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Be adventurous and take a hot air balloon ride Test drive your dream car. Enjoy a little joy ride Go horseback riding. Cowboy boots and hats are
together. Don't forget to bring a camera. And as you take turns taking the wheel. optional.
enjoy the view!

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Let’s be adventurous
Complete a bucket list item. Share with each
other one thing you've always wanted to do,
then go do it together.
Let’s be adventurous
Have fun on the river. Try tubing, canoeing,
kayaking, or challenge yourselves dodging
whitewater rapids in a raft.
Let’s be adventurous
Try a new extreme adventure together. It could
be rock climbing, ziplining, skydiving, bungee
jumping, paragliding, windsurfing, sailing, etc.
Make it something new to each of you, and
something you would both like to try.

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Let’s be adventurous
Be a tourist in your own town. Check out the
local touristy spots, and find out what all the
buzz is about.
Bonus points: take in a Segway tour.
Let’s be adventurous Let’s be adventurous
Break a world record together. Or at least have Drive to the hills and take a hike up to the top.
fun trying. Go to guinnessworldrecords.com
and decide which one you will attempt Then
spend a few hours in your pursuit.

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Let’s be adventurous
Go geocaching. Turn your smart phone into a
treasure map. Visit geocaching.com to get
started.
Let’s be adventurous
Go to an amusement park. Ride a couple of thrill
rides together. Then ride a couple of cute little
kid’s rides together.
Let’s be adventurous
Plan an Amazing Race group date with your
friends. Each team races through town facing
detours, road blocks, and pit stops. The team
that reaches the final destination first wins.
Search the web for game play ideas.
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sports & exercise sports & exercise sports & exercise
Attend a live sporting event together. Show Go to a local gym and get all sweaty together. Go for a bike ride in the park, along the river, or
your team spirit by dressing in full team attire. through town.
Bonus points: stop for some ice cream, frozen
yogurt, or gelato along the way.

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sports & exercise
Find a rooftop pool and go for a swim together.
Or find a great swimming hole where you can
both get a little wet.
sports & exercise
Play a game of mini golf. Plan a special prize for
the person who gets the first hole-in-one.
sports & exercise
Watch a kid’s sporting event. Check out a little
league baseball game, a high school basketball
game, a youth soccer game, etc. Cheer for both
sides.

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sports & exercise sports & exercise sports & exercise
Go skating together - ice skating, roller skating, Play a game of one-on-one basketball or a game Spend an afternoon at a golf driving range,
or in-line skating. You get a little exercise, and of HORSE. batting cage, shooting range, or archery range.
it's romantic all at the same time.

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Enjoy a date on a 9 hole golf course. Have a little Go bowling. Dress in a retro outfit. Then share a Play a game of tennis or racquetball together.
fun practicing your swings together. Take turns milkshake after the game.
driving the golf cart.
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what’s on the menu what’s on the menu what’s on the menu
Make a big breakfast together. Choose your Create a little Italy at home. Make homemade Make fondue at home. Choose from cheese,
menu: eggs, omelets, bacon, sausage, pancakes, pizza together. meat, and/or chocolate. Have fun feeding each
waffles, fruit, etc. And don't forget the mimosas. other.

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what’s on the menu what’s on the menu what’s on the menu
Bake cookies together. Perhaps your childhood Create your own fiesta with homemade tacos Make home-made bread. Knead the dough
favorites. Don't be afraid to get messy in the and a little tequila. together, and enjoy the wonderful aroma of
kitchen. freshly baked yeast goods.

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what’s on the menu what’s on the menu what’s on the menu
Make homemade ice cream. Ooh la la Paris. Spend an evening at home Create your own cheese sampling event. Head
Bonus points: use an old-fashioned hand crank making crepes and drawing caricatures of each to the local grocery store, and pick up a few
ice cream maker. other. varieties to try. Grab a bottle of wine. And voila!

