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The Nayars and the Definitionof Marriage
E. KATHLEEN GOUGH
THE PROBLEM OF A SATISFACTORY DEFINITION OF MARRIAGE has fordecades
vexed anthropologists
and has beenraised,butnotsolved,severaltimesin recentyears.'Overtimeit becameclear
thatcohabitation, ritualrecognition,definitionof sexualrightsor stipulation of domestic
services
eachhadtoolimited a distribution
toserveas a criterionforall theunionsanthropologists
intuitivelyfeltcompelledto call 'marriage'.For good reasontherefore theNotesandQueries
ofI95I makesno reference
definition toanyofthese:'Marriageis a unionbetween a mananda
womansuchthatchildren borntothewomanarerecognized legitimate ofbothparents.'
offspring
Admirably concisethoughit is,thisdefinition
tooraisesproblems in a numberofsocieties.
The Nuerinstitution of woman-marriage-to-a-woman wouldbe a case in point.Here,both
partiesto theunionarewomenyet,as Evans-Pritchard (I95I, pp. IO8-9)has shown,thelegal
provisionsoftheunionarestrictly comparable to thoseofsimplelegalmarriage betweena man
and a woman.Few therefore wouldquestionEvans-Pritchard's logicin callingthisuniona
marriage.
The NotesandQueries definitioncontainstwocriteria:thatmarriage is a unionbetween
one man and one woman,and thatit establishes the legitimacy of children.Nuerwoman-
marriage doesnotconform tothefirstcriterionbutitdoestothesecond.Atthispointtheproblem
therefore becomes:is a definition
feasiblewhichwouldinsistonlyon thesecondcriterion, that
oflegitimizing children?
In Europe,2 Dr EdmundLeachinitiated themostrecentchapterin thisdiscussion (Leach
I955), and ratherthanreviewitswholehistory it is pertinent forme to takeup theargument
wherehe andothers haveleftit.In effect,Dr Leachanswered 'no' tothequestion posedabove.
He arguednotonlyagainstthevagueness ofthephrase'legitimate offspring'butalso against
anyuse ofpotential legalpaternity as a universal criterionofmarriage. He concludedin fact
thatno definition couldbe foundwhichwouldapplyto all theinstitutions whichethnographers
commonly referto as marriage.Insteadhe namedtenclassesofrights3 whichfrequently occur
in connection withwhatwe looselytermmarriage, addedthat'onemight perhapsconsiderably
extendthislist',and seemedto concludethatsinceno singleone oftheserights is invariably
established by marriage in everyknownsociety, we oughtto feelfreeto call 'marriage'any
institutionwhichfulfilsanyone or moreoftheselectedcriteria.
Thereis,surely, a quitesimplelogicalflawin thisargument. Forit wouldmeanin effect
thateveryethnographer might extendat willDr Leach'slistofmarital andinshortdefine
rights,
marriage in anywayhe pleased.Thismaybe legitimate in describing a singlesociety. ButI
wouldarguethatforpurposes ofcross-cultural
comparison, we do needa single,parsimonious
definition,simplyin orderto isolatethephenomenon we wishto study.
In supportofhisargument againstusingthelegitimizing ofchildren asa universal criterion
ofmarriage, Dr LeachcitedtheNayarcase.On thebasisoftwoof mypaperson theNayars
(GoughI952, I955a), he statedthattheNayarstraditionally had 'no marriage in thestrict
(i.e. NotesandQueries)senseofthetermbutonlya "relationship ofperpetual affinity"between
linkedlineages(GoughI955a). The woman'schildren, however theymightbe begotten, were
simply recruitsto thewoman'sownmatrilineage.' He statedfurther, 'The notionoffatherhood
is lacking.The childusesa termofaddressmeaning "lord"or "leader"towards all itsmother's
lovers,buttheuseofthistermdoesnotcarrywithit anyconnotation ofpaternity, eitherlegal
orbiological. On theotherhandthenotionofaffinity is present,as evidenced bythefactthata
womanmustobserve pollutionat herritualhusband's death(GoughI955a).' LaterDr Leach
concludesthat 'among the matrilinealmatrilocalNayar,as we have seen,rightJ (to establish
24 E. KATHLEEN GOUGH
consent to make this gift,it was assumed that the woman had had relationswith a man of lower
caste or with a Christian or a Muslim. She must then be either expelled fromher lineage and
caste or killed by her matrilinealkinsmen.I am uncertainof the precise fate of the child in such
a case, but there is no doubt at all that he could not be accepted as a member of his lineage
and caste. I do not know whether he was killed or became a slave; almost certainly,he must
have shared the fate of his mother.Even as late as I949, over a hundred and fiftyyears afterthe
establishmentof Britishrule, a Nayar girl who became pregnant before the modern marriage
ceremonywas regarded as acting withinthe canons of traditionalreligiouslaw ifshe could simply
find a Nayar of suitable sub-caste to pay her deliveryexpenses. But if no Nayar would consent
to this she ran the danger of total ostracism,with her child, by the village community.I heard
of several cases in which such a girl was driven fromher home by her karanvanat the command
of the sub-caste assembly. Her natal kinsmenthen performedfuneralritesfor her as if she had
died. In each case the girl took refugein a town before or shortlyafterher child was born.
