A significant event that changed my life

 In a person’s life, there are many challenges that would curve or change his/ her personality
or behavior. Moreover, that change could be negative, positive, or even both. In addition,
that change is called a turning point.
Ever since I was a child, I have always been alone at home, with no one to talk to, no
playmate and no companion because I’am an only child and because my parents work every
day, they only return home in the evening. At night, they also don’t have time to bonding
with me because they are already tired and they just wanted to sleep. that's why, as I grew
up, I'm used to not telling my parents about the problems and struggles that I’m facing, or
telling them how I really felt.
My parents are also overprotective. It honestly frustrates me when half the time I’m never
allowed to go anywhere with my friends, and go to places without my parents approval. For
example, there was a time that I had to go to my friend’s birthday party, and my mom
wouldn’t let me go out without any companion, so I have to bring my cousin with me to be
sure that I went there and didn’t go some other place. I mean I’m old enough to go there
alone without any companion with me. I just want to do my own thing and just be me. I
want to be independent, and my parents just don’t get it. Sometimes, they also compare me
to other people when I am not doing anything good, they always see the wrong things that I
didn't mean to do, but the good things that I do for them, they didn’t notice it.
Talking to your parents about what you are thinking or feeling can sometimes be a
challenge. You may try to communicate something that is really emotional for you, but end
up feeling put off or unheard. Conversations like this may be difficult because of how fast it
all happens, the emotions involved, or because it is hard to find a time for a heartfelt talk.
Last year, We had an online meeting about student and parenting, and my teacher called
me how I feel when I am compared to other people or my fellow students. I said that it was
sad because they didn't seem to appreciate the things I was doing. I have never been the
brightest student in school, yet my parents had high expectations for me. These expectation
sometimes felt like I had been carrying a heavy bag of weights around me every day. My
teacher said that try to talk to your parents, open up and make them understand “mommy
daddy you don't have to compare me to others, I do my best to make you proud of me, I
also do everything to get out of my comfort zone , to explore and discover new things, so
that I can become the better and the best version of myself”
While discussing, I gradually realized that it is important to really open up to my parents, I
realized that if I do not tell my parents how I really feel, our relationship will not grow, and it
can also lead to misunderstandings.
After the discussion, I gradually opened up to them, I told them what I really felt about some
things, and all my rants in life. After that, they also said their thoughts, we talked calmly and
finally, we apologized to each other, and we hugged. That was the happiest moment and my
biggest turning point of my life. Everyone in their life experiences a tragic event which brings
a state of hopelessness. Whether it may be large or small these occurrences change us
mentally or physically and shape us into the people we are today. These events in are lives
are turning points which cause individuals to better themselves. In the end, these points in
life make us learn more about ourselves and our lives, and force us to never take anything
we have for granted.
Let's face it, talking about personal stuff can feel embarrassing. But remember, your parents
know you pretty well — and they were your age once, too! So don't let a
little embarrassment stop you. It's ok to go ahead and share what's on your mind. Some kids
might think if they share a problem, they'll make a parent worried or upset. But your mom
or dad can handle knowing about your problem, big or small. If they look concerned, it just
means they care, and that they feel for you.  Some people might not bring up a problem
because they just don't want to think about it — and hope it will just go away. But sweeping
a problem under the rug hardly ever solves it. And bottling up your feelings can make you
feel stressed.
Talking things over with a parent can help you feel less stressed. Together, you can think of
ways to cope, solve the problem, and feel better. Just knowing your parent understands and
cares about what you're going through can reduce your stress a lot. Effective
communication builds understanding and trust. And when you and parents understand and
trust each other, you'll all be better able to work together to support. Make it a habit to talk
to your parents about things besides problems. Share what goes well for you, too. Tell them
about a good part of your day, a grade you're proud of, or a funny joke a friend told you.
Talking helps you be close and enjoy each other more.    
Families are an integral part of one’s life. It does not matter if you have a small or big family,
as long as you have one. If it wasn’t for our parents, none of us would be where we are
today. Although we may not always see eye-to-eye, the love and wisdom they instill upon us
is something that can never be forgotten.