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Who is an Existential-
Humanistic Therapist?
Values, qualities, and skills embraced by an E-H therapist.
Posted Oct 23, 2018
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You’ve decided to talk to a therapist. You’ve learned more about the
Existential-Humanistic perspective through reading my blogs. You have
questions. What is an Existential-Humanistic therapist? What are the
specific values, qualities, and skills of this type of therapy? I will explore this
in my next few blogs. My hope is you will understand what you will be
undertaking if you choose to work with an E-H therapist. I recognize that
each client’s journey is unique to them as they discover and connect with
their authentic self. I appreciate that each individual E-H therapist will have
their own unique way of working.
The first set of core values that an E-H therapist embraces are:
1. Valuing the client for their inherent worth and dignity beyond their
undesirable or ineffective behaviors.
2. Believing even the most wounded client has the capacity and potential to
heal.
The first set of qualities and skills that the E-H therapist emphasizes are:
1. Hearing and observing the lived experience of the client with acceptance
and engaged curiosity.
3. Being in touch with their authentic self in relationship to their client and,
as appropriate, express that to their client.
4. Cultivating a highly developed sense of empathy that they express to the
client. This means being able to sensitively communicate their perception of
the client’s lived experience in a way that the client feels deeply heard and
understood. This facilitates the client to make new discoveries that can
range from helpful to life transforming.
These are a few of the values, qualities, and skills that are core to
Existential-Humanistic psychotherapy. I will explore the second set in my
next blog.
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Who Is an Existential-
Humanistic Therapist?
Part 2: Being in the present moment.
Posted Jan 22, 2019
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You’re interested in therapy. A friend mentioned the existential-humanistic
perspective. You are curious – what does that kind of therapy entail? What
is unique about Existential-Humanistic Therapy?
In this blog, I'll explore five more core values, qualities and skills of an
existential-humanistic (E-H) therapist. They are:
2) The E-H therapist believes their clients know themselves better than the
therapist can ever know them. The therapist’s task is not to give answers to
the client, but to provide the container for the client to discover their own
answers.
3) The E-H therapist is comfortable with ‘not knowing.’ They have the ability
to remain present and be patient with the client’s process until the mystery
of ‘not knowing’ transforms into increased clarity.
4) The E-H therapist is patient with silence until the therapist or client has
something relevant to say, thus drawing the client deeper into their
immediate experience.
5) The E-H therapist trusts that any awareness which emerges in the
present moment, within the client, the therapist, and between them, will lead
to the exact intervention that will best move the client’s process forward.
Stay tuned for my next blog, where I will explore the third set of values,
qualities, and skills of an existential-humanistic therapist.
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Who Is an Existential-
Humanistic Therapist?
Part 3: Cornerstones of the client-therapist relationship.
Posted Apr 23, 2019
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In my previous blogs, I explored the importance of being in the present
moment and how an Existential-Humanistic therapist embraces that. In this
blog, I will explore four qualities, attitudes, and skills that an Existential-
Humanistic (EH) therapist uses within the client-therapist relationship.
3. The EH therapist uses the relationship between the client and the
therapist as a powerful vehicle for directly exploring the client’s relationship
issues. By exploring the authentic client-therapist relationship, there is a
deeper awareness of how the client relates to others in their life.
Stay tuned for my final blog in this series. I will explore how an EH therapist
facilitates a client to find meaning and to self-actualize in order to live an
optimal life.
References
Buber, Martin (1996). I and Thou. Trans. Walter Kaufmann. New York, New York: Simon
and Schuster
Yalom, Irvin D. (1989). Love’s Executioner and Other Tales of Psychotherapy. New York,
New York: Basic Books.
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