinking, “Oh lucky you, you
found the most perfect man who treats
you like an absolute Queen. What could
possibly go wrong?”
Well, the answer actually is, a heck of a
lot. I did in fact meet an amazing man,
but that didn’t stop the negative
emotions from surfacing.
In fact, for the first three years of our
relationship, we fought more than I’ve
ever fought with my previous partners.
He triggered me in ways I’d never been
t ri g g e re d . We h a d ea r t h - s h a ki n g
breakdowns and on several occasions,
seriously questioned if either of us was
the one . Maybe we had it all wrong.
Maybe we were just too different...
On one very emotional day I found
myself still lying in bed at 3 in the
afternoon. I’d all but given up, and was in
the midst of contemplating what was to
come after this break up. Running it all
through my head. Where I would go.
What I would do.
Yet, with tears running down
my face, staring at the ceiling…
I had an epiphany.
2
I asked myself this very question:
“Is it actually possible that I meet
someone new and fall hopelessly in love,
really in love, only to repeat this entire
downward spiral of heartbreaking events
yet again? ”
And the answer was yes.
This shook me. For the first time in my
life (and I know this might only come out
of the mouth of an egomaniac) I realized
I wasn’t the perfect, angel of a girlfriend I
thought I was.
In that moment, I discovered I had some
serious work to do. And now, here we are.
I say “here we are” because here I am,
with you, in the midst of this work. I’m
writing to you today having gone
through a transformational journey. An
epic journey.
This isn’t just some exam you study for,
pass a test, and voila - you’re certified
perfect. This isn’t a book you read, or a
podcast you listen to. This is life’s work.
You’ve taken the time to be here,
dedicated to transformational love - so I
want to make your journey a little more
easy, and a little less painful.
I know what it feels like to be lost,
hopeless, confused, and quite frankly….
d e p re s s e d . B e l i eve m e , I ’ ve rea d
countless books on relationships, I
studied every relationship expert and
well known marriage counselor.
The #1 Secret to Extraordinary Love
I watched speech after speech on
relationship tips and tricks. But it wasn’t
enough.
Maybe you’ve already experienced
this...Everyone out there tells you how to
communicate better, how to understand
the differences between men and
women, how you should be sexier and
play games to get the attention you’re
craving.
I’m not saying it’s wrong… but it’s not
enough. So, with all the generic advice
out there, it’s not your fault you’re
struggling. You’re not alone.
The path to extraordinary love isn’t
taught in schools, and nobody’s taught
you in life. We didn’t learn it from our
parents’ relationships, and we certainly
didn’t learn it in media.
In fact, the media and movies are part of
the problem. Every romantic comedy
displays two people who desperately
struggle and then at some point, the
movie magically ends at a high moment
to once again live happily ever after. It’s
the Hollywood formula. We love it.
But what happens next? After the
commitment? After the marriage?
Constant ups and downs?
Constant fights, screaming at each other,
threatening each other with divorce?
That’s not the kind of life I want and it’s
not the kind of life you want.
You and I want more. We deserve more.
We know there has to be more.
3
That is exactly why you’re here.
Here is my promise: if you implement
what I’m about to share, you can and will
radically transform your relationship like I
did, and turn it into a love that lasts . Even
and especially if you are at your lowest
point, at the edge of calling it quits.
It is never too late to make a shift in a
new direction. So before I tell you this
secret of mine, I want you to create a
vision.
I want you to imagine this.
Imagine yourself with your love, exactly as you
wish to be:
Loving each other without suffering.
Working together as a team .
Building trust and friendship.
Having incredibly intimate sex.
Being an inspiration to everyone who
meets you and knows you. #couplegoals
Keeping faith at every conflict that you will
not only overcome, but you will prosper.
Going to bed satisfied knowing you are
with the right one.
Being truly happy and fulfilled.
Okay, I hope you have that vision in your
head loud and clear. Sit with it. Expand it.
The #1 Secret to Extraordinary Love
Now, realize and believe it is possible.
However, if you don’t believe it, you won’t
see it. Believing in something is the first
step towards change. I want to make that
clear, because I know if you’re reading
this, you may not be in the most hopeful
state. You might have some doubts and
fears regarding what’s possible. Totally
normal and natural.
However, this is just something you have
to trust me on. If a love that feels good is
what you’re after, then you have to
believe it exists. Just as we used to
believe Romantic Comedies were real life.
Alright, without further ado, the #1 secret
to transforming your relationship is
knowing this fact:
Your relationship is a direct
reflection of the relationship
you have with YOU.
Point blank . No matter what . No
exceptions.
This isn’t an opinion. It’s a fact.
I know, I know…
You might be floored right now. You may
be thinking, “But I was perfectly fine
when it was just me, myself and I. My
partner BROUGHT this negativity into my
life.”
I understand. Being single is simple.
Keep reading.
4
Do you find yourself dealing with any
of these problems?
My partner is inconsiderate of my
feelings.
My partner doesn’t listen to me.
My partner disrespects me.
My partner doesn’t have the same
values as me.
My partner doesn’t make me feel
special.
My partner doesn’t put in the effort I
put in.
My partner doesn’t spend enough
time on me.
My partner only cares about himself.
My partner lacks commitment.
My partner is controlling and
possessive.
I could go on and on. Do you know why?
Because I have made all of these same
complaints, and more.
Now, I want you to do an exercise for me.
Could you flip each of these complaints
around to the opposite effect, and find
proof that it’s true? Find truth in each
one of these statements.
My partner is considerate of my
feelings.
My partner does listen to me.
My partner does respect me.
My partner has the same values as
me.
My partner does make me feel
special.
My partner does put in effort.
My partner does spend time on me.
My partner does care about me.
The #1 Secret to Extraordinary Love 5

