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Table of Contents
Introduction 2

Allegations from the Destiny Video 5

Debunking VOD Deletion 8

Timeline 9
10/17 - 11/06 (pre-stream) 10
11/06 11
11/09 11
11/15 12
11/23 13
11/25 15
12/06 16
12/13 18
12/14-12/27 19
12/28 21
01/01 22
01/02 22
01/03 23
01/04 24
Revisiting the Destiny Video 26

My Best Understanding of Everyone Involved 32

Destiny 32
Boze 32
Melina 34
Peachachoo 35
Xintani 36
The Other Girls in Call 36

Final Reflection 36
Identifying Personal Problems 36
Last Words 37
Log Dump 38

In Conclusion 38
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Introduction
For those of you out of the loop, I’m Bob, the person who was attacked ​in this video​. In it,
Destiny seriously downplays both the extent of his involvement and the amount to which he’s
grasping at straws to make me out to be some completely despicable person.

Destiny has been searching for an opportunity to ruin my life for the past two months.

Destiny not only spread false allegations against me but did so intentionally in an
attempt to cancel me.

He claims that this is based on the conversation logs that he has access to, but I doubt he’s
actually looked at the majority of them: there are ~16k total messages in the described months
(November and December) with Melina (his fiancé) and Boze (his very close friend who he’s
having a fling with) alone as well as ~14k additional messages before those months between
Melina and I that can serve as relevant background. Had he looked at a fraction of these, he
would have realized that his attacks had no legitimate backing.

Note: All dates are expressed in the American format with months before days.
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I was too naive at the time, and I assumed that people were exaggerating about Destiny’s
tendencies until it was too late.
This clip describes exactly what went down:
MUST WATCH

Here is also an audio clip from my first direct conversation with Destiny. This was during a group
call where lies were being thrown at me. This was the first conversation I had ever recorded.
MUST LISTEN
In this audio clip he emphasizes his hate for me. He also talks about “all these girls stan the fuck
of you” and that he HATES it.

Here are two screenshots that, in retrospect, were obvious warning signs that I ignored:
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I can’t stress the effect this has had on my own personal health. On the health of my friends and
family. I’ve barely been able to eat or sleep trying to put this together, same can be said for
those that have helped me. We’ve put hundreds of man-hours into figuring everything out and
piecing it all together in the simplest manner possible. I've never seen my parents so worried
about me in my life.

Destiny wanted to prove that I spill his personal information so badly that he tried to
cancel me just so that he would be right.

I was genuinely trying to give friendly advice to Melina to help them resolve problems in their
relationship, and I frequently consulted with Boze on these matters. Boze and I talked a lot, and
it’s true that we made jokes in reference to the Destiny-Melina relationship. I didn’t think much of
it even though Melina expressed how scary Destiny was, and Boze explicitly warned me
multiple times what Destiny was doing behind the scenes. It’s pretty unnerving how he was able
to poison the well and completely change their opinions of me despite the overwhelming
evidence that exists to the contrary. While they are complicit in his scheme, I would like to
emphasize that it is Destiny who has been pulling the strings all along. He was constantly
pushing for this outcome in the background of calls, and he even sometimes made direct
contact with people to push the situation forward.

The last person almost completely convinced by Destiny is Peachachoo, but at least she’s been
approaching it reasonably. We haven’t talked too much, and based on the evidence available to
her, which includes flubbed interactions on my end while I was being defensive and she was
trying to mediate, it makes sense that she would have this impression of me. As for the rest of
the girls in “the call”, some know that it’s fabricated, while others are at least wary of the story.

There’s no way I could have figured out how to approach this on my own, and it’s only with the
support of my friends and family that I even managed to tell my side of the story. This document
was created with the help of a few people who essentially dropped their lives to organize this
overwhelming amount of evidence. Special thanks to those who reached out, and sorry to those
who I made worry because I didn’t reply: I wasn’t too sure who I could trust at the time, but your
thoughts mean a lot to me.

While condensing all of the information, there were three main things that my friends and I
focused on:
1. Highlight things that Destiny has done so that he can’t hand wave it away.
2. Clear my name of all false claims and add context to those that are true.
3. Keep as many people out of the situation as possible.

Unfortunately, there is one additional person who needs to be mentioned by name or else
everything would not make sense. This is Xintani. She didn’t want to be involved in this, and she
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was roped in because I was stupid and didn’t listen to her, which ended up in her receiving a
threat from Destiny. I will try to keep her mentions to a minimum, and I would really appreciate it
if the public respected her privacy as well as they could.

I know this is a lot, but bear with me. This is reality. I’m not asking you to accept anything at face
value, but please, at least entertain the possibility as you read through and process the material.
I am more than willing to provide additional evidence for any contested claims, but I think I’ve
included enough details for an initial release. I focused on addressing everything that was stated
in the initial video by Destiny as well as evidence that may have been alluded to.

Going through the last two months of my life openly with others pointed out a few issues that I
must work on myself. I will use this as a learning experience to improve myself. I haven’t been
taking the advice from my friends as seriously as I should have, and to put it lightly, this was a
wakeup call. I hope that everyone, especially my friends, holds me accountable to make these
changes.

To make everything easier to read, I will paste 1-2 important screenshots in the document, then
provide some additional context in folders. For instance, the second image came from the
Destiny Hates Me​ folder, which also has a conversation with Melina speaking towards his
hatred of me and is way different from the impression he tried to give on stream (that he didn’t
care).
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Allegations from the ​Destiny Video

If you are already caught up on the details, feel free to skip this section. The point of this section
is to get people up to speed on everything that has been stated thus far to attack me as a
person in the 30 minute hit piece. I want to show that I’m not deliberately avoiding anything.

