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Cruciform Press Sampler. First 6 Books
Cruciform Press Sampler. First 6 Books
Table of Contents
Sexual Detox . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3
Wrestling with an Angel. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 29
Servanthood as Worship . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 45
Reclaiming Adoption . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 58
Intentional Parenting . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 76
The Organized Heart . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 94
SEXUAL DETOX
A Guide for Guys Who Are Sick of Porn
Tim Challies
Cruciform Press | Released October, 2010
“In an age when sex is worshiped as a god, a little book like this
can go a long way to helping men overcome sexual addiction.”
“Tim Challies strikes just the right balance in this brief but
necessary work. His assessment of the sexual epidemic in our
culture is sober but not without hope. His advice is practical but
avoids a checklist mentality. His discussion of sexual sin is frank
without being inappropriate. In a day when it can almost be
assumed that every young male struggles with pornography, lust,
and masturbation, this book will be a valuable resource. I’m grateful
for Tim’s wisdom, candor, and grace.”
Kevin DeYoung
Senior Pastor, University Reformed Church, East Lansing,
Michigan; Conference Speaker and author of numerous books,
including The Good News We Almost Forgot, Just Do Something,
and Why We Love the Church
Tedd Tripp
Pastor, Grace Fellowship Church, Hazle Township,
Pennsylvania; Conference Speaker and author of Shepherding a
Child’s Heart and Instructing a Child’s Heart
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Owen Strachan
Instructor of Christian Theology and Church History,
Boyce College; Co-author of the Essential Edwards Collection
Ben Zobrist
All-Star Right Fielder, Tampa Bay Rays
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Table of Contents
Foreword. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Chapters
One Reality. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Two Pornography vs. Marriage . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Three A Theology of Masturbation . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Four Four Gifts of Sex . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Five Detox in the Bedroom . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Six Detox in Your Soul . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Sources Cited. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Acknowledgments . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Story of the Book . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Cruciform Extra
“Comfort for the Tempted” . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
A Sermon by Charles Spurgeon on First
Corinthians 10:13
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FOREWORD
Why This Book?
Picture a group of 20-something-year-old guys
sitting in a room brainstorming together on how to
write a killer Foreword for an important book that
has helped us replace worldly lies with biblical truth
about sexuality. As we bat some ideas around, Steve
brings out his famous half-cooked chocolate chip
cookies and sets them before me, John, the token
diabetic of the group. Immediately I am faced with a
decision. Should I indulge and enjoy these chocolaty
delights (the memories of which cause me to slip in
and out of a mini flavour-coma) or should I resist and
do what I know is the best thing for me?
This decision, like all decisions, is based on more
than mere knowledge. It is based on belief. If I take a
cookie, it means I believe that eating it is the best thing
for me—or at the very least, that the pleasure it will
give is greater than the consequences to my health.
In Sexual Detox, Tim Challies addresses men
who know that sexual fantasies, masturbation, and
pornography are wrong, but choose to indulge in
their sin regardless. The purpose of this book is not
to get you to admit that sexual sin is wrong—you
already know that. Instead, the purpose is to move
you to believe biblical truth about sexuality and have
these beliefs determine your decisions.
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Why Tim?
Many of you will know Tim from his blog or from
other books and articles he’s written. You will
already know that he is a gifted and compelling
writer, able to present the truths of Scripture with
clarity and conviction. What you won’t know is
what we have all seen through the years we have
known him as a friend, mentor, and pastor. Tim is a
man who works hard to study the truth, to apply it
to his own life, and then to teach what he has learned
and applied in order to help others. Because Tim
believes these things, lives these things, and loves to
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Why You?
We are writing this Foreword to you to commend
this book as highly as we can. Not primarily because
it is some new cure-all, can’t-miss, one-step solution
to all your problems with sexual sin, but because it
represents what Tim has taught us that has helped us:
It is biblical truth. And that alone is what will change
your heart, your desires, your beliefs.
Tim has worked hard to express these truths
simply. You can thank us for that. He has seen from
teaching us that we are simple guys who need a
simple explanation of God’s desires for our sexuality.
We are convinced that if you are a normal guy with
normal guy problems and a normal guy worldview,
this book will be helpful for you, as it has been for us.
