Why are many often in a dilemma?

Too ambivalent to clearly choose between

the practical and idealistic that they cannot
object either approaches
Too bickering for petty benefits that they cannot afford to
object to beneficiaries of certain entitlements
Too caring about
being cocooned
in their personal
comforts that they
cannot advice
others to come
out of their
comfort zones.
Too discursive in debates that they
cannot find fault with others diverting
from context
Too easy going
to object to
expediency or
opportunism
that others seek
Too fond of
dabbling in too
many things with
a cursory interest
without serious
focused persistent
pursuit of any
particular thing
that they cannot
find fault with
superficiality of
others or get
intimidated by the
specialist
Too greedy
that they
cannot
deny
others'
aggression
to acquire
more
Too
hypocritical
that they
cannot
criticize
double
standards
of others
Too immune
to insults and
insinuations
they cannot
object to
others'
compromises
Too judgemental that they cannot avoid
being evaluated
Too kinky that they cannot find
fault with aberrations of any sort
in others
Too laid back in their attitude that they
cannot accuse others of not taking things
seriously
Too manipulative that
they cannot accuse
others of misusing
them
Too narcissistic that
they cannot accuse
others of selfishness
Too
overbearing that
they cannot
accuse others'
bossy behaviour
Too passionate
about certain
things to the
exclusion of other
things that they
cannot object to
others' strong
prejudices
Too
quixotic in
disposition
that they
cannot
question
others'
choices and
decisions
Too radical to
object to any
others' opinions
Too sensitive to object
to others taking
offence at certain
comments
Too thick
skinned to get
offended by
any comments
and hence
cannot accuse
others'
indifference
Too unforgiving that they cannot question others' intolerance
Too vainglorious that they cannot accuse others of vanity
Too xenophobic
to object to
ethnocentric
protectionism
in others
Too yearning for everything
that they cannot object to
unrealistic desires of others
Too zigzag in life's path
that they cannot
suggest any path to
others
Too wobbly is the whole
life with all actions,
emotions, recreations,
thoughts, ideas,
reasoning, rewards , rich
experiences and all
winding paths which
makes it clear that
'wisdom is always a
work in progress' and
hence, we need to accept
others for what they are worth
without trying to act wise or
attempting to give advices.