A list of all of the claims that were implied, alluded to, or outright stated in Destiny’s video have
been organized. They have been split between character/behavior attacks, claims quickly
mentioned, and major pieces of evidence. Every point will eventually be addressed in other
sections, but it might take some time (see the length of the document) because some points
require a greater understanding of the overall situation.

For those completely out of the loop, ​Destiny ​is the person talking, and ​Melina ​is his fiancé
(they are in an open relationship). ​Boze ​(or Ericka) is Destiny’s close friend, and ​Peach ​(or
Peachachoo) is Destiny’s friend who often appears on stream. Boze (at 20:50) and Peach (at
25:17) both talk in the video for ~1 minute each. ​Bob​ is the person being accused (me).

A good, quick summary of the video, which was in a Reddit comment on LSF, is found below:

Bob7 has basically manipulated 10+ (?) girls into hating each other, getting close to him,
with nudes/super personal details shared between different people to create drama/hate.
He tried to get Boze and Melina to hate each other and possibly manipulate Melina to
leave Destiny or something. If you check his vods, Bob7 basically had a hand in talking
to all of Destiny's orbit of girls. He bamboozled them into thinking Destiny is super
fucking crazy.

Apparently, something was exposed that could potentially ruin Bob's life so it'll be
interesting if he tries to make a response.

edit: there was a discord call with all his "victims" sharing there [sic] stories of how he
twisted certain facts or lied. Destiny was able to figure the ruse because he had access
to Melina's and Boze's dms.

The more detailed attacks, claims, and supporting evidence contained in the Destiny video
regarding Bob, which will all be contested to some degree, are:

Character/Behavior Attacks on Bob

1. Loose lipped​: Bob spills information and engages in “hardcore dumping” of “really, really
deep secrets” from Destiny’s private life.
2. Meddling​: Bob is “fucking with [Destiny’s] life hardcore … trying to torpedo [his] personal
relationships”. Melina told Destiny that Bob “feels like he has a responsibility to warn
girls” that Destiny is “crazy”.
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3. “Fuckboy piece of shit”​: Bob gets close to people by talking shit about other people he
interacts with; uses “his pick-up artist tactics” on every girl he talks to.
4. Manipulative​: Bob lies and exaggerates stories, which causes people to hate each other.

Destiny’s Quickly Mentioned Claims

5. Misrepresenting Destiny-Melina Nudes Issue​: This is “one example of a dozen or so

stories that were dramatically warped in terms of perspective.” Bob tells Boze that
Destiny is “secretly recording” Destiny and Melina having sex, and “Destiny is sending
that to people.” Destiny’s full explanation is that it’s a short conflict in which Melina brings
up to Destiny that she wants him to let her know first if he’s sending the nudes to new
girls because “she wanted to be careful”, and he agrees, which easily resolves it.
6. Leaking Nudes​: Destiny mentions this in the “10 Girls Call” section, but it’s very different
from the other claims in the sense that it’s separate from the general narrative.
7. Existence of at least one “nuke”​: Destiny claims “there's some fucked up shit that people
in his personal life don't even know about that's really fucked” and threatens to release it
“if Bob7 decides to try to make some response video vindicating himself.”

Destiny’s Major Pieces of Evidence

8. First Boze Stream (11/06)​: Bob reveals Destiny’s personal information to Boze in a call
after the stream, which “puts up a huge wall” between Destiny and Boze.
9. Second Boze Stream (11/09) + VOD Deletion​: Bob streams with Boze, and he deletes
the VOD to give Melina the impression that it didn’t happen because behind the scenes,
Bob has been “playing some crazy games” where he is trying to do something along the
lines of convincing them that they hate and are shit talking each other and discouraging
Bob from streaming with the other one.
a. This is where the “Death Note” is mentioned. "It was a lynchpin, like once he did
that, it was everything else 100% followed in line" (where that is deleting the
VOD), and he refers to it as the “proof of everything, basically”.
b. ​“something along the lines of” is used to paraphrase Destiny because he
expresses uncertainty on the finer details, and it combines the two points where
this is referenced.
10. New York (Boze tells live)​: Bob calls Boze, and he tells her that Melina just called him
and really wants to go to New York, is “finally ready to leave Steven”, “wants to be with
him”, and he doesn’t know what to do because he “doesn’t want to be with her”. He is
asking her what to do, but this turns out to be a complete lie. When Melina explained it to
Boze and backed it up with logs, Boze realized that “[Melina] told Bob that she just
needed a break, and she wanted to go to New York for a week”.
11. ​“10 Girl Call” (Peachachoo corroborates live)​: Bob’s shit talking isn’t limited to the Boze
and Melina pairing. He does this to get on everyone’s good side in a “John Tucker”
situation, and he made sure not to talk bad about people they were already friends with:
“he had this web of people that he would shit talk, but none of [them] would actually
meet each other.” Peachachoo mentions that this happened to her where Bob portrayed
Boze as crazy.
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Debunking VOD Deletion

Breaking down this point does not refute the full narrative, but given that it’s one of the most
compelling pieces of evidence and is easily disprovable, I hope to update your beliefs, showing
that it’s more likely than you initially thought that Destiny either deluded himself with shoddy
evidence and/or is deliberately making up lies to strengthen his case.

