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EMR0010.1177/1754073918795257Emotion Review Vol. 10 No. 4Chung & Harris

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Emotion Review
Vol. 10, No. 4 (October 2018) 1­–16
© The Author(s) 2018
ISSN 1754-0739

Jealousy as a Specific Emotion: The Dynamic


https://doi.org/10.1177/1754073918795257
DOI: 10.1177/1754073918795257
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Functional Model

Mingi Chung
Psychology Department, University of California, San Diego, USA

Christine R. Harris
Psychology Department, University of California, San Diego, USA

Abstract
We review the jealousy literature and present our Dynamic Functional Model of Jealousy (DFMJ), which argues that jealousy evolved
and has its own unique motivational state aimed at preventing others from usurping important relationships. It has a core form that
exists in infants and nonhuman animals and an elaborated form in humans that emerges as cognitive sophistication develops. The
DFMJ proposes that jealousy is an unfolding process with early and late phases that can be differentially impacted by relationship
and personality factors. It also notes the importance of looking at multiple concomitants of jealousy, including action tendencies.
We discuss how jealousy fits with current emotion theories and suggest that theories of specific emotions need to be broadened.

Keywords
attachment style, basic emotions, distinct emotions, Dynamic Functional Model of Jealousy, evolution, functional, jealousy,
personality, relational variables, specific emotions

Jealousy is the theme of countless plays, movies, and songs. It is After comparing the DFMJ to other theoretical positions, we
mentioned in texts as old as the Bible, with God himself claiming review empirical studies on factors that impact jealousy. Using
to be a jealous god. In some cultures and time periods, legal sys- our model, we suggest how seemingly disparate findings can
tems have granted special dispensation to acts committed out of be understood when jealousy is viewed as a motivational state
jealousy due to the belief that one had little power to resist the that unfolds over time and when the full concomitants of this
impulses brought on by circumstances such as finding a spouse state (e.g., appraisals, motivations, action readiness, and
in the arms of a lover (Daly, Wilson, & Weghorst, 1982; Harris, behaviors) are taken into account. We argue that while jeal-
2003). Despite its old and compelling history, jealousy is rarely ousy feels subjectively unpleasant, it can sometimes lead to
included in theoretical accounts of specific emotions. positive relationship outcomes. In the concluding section, we
In this article, we argue that jealousy is an evolved emotion discuss how criteria for specific emotions need to be broad-
with its own unique motivational state aimed at preventing ened to include longer lasting emotions such as jealousy.
others from usurping important relationships. We propose a
Dynamic Functional Model of Jealousy (DFMJ), which views
Defining Features
jealousy an ongoing process with early and late phases. We
first provide evidence for a core form of jealousy that occurs While perspectives on jealousy are quite varied, one general
in human infants and nonhuman animals. Second, we discuss point of agreement for most theorists is that jealousy involves a
how this core jealousy develops into a more elaborated form in social triangle. It is the emotional state that arises over the per-
older children as cognitive sophistication increases. While we ception that an important interpersonal relationship is being
refer to core versus elaborated jealousy, they should be viewed threatened by an interloper (Harris & Darby, 2010; Parrott,
as lying on a continuum rather than categorically different. 1991; Parrott & Smith, 1993; White & Mullen, 1989). Many

Corresponding author: Christine R. Harris, Psychology Department, University of California, San Diego, 9500 Gilman Dr. #0109, La Jolla, CA 92093-0109, USA.
Email: charris@ucsd.edu
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Figure 1.  The core form of the Dynamic Functional Model of Jealousy.

researchers also distinguish jealousy from envy, although in anger (motivation to retaliate) or fear (motivation to escape;
common parlance the term “jealousy” is used for both states as Harris, 2003; Harris & Darby, 2010). Thus, we propose that
in “I’m jealous of his success.” Envy is the emotional state that jealousy is its own distinct emotion.
occurs when one desires what another possesses. It often
includes feelings of ill will towards the other and negative feel-
ings about the self (Cohen-Charash, 2009). While the same The Core Form of Jealousy
word might be used in these different contexts, many argue that Distinct emotions theorists generally accept the idea that emo-
the underlying emotional state is likely different (Henniger & tions such as fear or anger evolved to serve adaptive functions
Harris, 2014; Parrott & Smith, 1993). Wanting what another has in humans and are shared with other species. However, even
is more aptly described as envy whereas jealousy occurs over some of these theorists are hesitant to ascribe an emotion such
the potential loss of one’s relationship to another person. as jealousy to nonhuman animals. This may be because when
people think of jealousy, they usually imagine the complex state
that occurs between adults, which involves ongoing assess-
The Dynamic Functional Model of Jealousy
ments about the meaning of an interaction between a rival and a
Functional approaches use Darwinian reasoning to argue that loved one. This form of jealousy, which we label “elaborated
different specific negative emotions evolved to deal with reoc- jealousy” (discussed in what follows), includes assessments not
curring inclusive fitness risks in our ancestral past (Darwin, only about the impact of such a liaison on one’s relationship but
1872/1965; Frijda, 1986; Nesse, 1990; Roseman, 2013; Tracy, also involves appraisals of threat to the self (e.g., does this mean
2014). Each emotion motivates the organism to engage in I am unlovable? Dull? Unattractive?). This reflection on the self
actions that will help reduce a particular risk. Take fear as an is what has led some researchers to claim that infants and non-
example, threatening situations can cause harm, which could human animals do not possess jealousy (Lewis, 2010).
result in consequences as dire as premature death. Fear evolved However, we propose that, at its core, jealousy does not
to help motivate animals to avoid or engage in actions to reduce require sophisticated cognition about self and the meaning of an
the threat. Emotions are multicomponential including apprais- interaction (Harris, 2003; Hobson, 2010). Using a functional
als, urges to act, motivations, and physiological changes in ser- framework, we argue that in its nascent form, jealousy can be
vice of the state (e.g., Roseman, 2011). triggered by an appraisal as simple as that the loved one is pay-
With jealousy too, vital interests are at stake. We form impor- ing attention to a potential rival, motivating the urge to regain
tant bonds with others who provide us with a number of essen- the loved one’s attention. Figure 1 illustrates the phases involved
tial relationship rewards from warmth, shelter, and food to in the unfolding of core jealousy. The initial phase of a jealousy
validation, meaning, and love. However, others can usurp our episode involves appraising whether the presence of a rival is a
relationships and the rewards we obtain from them. Jealousy threat to one’s relationship. The core form of jealousy primarily
arises in such circumstances and we argue that it produces the involves threats to relationship rewards including loss of a loved
motivation to get between the rival and the loved one (physi- one’s attention, affection, or resources to another.
cally, psychologically, or emotionally) in order to prevent or Once there is the appraisal of threat, jealousy is activated,
stop a threatening liaison, which functions to restore or maintain which includes feelings, cognitions, action readiness, behaviors
relationships. We posit that this motivation state is different and, importantly, the primary motivation to engage in acts to
from those of other emotions that often co-occur in jealous situ- protect the relationship and its rewards. This can be accom-
ations. Specifically, the motivational state and accompanying plished by different means, which can include acts that focus on
action tendencies are not necessarily yielded by the action ten- the loved one (bids for attention) or the rival (e.g., aggression)
dencies of other related emotions that are frequently offered as or simply breaking up the two (e.g., physically getting between
the more essential emotional components of jealousy—such as them). Threat assessment is ongoing (primarily through surveil-
Chung & Harris  Jealousy as a Specific Emotion  3