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Make a chocolate dinner. Create a homemade Grill up your favorite entrée on the BBQ. Add a Skip dinner and just go out for dessert.
meal together with chocolate featured in every couple sides and your favorite beverage. Spend
course. the evening relaxing outside, sharing stories.
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Let’s get creative
Go to a hobby, craft, or home improvement
store. Pick out a project and build something
together. Ideas: model airplane, bookcase, clock,
planter, birdhouse, Lego car, ping pong table,
recipe box.
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Be extras in a movie, TV show, or commercial. Or
write, direct, and tape your own short video
together.
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Put on a talent show for just the two of you.
Sing your favorite songs. Dance for each other.
Be a comic. Use your many talents to perform
your heart out.
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Let’s get creative
Buy a nice notebook, and write your love story
together. Start at the beginning. Continue to
where you are now. Either finish the story with a
fun ending. Or leave it open to continue the real
story at later dates.
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Let’s get creative
Create a time capsule together. Include
photographs, letters you’ve written to one
another, some sentimental items, some facts
about the current year, etc. Seal the container,
and set a date in the future to open the capsule.
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Compose a song together. Write a lyric that is
meaningful to the both of you. Then put a tune
to it. Perform your song with all gusto.
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Be a kid again. Color in a coloring book together.
The menu: Peanut butter & jelly sandwiches
and Kool-Aid.
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The world's your stage. Dress up as your
favorite characters and enjoy an evening
role-playing.
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Buy a large canvas, some paint and brushes.
Start painting your masterpiece together. After
every 20 minutes switch sides of the canvas.
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Create jewelry together. Find a local vendor to
assist, or simply buy materials at a craft store.
Design pieces that you will wear and cherish for
years to come.
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Take a photo walk. Wander around a town or the
countryside, and snap pictures of anything that
catches your eye.
Bonus points: print the photos and create a
mini-scrapbook.
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Let’s get creative
Check out a paint-your-own pottery studio.
Paint each other something special. Be sure
to sign your name on the bottom of your
showpiece.
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Sign up for couples dance lessons, and learn Check out a new band or musical artist. Go to the theatre. Get dressed up, and attend a
something new - salsa, ballroom, swing. Then Broadway play, ballet, opera, or symphony.
dance the night away. Discuss your favorite parts after the show.

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Take a tour of your town’s murals and art Watch a funny movie together and spend the Learn something fresh by checking out a new
sculptures. Discuss what you like and don’t like evening making each other laugh. Tell silly museum exhibit, visiting an art crawl, or
about each one. jokes. Act all goofy. attending a live dance performance.

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visual & performing arts
Watch a silent movie or old black and white film.
For added fun, watch the movie a second time
with an added twist: For a silent movie, add your
own narrative. For a B&W film, watch the second
time in color.
visual & performing arts visual & performing arts
Hit up a coffee shop for a cup of joe and live Attend a free concert in the park. Bring along
music. Country, pop, jazz, the blues, or maybe snacks and a bottle of wine. Include a blanket or
even songwriter’s night. lawn chairs. And don’t forget the bug spray.

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visual & performing arts
Start a two-person band with just the two of
you. Select your instruments and enjoy some
jam sessions together.
visual & performing arts
Go off-Broadway. Attend a show at a community
theatre or see a local school performance.
visual & performing arts
Find a nearby drive-in movie theatre. Order
some popcorn and a couple drinks. Then cozy up
together in the car.
Bonus points: watch a retro film.
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romance romance romance
Go for a long walk. Hold hands the entire way. Get out the old pictures of you two together. Schedule a couples massage. And just relax.
Enjoy reminiscing. Then create some new
memories. Snap of few shots of today.

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romance romance romance
Enjoy a romantic boat ride. Find a nearby lake, Rent a romantic movie, and enjoy some cuddle Write a long love letter to each other, with
and rent a rowboat or paddle boat. If you can time on the couch. doodles and hand drawn pictures. Read them
find a pond or lake with swans, that is major aloud to one another.
bonus points.

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romance romance romance
Go tandem. Ride a bicycle built for two. Something old, new, borrowed, and blue. Hire a photographer and do a romantic photo
Recommit your love for each other by sharing shoot.
something old, something new, something
borrowed, and something blue with one another.