"It was actually Bob7 deleting the VOD the next morning without telling Melina that made me
realize 'Ah, Bob7 is the one that's going fucking crazy.'" ​Timestamp to quote​.

The referenced Boze stream that he asserts I tried to hide from Melina took place on the night of
11/09, and this image speaks for itself:

He hypes up this point 2-3 separate times: once in the ​original telling​, once to ​Mr. Mouton​, and
once while ​responding to a question in chat​, and each time, he emphasizes the importance of
this moment.
● "It was a lynchpin, like once he did that, it was everything else 100% followed in line"

I’m pretty lucky that this is the central piece of evidence of the story, and there’s a very easy
way to disprove it. With most of the other claims, I have to either prove a negative or provide
enough context so that I explain the nature of the interactions along with my intentions. Given
that my credibility was in doubt, this would have been a near impossible task, but now, I can lay
out my explanation of events given that there’s some doubt in terms of how true Destiny’s story
is.
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I’ll revisit this point later in the timeline, but also remember that Destiny claims he had access to
the logs and “​has read all the logs between everybody​”. He also makes no references to the
content of the VOD: it’s the deletion that’s important. Don’t let him weasel out of this point.

Timeline
Important background information:

Here are some important background details for those unfamiliar with Destiny:
● Destiny is engaged to Melina.
● Destiny and Melina have been in different countries for a long time due to coronavirus.
● Destiny meets Boze in early October before Melina comes home (returning 11/11).
● Boze and Destiny start to have an intimate relationship.

Here are some important background details for those unfamiliar with me (Bob):
● I’ve been friends with Melina for around 7 months prior to these events.
● Xintani is a friend that I had many falling outs with.

For this timeline, I will provide necessary context leading up to each date as well as the
subsequent actions that take place in between events. The important dates in the timeline are
as follows:
● 10/17-11/06: Melina began venting to me about her relationship. It became more
concerning over time.
● 11/06: My first stream with Boze. This is when I first talk to her about Destiny.
● 11/09: My second stream with Boze. This is the VOD deletion story.
● 11/15: A call with Melina and another person, trying to resolve trust issues between
Melina and Bob due to the past 1.5 weeks.
● 11/23: A group call (before and after dinner) with Eris, Melina, and Boze, in which Melina
references things from the 11/15 conversation and raises tensions.
● 11/25: Destiny commentates on the Poki/Fed drama, I try to resolve things with Destiny,
and Destiny reaches out to Xintani to question her.
● 12/06: Destiny threatens Xintani.
● 12/13: After talking to both Melina and Boze, I suggest Boze talk to Destiny to resolve
the problems I gave her with him..
● 12/14-12/27: Boze cuts off most contact with me while Melina continues on as normal.
● 12/28: Boze sends a huge amount of messages after barely talking for weeks, warning
me about the nasty incoming situation, but I don’t understand it.
● 01/02: Boze and Melina talk with each other, and Boze decides she doesn’t want to
speak with me anymore. I try to figure things out with Peachachoo, and in this
conversation, I upset Boze and lost Peach’s trust. I have a long text conversation with
Melina where she is very mad.
● 01/03: I called Melina to try to figure out what happened with no success. Boze rounded
up friends of mine and told them HUGE lies about me. I got ambushed in a group call
after this being accused of many lies.
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● 01/04: Destiny goes public with the allegations.

10/17 - 11/06 (pre-stream)

Short Summary: Melina started venting, it became more concerning over time. She unloaded a
lot of bad shit right before the stream with Boze.
Folder of Melina Venting Highlights​ and ​Folder of Their Relationship​ with more context
Important Takeaways:
● Boze had been intimate and hanging out with Destiny for a month prior to Melina coming
home (Boze starts getting involved in early October, and Melina returns home 11/11).
● Melina started to vent about their relationship problems. Based on our first interactions I
defended Destiny not knowing the extent of the problems.
● Melina and Destiny get into a bad fight. “I’m breaking up.” I was asked by Destiny to
moderate this fight, I did not do so. Melina then started to open up more about their
relationship and it became more concerning.
● Melina’s venting became even more concerning directly before the stream with Boze.
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11/06
Short Summary: The first stream with Boze happened. We talked a bunch afterwards about
Destiny and Melina.
This is not organized into a folder. Refer to the log dump for context: they are labeled by date.
Important Takeaways:
● Boze was being lied to, Destiny also hid his behavior from her.
● I told Boze basically EVERYTHING I knew.
● Boze called Destiny mad at him after.
● Melina became upset with me that I told Boze about Destiny’s behavior.
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11/09
Short Summary: I did a drunk stream with Boze. I try to resolve the problems of Melina thinking
I’m crazy due to Destiny afterwards.
Folder of Secret Stream Allegation
Important Takeaways:
● I did a drunk stream with Boze, I deleted the VOD because it was too edgy.
● I typed to Melina while drunk moments before passing out.
● I told Melina about the stream when directly asked about it in the morning.
● This was the moment Destiny said in his video he “knew” I was crazy. Since I deleted the
VOD.
● I deleted five streams this month. Deleting VODS is pretty common for me. I was doing
drunk streams and I didn’t want the cringe to still exist.
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11/15
Short Summary: Melina felt bad still, we had a third person mediate for our conversation. We
ended up going in a direction to try to build Melina’s trust back in people.
There are no additional logs provided that add context to this. They do exist but include private
details, and I tried to keep those to a minimum.
Important Takeaways:
● Melina and I had a third person mediate our disagreement.
● It was made VERY clear the specific contents of this call were to never leave this call.
● The first half of the conversation together was pretty rough but then the second half took
a much different direction.
● I called up Melina one on one later that night to try to resolve our issues again.
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11/23
Short Summary: Had a call with Boze, Melina, and Eris, created by joining a conversation
originally with Boze alone with Melina (and Eris was in person with her).
This is not organized into a folder. Refer to the log dump for context: they are labeled by date.
Important Takeaways:
● Melina said many things to try to make it awkward between Boze and I.
● Melina referenced something from the conversation from 11/15 that she knew she had
no business bringing up.
● When I asked Eris “What do you know about me?” she responded with “You’re the villain
that is manipulating everyone.” It was concerning that was the way I was being portrayed
by Destiny to her.

