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How To Know When Your Relationship Is Over
How To Know When Your Relationship Is Over
How To Know When Your Relationship Is Over
DIVORCE
12/14/2017 03:09 pm ET
By Brittany Wong
Who you choose to spend your life with is an incredibly important decision
― and sometimes, you realize the person you thought was “the one” isn’t
the right choice anymore.
But that doesn’t stop people from staying put in dead-end relationships,
said Sheryl Ziegler, a counselor and author of the forthcoming book Mommy
Burnout: How to Reclaim Your Life and Raise Healthier Children in the
Process.
What are some of the signs that a relationship has run its course? Below,
Ziegler and other marriage experts share eight red flags.
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1. You try to work out problems with your partner, but they never
make an effort.
“I see couples in my office all the time complaining that they have problems
communicating. One partner will say something like ‘I’ve told him hundreds
of times not to come home late and he doesn’t listen. I just need help
communicating it to him so he’ll understand.’ My response usually goes
something like this: ‘Well, you’ve said it loud and clear just now. What do
you think isn’t being understood?’ If you’ve said it over and over and if
you’ve yelled and cried trying to get them to understand, then it’s time to
move on. If they don’t understand it after all of that, they probably never
will.” ― Aaron Anderson, a couples therapist in Denver, Colorado
3. You realize you don’t really like or respect your partner at their
core.
“This is such a common reason to end a relationship. How could you
possibly spend the next five years, much less the rest of your life, with
someone you don’t admire? This may be a hard reality you need to confront.
There could be a number of reasons why you’ve lost respect: Maybe you’ve
been with this person for quite some time, but no one in your family or
friend group really likes them ― and you’re starting to feel the same way. If
you’re with a person who you don’t respect, it’s just not possible for your
relationship to last long, much less grow and expand.” ― Gary Brown, a
psychotherapist in Los Angeles
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