lance of the interaction) as the individual makes attempts to deal both include the same motivational state elicited by the appraisal
with the threat. Importantly, jealousy, as interpreted here, is not of a relationship rival.
a psychological state that is inflexibly tied to any single behav- Claims like ours about evolutionary origins of emotions can
ioral disposition. Rather, it is a process that creates or amplifies be bolstered by finding evidence of such states in other species.
a motivational tendency, and thus it can result in a wide variety Humans are not the only animals in which bonds between indi-
of behaviors depending on which one the organism perceives to viduals develop and can be threatened by third parties. In fact,
be most likely to succeed (Mook, 1987). Over time, different the father of the theory of natural selection, Charles Darwin
behaviors may be chosen, for example, in a trial-and-error fash- (1872/1965), proposed that jealousy existed in other animals.
ion. This conception of jealousy as a motivational state that Although research on jealousy in nonhumans is limited, there
amplifies the goal of regaining the loved one’s attention natu- are some observations of jealous-like behaviors in the wild in
rally suggests a number of different aspects in which individual animals such as gibbons, as well as suggestive accounts by pet
differences may arise. owners of jealousy displays in animals such as horses, dogs, and
The last phase focuses on consequences of a jealous episode. birds (Dixson, 2015; Morris, Doe, & Godsell, 2008).
Despite feeling subjectively unpleasant, does jealousy result in Perhaps the strongest empirical evidence comes from an exper-
the beneficial effect of securing relationship rewards for the self iment with dogs (Harris & Prouvost, 2014). In a modified version
or does it produce negative consequences? of the infant jealousy paradigm, dog owners were instructed to
Research with human infants provides evidence for a core ignore their pet dogs across three conditions. In the jealousy condi-
form of jealousy. A number of studies have found evidence that tion, the dog’s owner treated a stuffed dog, which wagged its tail
infants display behaviors that appear indicative of jealousy in and briefly barked, as if it were real (e.g., speaking “baby talk” and
social triangles involving their mothers and another infant (e.g., petting it). In another condition, owners performed these same
Hart, Carrington, Tronick, & Carroll, 2004; Hart, Field, Del behaviors but towards a novel object (a plastic jack-o’-lantern
Valle, & Letourneau, 1998; Legerstee, Ellenbogen, Nienhuis, & pail). The third condition involved the owner reading a children’s
Marsh, 2010; see Hart 2016a, for a review of infant jealousy). book aloud. Dogs displayed significantly more behaviors that
For example, in one paradigm, mothers of 6-month-old infants would be consistent with the function of jealousy (e.g., aggression,
ignored their babies while attending to what appeared to be attempting to place themselves between the owner and the object,
another infant (but was a real-life-looking doll) or while reading pushing/touching the object/owner) when their owners displayed
a book (Hart & Carrington, 2002). These infants exhibited affectionate behaviors towards what appeared to be another dog as
greater negative affect when their mothers interacted with a life- compared to when their owners interacted with inanimate objects.
like baby doll. Importantly, they did not show the same responses Behaviors in the jack-o’-lantern condition were in between those
when their mothers interacted with the nonsocial item, suggest- of the other two conditions, which suggests that an owner display-
ing that it was not merely the loss of attention, but rather the loss ing affection to an inanimate object may induce some jealous-like
of attention to another that was upsetting. In other work using a behaviors but these behaviors are particularly strong when directed
similar paradigm (Mize & Jones, 2012; Mize, Pineda, Blau, at what appears to be an animate rival.
Marsh, & Jones, 2014), infants exhibited approach-style neural In sum, when dogs and human infants are placed in circum-
activity as measured by electroencephalogram (EEG) during the stances that resemble those that elicit jealousy in adults, we see
jealousy condition, which is the same pattern of activity shown evidence of jealous-like behaviors that appear aimed at thwart-
in adults in a jealous situation (Harmon-Jones, Peterson, & ing the interactions between the loved one and the rival, and
Harris, 2009). The neural profile is consistent with the idea that, protecting the primary relationship. This is not triggered by the
at its core, jealousy involves an approach orientation aimed at mere withdrawal of attention or affection but rather by the
breaking up threatening liaisons. diversion of these resources to a conspecific. This research also
Potential relationship threats begin for many at the moment demonstrates that a variety of strategies may be employed in
of birth, when the competition between siblings for a parent’s service of the goal of preventing this diversion (e.g., aggression
nourishment, attention, and love begins. An ancestral environ- towards a rival, bids for attention of the loved one). The focus in
ment characterized by a number of dependent offspring being infant work has primarily been on differences between individu-
raised simultaneously for extended periods would have been als, although there is some evidence that even within individu-
fertile ground for the evolution of jealousy (Harris & Prouvost, als there is some variability.
2014). Consistent with this is the suggestion that jealousy is in
place specifically by 9 months of age because this is the approx-
The Elaborated Form of Jealousy
imate period of human gestation, which could mean the arrival
of a newborn sibling (Hart, 2016b). One possibility is that jeal- We propose that the core form of jealousy then serves as the
ousy may have first evolved to compete for parental resources, foundation for the gradual emergence of a more elaborated form
and then later was effective for maintaining other types of rela- of jealousy that is elicited under more complex circumstances.
tionships. Alternatively, human jealousy might have first As cognition becomes more sophisticated (ontologically or phy-
evolved in the mating context and then was co-opted for sib- logenetically), the appraisals and strategies for achieving the
lings. Regardless of which is the case, we see little reason to goal of protecting the relationship become increasingly elabo-
assume these are qualitatively different forms of jealousy since rated1 (see Figure 2.)
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Figure 2.  The elaborated form of the Dynamic Functional Model of Jealousy.