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11/25
Short Summary: Destiny talks on stream about his love for manipulation. He digs for info about
me. I reach out to try to resolve, no response.
Destiny openly talking about how exciting manipulation would be on stream.
Folder of November 25th
Important Takeaways:
● Destiny while going over the Poki/Fed drama talked about how EXCITING it would be for
him to take someone down.
● Destiny messages Xintani asking for information about me. Xintani is someone I’ve
made it clear to Melina I’ve had an unfortunate past with.
● I reach out to Destiny to try to talk to him to make sure he’s not looking to go after me.
● I message Melina the day after also trying to talk to Destiny and making it clear that I just
want to make sure he does not see me as a threat.
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12/06
Short Summary: Xintani Reaches out to me that she is being threatened by Destiny.
Folder of Xintani being threatened.
Important Takeaways:
● Xintani reaches out to Destiny requesting that he remove a post from his subreddit that
is about her.
● Xintani is upset that he says no, she gets sassy.
● Destiny responds by threatening her with an old video of her that she does NOT want on
the internet.
● The conversation starts to escalate pretty aggressively, Xintani references potentially
getting a lawyer. Destiny clearly doesn’t care.
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12/13
Short Summary: After talking to both Melina and Boze, I suggest Boze talk to Destiny to resolve
the problems I gave her with him.
Folder of December 13-27th
Important Takeaways:
● Melina messaged Boze directly asking about me. Melina asked Boze not to tell me that
they had talked.
● Melina warned me “Don’t trust Boze and also don’t tell her that I told you this.”
● I told Boze what Melina said because I believe “If you give me a problem with my friend,
I’m going to resolve it with them.”
● When I told Boze about this, she responded by telling me about her conversation with
Melina.
● Based on the same idea of “If you give me a problem with my friend, I’m going to resolve
it with them.” I told Boze that she should talk to Destiny, since she still wanted to be
friends with him and I had clearly given her reasons to have an issue with him.
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12/14-12/27
Short Summary: Boze had the call with Destiny. Boze and I basically stopped talking.
Folder of December 13-27th
Important Takeaways:
● Boze had the call I suggested with Destiny.
● Communication drastically dropped with Boze.
● We went from having daily calls to literally zero calls during this period.
● On the 19th I asked if it was related to the conversation she had with Destiny. I also
asked if the two of us were okay. Boze reassured me that everything was fine.
● My message on the 19th was the ONLY discussion of Destiny or Melina during this time
frame.
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12/28
Short Summary: Boze finally revealed that her conversation with Destiny was “spicy.” This
whole conversation is unreal. Boze came to me with so many thoughts that clearly were coming
from Destiny. Boze also EXPLICITLY WARNED ME about the events to come.
Folder of December 28th
Important Takeaways:
● Boze reached out asking what I had heard from the conversation between Destiny and
her on the 12/13. I had not heard anything.
● Boze questions a ton about me and my friendship with her.
● Boze worries that our friendship was never real and I was using her as a pawn to taunt
Destiny.
● Boze gave me an honest run down of exactly what she thinks is happening.
● Boze explicitly warns me that Destiny has a plan to cancel me in the works.
● Boze implies that she has to go along with it and that she can’t protect me.
● I didn’t understand anything that was happening at the time. I was super confused, this
was our first time talking in two weeks.
● Boze even said in the conversation “You can talk about anything we say here”
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01/01
Short Summary: I vented to Peach about my conversation with Boze.
This is not organized into a folder. Refer to the log dump for context: they are labeled by date.
Important Takeaways:
● Being very confused about the conversation, I thought I could talk to Peach about it
since she was friends with everyone involved.
● This was the first time I spoke negatively about Boze to literally anyone.
● I sent Peach the logs of what Boze said about Melina since I was very confused how she
had come to the conclusion that Melina was manipulative. I had always argued that
Melina was a victim.
● Peach ended up asking permission to talk to Melina about what we talked about and I
said “sure, you can talking about anything idc”
● I unfortunately made the mistake of not just showing Peach the whole log.
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01/02
Short Summary: Boze and Melina meet. I get a message from Boze saying she doesn’t want to
be friends. I called up Peach after getting the message from Boze. Later that night Melina and I
have a wild conversation where she’s pissed at me at like 4 am.
Folder of Final talk with Melina Highlights
Folder of last logs with Boze
Folder of full conversation with Melina
Important Takeaways:
● Boze and Melina meet and speak for hours. I was discussed at great length.
● Boze showed Melina every single mean message I’ve ever said about her.
● Boze got the impression I was trying to paint her as crazy since I had told Peach about
our conversation on the 28th.
● I typed with Melina at around 4am (01/03). Melina started fucking with me not revealing
that she was mad and kept asking questions to see how truthful I would be with her. I did
my best to be honest in this conversation, I was under attack and even being gaslit.
● Melina refers more than once to my true goal being in a “game” with Destiny.
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01/03
Short Summary: I had a call with Melina to try to understand what happened. The “Cancel Bob”
plan went into action.
All of the evidence of this I would like to keep private to respect the other girls who were unjustly
brought into this.
Important Takeaways:
● Boze started reaching out to my friends on twitch and started asking “I heard Bob has
been talking shit about me, if you hear anything out of character please let me clarify it.”
This was not the case. I had only mentioned it to Peach. Then Peach later told Melina. I
was not out to get Boze.
● Boze proceeded to tell these friends unreal lies about me, while throwing in some
half-truths of things I said to her in private.
● A group was then created by Boze to continue this effort. Eight members total. (The only
three that currently have a problem with me before sharing this information publicly are
Boze, Melina and Peach.)
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● Boze and Melina proceed to manipulate, lie, and pressure these girls to go along with
this narrative about me.
● The lies told by Boze were quite bad ones. They are very easy to disprove.
● Boze told these girls at this point specifically “DO NOT TALK TO BOB, HE WILL
MANIPULATE YOU.” So at this point, lies were being told and I didn’t even have the
chance to defend myself.
● They went through great efforts to try to make sure I had no clue what I was being
accused of.
● I can’t stress how fucked up it is what was being done to these girls. One friend literally
broke down to me crying talking about how pressured she was to go along with their
narrative even though she didn't think it was true. Boze even "joked" to this girl "If you go
along with this, we will all host you." This same girl couldn’t stop crying talking about the
guilt of feeling that she betrayed me as a friend for them being able to get her to believe
in the lies. Boze and Melina at no point showed any empathy for what was being done to
the other girls involved.
● That night I had a group conversation with Boze, Melina, Peachachoo and one person
that would like to remain private. I even got to have my first conversation with Destiny
himself for about 30 minutes.
● The lies and contradictions in their story can be heard just by listening to this call, it
becomes even more obvious with logs to show how bad the lies were. I was incredibly
honest throughout that conversation, Boze and Melina told lie after lie.
● The other girls outside of Melina, Boze, and Peach made it clear they were
uncomfortable with anything going public.