The bottom line is that when we believe in our
hearts that the biblical view of sexuality is better than
our sinful view of sex, we won’t cease to be tempted,
but we will stop indulging in sin. When we believe
that the joy of obedience and the rewards of purity
are greater, the draw of sexual sin will be lesser. When
we believe all that God has planned for us and our
sexuality we will, in Christ, become conquerors over
temptation.
If that sounds like something you need, then we
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straight from God, the one who created sex for us. I
hope to help you reorient your understanding of sex,
both in the big picture and in the act itself, according
to God’s plan for this great gift.
I suppose you noticed the word Detox in this
book’s title. Detoxification actually takes place in
your body every day as various organs transform
or get rid of things that aren’t good for you. When
someone has been chemically poisoned or exposed
to too much radiation, the body needs some help,
and detoxification becomes more intentional, more
of a medical procedure. A third kind of detox is the
popular meaning. This kind of detox takes place when
someone is trying to be freed of addiction to drugs
or alcohol. In each case, the basic idea is the same.
Something has gotten inside you that doesn’t belong
there and needs to be removed. If it stays or builds up,
you will only get sicker. You might even die.
Detox is therefore a reset to normal, a return
to health. It’s the reversal of a corrupting, polluting
process. It gets you back to where you ought to be.
A huge percentage of men need a porn detox, a
moral and psychological reset. In fact, I suspect that
a large majority, even of Christian men, share this
desperate need. Are you among them? If so, whether
you recognize it or not, pornography has corrupted
your thinking, weakened your conscience, warped
your sense of right and wrong, and twisted your
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Think
I’m going to end each chapter with a Think section.
Especially in this rapid-fire digital age, it’s far too easy
to zip through information we truly need and then
skip on to the next chunk of information, without ever
really reflecting on what we’ve only halfway absorbed.
Pornography is an area where it’s especially
important to be honest. Whether you use these
questions in a group discussion, or just by yourself,
I’ve put them here to help you take a moment to
reflect and, hopefully, to get very real about this.
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WRESTLING WITH
AN ANGEL
A Story of Love, Disability and the
Lessons of Grace
Greg Lucas
Cruciform Press | Released November, 2010
“You will laugh; you will cry. You will feel sick; you will feel
inspired. You will be repulsed by sin’s ugliness ; you will be over-
whelmed by God.’s love Greg Lucas takes us on an unforgettable ride
on the roller coaster of Christian experience, as he extracts the most
beautiful insights into grace from the most painful experiences of life.
This brutally honest and deeply moving book helps us to see that we
all have special needs that only a special Savior can supply.”
David P. Murray, Puritan Reformed Theological Seminary
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“It is the rare book that makes much of God and our depen-
dency on Him while also celebrating His goodness through hard
things. Using his own example of parenting a child with significant
disabilities, Greg demonstrates what relying on a sovereign God
through extreme difficulty and suffering looks like. This book is a
gift to the church, and particularly to men who need an example of
masculine, Biblical leadership in the face of complex, confusing, and
overwhelming circumstances. If you have ever confronted hardship
and questioned God’s goodness, this book provides a real-life
example of trusting in the promises of God.”
John Knight, Senior Director for Development, Desiring God
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Table of Contents
Chapters
One Break | Equip. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Grace breaks us with affliction in order
to equip us with comfort and compassion
Two Display | Reveal . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Grace displays our sin as in a mirror, but
reveals the cross as through a window
Three Routine | Surprise . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Grace surprises us with God’s presence
in the details of our daily routine
Four Opposition | Humility. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Grace humbles us by crushing our pride
through humiliation
Five Gifted | Saved . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Grace saves us by freely and undeserv-
ingly giving what we need to be saved
Six Satisfied | Waiting . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Grace satisfies our heart with answers
to prayer while we wait for the ultimate
answer
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Cruciform Extras
Matthew Henry on John 9:1-3. . . . . . . . . . . . .
