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PAMELA M. FISHMAN
University of California, Santa Barbara
* An earlier version of this paper was presented at the 1975 ASA Meetings, San Francisco. I am indebted
to Harvey Molotch, under whose encouragement I began the research. I am grateful to Myrtha ChabrAn,
Mark Fishman, Drew Humphries, Linda Marks, Florence Tager, and Susan Wolf for their support,
discussions, and criticisms throughout work on this and earlier drafts, and to Malcolm Spector for his com-
ments on the final version.
S . . one in which reality is crystallized, narrowed, and stabilized. Ambivalences are con-
verted into certainties. Typifications of self and other become settled. Most generally, pos-
sibilities become facticities.
In these relationships, in these trivial, mundane interactions, much of the essential work of
sustaining the reality of the world goes on. Intimates often reconstruct their separate experiences,
past and present, with one another. Specifically, the couple sustain and produce the reality of
their own relationship, and, more generally, of the world.
Although Berger and Kellner have analyzed marriage as a reality-producing setting, they have
not analyzed the interaction of marriage partners. I shall focus upon the interactional activities
which constitute the everyday work done by intimates. It is through this work that people pro-
duce their relationship to one another, their relationship to the world, and those patterns normally
referred to as social structure.
WORK IN INTERACTION3
Sometimes we think of interaction as work. At a party or meeting where silence lies hea
we recognize the burden of interaction and respond to it as work. The many books writte
"the art of conversation" call attention to the tasks involved in interaction. It is not simpl
analogy to think of interaction as work. Rather, it is an intuitive recognition of what mus
accomplished for interaction to occur.
Interaction requires at least two people. Conversation is produced not simply by their presen
but also by their display of their continuing agreement to pay attention to one another. T
is, all interactions are potentially problematic and occur only through the continual, turn-by-t
efforts of the participants.
The work of Sacks and his followers (Sacks et al., 1974; Schegloff and Sacks, 1974; Schegl
1972) attempts to specify how conversationalists work to accomplish such things as beginn
and endings. They have ignored, however, the interaction between intimates. Schegloff a
Sacks (1974:262) characterize intimates in home situations as "in continuing states of incip
'An excellent summary and analysis of this literature can be found in Thorne and Henley's introductio
to their book, Language and Sex: Difference and Dominance (Thorne and Henley, 1975). Miller
Swift's (1976) encyclopedic work, Words and Women, catalogues the innumerable ways our lang
upholds the inferior position of women.
2A notable exception is the work on interruptions in conversation by West (1977), West
Zimmerman (1977), and Zimmerman and West (1975). Hirschman (1974, 1973) has also examined
interactive production of language in male-female settings.
3Throughout this paper, I use the terms interaction and conversation interchangeably, although
is not meant to suggest that conversation covers all the essential components of interaction.
METHOD
The data for this study consists of fifty-two hours of tape-recorded conversation betwe
intimates in their homes. Three couples agreed to have a Uher 400 tape recorder in their apa
ments. They had the right to censor the taped material before I heard it. The apartments we
small, so that the recorders picked up all conversation from the kitchen and living room as we
as the louder portions of talk from the bedroom and bath. The tapes could run for a four-ho
period without interruption. Though I had timers to switch the tapes on and off automatical
all three couples insisted on doing the switching manually. The segments of uninterrupt
recording vary from one to four hours.
The three couples had been together for varying amounts of time-three months, six months
and two years. The two couples who had been together the longest were recently married. A
were white and professionally-oriented, between the ages of twenty-five and thirty-five. O
woman was a social worker and the other five people were in graduate school. Two of th
women were avowed feminists and all three men as well as the other woman described themselves
as sympathetic to the woman's movement.
The tape recorders were present in the apartments from four to fourteen days. I am satisified
that the material represents natural conversation and that there was no undue awareness of the
recorder. The tapes sounded natural to me, like conversations between my husband and myself.
Others who have read the transcripts have agreed. All six people also reported that they soon
began to ignore the tape recorder. Further, they were apologetic about the material, calling it
trivial and uninteresting, just the ordinary affairs of everyday life. Finally, one couple said they
forgot the recorder sufficiently to begin making love in the living room while the recorder was
on. That segment and two others were the only ones the participants deleted before handing
the tapes over to me.
I listened to all of the tapes at least once, many two or more times. During this period, I
observed general features and trends of the interactions as a whole. Three transcripts were chosen
from five hours of transcribed conversations for closer, turn-by-turn analysis of the progress
of concrete, interactional activities. I chose these three because they were good examples of
conversation that appeared to be problematic for the man, for the woman, and for neither.
PRELIMINARY EVIDENCE
Some evidence of the power relations between couples appeared while I was still in the
of collecting the tapes. During casual conversations with the participants after the t
learned that in all three couples the men usually set up the tape recorders and turned
Asking Questions
There is an overwhelming difference between male and female use of questions as a res
in interaction. At times I felt that all women did was ask questions. In seven hours of t
the three men asked fifty-nine questions, the women one hundred and fifty, nearly
times as many.
Other research (Lakoff, 1975), notes that women ask more questions then men. Lakof
interpreted this question-asking as an indication of women's insecurity, a linguistic signal o
internal psychological state resulting from the oppression of women. But a psycholog
explanation is unnecessary to reveal why women ask more questions than men. Since Que
are produced in conversations, we should look first to how questions function there.