Althoughhe made regulargiftsto her at festivals,in no sense of the termdid a man maintain
his wife. Her food and regular clothingshe obtained fromher matrilinealgroup. The giftsof a
woman's husbands were personal luxuries which pertained to her role as a sexual partner-
extra clothing, articles of toilet, betel, and areca-nut the giving of which is associated with
courtship,and the expenses of the actual delivery,not, be it noted, of the maintenance of either
mother or child. The giftscontinued to be made at festivalsonly while the relationshiplasted.
No man had obligations to a wifeof the past.
In these circumstances the exact biological fatherhood of a child was often uncertain,
although, of course, paternitywas presumed to lie with the man or among the men who had
paid the delivery expenses. But even when biological paternity was known with reasonable
certainty,the genitor had no economic, social, legal, or ritual rightsin nor obligations to his
children afterhe had once paid the fees of their births.Their guardianship, care and discipline
were entirelythe concern of theirmatrilinealkinsfolkheaded by theirkdranavan. All the children
of a woman called all her currenthusbands by the Sanskritword acchanmeaning 'lord'. They did
not extend kinship terms at all to the matrilineal kin of these men. Neither the wife nor her
childrenobservedpollution at the death of a visitinghusband who was not also the ritualhusband
of the wife.
In most matrilineal systems with settled agriculture and localized matrilineal groups,
durable links are provided between these groups by the interpersonalrelationshipsof marriage,
affinityand fatherhood.The husbands, affines,fathers,and patrilateral kin of members of the
matrilineal group have customaryobligations to and rightsin them which over time serve to
mitigate conflictsbetween the separate matrilineal groups. The Nayars had no such durable
institutionalizedinterpersonal links. This does not mean that men did not sometimes form
strongemotional attachmentsto particular wives and their children. My informationindicates
that theydid. I know forexample that if a man showed particular fondnessfora wife,his wife's
matrilineal kin were likely to suspect the husband's matrilineal kin of hiring sorcerersagainst
them. For the husband's matrilinealkin would be likelyto fear that the husband mightsecretly
convey to his wifegiftsand cash which belonged rightfully to his matrilinealkin. This suspicion
was especially rifeif the husband was a karanavanwho controlled extensiveproperty.Informal
emotional attachmentsdid thereforeexist between individuals of differentlineages. But what I
wish to indicate is that among the Nayars, these interpersonalaffinaland patrilaterallinks were
not invested with customarylegal, economic, or ceremonial functionsof a kind which would
periodically bring members of differentlineages togetherin mandatory formsof co-operation.
Four special kinship termsdid apparently exist for use in relation to affinesacquired through
the sambandham relationship,although, as I have said, there were no patrilateral termsfor kin
other than the mother'shusbands. All men and women currentlyengaged in sambandham unions
with members of ego's property group, and all members of the property-groupsof these
individuals, were collectivelyreferredto as bandhukkal('joined ones'). A currentwife of ego's
mother's brotherwas addressed and referredto as ammayi,and a wife of the elder brother as
28 E. KATHLEEN GOUGH
union.
