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Energize Your Workplace


How to Build and Sustain
High-Quality Connections at Work
By Jane E. Dutton
Published by Jossey-Bass, 2003
ISBN 0787956228

Introduction A Bad Connection


The energy and vitality of individuals and organiza- Here’s an example of what happens when connec-
tions alike depend on the quality of connections — tions go wrong. Bruce Sills was in charge of strate-
connections among people within a company and gic planning at Phoenix Software, facing a de-
also between company members and people out- manding challenge to put a new planning system in
side the firm with whom they do business. The key place. But he approached each day with zest and
to transforming both your own work experience bounced back from the obstacles he met.
and the performance of people around you is to Unfortunately, his boss left and was replaced
build and nurture high-quality connections. by a new VP of finance who was a very uncommu-
A high-quality connection is marked by mutual nicative manager. He responded to specific re-
positive regard, trust and active engagement. In a quests for information but didn’t include Brian in
high-quality connection, people feel more en- high-level meetings and rarely consulted him on
gaged, more open and more competent. They feel strategic matters.
more alive. Brian learned to live with that, but the connec-
By the same token, low-quality connections tion became really corrosive when the VP reneged
exact a fearful toll on energy and well-being. on promises and failed to provide assistance when
Low-quality connections are marked by distrust Brian requested budgetary advice. Brian found his
and disregard of the other’s worth. Such connec- stress growing and began to suffer from
tions can dissolve our sense of our own humani- headaches and numbness in his left hand. His per-
ty, competence and worth, and they can do so in formance deteriorated as he began to feel less
an instant. sure of himself and increasingly unwilling to share
Like metal eaten away by exposure to corro- information with his boss. Instead of showing ini-
sive substances, people in organizations are cor- tiative, he kept his head down and focused on get-
roded through exposure to low-quality connec- ting through the day.
tions. When low-quality connections are pervasive Meanwhile, as other staff members saw what
in an organization, they eat away at people’s ability was happening, the corrosion spread. They started
to learn, to show initiative and to take risks. They to be more cautious about what they shared with the
corrode motivation, loyalty and commitment. VP. Communication and trust plummeted in the unit.

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A High-Quality Connection Benefits for the Individual


Compare that with the story of Gayle, a successful High-quality connections facilitate the physical and
consultant in a well-known knowledge management psychological health of individuals. Research suggests
consulting firm in Minneapolis. She was physically ex- that people who have more high-quality interactions
hausted all the time, even though she didn’t feel she during the course of a day register greater well-being,
was working excessively hard. She viewed interactions as evidenced by more positive emotions and greater
with others as intrusions. She continually apologized experienced vitality.
for times she’d been short with customers and unhelp- High-quality connections enable individuals to en-
ful or unavailable to colleagues and subordinates. She gage more fully in the tasks that make up their jobs.
was starting to dislike her job and herself with no ap- They feel a heightened capacity to devote time to the
parent reason. work at hand, because the high-quality connections
Things turned around when a long-term client who provide a safe psychological haven that gives them
could sense her unhappiness told her she should start freedom to get engaged, to let go and to concentrate
viewing interactions with others as opportunities to more fully on the tasks at hand. People also learn
build nourishing and replenishing connections — even more easily when they enjoy high-quality connections
if they lasted less than five minutes. He told Gayle that with others.
this form of interacting didn’t take a lot of work but did
involve a major change in attitude. It meant seeing and Benefits for the Organization
acting on the possibility that in every connection there’s The organizational benefits of high-quality connections
a wellspring of vitality to tap. are just as striking.
At first Gayle thought the advice was silly, but she First, high-quality connections enhance the capaci-
did give it a try. The next day, instead of brushing by ty to co-operate within and across units. Co-operation
her mail carrier as she left for work, she stopped and is a lubricant that makes the everyday work of organi-
asked him how he was doing, which led to a brief story zations run smoothly.
about his daughter’s progress in school and how he Second, high-quality connections facilitate effec-
hoped she’d grow up to have a nice career like Gayle’s. tive co-ordination between interdependent parts of an
That gave her a little glow which continued organization. Jody Hoffer Gittell’s research into air-
through the day and then into the coming weeks and lines, for example, found that in airlines that main-
months. It was as if her positive encounters with oth- tained high-quality connections, employees readily
ers were nourishing something inside her. Not only adapted their work to help each other out to make
that, she could see the heightened energy spread performance goals.
through her unit. Third, high-quality connections strengthen employ-
ees’ attachments to their work organizations. One vice-
Connections and Energy president of marketing in a large cosmetic manufactur-
Energy is the fuel that makes great organizations run. er puts up with salary inequities, infrequent raises and
Every interaction with others at work — big or small, frustration with the firm’s relative slowness of competi-
short or lengthy — has the potential to create or de- tive response because of the quality of connections
plete vital energy. When positive energy is activated with other employees: “I can count on them to be there
through a high-quality connection, it can lead to what if life turns sour or things get rough. This feeling is
psychologist Barbara Frederickson calls “positive something that money can’t buy.”
spirals.” Fourth, high-quality connections can facilitate the
By the same token, corrosive connections drain transmission of purpose, a key consideration for organ-
vital energy from the organization. Like high-quality izations that rely on culture and the transmission of val-
connections, they can be infectious. As one manager ues as a means to build loyalty and assure competitive
puts it, “Corrosive connections are like black holes — success. High-quality connections also encourage dia-
they absorb all of the light in the system and give noth- logue and deliberation and thereby facilitate organiza-
ing back in return.” tional learning.

