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Step 1: Observe Yourself: Take Small Steps
Step 1: Observe Yourself: Take Small Steps
Step 1: Observe Yourself: Take Small Steps
In order to change any behavior, you have to recognize that you’re doing it. So make a commitment
to observe your behavior and write down any time you find yourself micromanaging, overplanning,
being overly critical or overprotective. Observing yourself this way can be hard to do, so you can
also ask a trusted friend or family member to point out whenever they see you engaging in
controlling behaviors.
However, you don’t have to relinquish all control at once. Instead, start small. Hand off a single
aspect of a project to a colleague. Trust them to do a good job, but know that if they don’t, you
can always give feedback and correct the situation. As you see the benefits of collaboration in
action, your comfort zone expands. Delegating becomes easier, bit by bit.
Try to empathize
People with control issues may have underlying emotional issues. Understanding this can help you figure
out how to best address the person's need for control