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HLM 451 Critical Review Paper 2
HLM 451 Critical Review Paper 2
Chloe Birkholt
Creighton University
Health and Wellness coaches take on a large portion of forming their relationship with
each of their clients. The first thing every Health and Wellness coach must address with their
clients is that their conversations are confidential. HIPAA protects the privacy and security of
health information and must respect certain rights concerning individuals’ health information
(Moore et al., 2016). While most people feel this is implied when they seek out healthcare,
making sure to clarify and assure, both verbally and in writing, that you will uphold these rights
assures a trusting relationship. However, making sure they understand that if they say anything
that insinuates they will harm themselves, harm someone else, or are doing something illegal or
Trust, authenticity, and connection make up the foundation of any relationship and is the
first goal a Health and Wellness coach needs to establish with their clients. When a coach forms
this foundation, it creates a supportive environment and will foster a space for the client to
develop positive personal growth, discovery, and transformation. One of the key elements when
forming a relationship with clients is having mutual respect and acceptance; confidence and
reassurance; and the client feels safe to share fears without judgment (International Association
of Coaching, 2014, as cited in Moore et al., 2016). Not only does a coach need to facilitate a safe
space, but to pay attention to how they converse with their clients. Throughout each
conversation, it is crucial that coaches are honest, open, reliable, and competent, goes a long way
respectful intimacy between the coach and client. The type of intimacy that coaches try to gain
with their clients refers to a deeper level of understanding and knowing their client, and what
they want to change and why. The client will gain a new level of respect with their coach when
they develop a sense of concern or yearning to determine what or why these changes are
essential to them. Motivational questions will help improve the confidence a client has with a
coach. The client will see their coach reflecting on what they are saying and know the coach is
hearing what they are sharing. Open-ended questions also allow the client to feel a sense of
genuine curiosity from the coach that gives them the comfort of what they say matters. For
example, asking a client what parts of their life are the most important to them shows
compassion. However, there is a line of asking too many questions where the client feels as
Empathy, inspiring confidence, appearing competent and confident, own positive mental
health, and operating from the client’s value system are all characteristics that are important for a
Health and Wellness coach to display. Empathy is one of the most important characteristics a
Health and Wellness coach must possess, and it can be easier said than done. The PERMA
achievement) is a model that Health and Wellness coaches can use to guide their empathetic
emotions.
Barbara Fredrickson gave a list of the top ten positive emotions that also reinforce
empathetic emotions. Her list consisted of inspiration, appreciative inquiry, hope, pride, interest,
love, awe, amusement, joy, gratitude, and serenity. I wanted to highlight inspiration, appreciative
inquiry, hope, and pride. Inspiration comes from connecting health and well-being to allow the
client to find the higher purpose and life meaning for themselves. Inspiring someone happens
through words and actions and following through with what a coach preaches or saying they will
do for their client. Hope is creating a vision of a positive future and overall excitement for a
better life. When a client has hope, they are able to see a bit of light at the end of the tunnel and
are not as likely to get caught in a dark spiral that can consume any progress. Hope also fosters a
client’s pride that will uncover their strengths and talents so they and the coach can appreciate
them. Pride can be looked at as a bad attribute, but that is only when it overpowers their entire
personality. A person’s pride can help them see their real interests, ignite setting their own goals
that will engage them in their pursuit to reaching their full potential.
The coach’s job is to ensure their client sets high enough goals that stretch them but does
not produce anxiety that will encourage setbacks. Appreciative inquiry is an approach to nurture
a motivating change and amplifying well-being, and bringing out the best in a person or
situation. However, it does not focus on weaknesses or things they need to fix but instead
promote and acknowledge their strengths. As I mentioned previously, it can be a fallback for
some healthcare professionals to give a person the answers they think work for every person. As
a Health and Wellness coach, it is important to remember that our job is to help our clients
imagine all the possibilities so they can grow and progress to see success. Clients need to be part
of the process to help get them past the things holding them back.
Coaching Strategies for Defensive or Argumentative Clients
It can be tricky to recognize and help clients that tend to express defensive or
argumentative characteristics, but having the tools to defuse these behaviors will help gain
positive progress for both coach and client. It helps be mindful, empathetic, warm, give them
affirmation, calming, zest, playfulness, courage, and authenticity. Another way to remember
when dealing with negative emotions, clients are more likely to let go of the past, accept
themselves, and feel self-compassion if a Health and Wellness coach shows warmth, patience,
and empathy. It can decrease negativity when the coach is giving their client all of their
compassion and empathy. There are two types of emotional reactions that a coach should
remember to use when working with negative emotions. Low-road reactions occur automatically;
for example, when we hear a crash, our heart rate elevates. High-road reactions are when
appraising the situation and halting the further release of stress hormones (adrenaline or cortisol).
It is vital to watch your reactions and not react quickly to a problem or something that a client
says. Instead, it would be best if you looked at the event's context to ensure you are
distinguishing an event or if it is our interpretation of it. It can be easy to allow our own emotions
or experiences to cloud our judgment. The reactions that we display should be calm, and not how
others would react when they hear the same story. It is the job of a Health and Wellness Coach to
be a different and safe outlet for the client to vent and explain their story. Another aspect is to
watch the level of self-esteem in yourself and the client because too much can lead to adverse
expressing empathy and a critical tool for experiencing compassion. When a coach finds
communication; make observations, not evaluations, expressing feelings, not thoughts, identify
needs, not strategies, and make requests, not demands. I have been raised by, and currently
workaround, nurses and physicians, and their job is to give patients a list of what is wrong and
what they need to fix or heal the issue. I may have a hard time parting from my old habits of
assessing a situation and giving a solution. I now understand the importance of the client
assessing their own situation and developing the possibilities to help them find their answer. It is
also crucial to not tell clients how they should react and behave; everyone experiences and
handles situations on their own terms. The relationship between a Health and Wellness coach
and a client is extraordinary. If it is built on trust and rapport, then nurtured with mindful
listening, authenticity, empathy, and inspiration, they will find success no matter how long it
takes.
Reference
Moore, M., Jackson, E., & Tschannen-Moran, B. (2016). Coaching psychology manual. Wolters
Kluwer.