First, the elicitation of jealousy no longer requires the physi- not differentially influenced by the rival’s age. One interpretation
cal presence of a rival; it can be induced by the anticipation is that the older children had learned that babies require more
(even if only imaginary) or recall of a rival. Second, the core attention and therefore were not as threatened when their mothers
appraisal of threat extends beyond merely the loss of relation- attended to the infant, whereas there is no mitigating explanation
ship rewards to include threats to the self. Our sense of self is for their mothers preferring another child to themselves.
inherently tied to our relationships and the possibility that we Elaborated jealousy also can involve prolonged processes of
could be replaced by another strikes at the very core of who we actively assessing and coping with threat (see Figure 2). The usur-
are. Many, if not most, aspects of the self can only be defined in pation of a relationship by a rival rarely occurs in an instant.
relationship to others. For example, we only know that we are Relationships develop over time; therefore, unlike many emo-
loveable or desirable or beautiful based on whether someone tions that have a fairly quick onset and offset, jealousy can be a
else sees us as such. Including threats to the self as part of the prolonged state. During the early threat assessment phase, one
primary appraisal in jealousy accounts for findings that dam- must determine if the threat is real (e.g., is this a harmless flirta-
aged self-esteem sometimes mediates jealous reactions tion?). Threat assessment continues even during situations as
(DeSteno, Valdesolo, & Bartlett, 2006). It also helps explain obvious as finding out for certain that a spouse is having an affair.
jealousy that arises over an ex-lover’s new relationship or one’s In such cases, the magnitude of the threat may at first seem
current lover’s past relationships. Both potentially challenge unclear as one seeks to determine the reasons for the betrayal as
one’s sense of uniqueness. Some part of us wants to assume that well as the ultimate outcome for one’s relationship. Here we see
we are irreplaceable but seeing an old flame’s new flame sug- increasing complexity and variability in the strategies employed,
gests we are not. Similarly, knowing that a mate once loved including the recruitment of other emotions (e.g., displays of sad-
someone else can also make us question our unique value. ness, angry threats) in service of achieving the primary motive of
In elaborated jealousy, interpretations of the meaning of a securing the relationship and removing the rival.
loved one’s interaction with a rival become increasingly impor- As in core jealousy, the final phase involves the impact of a
tant in determining the propensity toward jealousy as well as its jealous episode. Data on the long-term consequences of jeal-
intensity and manifestation. For example, even by the fourth year ousy are sparse, but there are a few suggestions that jealousy
of life, children’s jealousy is influenced by a rival’s characteristics can indeed function to protect relationships. In an early longitu-
(Masciuch & Kienapple, 1993). Children over 4 displayed more dinal study by Mathes (1986), undergraduates completed meas-
jealousy over losing their mother’s attention to a similarly aged ures pertaining to their jealousy in their current relationship.
peer than to an infant, whereas for younger children, jealousy was Seven years later, they were surveyed again about this relation-
Chung & Harris  Jealousy as a Specific Emotion  5

Figure 3.  Theoretical approaches to jealousy.

ship. Participants who were high in jealousy at the initial assess- bottom of Figure 2 lists some of the factors that commonly
ment were more likely to be married, living with their partner, appear in the literature, which we will discuss in detail later.
or engaged relative to those who were low in jealousy (who These factors contribute to overall assessments of whether
were more likely to have broken up). This finding tentatively threat exists (early phase of the jealousy process) and how jeal-
suggests that greater tendency for jealousy may be beneficial for ousy is manifested once elicited.
relationship stability in some cases.
Another longitudinal study provides insight into how the
Comparison With Other Theories
dynamics of a couple’s interactions during jealousy can impact
relationship longevity. Sheets, Fredendall, and Claypool (1997) Having presented our theory of jealousy as a specific emotion,
examined how a jealous individual’s partner responded to the we now can contrast it with other views (represented along a
jealousy. People who had partners who reassured them were more continuum in Figure 3).2 Most of these theoretical positions can
likely to have their relationship intact after 2 months relative to be applied to other emotions as well. On the far left, jealousy is
those who were ignored by their partner or whose partner tried to viewed as a social construction, without a specific biological
exacerbate their jealousy (e.g., by highlighting their attraction to basis. It is a script that we learn from our culture regarding how
the rival). This work shows that the jealousy experience itself to behave in certain situations. This view suggests that some
need not be detrimental to the relationship, but suggests that the cultures would not have jealousy, as claimed by Margaret Mead
dynamics between partners may matter. Moreover, Neal and regarding Samoa (Freeman, 1983). Next, are psychological
Lemay’s (2014) 7-day dyadic diary study found that a jealous constructivists (e.g., Barrett, 2017), who propose that the expe-
party’s mate-guarding behaviors following perceived threat rience or presence of an emotion requires language and a preex-
(which corresponded with their partner’s actual temptation/inter- isting learned concept of that emotion. Both of these views are
est in someone else) led to increases in the partner’s subsequent hard to reconcile with the human infant and nonhuman animal
commitment and satisfaction. This result seems particularly findings discussed earlier. Moreover, jealousy appears perva-
important since it shows that jealousy on the part of one member sive across cultures (Daly et al., 1982; Harris, 2003), including
of a relationship can result in increases in the other partner’s com- Samoa (Freeman, 1983), although it is possible that we have yet
mitment to the relationship. These findings lay important ground- to discover some culture that lacks jealousy.
work for the functional perspective of jealousy in demonstrating Closer to the center of the figure is the view that the term
that jealousy can have longer term beneficial effects. “jealousy” does not refer to a specific emotional state per se, but
However, like any emotion, jealousy does not always func- rather is the label applied to a complex interpersonal situation
tion as it should. Whether jealousy manifests in dysfunctional that encompasses a variety of affective elements depending on
versus functional ways depends on a number of factors. The which appraisals or aspects of the situation are highlighted
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(Clanton, 1996; Hupka, 1984; White & Mullen, 1989). Next is as clear-cut as categorical models would suggest; for example,
the view that jealousy is a blended emotion (anger, fear, and situations such as your mate enjoying spending a lot of time
sadness are often implicated) that may arise either over chang- with her new male colleague. Unlike the DFMJ that views the
ing reappraisals that elicit different emotions over the course of threat appraisal as the beginning of an ongoing threat assess-
a single episode of jealous feelings or as a result of a person ment process, previous models cannot capture the overlapping
experiencing several emotions simultaneously (Sharpsteen, process of jealousy when threats are between clear and unclear.
1991). These two positions can account for the great degree of Second, categorical models posit that the different types of
variability that occurs in jealousy episodes. However, they fail jealousy are influenced by different variables—for instance,
to capture jealousy’s unique aspect, namely, the motivational individual difference variables primarily influence suspicious
state to protect the relationship, which is not captured by the jealousy, whereas relational variables (e.g., level of depend-
motivational states of other specific emotions. ency) primarily determine reactive jealousy (Attridge, 2013;
Our position is next on the continuum. On this view, a single Bringle, 1991; Rydell & Bringle, 2007). However, the DFMJ
emotion of jealousy evolved to secure relationships of any type proposes that all variables can impact both threat appraisal and
from childhood through old age and can do so for multiple rela- manifestations because they are different aspects of the same
tionship threats (resource loss, sexual betrayal, etc.). As with underlying emotional state of jealousy, not different types of
any emotional state, other emotions can co-occur. For example, jealousy. In fact, as we shall see, a number of factors appear to
situations that produce jealousy also may give rise to fear of influence both phases of jealousy, but often have their effects on
never finding a new mate or sadness over the loss of what was. different aspects of the jealous state (presented in Table 1).
Nonetheless, jealousy still has a unique motivation that is differ- Third, other models tend to view suspicious jealousy as dys-
ent than those of these other emotions. However, within a given functional and reactive jealousy as beneficial. While this is
jealousy episode, the action tendencies of other emotions might clearly sometimes the case, it need not be. How these two forms
be recruited by jealousy to fulfill the goal of securing the rela- of jealousy are measured may have overly contributed to this
tionship as when one displays anger over one’s spouse ogling conclusion. Take, for example, the widely used Multidimensional
someone else. Jealousy Scale (MJS; Pfeiffer & Wong, 1989). Two of its sub-
Functional arguments are also used by theorists represented scales were designed to capture “pathological” jealousy and do
at the far-right side of the figure, who propose that there are so by asking people about the frequency of their recent suspi-
multiple categorically distinct types of jealousy (as opposed to a cious thoughts and monitoring behaviors. Low scores presum-
single state of jealousy). Postulation of multiple, very tailored, ably indicate normal jealousy. However, without knowing
hard-wired psychological mechanisms tends to be favored by whether the rival or threat is real, it is hard to judge what is
researchers working under the rubric of “evolutionary psychol- reasonable. In the absence of a rival, engaging in snooping
ogy.” For example, one popular hypothesis proposes that the behaviors might be considered pathological, but in cases of
two sexes faced different selective pressures and thus, sexual actual or possible threat, these very behaviors seem reasonable.
jealousy evolved in men and emotional jealousy evolved in For example, imagine finding two ticket stubs to an event that
women (although see Harris, 2003, for data challenging this your mate said he was attending alone. Under such circum-
claim). It should be kept in mind, however, that natural selection stances, questioning him about his whereabouts or telephone
is potentially consistent with very general to very specific psy- calls (pathological items on the MJS) is hardly irrational. In
chological mechanisms. Most germane to the current article are contrast to predictions of dichotomous models, the diary study
models that propose that what we consider as a single jealousy by Neal and Lemay (2014) mentioned earlier lends support to
process reflects categorically different types of jealousy (e.g., our contention that suspicious jealousy can produce beneficial
Bringle, 1991; Buunk, 1991, 1997; Parrott, 1991; Rydell & outcomes for the primary relationship.
Bringle, 2007). While we agree with a number of propositions The final difference pertains to jealousy over more certain
in these categorical views such as that jealousy can be both threats. Dichotomous models almost exclusively rely on ratings
functional and dysfunctional, there are several substantive dif- of intensity of negative affect to measure reactive jealousy and
ferences between our models. assume that greater intensity is more adaptive. Experiencing
First, although the exact terms used vary, in general, jealousy jealousy over actual acts of betrayal, overall, would seem to be
is dichotomized as either suspicious (assessed by measures of beneficial, but here too we argue that whether it in fact is depends
excessive worry and checking behaviors) or as reactive (upset on the degree to which the magnitude of the response matches
over a fairly clear-cut betrayal).3 In contrast, the DFMJ pro- the magnitude of the threat (for a more general discussion, see
poses that what may appear as different types of jealousy are Scherer, 2015). After all, dysfunctional jealousy is not limited to
actually different aspects of the same underlying emotional state perceiving infidelity where it does not exist but also includes
of jealousy that correspond to early processes (detecting threat) overreacting to actual betrayal, which is often the case in spousal
and later processes (manifestations), which are ongoing and abuse and jealousy-inspired homicide (Harris, 2003). To deter-
often overlapping. In addition to greater parsimony, an advan- mine whether the emotion is serving its function, we propose
tage of seeing these as part of the same state is that it enables us that one needs to assess not just the intensity of negative feelings
to account for the many events that fall between baseless suspi- but also how the jealous state as a whole is manifested. Thus, our
cion of betrayal and fait accompli events (e.g., a mate leaves model places weight on the manifestations of jealousy that
you for another). With few exceptions, certainty of threat is not include motivations, cognitions, and behaviors, all of which can
Chung & Harris  Jealousy as a Specific Emotion  7