My partner is committed to me. The explanation, my love, is this:

My partner gives me freedom.
If you are able to prove the opposite is
true for each one of your complaints,
then the explanation for that is simple:
no matter what your partner does or who
your partner is, there is only one factor
determining if he is a wonderful man or a
terrible one- your perspective.
We are born with an internal guidance
system. Within this system, there is
nothing we can do to cause us to feel
truly bad about ourselves. This is because
we are born inherently good. It wouldn’t
take teaching us not to kill someone, for
us not to kill. Killing is done out of
survival, or a byproduct of conditioning.

Yo u k n ow w h a t c h a n g e s yo u r
perspective? How you feel about yourself.

If you cannot prove the opposite is true

for each of your complaints, then you are
also reflecting how you feel about
yo u r s e l f by c h o o s i n g to b e w i t h
someone who doesn’t (apparently)
match what you desire.

However, he does match your vibration.

You only attract what you are ready for. If
you really thought the world of yourself,
you would attract the world.

Consider this for a moment:

Let’s say you’re having an amazing time

in life. You’re feeling good, happy, sexy,
and then BAM. He just went and did
something that turned your world upside
down and blew it up. It was unexpected,
out of nowhere, and it really hurt.

How can I possibly explain your reaction

is just a product of the way you feel
about yourself, when you were feeling
GREAT!
The #1 Secret to Extraordinary Love
The closer we are to this guidance
system, the less we will ever feel bad
about ourselves, or what anyone else
does. No external factor can actually
cause you suffering. Suffering is created
in the mind.
Read that again.
It is not the situation or the person
causing you pain, it is what you were
taught to think about that situation. You
see, we are raised by parents who do
their best to teach us the difference
between good and bad, according to
their guidance system. Then, we receive
influence from our teachers, our friends,
society, religion, the media and even
plain old biology!
Humans have some serious hardwired
programming done when it comes to
pair bonding for survival and the
amygdala, which is the part of the brain
responsible for fear. By the time we reach
adulthood and enter into relationships,
we are completely disconnected from
our own internal guidance system.
We have been shaped through the
influence of others (and our brains).
What’s more, your partner is also
disconnected f rom his own internal
guidance system. He’s been through his
own unique journey, perpetuating the
continuous cycle.
We t h e n r a i s e c h i l d r e n w i t h o u r
disconnected, externally influenced
guidance systems, teaching concepts of
good/bad and right/wrong.
6
Sure, it’s done in good faith - but it’s
causing extreme misery in relationships.
We are constantly making each other
feel bad. Consciously and unconsciously.
This is not real love. This is disconnected
love.
You, at your source, are real love. It’s you.
The true, unencumbered and free you.
Every time you feel good about
yourself, you are connected to
your internal guidance system.
Like I said, you were born inherently
good. You weren’t taught that. A baby is
good before it can learn what good is.
Thus, every time your partner does
something that triggers you to feel hurt,
it’s a direct product of conditioning. You
were conditioned to believe if you
behaved in that very same way, you were
bad .
So what’s the solution to all this?
We must get back in touch with our
internal guidance system. It is still there.
It is always there. The wonderful thing
about conditioning is it can be reversed.
If, and only if, you learn how.
Each one of your emotions is tied to a
belief about something, which started as
a thought. Therefore it can seem almost
impossible to explain our strong feelings
about certain things because it just feels
The #1 Secret to Extraordinary Love 7