01/04
Short Summary: Destiny went live with false allegations about me.
Video for Reference
Important Takeaways:
● Destiny made allegations against me on stream. Not only were they false but he also
knew they were false. This was a clear attempt to cancel me.
● The internet believed him because they have no evidence not to.
● I got fired from my job.
● People stopped speaking to me.
● This put great strain on my body both physically and mentally.
● With the help of an insane support group we started to work on going back, getting
screenshots to show the world the reality of what happened.
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Revisiting the Destiny Video

CLAIM: Destiny doesn’t care about me
This is true insofar as he only cares about himself. Me openly talking about his awful behaviour
with people that he was intimate with stopped him from getting what he wants. Giving genuine
advice to the people around him was so problematic for him that he went out of his way to try to
destroy me. Notice how often he tries to act like this is something he doesn’t care about
throughout the video. Melina, Boze, and Peach all considered disengaging with him to an extent
due to the reality of his behavior being exposed to them. I was a direct threat to him
manipulating these girls.
Folder of Destiny hates me
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CLAIM: “Melina wants to leave you for Bob”

Boze went on stream and dishonestly framed a story that I told her, twisting my words to make
me sound insane. In reality I asked Melina “Well, what are you going to do if the problems keep
happening?” and she replied with “I don’t think I’m strong enough to do it alone, I’ve always had
someone else to move on with.” Melina never said it explicitly but it felt like she wanted me to be
that person. She asked me over 10 times about visiting me and also has told me that she loves
me. Melina was usually pretty careful with her DMs and opened up a LOT more over discord
calls knowing that she had more privacy from her partner.
Folder of Boze Allegation on Stream

CLAIM: Spilling personal information

This is just true, but only to Boze. 95% of this is me openly talking about Destiny's problematic
behavior, I do believe this is justified. There's 5% that was oversharing details that Boze did not
need to know about them. There was one DEEPLY personal story that Melina told me about
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Destiny that she had no business doing. I made the mistake of asking a VERY leading question
to Boze to gauge if she knew about it. Luckily she did, but it was fucked up for me to bring it up
at all, especially after I thought it was fucked that Melina told me. I opened up to Boze more
than anyone since breaking up, I put an insane amount of trust in her.

Here’s every log I could find of us talking about them.

Folder of me and Boze discussing their relationship

CLAIM: Talking shit

Destiny always loves to describe talking about problematic behavior as talking shit. Yes I told
Boze about the shitty things he does, Destiny is a person that is worth warning about.
Boze and I joked a bunch about the two of them the first day, some are for sure meanspirited
but some are even nice towards Destiny. Outside of this I really didn't shit talk Melina. I never
spoke badly about Boze to literally anyone, this was a person I thought VERY highly of. There
was a point after 11/23 where I was pissed at Melina and there are some MEAN logs during this
time. Again not only did I say these mean things to Melina herself, I also said it to Melina on
stream. I literally made an effort to ADDRESS the problems I had with Melina.
Outside of that, the other accusations of shit talking were things that not only I've said to the
person who is the target of the joke directly, but I've also said it on stream to them. I address my
personal thoughts on this concept at the end of this document.
Folder of “Telling the girls they hate each other”
Folder of Mean to Melina
Folder of Me expressing my problems with Melina