Two letters from John Newton on
endurance in suffering . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
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BREAK | EQUIP
Grace breaks us with affliction in order to equip us
with comfort and compassion
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the
Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all
our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are
in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are
comforted by God. (2 Corinthians 1:3-4)
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SERVANTHOOD
AS WORSHIP
The Privilege of Life in a Local Church
Nate Palmer
Cruciform Press | Released December, 2010
Table of Contents
Chapters
One Servanthood. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
The Ministry of All Believers
Two Lineage. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Service Began with God in Christ
Three Context. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
The Local Church is Our Base for Service
Four Glory. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
God’s Character and Works
Five Appreciation . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
I Can Serve Because I Appreciate Who
God Is, Who I Am, and What He Has
Done for Me
Six Adoration. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
I Can Serve as I Desire and Enjoy God’s
Active Presence
Seven Affection. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
I Can Serve Motivated by Love for the
Saved and Unsaved
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Eight Subjection. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
I Can Serve Because I Do Not Belong
to Myself
Nine Perspective. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Building the Church Eternal
Appendices
A Comment on Sanctification. . . . . . . . . . . . . .
A Brief History of Service in the Church. . . . .
Notes. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
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The Ministry of All Believers
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to catch the flu before it’s time to leave. Why you?
Can’t someone else do it?
If these situations are at all familiar, I know how
you feel. When I became a Christian at age twenty-
five, I was so happy and energized by the wonder of
my salvation that I didn’t mind serving on Sunday
mornings. I enjoyed it. It seemed only natural that, as
a new member, I would help with the chores. Doing
odd jobs before church seemed like a way to pay for
all the joy and benefit I was receiving. Plus, as part of
a new church plant that met in a school, there were
far more tasks than there were people to do them.
Someone had to serve or we couldn’t “have” church.
And so, week after week, I did my duty.
During those early months of my Christian walk,
however, serving gradually became a mixed bag of
emotions and competing motivations. What started
out as a way to express my joy soon became, in my
mind, a way to manage God. My service was like the
volume knob on a car stereo—I could amplify God’s
opinion of me by serving more. If I’d had a bad week,
frequently giving in to temptation or not reading the
Bible, I would just go to church early and serve. In my
mind, the exchange rate was something like one act of
service for one sin. God will have to like me again once
he sees how hard I’m trying to make up for my failures.
This form of atoning for sin was easier than actually
facing my problems and trying to work on them.
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Full-Time Servants
Do you realize that serving is a constant activity?
It’s like breathing. There is never a moment when
we are not serving someone. None of us are ever
on the sidelines, waiting to get into the game of
servanthood. Since birth, every one of us has been
actively serving.
Most of the time we are simply serving
ourselves—pouring our energy and hope for
happiness into the nurture of our own desires. But
at each moment, we are serving either the desires of
our flesh or the desires of God. As Paul Tripp states,
“Each of our lives is shaped by the war between the
kingdom of God and the kingdom of self.”1
The conflict is that we don’t want to be
subservient to anyone else’s wants and needs. Not
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RECLAIMING
ADOPTION
Missional Living through the Rediscovery
of Abba Father
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Church’s historic understanding of the Word. The authors
have uncovered new depths and fresh passion in expressing
how adoption clarifies the meaning of our union with Christ.
Reclaiming Adoption expands our vision to the fuller glory
of the whole narrative of Christ’s work. Thus, this book can
transform the worship, education, and mission of any church
bold enough to explore its truth.”
Gerrit Dawson, Author of Called by a New Name
“I am grateful for the work that Dan has done to lift our
eyes to the grand story of adoption. With spiritual insight and
effective teaching, Reclaiming Adoption will help believers
better understand our place with Christ and work in His
kingdom.”
Ed Stetzer, President, LifeWay Research
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Table of Contents
Chapters
One Adoption of the Prodigals. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Dan Cruver
Two Adoption and the Trinity. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Dan Cruver
Three Adoption and the Incarnation. . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Dan Cruver
Four Adoption and Our Union with Christ . . . . . .
Dan Cruver
Five The Good News of Adoption. . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Richard D. Phillips
Six The Freedom of Adoption. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Scotty Smith
Seven Adoption and Missional Living . . . . . . . . . . . .
Jason Kovacs
Eight Adoption: The Heart of the Gospel. . . . . . . . .
John Piper
Endnotes. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Editor’s Acknowledgments. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
About the Authors. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
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ADOPTION OF THE
PRODIGALS
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INTENTIONAL
PARENTING
Family Discipleship by Design
Tad Thompson
Cruciform Press | Released February, 2011
“Are you doing what you can to make sure the coming gen-
eration will praise the Lord? This book can help you in that great
task. May the Lord use it powerfully.”