'children'. These fall into two categories: those of the tali-riteand those of the sambandham
In relationsbetweenspousesofthe tali-rite,the importantrightsare thoseofthe woman. The ritual
husband had, it is true, apparently at one time the rightto deflowerhis bride. But the accounts
of many writersindicate that this rightwas not eagerly sought, that in fact it was viewed with
repugnance and performedwith reluctance. The ritual husband also had the right that his
ritual wifeshould mourn his death. But we may assume that this righthad more significancefor
the wife than for the husband, forit was not attended by offeringsto the departed spirit.These
could be performedonly by matrilineal kin. The ritual bride's rightswere complementaryto
her husband's, but for her they were of supreme importance. She had, first,the rightto havea
ritual husband of her own or a superiorsub-caste beforeshe attained maturity.Her lifedepended
on this,forif she was not rituallymarried beforepubertyshe was liable to excommunicationand
mightpossiblybe put to death. She held this claim against her sub-caste as a whole exclusive of
her lineage, or (in the case of aristocraticlineages) against a higher sub-caste. This group must,
throughthe institutionof the linked lineages, provide her with a ritual husband of correctrank
and thus bring her to maturityin honour instead of in shame. It was the duty of her lineage
kinsmen to see to it that some representativefromtheir linked lineages fulfilledthis right. The
ritual wife's second rightwas that of observingpollution at the death of her ritual husband. I
interpretthis as a mark of proofthat she had once been marriedin the correctmanner and that
this ritual relationshiphad retained significancefor herthroughouther ritual husband's life.
The tdli-tierhad no rightsin his ritual wife's children except that they should observe
pollution at his death. From the child's point of view, however,his mother'sritual husband must
have been a figureof great symbolicsignificance.For a child whose motherhad no ritual husband
could notacquire membershipin his caste and lineage at all. The birthofa child beforehis mother's
tali-ritewas absolutelyforbiddenand, in the nature of the case, can scarcelyever have happened.
If it did occur, mother and child must certainlyhave been expelled and were most probably
killed. The child's observance of pollution for his mother's ritual husband-like the use of the
kinship term appan in Cochin-was a formal recognitionthat, for ritual purposes, he had been
'fathered'by a man of appropriate caste.
Turning to the sambandham union, it seems clear that the husband had no exclusive rights
in his wife. He had only, in common with other men, sexual privilegeswhich the wife might
withdraw at any time. Again it is the wife's rightswhich are important.The wife had the right
to giftsfromher husband at festivals,giftsof little economic value but of high prestigevalue, for
they established her as a woman well-favouredby men But most significantwas the woman's
rightto have her deliveryexpenses paid by one or more husbands of appropriate caste, that is,
to have it openly acknowledged that her child had as biological fathera man of required ritual
rank. Her matrilinealkinsmencould if necessarypress for the fulfilmentof this rightin a public
assemblyof the neighbourhood: in cases of doubtfulpaternityany man who had been currently
visitingthe woman could be forcedby the assembly to pay her deliveryexpenses. But if no man
of appropriate rank could be cited as potential father,woman and child were expelled fromtheir
lineage and caste.
The sambandham fatherhad no rightsin his wife's children. Here again, however, the child
had one rightin his possible biological fathers:that one or more of them should pay the expenses
associated with his birth, and thus entitle him to enter the world as a member of his lineage
and caste.
It is clear thereforethat although the elementaryfamilyof one father,one mother and their
children was not institutionalized as a legal, residential, or economic unit, and although
individual men had no significantrightsin their particular wives or children, the Nayars did
institutionalizethe concepts of marriage and of paternity,and gave ritual and legal recognition
to both. It is here that I must contradictDr Leach's interpretationof the situation,forit is not
true that 'the notion of fatherhoodis lacking' nor is it true that 'a woman's children, however
theymightbe begotten,were simplyrecruitsto the woman's matrilineage' (Leach I955, p. I83).
For unless his motherwas rituallymarriedby a man of appropriatecaste and, unless his biological
THE NAYARS AND THE DEFINITION OF MARRIAGE 3I
paternitywas vouched for by one or more men5 of appropriate caste, a child could never enter
his caste or lineage at all. As I pointed out in both the papers quoted by Dr Leach, the Nayars
were aware of the physiological functionof the male in procreation and attached significance
to it, forthey expected a child to look like his genitor.Like all the higherHindu castes of India,
they based their belief in the moral rightnessof the caste systemin part upon a racist ideology
which involved the inheritanceof physical,intellectual,and moral qualities by a child fromboth
of its natural parents, and which held that the higher castes were, by virtue of their heredity,
superiorto the lower castes. It was ostensiblyforthis reason that the Nayars forbade with horror
sexual contacts between a Nayar woman and a man of lower caste, and that they expelled or
put to death women guilty of such contacts. This racist ideology also provided a motive for
hypergamous unions, for Nayars of aristocraticlineages boasted of the superior qualities they
derived fromroyal and Brahmanical fatherhood.