Questions are interactionally powerful utterances. They are among a class of uttera
like greetings, treated as standing in a paired relation; that is, they evoke further utter
Questions are paired with answers (Sacks, 1972). People respond to questions as "deserv
Attention Beginnings
The phrase, "This is interesting," or a variation thereof, occurs throughout the tapes. When
conversation is not problematic, the work of establishing that a remark is interesting ideally is
done by both interactants, not one. The first person makes a remark; the second person
orients to and responds to the remark, thus establishing its status as something worthy of
joint interest or importance. All this occurs without the question of its interest ever becoming
explicit." The use of "This is really intersting" as an introduction shows that the user
cannot assume that the remark itself will be seen as worthy of attention. At the same time, the
user tries single-handedly to establish the interest of their remarks. The user is saying,
"Pay attention to what I have to say, I can't assume that you will." In the five hours of
transcribed material, the women used this device ten times, the men seven.5
There are also many instances of "y'know" interspersed throughout the transcripts. While
this phrase does not compel the attention one's partner as forcefully as "this is interesting"
does, it is an attempt to command the other person's attention. The phrase was used thirty-four
times by the women and three times by the men in the transcribed conversations.
4The notion that joint expression of interest is a necessary feature of conversation is discussed by
Garfinkel (1967:39-42).
5Unlike the use of questions and "D'ya know," which were randomly scattered throughout the
transcripts, six of the seven male usages occurred during one lengthy interaction. The conversation had
been chosen because it was one of the very few cases when the man was having trouble maintaining
interaction. In contrast, four of the female usages were from one transcript and the other six were
scattered. My impression from listening to all the tapes was that a complete count would show a much
larger proportion of female to male usage than the ten to seven figure indicates.
Minimal Response
Another interaction strategy
turn by saying "yeah," "umm
tend to use the minimal resp
response displayed lack of int
when it needed to be filled. Fo
the man responded with "yeah,
responses are attempts to disco
The women also made this typ
the minimal response was as "s
the women are particularly s
comments throughout streams
that she is constantly attendin
interest in the interaction an
seldom do they mistime th
responses occur between the b
suggest they are attempting to t
Making Statements
Finally, I would like to conside
the success of the interaction
space and may also provide f
tion on the part of the speake
the statement is of interest,
everything is working well; succ
In the transcribed material,
women, and they almost alw
example: many times one or b
on it. The man's comments oft
did. In a discussion of their r
comments from the woman on
back to his own. Each time, she
Listening to these conversatio
the men talk about more inte
virtue of generating interaction.
INTERACTIONAL PROGRESS
The simple narration of the use of strategies obscures one important quality of interac
its progression. The finding and frequency of strategies are of interest, but seeing the
of strategies in the developing character of interaction reveals more about the differential
done by the sexes.
In the transcript, a short segment of conversation is reproduced.6 It is from the trans
originally chosen for analysis because the conversation appeared problematic for the woman
6 The numbers in parentheses indicate number of seconds of a pause "(=)" means the pause
less than one second. My own comments on the tape are in double parentheses. M and F stan
male and female speaker, respectively. The conversation is presented in paired exchanges, se
1-15. The sections ideally would be joined up in ticker tape fashion and would read like a mu
score. Brackets between lines indicate overlapping talk.
TRANSCRIPT
F: I didn't know that. (=) Um you know that ((garbage disposal on)) that organizational
1
M: Hmmm? (=)
F: stuff about Frederick Taylor and Bishopsgate and all that stuff? (=) In the early
M: UmHm ((yes))
F:
4
M: never did get my smoked oysters, I'm going to look for ((inaudible)) (14) Should we try the
F: you know that teachers used to be men until about the 1840's when it became a female occupa-
6
M:
F: tion? (2) Because they needed more teachers because of the increased enroll-
7
M: Nhhmm ((no)) (=)
F: using the test to measure and find the you know categorize and track people in American
11
M:
F: schools until like the early 1900's after the army y'know introduced their array alpha things
12
M:
F: to the draftees (?) And then it caught on with the schools and there was a lot of opposition right
13
M:
F: at the beginning to that, which was as sophisticated as today's arguments. The same argu-
14
M:
F: ments y'know (=) But it didn't work and they came (4) rheh
15
The transcript demonstrates how some strategies are used in actual conversation. It als
documents the woman working at interaction and the man exercising his power by refusin
to become a full-fledged participant. As the interaction develops and she becomes more sure
her difficulties, she brings more pressure to bear by an increased use of strategies. Even so, she
only able to insure immediate, localized responses, not a full conversational exchange.
CONCLUSIONS
There is an unequal distribution of work in conversation. We can see from the dif
use of strategies that the women are more actively engaged in insuring interaction than
They ask more questions and use attention beginnings. Women do support work whil
are talking and generally do active maintenance and continuation work in conversa
men, on the other hand, do much less active work when they begin or participate in int
They rely on statements, which they assume will get responses, when they want in
Men much more often discourage interactions initiated by women than vice-versa.
Several general patterns of male-female interactional work suggest themselves. Th
seemed to try more often, and succeeded less often than the men. The men tried l
and seldom failed in their attempts. Both men and women regarded topics introd
women as tentative; many of these were quickly dropped. In contrast, topics introd
the men were treated as topics to be pursued; they were seldom rejected. The wom
harder than the men in interaction because they had less certainty of success. They did
the necessary work of interaction, starting conversations and then working to maintain
The failure of the women's attempts at interaction is not due to anything inheren
talk, but to the failure of the men to respond, to do interactional work. The success of
remarks is due to the women doing interactional work in response to attempts by
Thus, the definition of what is appropriate or inappropriate conversation becomes
choice. What part of the world the interactants orient to, construct and maintain t
of, is his choice, not hers. Yet the women labor hardest in making interactions go.
It seems that, as with work in its usual sense, there is a division of labor in conv
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