right. Or it feels true. But what feels true
and what is true, are often two
completely different things.
You have to take a step back and employ
perspective. You have to question your
conditioning.
When I realized this, I was able to
eventually stop reacting to my feelings. I
took back control over my mind and
stopped letting my feelings dictate my
happiness.
conditions? Underneath fear, stress and
worry.
Again, harnessing this fundamentally
changed my life and relationship forever.
I want to show you how to tap into your
own source of love and free yourself from
suffering.
This is what will create the ultimate
transformation in your romantic
relationships. This I guarantee.

Yet, understanding isn’t

You remember what I said earlier about
enough. Reading this short
creating your vision? As soon as you
book isn’t enough.
realize what you believe shapes your
reality, you start to create beliefs that
To truly transform, you need to go
serve you. Your own beliefs. Not the
through the process I did.
b e l i e f s p a s s e d d ow n to yo u . N o t
conditioned beliefs. You are the creator.
This is exactly why I created
You have the inherent right to live on this
planet happily, and free from suffering.
It’s the guided, comprehensive process to
That is what God or The Universe or
achieve what I have in my relationship,
Source Consciousness (or whatever you
and within myself. Yet, instead of it taking
believe in) intended.
years of trial and error (like I did), your life
can change in just 3 months.
The catch? It’s a process, and often a
difficult one.
In this 3 month course, you will learn the
5 Steps to a Love that Lasts.
Relationships are beautiful and
transformational. There is no greater way
Only one of these steps is focused on
to experience the love within yourself
concrete relationship tools to keep
than to have someone serve as a mirror.
arguments as arguments you grow from
The more love you feel for yourself, the
- rather than full blown breakdowns.
more another person can reflect it back
(Along with other intimacy masteries).
to you.
Practical tools you can implement
immediately to traverse the minefield of
Love is in abundant supply within you.
love and intimacy.
Why waste one more second keeping it
locked away and hidden underneath
The #1 Secret to Extraordinary Love
The rest is dedicated to getting you back
in touch with You. The true source of
where love resides. The love that will
never leave you. The love that will attract
your man to you like a magnet. Your fear
of him leaving you will be a thing of the
past.
Remember how I mentioned your
partner is also disconnected from his
internal guidance system? The best thing
about this course is you won’t have to
change him. He doesn’t need to read this
ebook or take my course for you to
become completely fulfilled in this
relationship.
8
Your transformation will be contagious.
Certain habits will be broken. Habits he
cannot continue to live out without you.
Without your focus. Without your
attention. Without your bad feelings
regarding those situations.
I want you to stop holding on to the
false idea of what love is. It doesn’t
include feeling empty and unfulfilled. It
doesn’t include fighting over the same
recurring problems with your partner,
hoping he will finally change. You don’t
have to depend on him to make the
change. You don’t have to wait on him to
finally complete you.
With this course, your focus shifts. You
only pay attention to that which makes
you feel good. And he won’t be able to
r e s i s t a w o m a n l i k e t h a t . Yo u r
connection to You will inspire him to
reconnect as well, because connection is
the first and foremost human desire. We
can’t escape it.
Remember, it all starts with you. You can
manifest the love you’ve always dreamed
of. With the right tools, the right support,
and a gentle push in the right direction.
You deserve all the love in the world.
Sincerely yours,
Sarinia
Apply for today and
let me be your guide! Don’t waste
another minute of your precious life
without experiencing the POWER and
BLISS of true REAL love!