James M. Hamilton, Ph.D, Associate Professor of Biblical
Theology, The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary
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Table of Contents
Chapters
One The Need. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Look
Two The Mirror. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
See
Three The Kitchen. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
The Ingredients of Family Discipleship
Four The Living Room. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Contexts for Teaching and Learning
Five The Bedroom. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Speaking to Our Children’s Hearts
Six Time to Engage. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Endnotes. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Recommended Reading. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
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THE NEED
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The Situation
I have served on a church staff as a student pastor, as
an associate pastor with oversight of adult education,
and now as a lead pastor. At every stage of my
seventeen-year experience in ministry, the discon-
nect between parents and children with respect to
the discipleship process has become increasingly
evident. The hard fact is that fathers and mothers
are not taking on the responsibility to disciple their
own children, and churches are doing very little, if
anything, to challenge this reality. One look at my
Facebook page demonstrates the painful fact that
many young adults who were once quite active in
student ministry programs have left the church and
are questioning their faith. A young man found my
Facebook account and wrote, “I just want to let
you know that I don’t believe in organized religion
anymore. I’m not even sure I believe in God.”
Personal experiences do not prove societal
trends, but current research demonstrates that this
young man’s experience is not uncommon. Polling
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THE MIRROR
See
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Discipleship by Love
A few weeks ago I sat across from a dear friend
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THE ORGANIZED
HEART
A Woman’s Guide to Conquering Chaos
Staci Eastin
Cruciform Press | Released March, 2011
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“Staci Eastin packs a punch with this short book. But it’s a
gracious punch, full of insights about our disorganized hearts and
lives, which is immediately followed by the balm of gospel-shaped
hopes. The Organized Heart is ideally crafted for use with account-
ability partners and small groups. Because of the Holy Spirit’s active
presence, there is always hope for change. Open this book with that
great truth in mind and you’ll find much to ponder!”
Carolyn McCulley, fellow procrastinator, is a blogger,
filmmaker, and the author of Radical Womanhood and
Did I Kiss Marriage Goodbye?
Chapters
One Our Story . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Two Perfectionism . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Three Busyness . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Four Possessions. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Five Leisure. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Six Difficult Circumstances . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Seven Where to Begin. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Sources Cited. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
About Cruciform Press. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
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In Pursuit of an Organized
Home
My mother and my grandmothers were industri-
ous women who showed me that organization is
possible. They managed to keep clean houses, work,
volunteer, and still have ample time for family, rest,
and leisure. In an effort to be more like them, I have
read countless books on home organization, and
I own more planners than any person could ever
need. I’ve tried lists, notebooks, note cards, and filing
systems; I’ve posted schedules and spreadsheets; I’ve
bought drawer organizers and closet systems. While
all these things helped for a time, none brought the
lasting change that I sought.
The systems, after all, require implementation,
but my disorganized heart can corrupt a perfect rule
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In Pursuit of an Organized
Heart
Naturally organized people gain satisfaction from
getting their work done quickly without procras-
tinating. They have learned to budget their time so
that they don’t take on more commitments than they
can handle. They can easily whittle down their pos-
sessions to fit the amount of storage in their homes.
When unexpected things come up, they prioritize
between the urgent and non-urgent.
And then there is the rest of us. We know we
shouldn’t put required tasks off until the last minute,
but something more pressing (or more fun) always
seems to come up first. We know we shouldn’t take
on yet another commitment, but everything seems
so important, and we don’t want to let anyone down.
Our closets, drawers, and garages overflow with
extra stuff, but when we try to clean out, we can’t
part with any pieces. Some of us may even have
spotless homes, but we’re exhausted. We feel like we
work all the time without any free time to relax and
enjoy life the way other people do.
Secular psychologists tell us that we do these
things because in our minds the payoff for disorga-
nization is greater than the benefit of organization.
We procrastinate because we don’t want to do what
needs to be done now. We overcommit because
saying No hurts. We gain excess possessions because
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Explore
1. I’m going to step out on a limb and assume
that if you are reading this book, you struggle
with staying organized. Which of these areas
describe your problem (more than one may
apply):
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