Moreover, although individual men had no significantcustomaryrightsin their wives and
children, marriage and paternitywere probably significantfactorsin political integration.For
hypergamousunions bound togetherthe highersub-castesofthe political and religioushierarchies.
Multiple sexual ties,as well as the enangarrelationship,linked office-bearing lineages to each other
and to theirretainersin a complicated manner. And Nayar men phrased theirloyaltyto higher
ranking militaryleaders, rulers,and Brahmans in termsof a debt owed to benevolent paternal
figureswhose forebears had collectivelyfathered them and whose blood they were proud to
share. The generalized concept of fatherhoodthus commanded the Nayar soldier's allegiance
to his wider caste unit, to the rulers of his village, chiefdom,and kingdom and to his religious
authorities.It was associated with tender loyaltyand with fortitudein war.
I cannot entirelyblame Dr Leach for underestimatingthe significanceof Nayar paternity
on the basis of his reading of my earlier papers. For in those papers I was concerned to emphasize
the lack of rightsof individual men in theirspouses and children. It is true that in I952 I wrote:
'Marriage . . . was the slenderestof ties, while as a social concept fatherhoodscarcely existed'
(Gough I952, p. 73). I had not then realized the fundamental necessityto a Nayar of having
both a ritual and a biological fatherof appropriate caste. Moreover I myselfconfusedthe issue
by referringto the sambandham partnersas 'husbands' and 'wives' in my firstpaper (Gough I952)
and as 'lovers' and 'mistresses'in my second (Gough I 955a). For it was not until some time after
I read Dr Leach's paper that I decided to classifyNayar unions unequivocally as marriage and
arrived at a definitionof marriage which would include the Nayar case. In my own defence I
must, however, note that in my paper of I955 I mentioned that children must observe death
pollution fortheirmother'sritual husband, and that in Cochin they used the kinshipterm appan
for this ritual father.In both papers quoted by Dr Leach, finally,I noted that sexual relations
were forbiddenbetween a Nayar woman and a man of'lower caste or sub-caste, and that the
currentsambandham husbands of a woman must pay her deliveryexpenses.
I regard Nayar unions as a formof marriage for two reasons. One is that although plural
unions were customary,mating was not promiscuous. Sexual relations were forbiddenbetween
members of the same lineage on pain of death. It was also forbiddenfor two men of the same
property-groupwittinglyto have relations with one woman, or for two women of the same
property-groupto have relations with one man. (This rule of course automatically excluded
relations between a man and his biological daughter.) Further, relations were absolutely
prohibited between a Nayar woman and a man of lower sub-caste or caste. These prohibitions
are directlyconnected with my second and more important reason for regarding these unions
as marriage,namelythattheconceptoflegallyestablishedpaternitywasoffundamentalsignificance
in establishinga child as a member of his lineage and caste.
Granted that Nayar unions constituteda formof marriage,we must I thinkclassifythem as
a clear case of group-marriage.This was the interpretationto which I inclined in I952 (Gough
I952, p. 73) and it is, I now think,the only interpretationwhich makes sense of the descriptive
material I have presented.The tali-rite,as I see it, initiatedforeach individual Nayar girl a state
of marriage to a collectivityof men of appropriate caste. First, the rite ceremonially endowed
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the girl with sexual and procreativefunctions.(The mock menstrualseclusion beforethe rite is
relevantto this,as is the actual defloration.)Second, the woman's natal kinsmensurrenderedthe
newly acquired rights in her sexuality, though not in her procreative functions,to a male
representativefromoutside her lineage. This appears in that rules of etiquette associated with
incest prohibitionscame into forcefromthis date. Third, rightsin the woman's sexuality were
received by her enanganas representativeof the men of his sub-caste as a whole. This appears in
that the individual enangan,as a special sexual partner,was dismissedat the end of the ceremonies
and might approach the woman again only as one among a series of equal husbands. In the
commoner sub-castes the enanganwas of the same sub-caste as the woman, and throughhim as
representativesexual rightsin the woman were conferredon all men of her sub-caste as a collec-
tivity.They were also in fact extended to any man of highersub-castewho mightfavourher with
his attentions.In aristocraticlineagestheritualhusband was ofa sub-castehigherthan thewoman's,
and throughhim, as representative,sexual rightsin the woman were conferredupon all men ot
higher sub-caste as a collectivity.Fourth, the tdli-rite,by providing the woman with a ritual
husband who (in my view) symbolizedall the men of his sub-caste with whom the woman might
later have relationships,also provided her children with a ritual father who symbolized the
correctnessof theirpaternity.The children acknowledged theirdebt to him by mourningat his
death.