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Enjoy a bubble bath together – complete with Have a home spa day. Light the candles. Play Relive your first date. Or relive another memorable
candlelight and champagne. some soothing music. Get a little physical by day you had shared together.
giving each other massages. And kisses.
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The $20 date. Go out, eat, and be entertained.
The goal is to not spend more than twenty
dollars.
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secret rendezvous
Plan a surprise date for each other. It could be a
date inside the house or out and about. Include
things you know the other will love. Just don't
give any clues away beforehand. Blind folds are
optional.
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secret rendezvous
Flip the town. Have a spontaneous date with a
flip of a coin to make decisions: head right or
left, eat here or there, do this or that.
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secret rendezvous
Make it a theme night. Choose a theme (Italian,
Greek, Roaring 20s, 1950s, 1980s, sports, etc.)
Dress up, make a meal, and select entertainment
all centered on that theme.
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The fancy date. Get dressed up in your finest
garb. Go over the top with the make-up and
jewelry. Develop your own fancy accent. Share a
luxurious evening together out on the town.
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secret rendezvous
Turn a chore into a date. Play some music or
whistle while you work. Some ideas: wash and
detail your cars, paint or re-decorate a room in
your home, mend some worn clothes, wash the
windows and the baseboards.
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Create a romantic atmosphere at home. Build a
fort out of furniture and blankets. Add some
twinkling lights and pillows. Cuddle up inside.
Exchange love notes.
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Enjoy a blackout evening at home. No use of
electricity or electronics is allowed. Get out the
candles and blankets. Lights OUT. Date night ON!
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The exotic date. Dress in something fun and
crazy. Try out a new restaurant, and order for
each other. Give one another a new name, and
use it throughout the night. Learn to say "I love
you" in a foreign language.
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Prom night. Re-create a prom night in your own
home. Dress up in those crazy formals, play
some classic tunes, and do a little flirting.
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secret rendezvous
Have a progressive dinner. Drinks at one place,
appetizers or salad at another, main course at
yet another, and finally dessert.
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The do-over date. Select a date that didn’t go as
well as you had hoped. Discuss what could have
made it better. And have the date again.
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shopping trip shopping trip shopping trip
Go to a clothing store. Set a budget. Part ways Head over to a craft fair, flea market, or garage Go to a dollar store. Each one buy 5 silly items to
and each pick out a couple of complete outfits sale. Each purchase one item that you think the give to the other.
for the other. Then enjoy trying them on and other will absolutely love.
modeling for one another.

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shopping trip
Head to a local toy store and buy a new jigsaw
puzzle. Enjoy an evening in putting it together.
shopping trip
Go to the grocery store and head in different
directions. Each secretly select and purchase
four food/drink ingredients. Come home and
make a meal together which incorporates all
ingredients.
shopping trip
Become inventors. Choose a store: hardware,
hobby, liquor. Purchase several items. Come
home and invent a new product or drink
together.

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shopping trip shopping trip shopping trip
Head over to a local farmer’s market, and select Shop online Groupon, and pick out your next Go to an auction and decide on one item to bid
some fresh items for dinner. date at a discount. on together. Set your cap price, and see if you
win it.

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shopping trip
Purchase a board game that neither of you have
played before. Spend the evening in mastering
the game.
shopping trip shopping trip
Go to a thrift store. Pick out each other’s outfit Each privately purchase 5 items for the other.
to wear to dinner. One that invokes each of the five senses – sight,
smell, taste, hearing, and touch. Bonus points
for being romantic items. Wrap them up, and
take turns opening each other’s gifts.
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back to nature back to nature back to nature
Wake up at 4 am and watch the sunrise Head over to a farm and pick fruit. Whether it's Plan a picnic. Pack your favorite foods, and find
together. Bring some freshly brewed coffee apples or berries, you'll share a sweet day a pretty place to eat and chat. Spend some time
with you, and enjoy the beginning of a beautiful together. lying on the blanket together.
new day.

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Visit a zoo. Enjoy watching the animals. Take a Go for a walk in the rain together. Singing in the Sit by a lake or pond and feed the ducks. Get
few photos. rain is optional. your feet a little wet.
Bonus points: take a camel or elephant ride. Bonus points: have a stone skipping contest.

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back to nature
Visit a park neither of you have been to before.
Enjoy what it has to offer - hiking, boating,
fishing, botanical gardens, wildlife, etc.
back to nature
Find a really big tree, perfect for climbing. Help
each other to a comfortable branch, and sit
together like a couple of love birds. Then spend
an hour or two talking and watching the world
below you.
back to nature
Head to the beach. Collect sea shells, build a
sand castle, and take a stroll on the sand
together.