CLAIM: Lying/Exaggerating stories

Refer to the log dump to understand the nature of my relationship with Boze.
I don't think I've ever lied to Boze. I've tried my best not to exaggerate stories which may cause
misunderstandings. The only thing I can be accused of lying about is there were points where I
avoided telling Melina how close Boze and I were. I never lied to Melina about Boze, if she
asked, I would tell her. I do think avoiding a topic can be dishonest even if you don't lie. My
reason for doing this was knowing that Boze and Destiny spending so much time together was
stressful for Melina, I did not want that to continue to be a problem with me spending so much
time with her. There were points where I communicated very well with Melina, but there were of
course points where it could have been improved.
Destiny even intentionally presented a story wrong in this video about Melina and him making
sex videos together. I told Boze “Destiny has been sending sex videos that him and Melina
made together to other girls without asking Melina for permission, and she’s very upset about it.”
Destiny falsely presented this and brushed off the fact that this was a big problem that Melina
had with him “oh we talked about it and resolved it.” It could be the case the Boze lied to him
here, but either way he underplayed and ignored his own actions that made Melina upset.
Melina complained about this over a call.

CLAIM: Bob deleted the vod to hide it from Melina.

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First off can we just acknowledge how insane it is to try to hide a stream from someone? This
stream had an average 1,200 concurrent viewers. There’s also literally just clips from this
stream STILL ON MY CHANNEL. Who the fuck would think they could hide something like
that?? Destiny claiming that this was the moment HE KNEW one of Boze and I were crazy is
laughable. Especially given how easy it is to disprove his framing of it. I believe he used this as
an excuse to start to discredit me to both Melina and Boze. He also just OPENLY ADMITS TO
MANIPULATING THESE GIRLS after this moment. Destiny starts referencing Death Note like
he's a cool anime protagonist. Melina was literally just willing to allow him to influence our
interactions, I'm also convinced now there were points where Destiny was literally just typing to
me himself from Melina’s account. He also started to place doubt in Boze about me after this.
Folder of Secret Stream Allegations

CLAIM: Deliberately messing with Destiny to "warn" girls about him

Boze was literally the only person I told about Destiny without Melina talking to them first about
her relationship. This was due to them having an intimate relationship and it being clear that
Boze was being lied to. The only reason I ended up talking to Peach about it was Melina venting
about her relationship in a call with the three of us, then the flood gates were open. Prior to this I
had a 7 hour stream with Peach and even a 5 hour conversation off stream with her where I did
not talk negatively about Destiny or Melina once despite Peach having an intimate relationship
with Destiny. I was not going after Destiny. Every other girl that was pulled into this can speak to
the fact that I have NEVER spoken about Destiny or Melina to them. Also he mentioned that I
was reaching out to the girls in his life. This is how I first got in touch with them.
Folder of the girls messaging me first

CLAIM: Bob was manipulating Melina and Boze

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I never manipulated either girl, if you read the logs it becomes very clear that I was genuine with
both of them. I even pushed for more communication for everyone involved. Destiny was never
interested in more communication. The idea that I pressed on "If you give me a problem with my
friend, I am going to resolve it with them" is literally the worst manipulative tool of all time

CLAIM: Keeping all the girls separated

This one is actually laughable. He even sorta contradicts it in his video when he refers to me
LITERALLY being in a call with Boze and Melina at the same time. If you remember from the
logs, a common theme was me pushing for more communication when they had problems. I
always love hanging out as a group. In regards to the other girls everyone can speak to the fact
that I'm always trying to get people to hangout together. From when I met Boze I literally have
had over 17 calls with multiple girls just looking back at my discord conversation history. I even
went out of my way to introduce these girls to each other so that we could all be friends.
Not going to provide more logs as direct evidence of this in order to respect the privacy of
friends. You can refer to the overall logs to see me encouraging communication.

CLAIM: "10 Girls all talking about how Bob sucks"

Outside of Boze, Melina, and Peach there were five other girls in the call (Xintani was brought
into the group after the call), two of whom were very unrelated to all of this. None of these girls
have a problem with me outside of the lies of that Boze was telling them. As you heard Destiny
say in the audio clip himself "All these girls Stan Bob." I'll leave it up to the girls involved if they
want to address any of this publicly. It fucking sucks that they were brought into this and were
told lies about me. They all didn't even want this to go public. Not only am I not a pervert but I'd
like to think I'm a good friend!

CLAIM: If Bob defends himself Destiny going NUCLEAR on me

This was mostly just scare tactics hoping I wouldn't come forward. From what I can tell, there
are a total of three possible stories that sound “nuclear”. Two of those come from pure
speculation based on an uncharitable reading of stories in my DMs with Melina, and there’s
actually nothing there. The last one is a time that I regret, but if that’s all there is, Destiny’s
overhyping it. The story goes like this:
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Xintani and I were friends leading up to twitchcon. One night at the event we hung out with
some of my old hearthstone friends. We were drinking heavily that night in the lobby of my
friend’s hotel. We ended up heading back to his room. I ended up in bed with Xintani and one of
my friends. I ended up passing out while they were still sitting up in the bed chatting. I woke up
to her getting out of bed, saying that she wanted to leave and I walked her to the door and said
goodbye. She later told me that the reason she left was that I was cuddling her and she was
uncomfortable. My friend who I slept the rest of the night with always joked on his stream “Bob
cuddled the shit out of me and kept grabbing my leg throughout the night.” before he had even
heard about Xintani feeling uncomfortable. Although it was accidental, I fully acknowledge how
uncomfortable the situation was for Xintani. It’s worth noting that I was in a long term
relationship at the time. Xintani could not have known what my intentions were cuddling and
made a responsible decision as a friend to me to just remove herself from the situation. I told my
girlfriend at the time about what happened, and although she wasn’t upset she made it clear to
me why I put Xintani in such an uncomfortable position. It was a lesson learned not to put
myself in a situation like that again. Xintani is fully valid in feeling uncomfortable here, I
apologize for that.