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Finally, an organization’s capacity to adapt and • Supportive Communication. What we say, how
change is tied to the quality of the relationships among we say it and how another person understands our
organizational members. communication are also essential to respectful engage-
ment. Supportive communication means expressing
The Three Paths yourself in a way that allows the other person to hear
There are three main pathways to high-quality connection: you. It means being careful to express views and opin-
• Respectful Engagement — Engaging others in ions in ways that minimize defensiveness on the part of
ways that send messages of value and worth. others and maximize their clarity about where you
• Task Enabling — Ways of interacting that facili- stand and how they can constructively respond.
tate another person’s successful performance.
• Trusting — Acting in ways that convey to others Task Enabling
the belief that they’ll act with integrity, dependability Task enabling comprises the various strategies people
and benevolence. use to facilitate the successful performance of others.
It resembles what Phil Jackson, the former long-time
Respectful Engagement coach of the Chicago Bulls basketball team, calls “in-
Respectful engagement means being present to oth- visible leadership.” It’s the attitude of serving direct re-
ers, affirming them and communicating and listening in ports and facilitating the learning of subordinates that’s
a way that manifests regard and an appreciation for the embraced by Southwest Airlines supervisors: “We are
other’s worth. here to help them do their jobs.”
It doesn’t have to be a deep encounter. It can hap- Again, there are five strategies to create task en-
pen in the hallway as you’re going to a meeting or on abling:
the phone lines in a customer-calling center. Small acts • Teaching — Providing information that allows
of respectful engagement infuse a relationship with people to do tasks more effectively.
greater energy while at the same time modeling behav- • Designing — Enabling others by selecting and
ior that gets picked up by others. arranging features of the job to make it more interesting
There are five main strategies: and appealing to the job holder.
• Being Present. Being present for another person • Advocating — Helping others perform by easing
implies being psychologically available and receptive. the navigation of the political context of the organization.
Conveying presence means turning one’s attention to • Accommodating — Altering the substance, tim-
another. It’s as much about resisting distraction as ing or process of what you’re doing to enable others to
inviting engagement. succeed with their work.
• Being Genuine. It’s important to speak and react to • Nurturing — Recognizing individuals’ develop-
others from a real and honest place. Being genuine often mental needs in a way that helps them perform more
means behaving toward someone based on internal de- effectively.
sires and motivations, as opposed to external pressures.
• Communicating Affirmation. We need to go be- Trusting
yond being present and also actively look for the posi- Acting with trust means behaving toward others in a
tive core or “divine spark” in another. One way to com- way that conveys belief in their:
municate affirmation is by recognizing and • Integrity — Consistency between thought and
understanding another person’s situation. Another way behavior.
is to look for the value in others — imagine and see • Dependability — Honesty and reliability.
them in a positive light. An affirmative stance means • Benevolence — Desire and willingness to care.
giving somebody the benefit of the doubt. In short, trusting involves acting on positive expec-
• Effective Listening. Really listening to what tations about other people’s behavior and intentions.
somebody says is a form of respectful engagement. It Whether you begin by conveying trust or being trusted,
requires effort, as distractions are the norm in most trust takes you in the direction of a higher-quality, life-
work settings. giving connection to another person.

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Trust is a special resource in that it increases with building a work unit or organization based on high-
use. If one person acts toward another in a trusting quality connections.
way, the action creates a self-fulfilling cycle. Start small, seeking small wins that can build posi-
In our wariness about trusting others, we often tive momentum and confidence. Finally, be patient and
adopt a “show me” stance. We say people have to persistent. Remember that all organizations pose many
earn our trust, and then sit back and wait for them to challenges to meaningful change. e
do so. But if we take the first step in building trust, we
become crafters of connecting possibilities, starting a ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Jane E. Dutton is a professor of
virtuous cycle in which trust builds upon itself. business administration at the University of Michigan.
We convey trust most clearly when we allow peo-
ple to see that we’re at risk in some way, making our
vulnerability and reliance on others more visible. That Related Reading
can be difficult to do, as organizations can be tough The Art of Possibility: Transforming Professional and
contexts for displaying vulnerability, but it can pay off in Personal Life, by Rosamund Stone Zander and Benja-
higher-quality connections. min Zander, Harvard Business School Press, 2000,
ISBN 0875847706.
Conclusion
As a manager, you can have significant influence in Competing in a Service Economy: How to Create a
your immediate environment simply by making the Competitive Advantage through Service Development
quality of connections a priority and using these vari- and Innovation, by Michael D. Johnson and Anders
ous strategies to set an example for others and to Gustafsson, Jossey-Bass, 2003, ISBN 0787961566.
coach those you manage.
Start by communicating why change is neces- The Southwest Airlines Way: Using the Power of Rela-
sary. Then engage in a genuine dialogue with others tionships to Achieve High Performance, by Jody Hoffer
about how to accomplish change directed towards Gittell, McGraw-Hill, 2003, ISBN 0071396837.

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