Table 1.  Summary of how key variables impact jealousy.

Factors Elicitation phase: Manifestation phase:


Threshold for appraising Once the rival is perceived as a more certain threat, subjects tend to report
another as a relationship
threat

Individual differences
Attachment styles Anxious More often felt threatened Feelings Highest level of negative feelings
by a possible rival Cognitions Blaming themselves for the jealous situation
Behaviors Less likely to express their jealousy to their partner
Engaging in more surveillance behaviors
Secure Less often felt threatened Feelings Lower level of overall jealous feelings
Greater anger toward their partner
Motivation Greater motivation to maintain and improve their relationship
Cognitions Thinking jealousy experience brought the couples closer together
Avoidant Less often felt threatened Feelings Lower level of jealousy and other emotions such as fear, sadness,
and worry
Greater anger toward the rival
Cognitions May perceive the jealous episode as a loss of control in the
relationship
Behaviors Avoiding or denying the jealousy issue
Greater aggression toward the rival
Personality Extroversion Less often felt threatened Feelings Lower level of negative feelings
Neuroticism More often felt threatened Feelings Higher level of negative feelings
Conscientiousness Less often felt threatened Feelings Higher level of negative feelings
Relational
Satisfaction & Commitment Greater relationship Feelings Higher level of negative feelings
satisfaction/commitment, Behaviors Engaging in more constructive behaviors and less destructive
less often felt threatened behaviors
Greater relationship satisfaction, more likely to engage in covert
nonverbal behavior compared to overt behavior
Uncertainty Greater uncertainty, more Feelings Greater relational uncertainty, felt greater negative feelings
often felt threatened Behaviors Less likely to express their jealousy
Greater avoidance of issue, surveillance behaviors, distancing self
from partner, and decreased affection