This is the reality of the story that Destiny wanted out of her, and he threatened her to get it.
This story bolsters the other false claims that were made, and it was made to seem like a
pattern of behavior as opposed to a time where I was oblivious to the situation. Outside of this
they have a story about my ex girlfriend that I told to Melina. The story is about me thinking I
made the first move and was surprised it worked. Meanwhile my ex always reassured me that
she made the first move. This is a person that I dated for 4 1/2 years; we are still on good terms.
I've never made her uncomfortable physically. There's also a story that I think that can just be
read wrong about me sleeping with a girl, didn't clarify in the logs that us sleeping together
happened months after a night where I flirted with her. These were two private stories I told to
Melina, who I thought was my close friend. Someone that I trusted. Now these stories were
being twisted to be used against me. Very fucked up. I know this due to communicating with one
of the girls that was in the group. I've never been physically aggressive with a girl in my life. The
other girls invovled were being told there was a "Sexual Assault/Rape Story" that Destiny had
over me. I literally haven't even been alone in a room with a girl outside of my ex girlfriend for
the last 5 years of my life. There's just no one that even has the potential to have a story. Pretty
weak threat there Destiny.

If they post any logs of me I just ask that they provide the full context to them like I did. I’m
capable of making bad jokes, I have no problems owning anything I typed publicly.

CLAIM: "He Leaked a Nude":

This was one of the many lies being told by Boze. I have literally never shared a private nude in
my life. This just didn't happen. I’ve shown a lot of evidence to the girl in question. She knew
Boze was lying about facts based on her literally just being in conversations with us in the past.
I will leave it up to her what she would like to say publicly.

CLAIM: Other Private Allegations

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I have proof for all the lies Boze told to the girls, I will show it to those girls in private as to
respect their privacy.

My Best Understanding of Everyone Involved

Destiny
It became clear that Destiny was highly manipulative and emotionally abusive. It was very
problematic for him that I talked about this with Melina, Boze, and eventually Peachachoo.
Three of his closest friends. These are three people that all considered disengaging with him to
an extent because of me talking about his behaviour. Destiny HATED me for this. I was in the
way of him manipulating these girls. He intentionally put doubt into both Melina and Boze about
me to the point where I think he actually got them to believe I was trying to taunt him and didn't
care about my friends. He has a lot to hide and he puts effort into hiding it. He wanted Melina to
feel guilty whenever she would vent or even stand up for herself. Melina was SCARED to talk to
him. When she brought up valid complaints, Destiny constantly replied that he was being
attacked. When I tried to help Melina stand up for herself, Melina said Destiny's response would
start to be "Was this Bob's idea." Again invalidating her abuse and making her feel guilty for
having valid concerns. Destiny openly talked about how exciting taking someone down would
be, it is clear this was his intention. The fact that Destiny not only spread false allegations, but
did so intentionally is unforgivable. No one should interact with Destiny until he gets serious
help. He is a very dangerous person for anyone to interact with. He has no empathy for the
people's lives that have been completely fucked up in this process of trying to take me down.
His willingness to threaten and lie is something no one in his life should be okay with him doing.
Destiny literally only cares about himself.

Some of you are probably wondering

"How the fuck could Destiny think he could away with this"
Here are my theories:
● He didn't understand how close Boze and I were.
● He thought I would be too dumb to respond well, I was dumb throughout many points in
this process. (I would not have been able to do any of this alone)
● Destiny made a ton of threats to try to silence me to not come out with the truth. Some of
this behavior is even shown on stream. ​Minx clip
● Destiny thought he could just lie more and try to come out on top.