The later sambandhamunions, by this interpretation,involved the claiming of sexual
privilegesby men all of whom were potential husbands by virtue of theirmembershipin a sub-
caste. The husbands had, however, no individually exclusive rightsand could be dismissed at
the woman's wish. Their duties as members of their caste were to provide the woman and her
lineage with children and to acknowledge their potential biological paternity through birth-
paymentswhich legitimizedthe woman's child.
'The fieldworkon which thispaper is based was carriedout in threevillagesof Kerala betweenSeptember
I947 and July I949 withthe aid of a WilliamWyse StudentshipfromTrinityCollege, Cambridge.Writingit has
formedpart of a projectfinancedby the AmericanSocial Science Research Council.
2In AmericaMiss Alisa S. Lourie,Douglass College,RutgersUniversity, has recentlyworkedon thisproblem,
and I have been stimulatedby correspondence withher and by readingan unpublishedpaper of hers,Concepts in
FamilySociology.In thispaper Miss Lourie formulatesa definitionof marriagewhichis narrowerthan mine, but
when her workis publishedreaderswill see that I was helped towardmy definitionby her analysis.I have also
profitedmuch fromdiscussionswith my husband,David F. Aberle.
3A. To establishthe legal fatherofa woman'schildren.
B. To establishthe legal motherofa man's children.
C. To give the husbanda monopolyin thewife'ssexuality.
D. To give the wifea monopolyin the husband'ssexuality.
E. To give the husband partial or monopolisticrightsto the wife'sdomesticand otherlabour services.
F. To give thewifepartialor monopolisticrightsto the husband'slabour services.
G. To give thehusbandpartialor totalrightsoverpropertybelongingor potentiallyaccruingto thewife.
H. To give the wifepartialor total rightsover propertybelongingor potentiallyaccruingto the husband.
L To establisha joint fund of property-a partnership-forthe benefitof the childrenof the marriage.
J. To establisha sociallysignificant'relationshipof affinity'
betweenthe husband and his wife'sbrothers.
(Leach I955, p. I83.)
4Radcliffe-Brown expressedthisview mostrecentlyand fullyin his Introductionto African Systems
ofKinship
andMarriage(I 950, pp. 73 seq.).
5I do not knowwhetherthe Nayars believedit possiblefortwo or more men to contributeto the formation
ofone embryo.I thinkit possiblethattheydid, forI foundthisbeliefamongvillagersoftheTamil country.Among
thesecastesit formedpart of a beliefthatseveralacts of intercourseare necessaryto 'feed' the embryoand assist
it to grow.
6I agree with Dr Leach that the Iravas of CentralKerala had truefraternalpolyandry.My own enquiries
producedevidencesupportingAiyappan'sview that the brotherssharedequally both sexual rightsin the woman
and also legal paternityofthechildren,in thesame mannerin whichtheywereco-ownersoftheancestralproperty.
The eldestlivingbrotherat any given timewas simplythe legal representative of thiscorporation.
7I agreewithDr FischerthatPrincePeter'sdefinition ofmarriageis a tautologyand so ofno assistance(1956,
92). All that PrincePeter'ssecond note shows(I957, 35) is thatseveralpeoples ofhis acquaintancehave different
termsfordifferent kindsofrelationshipsbetweenmen and women.But unlesswe approachthesewithsomeguiding
conceptsofour ownin mind,we cannotdecidewhichofthemto translateas 'marriage'and whichas 'concubinage'.
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