range from beneficial to dysfunctional. In sum, looking at jeal- power to alter the situation, which can combine to impact
ousy as an unfolding process sheds light on potential aspects of global assessments of the possible love triangle. Such assess-
jealousy that are not captured by categorical models. ments influence both the elicitation of jealousy and how that
jealousy is then manifested. Thinking of jealousy as involving
a single process with different phases can help make sense of
Review of Empirical Data Through the the complex findings in the literature. In so doing, we illus-
Lens of the Dynamic Functional Model of trate the need to look at jealousy as it unfolds, as well as the
Jealousy importance of examining measures beyond self-reported
intensity of affect, particularly when assessing whether jeal-
Jealousy is unique, relative to other emotions, in that it inher-
ousy leads to constructive or destructive consequences. Table
ently involves three. Thus, assessments of threat and behavio-
1 summarizes the specific effects of different variables on
ral choices of what to do about the threat will depend not only
jealousy using the DFMJ described in Figure 2.
on assessments of one’s own ability and feelings but also
those of the loved one and the rival.4 Here we review a num-
ber of factors that influence these assessments, including
Individual Difference Variables
individual difference and relationship variables (see lower
half of Figure 2.) Although not necessarily assessed directly Individuals vary in their motivation to search for relationship
as such, the impact of these factors may partially reflect threat and their threshold for what is perceived as threat. They
underlying variables including self-worth, value of the rela- also differ in their beliefs in their ability to successfully deal with
tionship, expectations in the relationship such as trust, and a threat (removing the rival and maintaining the relationship).
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Attachment style. Attachment theory (Bowlby, 1969) pro- would be considered cheating, those with anxious attachment
poses that experiences with others lead one to form internal style rated 18 of 27 behaviors higher, underscoring that they per-
working mental models of relationships that begin in infancy. ceive more threat than people with other attachment styles (Kru-
While some caregivers respond immediately to an infant’s dis- ger et al., 2013). Anxiously attached individuals also report more
tress with comfort, other caregivers may behave in a distant or jealousy over a partner’s Facebook activities involving an attrac-
inconsistent fashion. These ongoing experiences cause infants to tive person of the opposite sex (Drouin, Miller, & Dibble, 2014;
develop beliefs of what to expect from others, which also impacts Marshall, Bejanyan, Di Castro, & Lee, 2013; Muise, Christofides,
expectations about the self (Bowlby, 1969). Romantic relation- & Desmarais, 2014).
ships are formed, at least partially, through similar attachment At later phases of jealousy, anxious attachment style appears
processes and are argued to be influenced by attachments formed to intensify negative feelings as shown across a variety of jeal-
early in life (Hazan & Shaver, 1987). Attachment styles are often ousy-inducing methods including recall of past experiences
presented in three categories: secure, anxious, and avoidant. (Sharpsteen & Kirkpatrick, 1997), various hypothetical scenar-
Adults with a secure attachment style generally feel worthy and ios (Buunk, 1997; Miller, Denes, Diaz, & Buck, 2014; Selterman
lovable and expect that others will be responsive and accepting. & Maier, 2013; Wigman, Graham-Kevan, & Archer, 2008; see
Anxiously attached individuals also view attachment relation- Attridge, 2013, for an exception), a hypothetical Facebook post-
ships positively, yet have persistent worries of abandonment ing (Fleuriet, Cole, & Guerrero, 2014), a video of the confeder-
because they fear they may not be worthy of love (Hazan & ate rival talking in a flirtatious manner to their assigned partner
Shaver, 1987). Individuals with the prototypical insecure-avoid- (Powers, 2000), and in-lab manipulations between actual cou-
ant attachment style believe others are unreliable and untrust- ples in which participants had to record how attractive their
worthy and that they therefore must rely on themselves. romantic partner found several highly attractive targets as well
Bartholomew’s (1990) work suggests that attachment styles as their partner’s potential interest in being in a relationship
might be best thought of as involving two primary underlying with the targets (Kim, Feeney, & Jakubiak, 2018).
cognitive dimensions: (a) views of others as supportive, caring, However, when we turn to behavioral manifestations in
and loving; (b) beliefs about one’s own worthiness or lovability. adults, we see a different pattern. Notwithstanding having more
This dimensional view suggests further division of the insecure- intense negative feelings, anxiously attached individuals
avoidant group: fear of attachment relationships (fearful) versus reported that they were less willing to express these feelings in
low need for attachment relationships (dismissing). past jealousy experiences (Sharpsteen & Kirkpatrick, 1997).
Using the DFMJ, we describe how some of the apparent con- Moreover, in the study by Kim et al. (2018), despite having just
tradictions in attachment research make sense when jealousy is heard about their partner’s attraction to others, anxiously
viewed as an unfolding process. Examining the most common attached individuals were less likely to retaliate (by not openly
measures of early processes (e.g., worrying, checking behav- admitting their own attraction to others in front of their partner).
iors) and of late processes (intensity of negative feelings), one Even when anxiously attached people do express their jealousy,
might conclude that the effect of any particular attachment style they report doing so through passive acts such as appearing sad
is consistent throughout a jealousy episode (increasing or and depressed in front of their partner (Guerrero & Afifi, 1998).
decreasing jealousy). For example, both secure and avoidant They also increase monitoring behaviors. When anxiously
attachment styles would appear to produce low levels of jeal- attached people felt jealous, they increased both offline
ousy throughout the process. However, if we take into account (Guerrero, 19985; Guerrero & Afifi, 1998) and online surveil-
the full range of jealous reactions including motivations, cogni- lance (Marshall et al., 2013; Muise et al., 20146; Wright, 2017).
tions, and behaviors, as our model argues we should, the effect A similar behavioral pattern is found in children. Firstborns
of attachment style is more nuanced. For example, avoidant whose attachment style was anxious-clingy most intently moni-
people engage in distancing behaviors when jealous, whereas tored the interaction between their mother and their newborn
securely attached people attempt to maintain and improve their sibling while keeping close physical contact and proximity to
relationship. We examine each attachment style in what follows. their mother (Volling et al., 2014). Anxiously attached preverbal
infants, who were competing against an infant-looking doll for
Anxious attachment style. Although anxiously attached peo- their mother’s attention, also exhibited greater proximity to
ple value attachment bonds, their low self-regard makes them their mothers (Hart & Behrens, 2013).
worry about being worthy of love and so fear that their partners Behaviors of the anxiously attached likely arise from varia-
may eventually abandon them (Hazan & Shaver, 1987; Radecki- bles listed in Figure 2, particularly a lack of trust in their part-
Bush, Farrell, & Bush, 1993; Simpson, 1990). This lack of trust in ners (Marshall et al., 2013) along with low self-worth, which
their partner intensifies reactions across both phases of a jealousy includes blaming themselves for jealous situations (Radecki-
episode (although, see Rydell & Bringle, 2007, for an exception). Bush et al., 1993). Anxiously attached people may be too afraid
First, it heightens sensitivity toward possible interlopers at the to openly confront their partner because they worry that their
appraisal phase resulting in more frequent suspicious concerns partner might abandon them, so they choose instead to engage
over possible betrayal (Attridge, 2013; Guerrero, 1998; see Fig- in heightened surveillance activities. We propose that their
ure 2 and Table 1). Moreover, when participants rated the extent beliefs about their inability to handle more certain threats con-
to which a series of behaviors (e.g., a person in a long-term rela- tribute to the actions they take in earlier phases. Catching early
tionship spending lots of time with a member of the opposite sex) signs of a mate’s interest in another may be their best strategy
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for maintaining the relationship given that they likely feel they experiences, securely attached people reported experiencing
lack the power to manage more serious betrayal. However, sur- greater anger directed specifically at their mate, and greater
veillance behaviors also could backfire given the finding that motivation to maintain and improve their relationship compared
even those who themselves engaged in online surveillance to people with other attachment styles (Sharpsteen &
behaviors felt upset or annoyed if their partner did the same Kirkpatrick, 1997). The anger may be a product of their greater