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Find a romantic hilltop, beach, or scenic road; Make a fire and enjoy some s'mores. Go stargazing on a clear night. Find a star, name
and watch the sunset together. it, and call it yours.
Bonus points: check out the stars through a
telescope.
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On a windy day, build a kite together and take it Make a personalized scavenger hunt for one Play your favorite board or card game. Make up
for a flight. another. It could be at the mall, around town, at a few new rules just for the two of you.
a park, or a romantic hunt in your home. Have
fun figuring out the clues.

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Play pub trivia. Before the game starts, decide Go out for a game of pool. Drink some beer and Go to a playground. Swing each other on the
on a prize for the winner. try to beat each other. swings. Ride down the slides. Spin one another
on the merry-go-round. Climb on the monkey
bars. Be young at heart.

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Go go-kart racing. After the first race, switch Build paper airplanes and have a flying Grab some sidewalk chalk and play a game of
cars and race again. competition. hopscotch. Then draw pictures.

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fun & games
Check out a local fair or carnival. Split a cotton
candy. Play a couple of games and try to win a
prize. Take a spin on your favorite amusement
rides.
fun & games fun & games
Find a local spot that hosts Bingo night. Arrive Have a water gun, water balloon, or pillow fight.
early and get ready to get your game on. Share After the battle, call truce and make up.
any prize you may win with the other.
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Jump in the car and find a road you've never
traveled before. See where it leads you. Make a
couple of stops along the way to discover what's
there.
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Find a B&B in a near-by town. Check out a new
restaurant, and spend the night.
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Visit a historical site. Talk about what it might
have been like to have lived in that era.
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Plan a cabin retreat at a state or national park.
Check out the scenic views, waterfalls, caves,
trails, or whatever else the park has to offer.
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Plan a weekend getaway. Leave all electronics Take a winery, brewery, or distillery tour. Sample
behind you, and just enjoy being with each a few drinks. And take home your favorite.
other.
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Enjoy a trip down memory lane. Visit each Spend the evening at a local hotel, and don't
other’s childhood hometowns. Check out where leave the room.
you lived, where you went to school, where you
played, where you went to church, where you
just hung out.
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Get lost. Go someplace you've never been Plan a trip to a farm. Learn to drive a tractor,
before. Then on foot, wander off with each milk a cow, gather eggs, etc. Visit with the
other. No plan. No preconceptions. Just get farmers, and find out about their everyday life.
lost. But be sure you have phone reception in
case you need a map to find your way back.
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Get away for the weekend (or just for a few Go camping. Just the two of you and a tent.
hours) by taking an alternate mode of
transportation. It could be a train, helicopter,
cruise boat, trolley, carriage ride, etc.
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seasonal seasonal seasonal
Enjoy a spring fling through the woods. Go Plant something together. Whether it’s a single Rent a convertible. Enjoy the warmer weather
bird-watching. Or search for morel mushrooms. flower or a garden full of vegetables, be sure to and a little wind in your hair. Pack lunch and
Or gather wild flowers. Or identify trees by their get your hands a little dirty. head to a romantic spot.
leaves.

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seasonal
Cool down from the summer heat. Head over to
a water park together. Or create your own
backyard water fun with a garden hose.
seasonal seasonal
Attend a fireworks show together. Relax after a hot summer day with a tall glass of
cold lemonade or iced tea. Create your own recipes
and decide on your favorite. Some ingredients
to try: berries, watermelon, peaches, lemons, limes,
oranges, tea, honey, mint, vodka, ginger ale.

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Enjoy the autumn season. Carve a pumpkin. Explore a corn maze. The sense of adventure Have fun on a good old-fashioned hayride.
Play in the fall leaves. Make some warm apple can be a wonderful bonding experience.
cider.

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seasonal
Spend a few hours in the snow together. Build a
snow man, make snow angels, go sledding, start
a snow ball fight.
seasonal
Create a few homemade ornaments.
decorate your Christmas tree together.
seasonal
Then Plan a day trip to a town which does it all up for
Christmas. Do a little shopping. Sip on some hot
chocolate. Check out the Christmas lights. And
end the evening with a little caroling.
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giving back giving back giving back
Volunteer a day together at a local soup kitchen, Visit a local animal shelter, and spend a few Sign up for a benefit run or walk. Enjoy
boys & girls club, or nursing home. hours playing with the animals. preparing for the event together.

