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Fantastic Failure Lab
Fantastic Failure Lab
‘Life is about perspective, it’s neither all good nor all bad. Failure sucks, but it shouldn’t
control you, it’s what you do with it that makes a difference”. This is how I ended my video
presentation on my exploration of my relationship with failure, and with it the end of the
Fantastic Failure Lab. However, I can imagine that it needs some elaboration.
To start off, I want to point out one aspect which comes back a couple of times in the video
‘this isn’t a story of recovery or motivation, this is a story about reality and realizations.
When I was writing the text and the video concept, I caught myself more than ones trying to
make my relationship with failure look like it’s something that I’ve recovered from and could
motivate others to do too. However, I realized every time that this was far from the truth.
The Fantastic Failure Lab hasn’t helped me recover from the way failing makes me feel and
how I deal with it. This lab has shown me the reality of my relationship with failure and
helped me realize that it hasn’t always been healthy.
‘Fight, flight, hide’ these three coping mechanisms have played their role in my life and my
relationship with failure. The video only scratched the surface on what has happened in my
life so far and how these coping mechanisms have played their role in each of their periods
in my life. But I was not comfortable to mention more than I did.
That’s when I started to ask my friends and my family for videos, they had of times in which
they remembered me being happy. I collected them and put them together, to create the
video that could be seen on my laptop next to the text. Because ‘while I was talking about
fear and failure, a video of happy things in my life played alongside it. I wanted to show you
that life is about perspective, it’s neither all good nor all bad.’
Fear and failure
It turns out they aren’t my enemy
They are a part of me
A part that I don’t like and never asked for
And I’d love to say that they don’t control me anymore
But they do, and I’m working on it