thing to them (Bennett, Guran, Ramos, & Margolin, 2011; perceived self-worth and hence the feeling that they do not
Lucero, Weisz, Smith-Darden, & Lucero, 2014). Overall, deserve their partner’s behavior, combined with the desire to
although anxiously attached individuals may detect more threats maintain the relationship. Anger is elicited when one perceives
at the earlier process of jealousy and experience greater nega- an injustice but thinks the obstacle likely can be overcome and,
tive affect over a clearer threat, their behavioral reactions may unlike contempt, suggests one has not given up on the relation-
be less effective in protecting the long-term relationship. This is ship (Fischer & Giner-Sorolla, 2016). Directing their anger at
a case where the dichotomized models discussed earlier would their partner, who also has a stake in their relationship, likely is
appear incorrect in predicting that greater negative feelings in more effective than directing it at the rival. In fact, those who
response to actual threat will lead to more beneficial results. were securely attached were the only group that reported that
their jealousy experience brought them closer (Sharpsteen &
Secure and avoidant attachment styles. Both secure and Kirkpatrick, 1997). Recall that categorical models presume that
avoidant attachment styles report lower jealousy relative to anx- more intense jealous feelings over actual threat is adaptive.
ious attachment style both in early and late phases of jealousy.7 However, these findings underscore the importance of not
However, secure and avoidant attachment styles likely do so merely relying on self-reported feelings since here we see that
for different reasons, namely faith in the relationship for secure despite having lower self-reported emotion, securely attached
attachment style and low value of the relationship for avoidant/ individuals are more motivated to engage in constructive behav-
dismissive attachment style. Moreover, they differ in how their iors when jealous.
jealousy is exhibited, highlighting the importance of examining In contrast, avoidant people’s less intense feelings of jeal-
measures beyond self-report intensity of affect. ousy appear more counterproductive due to a failure to engage
Secure and avoidant attachment styles have a higher thresh- in behaviors to protect the relationship. When describing a
old for appraising a third party as a relationship threat, as evi- recent jealous experience, people with dismissive style reported
denced by their reports of fewer suspicious worries over possible greater avoidance and denial of the issue and less constructive
rivals (e.g., Attridge, 2013; Buunk, 1997; Guerrero, 1998; communication (Guerrero, 1998) and reported greater anger
Rydell & Bringle, 2007). Securely attached people’s faith in toward the rival relative to other attachment styles (Sharpsteen
relationships combined with their self-worth likely helps buffer & Kirkpatrick, 1997). They also displayed the greatest level of
against perceiving relationship threat. In contrast, avoidant aggression toward the rival after watching a flirtatious video
attachment style’s lack of confidence in relationships appears to between their assigned partner and a confederate, although their
translate into not spending a lot of time worrying about possible general level of jealous feelings was similar to that of securely
betrayal, leading to low self-reports of jealousy. attached people (Powers, 2000). While targeting the rival may
These two groups report lower jealousy under more certain help remove the current threat, it likely does little to deter the
threat as well as shown across a number of studies using recall, mate from engaging in similar behavior in the future, and there-
lab manipulations, and hypothetical vignettes (Buunk, 1997; fore may be less effective than targeting the mate, as securely
Miller et al., 2014; Powers, 2000; Rydell & Bringle, 2007; attached individuals do. Other than discouraging the rival,
although see Attridge, 2013; Wigman et al., 2008, for partial avoidant individuals do not seem to further engage in behaviors
support). For example, when people recalled their actual jealous to protect the relationship.
episodes, securely attached and avoidant people reported less Their less than optimal behavioral responses to jealousy
intense overall negative feelings compared to anxious/preoccu- appear early in life. Based on parental reports, firstborn children
pied people (Guerrero, 1998; Sharpsteen & Kirkpatrick, 1997). who had avoidant attachment characteristics exhibited problem-
Additionally, experimentally manipulating secure attachment atic behaviors the most, including withdrawal 4 months after the
by having people think of a loved one helping them, provided a birth of their sibling (Volling et al., 2014). In another study, chil-
buffer against subsequent jealous feelings over a hypothetical dren’s withdrawal behaviors after their sibling’s birth predicted
scenario (Selterman & Maier, 2013). In sum, overall studies relationship problems with their sibling (Dunn & Kendrick,
largely seem to indicate that secure and avoidant attachment 1982), which seems consistent with the adult findings of aggres-
styles lead to self-reports of relatively less intense negative feel- sion towards the rival. Thus, avoidant attachment style seems to
ings during jealousy episodes. be characterized by a high threshold for threat perception as
However, it would be inaccurate to claim that individuals well as a failure to engage in behaviors that would reduce the
with secure or avoidant attachment styles are less jealous across risk of losing the relationship under more certain threat.
the board. Research reveals that each attachment style is associ- In sum, attachment findings underscore the importance of
ated with qualitatively different jealous reactions. Despite gen- examining the full range of jealous responses. In particular, they
erally reporting lower jealous feelings, Sharpsteen and suggest that behavioral tendencies, more than intensity of affect,
Kirkpatrick (1997) found that when describing past jealousy may be key in predicting the long-term effects of jealousy.
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Personality.  Whereas attachment styles inherently involve they may behave constructively. Conscientious individuals have
individual differences in how people approach relationships, high marital satisfaction (Dyrenforth, Kashy, Donnellan, &
personality variables involve more global differences in how Lucas, 2010), low rates of cheating (Schmitt, 2004), and more
people perceive circumstances and respond to them. Here we stable relationships (Bogg & Roberts, 2004; Karney & Bradbury,
focus on extraversion, neuroticism, and conscientiousness. The 1995; Schmitt, 2004). Future studies of how different personali-
number of studies using personality are fewer than those using ties display jealousy could help unpack the connection between
other variables so we devote less space to this topic and offer cognitions, jealous feelings, behaviors, and constructive/
our suggestions tentatively. destructive consequences.
As seen in Table 1, when people were asked to report the
frequency of their concerns over the possibility of a rival (see
Relational Variables
initial appraisal of threat in Figure 2), those high on neuroticism
reported more cases, whereas those high on extraversion Existing qualities of relationships, referred to as relationship
reported fewer (Buunk, 1997; Dijkstra & Barelds, 2008; variables, are another set of factors that impacts the elicitation
Melamed, 1991). These effects also carried over to affective and manifestation of jealousy. For example, the degree to which
responses to more certain relational threats, neurotic individuals one feels positive about one’s relationship or secure about the
still reported greater negative affect, whereas extraverted indi- future of the relationship can differently shape sensitivity
viduals responded with less negative affect (Buunk, 1997; toward appraising threats as well as responses to threats. In the
Dijkstra & Barelds, 2008). These effects make sense when we following section, we will review how some relational factors
consider that personality reflects general tendencies. such as satisfaction, commitment, and uncertainty impact dif-
The effect of neuroticism appears straightforward; the over- ferent aspects of jealousy.
all negative outlook characterized by heightened negative emo-
tion prevails both when assessing initial threat and in response Satisfaction and commitment.  Relational satisfaction gener-
to more certain threat. Neurotic individuals also have less trust ally refers to individuals’ contentment in their relationships
in their partners (a factor listed in Figure 2), which likely con- (Bevan, 2013; Guerrero & Eloy, 1992; Rusbult, 1980), and com-
tributes to this effect as well (Campbell, Simpson, Boldry, & mitment generally refers to the long-term orientation to maintain
Rubin, 2010). Less is known about behavioral reactions, but we a relationship that is found satisfying and invested, with less inter-
predict that these also are likely to take on a negative form. One est in alternative options (Le & Agnew, 2003; Rusbult, 1983;
study consistent with this found that when neurotic women Stanley & Markman, 1992). At the earlier phase, we posit that
recalled their behavioral responses to their spouse’s extramarital relational satisfaction and commitment provide buffers against
affair, they reported avoiding their partner or the situation rather doubts regarding one’s relationship, including worries about the