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giving back
Create care packages for the homeless. Include
items in a gallon size bag, such as: toothpaste,
toothbrush, shampoo, deodorant, tissues,
socks, mini first aid kit, moist wipes, snacks,
change, gift card to a fast food restaurant, etc.
giving back giving back
Help build a home with Habitat for Humanity. Or Sponsor a child or elderly person in need.
help fix up an elderly neighbor’s home. Gather up and deliver a few gifts. Share some
time with them.

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giving back giving back giving back
Get a stack of post-it notes. Write positive Bake homemade goodies together, and deliver Write and deliver thank you cards to local
things on them, and stick them around town. them to the neighbors. policemen, firefighters, EMTs, teachers, or other
hometown heros.

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giving back
Collect food for a local food bank. Volunteer
time together at the facility.
giving back giving back
Create a care package for a soldier overseas. Get a stack of $1 bills, and hide them in various
Ideas to include: drink mixes (coffee, cocoa, places around town or at a park.
tea), granola bars, beef jerky, condiments,
snacks, toiletries, magazine, puzzle book, cards,
etc. Also include a letter of your appreciation.
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Pick out a new book together. Find a favorite
spot… a bench in the park, lying on a blanket on
the grass, a cozy couch, or lying in your bed.
Take turns reading a chapter to each other.
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learning & growing
Take online personality tests. Discuss the
positives and challenges about your personality
types. How are you the same? How do you
differ?
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learning & growing
Play 20 questions. Each one write down 10
questions you’d love to know the answer to.
Then take turns answering each other’s
questions.
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Learn about a foreign country. Decide on a
country together. Or get out a map and blindly
select one. Learn a little about the history,
culture, food, and language. Bonus points: plan
your dinner and a film focused on this country.
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Go back to school. Find a class to take together.
A few ideas: cooking, photography, kickboxing,
a foreign language, martial arts, wine tasting.
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learning & growing
Each one select a couple of long lost friends or
relatives – people who you haven’t spoken with
in awhile. Share your memories of them with
one another. And together, write and mail
letters to them.
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learning & growing
Attend a local lecture or hear a public speaker.
Afterwards, discuss what inspired you.
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learning & growing
Get 50 postcards. Find addresses for random
people: 1 from each state. Include your return
address on the postcard. Tell them a little about
you, and ask them to return a card with a little
bit about them. See how many cards you get back.
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learning & growing
Read "The 5 Love Languages" together. Discuss
what you can do to help each other feel loved.
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learning & growing
Learn what makes each other feel joyful and
blessed. Each one write down 100 things that
bring a smile to your face. Then read your lists
aloud to the other.
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learning & growing
Visit a bookstore or library. Read your favorite
childhood book to each other. Or each go on a
search to find 5 of your all-time favorite books.
Come together and discuss how each book has
influenced you.
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Take a class to learn a new art: glass blowing,
drawing, wheel thrown pottery, stained glass
art, painting (oil, acrylic, or watercolor), etc.
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Join a Bible Study or small group together. Go to a favorite nature area or to your church
sanctuary. Stay an hour or two, taking turns
praying for one another and for others as well.
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Send a message to the world. Write down
meaningful words of encouragement or Bible
verses on pieces of paper. Slip them into
baggies and attach to helium balloons. Go to an
open space and release the balloons.

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Purchase a Christian book on building your Visit the sick in the hospital. Bring some small Read Song of Solomon together.
marriage, and read it aloud to one another. gifts with you. Share the love of God with them.

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Check out a local Christian artist or attend a Write a gratitude list together. Discuss why you Volunteer a Sunday at church together:
Christian concert. are thankful for each person or thing on the list. greeting, serving snacks and coffee, assisting
Thank God for His many blessings in your lives. with Sunday School, etc.