than trying to communicate about it (Buunk, 1982). possibility of interlopers since both suggest trust in the relation-
Why do extraverts have lower jealousy? One suggestion ship. Studies where participants were asked to report their fre-
(Dijkstra, Barelds, & Buunk, 2009; Nettle, 2006; Watson & quency of suspicious concerns over possible infidelity support
Clark, 1997) is that extraverts’ higher social skills make them feel this; more satisfied people reported fewer instances, as did com-
more confident that they could find a new partner and therefore mitted people (Andersen, Eloy, Guerrero, & Spitzberg, 1995;
feel less threatened. In addition, we suggest that because extro- Bevan, 2008; Dandurand & Lafontaine, 2014; Demirtaş & Dön-
verts have much more experience interacting with others across mez, 2006; DiBello, Rodriguez, Hadden, & Neighbors, 2015;
different contexts, they likely appraise many social acts as benign Guerrero & Eloy, 1992; Kennedy-Lightsey & Booth-Butterfield,
whereas those who have fewer social experiences or who are less 2011; Sidelinger & Booth-Butterfield, 2007).
socially skilled perceive the same acts as threatening. While a buffer against appraising threat, relationship satisfac-
In contrast to extraversion and neuroticism, the trait of con- tion and commitment can intensify other aspects of jealousy,
scientiousness shows how personality can differentially influ- including heightening feelings over more certain betrayal
ence early versus late phases of jealousy. Dijkstra and Barelds’s (Barelds & Barelds-Dijkstra, 2007; Barelds & Dijkstra, 2006;
(2008) study found that people with high conscientiousness Dandurand & Lafontaine, 2014; although see DiBello et al.,
were less likely to appraise a possible rival as threatening, 2015, for a null finding). For example, when a large sample of
whereas they reported greater jealousy to more certain threat. married and cohabiting couples imagined more clear-cut infidel-
This switch in intensity of reactions in early versus late phases ity (e.g., sexual intercourse), individuals with better relationship
of jealousy can also be understood by thinking about the global qualities (e.g., higher satisfaction) reported that they would be
assessments that conscientious people are likely to make at more jealous relative to less satisfied individuals (Barelds &
these different time points. We suggest that because they them- Barelds-Dijkstra, 2007). One study suggests this effect extends
selves live up to their social commitments, they trust that others beyond romantic rivals to include a mate’s same-sex friends, who
will too, and therefore do not anticipate threat. However, when are also competitors for the loved one’s time, attention, etc.
actually confronted with betrayal, they may respond intensely (Hansen, 1983). Similar effects appear for commitment, such that
because this trust has been violated. Although there is no direct when people were asked to imagine specific hypothetical jeal-
evidence of how conscientious people behave when jealous, ousy situations, those in more committed relationships reported
there are some other general findings that lead us to predict that greater negative affect (Buunk, 1991; DiBello et al., 2015).
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However, not all studies have found the expected relation- awaits further replication, it suggests interesting directions for
ship between satisfaction/commitment and intensity of jealous future work on nonverbal behaviors during jealousy. In fact,
feelings. Four studies that used the MJS found no relationship or other work shows that a romantic partner’s touch decreased
a negative relationship (Attridge, 2013; Bevan, 2008; Guerrero jealousy in anxiously attached people (Kim et al., 2018), but-
& Eloy, 1992; Sidelinger & Booth-Butterfield, 2007). The tressing the buffering effect of touch on the jealousy experience.
inconsistencies might be an artifact of using an emotion meas- How nonverbal behavior may be linked with long-term effects
ure that included the endpoints of “very pleased” to “very in the relationship remains to be investigated. Models that view
upset.” It is unlikely that subjects would report feeling pleased suspicious versus reactive jealousy as two distinct emotions
to any degree over their mate’s betrayal. Such a restrictive scale would not readily account for data such as these, where a threat
may sometimes miss effects. In a study where this scale was is potential but by no means certain.
revised to “not at all upset” to “very upset,” more satisfied indi-
viduals reported greater jealous feelings (Dandurand & Relational uncertainty.  A third relational variable, uncer-
Lafontaine, 2014). tainty, also influences jealousy, but the pattern of impact is dif-
Thus, relationship variables that include trust and confidence ferent from relational satisfaction and commitment (Knobloch,
in the loved one serve to raise the threshold for perceiving threat Miller, Bond, & Mannone, 2007; Knobloch & Solomon, 1999).
(see Figure 2). However, once threat is more clear-cut, these rela- In particular, relational uncertainty is related to heightened jeal-
tionship variables work to magnify jealousy presumably because ous responses in both phases, but manifests in more indirect
(a) violation of trust compounds the betrayal and (b) the higher behaviors. Individuals with greater uncertainty reported more
the value of the relationship, the greater the potential loss. frequent concerns over possible infidelity (Knobloch, Solomon,
Despite generally eliciting stronger jealous feelings, both & Cruz, 2001; Theiss & Solomon, 2006), and a longitudinal
relational satisfaction and commitment are associated with diary study confirmed that uncertainty about partner’s feelings
channeling jealousy into positive behaviors. In married and seri- and future of the relationship led to higher frequency of such
ously dating samples, more satisfied individuals reported engag- concerns (Theiss & Solomon, 2006). In other work, people with
ing in less destructive (e.g., avoiding partner or yelling) and greater relationship uncertainty reported that they would also
more constructive behaviors (e.g., increasing affection) in their worry more over a partner’s friend (e.g., the friend would influ-
recent jealousy experience (Buunk, 1982; Guerrero, Hannawa, ence the partner’s decisions more than themselves; Worley &
& Babin, 2011; Kennedy-Lightsey & Booth-Butterfield, 2011). Samp, 2014). At later phases of jealousy, uncertainty about the
Additionally, when dating couples were asked to imagine hypo- future of the relationship was associated with greater negative
thetical jealousy situations, relationship satisfaction was posi- feelings (Knobloch et al., 2001). Overall, it seems that lower
tively related to endorsing more constructive jealousy responses confidence about involvement in a relationship intensifies jeal-
such as trying to talk to the partner and reach an understanding ous reactions across both phases. We suggest this is because
(Guerrero, 2014). Likewise, committed individuals also reported uncertain relationships are the very ones that are most vulnera-
that they would engage in more constructive and less destruc- ble to rivals, prompting alertness to possible threat. They are
tive responses (Bevan, 2008; Timmerman, 2001). Moreover, also likely to be characterized by low feelings of power to
when people listened to the vivid jealousy scenarios and imag- remove an existing threat.
ined their partner in those situations, highly committed people When uncertain people recalled how they behaved the last
reported that they would be less likely to engage in physical or time they experienced jealousy, they reported being more likely
verbal aggressive actions relative to those less committed to pretend they were not affected by the jealous incident (Afifi
(Slotter et al., 2012). Committed people still reported feeling & Reichert, 1996). They also showed less affection towards
angry as much as less committed people, but they were less their partners while increasing surveillance behaviors (Kennedy-
likely to channel those feelings into destructive reactions. Lightsey & Booth-Butterfield, 2011). Overall, uncertainty
Furthermore, there is intriguing recent evidence that rela- increases passive jealous behaviors toward more certain threats.
tional satisfaction may differentially influence the nonverbal The pattern of responses from relationship uncertainty is similar
behavior strategies that people use to deal with a relationship to that seen in the anxiously attached, who chronically suffer
threat. Montoya and Hibbard (2014) brought heterosexual cou- from feelings of uncertainty about their relationships as well as
ples into the lab and informed them, “When two people keep a feelings of inadequacy in dealing with threat.
secret from a third person, attraction between those two people
tends to increase.” Next, a confederate (who ostensibly arrived
Summary
late) shared a secret either with the partner of the same sex (low-
threat condition) or the opposite sex (high-threat condition). In sum, we have discussed a number of factors that impact jeal-
The couple’s subsequent behaviors showed that in the high- ousy and have shown how they do so differentially across early
threat condition, unsatisfied men were more likely to increase and later phases of a jealous episode. Relational and individual
overt nonverbal behaviors such as touching their girlfriends, difference factors that are associated with self-worth, trust, and
whereas satisfied men were more likely to increase what the valuing the relationship (see Figure 2) appear to buffer against
authors refer to as covert nonverbal behaviors such as smiling. appraising relationship threat. However, they do not dampen all
Although this pattern of results was found only for men, and aspects of jealousy and have been shown to often intensify feel-
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ings when the threat is more certain. Of particular importance, Table 2.  Characteristics that Ekman and Cordaro (2011) have argued exist
we have shown that more intense feelings of jealousy can be in nearly all basic emotions.
associated with different types of behaviors, some of which may
1. Distinctive universal signals
be detrimental to the maintenance of the relationship, while oth-
2. Distinctive physiology
ers may improve it. This emphasizes that the field needs to
3. Automatic appraisal
move towards measuring downstream reactions beyond self-
4. Distinctive universals in antecedent events
report in order to understand when and how jealousy is effective
5. Presence in other primates
versus counterproductive.
6. Capable of quick onset
7. Can be of brief duration
Final Discussion 8. Unbidden occurrence
9. Distinctive thoughts, memories, and images
In this article, we have offered the Dynamic Functional Model 10. Distinctive subjective experience
of Jealousy. We have shown through developmental and nonhu- 11. Refractory period filters information available to what supports the
man animal work that jealousy has a core form that can be elic- emotion
ited by the simple appraisal that an interloper is attempting to 12. Target of emotion unconstrained
usurp some aspect of one’s relationship. The primary motiva- 13. The emotion can be enacted in either a constructive or destructive
tions are to monitor the situation and break up the threatening fashion
liaison through any means possible. This motivational state, we
Note. Italics are added to highlight the characteristics that raise possible questions
have argued, is different from the motivations associated with
about whether jealousy is a basic emotion.
other specific emotions. Jealousy presumably evolved because
it often produced effective solutions to securing one’s relation-
ship and the Darwinian rewards that tend to come with that. Much of the work in the field, including Ekman’s, has
Most previous research has focused on cases where jealousy focused on emotions that conform to a very restrictive template
goes wrong, partially because at the extremes this is when it (e.g., they have distinct and recognizable facial expressions and
becomes a societal issue (resulting in divorce, abuse, and even can thus be posed, they have quick onset and offset). In our
murder). But here we have shown that, despite feeling subjec- view, this produces a focus on short-lived emotions that are elic-
tively negative, jealousy can produce beneficial as well as ited by punctate stimuli, a focus that may be an artifact of our
destructive results. This core state serves as the foundation for methods for studying emotion. The emotions that fit this tem-
the more elaborated manifestations of jealousy that we see in plate are the ones that most readily lend themselves to investiga-
older children and adults. These include more complex apprais- tion within the laboratory. However, what is true for this subset
als and sophisticated strategies aimed at achieving the motiva- of emotions (e.g., those with distinct facial expressions, quick
tional goal state. Using the DFMJ, we also illustrated how a onset) may not apply to more complex emotions, particularly
number of variables impact jealousy differently in early and late inherently interpersonal ones such as jealousy. Ekman’s method
phases. We conclude that to understand and predict jealous reac- of studying emotion (primarily through facial expressions) may
tions, we need to examine jealousy throughout an episode and have led him to propose criteria for specific emotions that fail to
include measures of concomitants of jealousy that go beyond capture some important emotions, which may be qualitatively
self-reported intensity or frequency. Looking only at one meas- different than those with these particular characteristics. An
ure in a single phase of the jealousy process can give one an emotion like jealousy may still be distinct in the sense that it has
erroneous picture of the effect of any given factor on jealousy. its own motivational state and cannot be distilled down into
Our model of jealousy as a specific emotion in which various other emotions. Thus, we need to broaden our view of what con-
behaviors are linked to one underlying emotional state is con- stitutes specific emotions.
sistent with a number of theories of specific emotions (e.g., From a motivational perspective, an emotion should last as
Frijda, 1986; Lazarus, 1991; Nesse, 1990; Roseman, 2011). long as is needed to rectify the inclusive fitness risk that triggers
Interestingly though, jealousy does not find itself among the list it. Longer lasting emotions are needed for longer lasting threats
of basic emotions proposed by many specific emotion theorists. and challenges. Jealousy is about keeping another from usurp-
For example, Ekman and Cordaro (2011), while somewhat ing your relationship. Relationships do not emerge instantane-
agnostic about whether jealousy might be a basic emotion, sug- ously. They develop over time. This is true for primary
gest it is a “mental state” or “emotional scene” instead. Table 2 relationships and true for any relationship that might blossom
shows a list of some of the characteristics that Ekman and between a loved one and a rival. If jealousy is to serve its func-
Cordaro have argued exist in nearly all basic emotions. Jealousy tion of securing the primary relationship, it needs to deal with
seems to exhibit most of these characteristics but not all of any potential threat, not only in the present but also by prevent-
them. In particular, there is no evidence to date that there is a ing subsequent development of any emerging bond between a
universal signal or distinct physiology. Research with other pri- loved one and a rival. Doing so requires ongoing tracking, which
mates does not exist, although there are anecdotal reports. means that jealousy often will occur over a much longer time
Moreover, while jealousy can be of brief duration, we propose it course than is usually assumed in theories of specific emotions.
usually is not. Even a single incident of betrayal or of a partner’s temptation
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induces an ongoing cascade of appraisals assessing the magni- Declaration of Conflicting Interests
tude and scope of threat both to relationship rewards and to self- The author(s) declared no potential conflicts of interest with respect
esteem. Adults can pursue complex strategies to achieve the to the research, authorship, and/or publication of this article.
goal of maintaining the relationship. Moreover, an emotional
state such as jealousy might easily recruit other emotions in ser-
vice of its goals as we saw with the way different attachment Notes
styles predict the character of a recalled jealousy episode. The 1 The type of developmental process we propose here is in keeping with
need for our theories of emotion to take into account longer last- that of other emotions as well. For example, it has been argued that
ing emotions is highlighted not only by our treatment of jeal- shame and pride do not occur until a sense of self is firmly established,
including the ability to recognize social expectations and others’ views
ousy here but also by the treatment of other emotions in this
of the self (Lewis, Sullivan, Stanger, & Weiss, 1989). However, there
special section such as hate (Fischer, Halperin, Canetti, & Jasini, is some suggestive evidence that these emotions also may have a nas-
XXXX). cent form (Reddy, 2003; Trevarthen, 2005).
Finally, while many emotions have distinct facial displays and 2 We focus primarily on theoretical perspectives for adult emotions,
involve substantial autonomic nervous system activity to ready although many also bear on jealousy in human young and nonhuman
the organism for action, they need not all have these. To date, a animals. For additional views within the developmental literature, see
Hart and Legerstee (2010).
facial expression of jealousy has not been proposed, although, to
3 Some models describe three forms of jealousy (e.g., cognitive, behav-
our knowledge, studies on this in adults do not exist. The lack of ioral, and emotional; Pfeiffer & Wong, 1989) but these generally can
a jealousy facial expression is intriguing and could potentially be be divided into suspicious versus reactive.
adaptive. Displaying one’s internal state is not always to one’s 4 Our thinking has been influenced by Hupka (1981), Lazarus (1991),
advantage. This may be the case with jealousy. Effective action in Mathes (1991), and White (1981).
the face of relationship threats is likely to need to be subtle since 5 This study found that the more excessive surveillance behaviors were
one is trying to manipulate the behavior of others. paired with constructive behaviors.
6 The effect was only found in women.
Critics of specific emotions (e.g., Barrett, 2009) have focused
7 Differences in self-reported jealousy between people with secure and
heavily on one version of functionalism (namely, Ekman’s) and avoidant/dismissive attachment styles are sometimes reported, but the
have often made the erroneous assumption that there should be a pattern is not consistent across studies.
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