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christian Faith
Create a prayer journal together. Include names
and situations to pray for. Add pictures. Leave
room to add updates. Use this journal to assist
with your prayer time.
christian Faith
Share a few hours discussing your values and
beliefs with each other. Talk about why they are
important to you. Identify ways you can grow
more in God’s truth.
christian Faith
Mail Christmas or Easter cards to 25 random
people. Anytime of the year.
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goals & dreams
Go to an ice cream parlor and have a relationship
discussion. Talk about your desires regarding
quality time together, intimacy, accountability,
loyalty, forgiveness, and so on. Talk about your fears.
Tell each other what you enjoy about being together.
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Plan a home business or money maker project.
If you could do something to make a few extra
bucks, what would it be? Search the web for
ideas. Then do something. Even if it’s very small,
enjoy your time being co-owners together.
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Find a relaxing place outside of your home and
discuss how you handle conflict together. What
you do well. What you don’t do so well. Come up
with ideas for handling conflict more effectively
in the future. Role play a conflict, then make up.
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goals & dreams
Plan your dream vacation together. Where will
you go? What will you do? Then make a plan to
save up for it.
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goals & dreams
Head over to a coffee shop, and have a discussion
about your relationships with other people.
Discuss the challenges. And decide on ways you
can work together to improve bonds with your
children, family members, friends, and neighbors.
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goals & dreams
Go on a house hunt. Whether you’re in the
market or not, touring homes during open
houses is free. And it’s a good way to learn each
other’s preferences on architecture, interior
design, and landscaping.
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goals & dreams
Share where you want to be 5 or 10 or 20 years
from now. What does your life look like
regarding family, kids, career, home, vacations,
and finances?
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goals & dreams
Visit a circus, petting zoo, or other favorite
childhood venue. Afterwards, share your
childhood dreams with one another. What did
you want to be when you grew up? Where did
you want to live?
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goals & dreams
Have a money date. Go to a cheap fast food joint,
and talk about your budget. Discuss your goals
for these 4 areas: charitable gifts, savings, living
expenses, and leftover fun money. Address any
concerns you have. Make your plan going forward.
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Review your household responsibilities with one
another. What you enjoy, what you don’t enjoy,
what you may like to switch up, what you would
like to share. Put together your plan for going
forward. Then treat yourselves to dessert.
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goals & dreams
Emergency preparedness. Plan together what
you would do in the event of an emergency
situation: fire, tornado, earthquake, flood,
hurricane, health crisis, etc. Put together an
emergency supply kit. And have a practice drill.
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Leave a legacy. Plan ways you can pass on your
values and experiences to a future generation.
Some ideas: mentor someone younger, start or
support a charity or ministry, write a book, be role
models to your children, journal your family history.
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new kitchen gadget pack of beer new tool

Or favorite drink.

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fun socks or slippers new movie on dvd bouquet of balloons

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new toy or game creative coffee mug new book

Or sporting equipment. Poetry, recipe, or how-to.

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sweet treat article of clothing salty snack

Something fun.
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bouquet of flowers bottle of champagne handwritten poem

Or favorite drink.

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greeting card new piece of jewelry chocolate

Homemade.

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article of clothing __ candles

massage oil and romantic tunes on cd
or
Something romantic. Or downloaded.

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blanket or new sheets bubble bath framed photo of us

And/or body wash & lotion.
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something shiny something scented something furry

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something red something soft something yummy

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something sharp something hot something jazzy

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something classic something tiny something silver

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Romantic Slow Dance Passionate Kiss Five Minute Hug

Right here. Right now. Right here. Right now. Right here. Right now.

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Conversation Shift Spontaneous Turn of Events New Direction

Let’s change the subject. My choice. Instant switch to a different date card.

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Yummy Dessert
That we can share.
Mixed Drink
Or other beverage.
Romantic Gesture
Of my choice.

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Photo Opportunity 15 Minute Alone Time Selfie Photo

Let’s take a few shots. Just you and me in a place of my choosing. Of you and me together.
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Serenade Me Admit Dance for Me

With a romantic love song. That I am right. While I watch.

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Turn Off Wear Whatever Call Me Sweetheart

All electronic devices for the rest of the date. I pick out. Or other name of my choosing for the rest of the date.

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Give Me Whisper Sweet Nothings Bring Me

A quick and relaxing back massage. In my ear throughout the date. A nice unique drink... something I’ll love.

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Compliment Me Do Whatever Cuddle with Me

Continually for the rest of the date. It takes to make me laugh out loud. For an hour after the date.
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Random Breakfast Date Foot Massage Dressed & Pressed

Wherever you’d like. Whenever you’d like. You pick out the outfit. I’ll wash and iron.

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Random Lunch Date Back Rub Home Cooked Meal

Wherever you’d like. Whenever you’d like. You relax. I’ll make the meal.

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Clean Room Cup of Coffee Evening Out

You pick the room. I’ll do the cleaning. Or other morning beverage. I’ll get it. With friends.

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Clean-up After Dinner Glass of Wine Party In

You relax. I’ll clean the kitchen. Or other evening beverage. I’ll get it. With friends.
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