Boze
Meeting Boze I felt like we clicked right away. She's incredibly funny and entertaining. After
expressing that I had been writing comedy, she offered that she would want to take me out to
comedy shows in LA. We hung out online more than anyone that I've ever met from twitch. I had
such a high impression of her. Over time it became clear that Destiny was putting thoughts in
her head about me. She even admitted these concerns, that what Destiny said to her about me
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was placing doubt. One of the big ones was that Boze was a tool for me to taunt Destiny and
that I didn't actually care about her. There were some topics that we had major differences on.
Boze constantly talked about the importance of protecting yourself at all costs and I would
always push back on that. There was a situation where Melina told me "Don't trust Boze and
don't tell her I told you this." I hated this, it helped me come to the conclusion that "If you gave
me a problem with my friend, I'm going to resolve it with them." That growth in communication
skills made me urge Boze to talk to Destiny for the same reason. I gave Boze reason to have a
problem with Destiny, a person she still wanted to be friends with. So I encouraged Boze to go
resolve her issues but even warned her to be careful of being manipulated. This led to a two
week period of time where we basically stopped talking, we had no calls throughout this period
after us talking daily over discord. When I asked if this was related to the conversation a couple
days after she reassured me that everything was okay. I was pretty hurt by this at the time. It felt
like she wasn’t showing me the same respect of resolving problems with the person themselves.
After this two week period Boze was honest with me soon before all of them were planning to
meet up in Georgia. I truly did not understand what the fuck was happening at the time. Boze
gave me a full rundown of exactly her thoughts on everything. She literally warned me
EXPLICITLY that Destiny had a plan in the works and that she felt like she had to go along with
it. She had so many opinions on everything that were clearly inspired by Destiny. Boze still
cared about me at this point and was showing me a kindness of trying to warn me despite
admitting that she was about to go along with it. Very confusing. This is where the spiral into
chaos of Boze hating me and having no remorse started. After the confusion of this
conversation, I vented to Peach. A person who every member involved was venting to at the
time. She was the group therapist, trying to figure out the truth. I explained to Peach that I didn't
understand how Boze came to me thinking that Melina was manipulative (she was right,
woops), since she had never voiced this before and did so after only having communication with
Destiny for the past two weeks. She said a lot of things that Melina would not want her to see.
This was the first time I had talked about Boze negatively at all to another person because
again, I was fucking lost. Peach was pretty shocked at what I showed her, I gave her the logs
regarding Melina. I wish I gave her the whole conversation instead of a snippet. I think the two
of us could have figured out what was happening if I did so. Because of my mistake there, it
ended up giving Peach the idea I was trying to paint Boze as crazy and hateful. Peach asked
permission the next day to share what we talked about with Melina and I said "You can talk
about anything, idc." Melina after that was convinced that Boze hated her. The next day Melina
and Boze met in person. From talking to Melina, Boze got the impression that I had betrayed
her. She had just tried to be good to me and warn me about events to come, and she thought I
was throwing her under the bus by painting her as crazy to Melina and Peach. Boze was
incredibly hurt and now fully believed all the lies Destiny had told about me. Boze, being scared
that I was this highly manipulative person, went along with Destiny's plan which previously she
seemed torn about. Boze then proceeded to round up the girls from twitch I'm friends with and
ask "I heard Bob was shit talking to people about me, if you hear anything out of character
please ask me." This was not reality. I had only expressed this to Peach and she told Melina. I
was NOT out to get Boze. She then proceeded to say some insane lies with some half-truths
thrown in to get the girls to go along with this narrative that I was an awful person. Let me be
clear. The lies are insanely bad ones. I have overwhelming evidence to prove that to be the
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case. I would like to show it only to the people affected as to respect their privacy. They've
already been hurt enough by this all going down. I can't express how hurt I was that Boze was
lying about me like this. The willingness to ruin my life. All my friends on twitch. I lost my job
from it. Let me remind you that this is a person that I put INCREDIBLE trust into, a person I had
feelings for. I'd like to believe she did this because she was fully convinced that I was the person
looking to destroy her due to Destiny's manipulation. It took DAYS of going through the logs for
me and the ones helping me to try to understand the motivation for Boze's actions throughout
this process.

It was not easy to try to understand all the motivations for Boze’s actions. At one point we
considered the fact that Destiny might have something over her. We considered that she might
be doing this purely out of love for Destiny. This is because Melina soon before Georgia told me
that Boze admitted to being in love with Destiny the last time they had met in person. It was also
worth considering maybe she’s just an insanely shitty person.

I also think it's pretty obvious that she's not kidding when she talks about protecting herself at all
costs. It seemed like she was playing both sides and the actions were what she considered self
preservation. Maybe it's wanting to see good in people but I think the most charitable option is
the truth here.

Boze, I cared a lot about you. I know you felt incredibly hurt when you became convinced that I
was this person Destiny was trying to sell you on. I am not that person. Boze you are a person
that clearly values protecting herself. I beg you to apologize and come forward about the truth. If
you double down and launch more lies it's going to look VERY BAD. This is a plea for your own
sake Boze. I will have to defend myself and show that they are lies. I am too hurt by your ability
to lie about me to ever consider having a friendship moving forward. That is something that will
continue to make me sad. I do however want to give you an opportunity to speak the truth. I
think you were highly manipulated and you were working with imperfect information. I would
also like you to apologize to the girls personally that you lied to and admit specifically what you
lied about. They didn't deserve any of this. I hope you understand how shitty all of this was for
them. Boze, I have a lot of empathy for what you've gone through despite everything you've
done to me. Please take this as an opportunity to tell the truth and grow.

Melina
I put a ton of effort into providing emotional support for Melina. She clearly was not getting it in
her relationship. Throughout the entire time of her venting about Destiny, I was mostly
convinced that she was purely a victim. I tried to help her to the point of self destruction. This
was a mistake. Part of my inability to disengage with Melina was the thought "If I don't help her,
I'll feel bad. If I do help her, I will feel bad from the chaos that ensues. Might as well go with the
option with an upside." Savior complex is a problem. I would constantly advocate seeking
professional help. I need to establish a point where I must disengage if the person isn't willing to
seek professional help. It is actively harmful towards the other person and even myself if I
continue to try to help. I do believe Melina cared about me, however at this point I'm convinced
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she liked me BECAUSE of the person Destiny described me to be, unlike Boze. Melina was
very hurt that I broke her trust telling Boze about everything that first day. I thought Boze
deserved to be warned about Destiny's behaviour considering they were intimate with each
other. This caused a rift in my friendship with Melina. It ended up getting to a point where I was
in a call with both Boze and Melina and I was fully convinced that Melina was saying things to
intentionally try to fuck with my friendship with Boze. This made me very upset with Melina.
When I confronted her on a specific thing, she said "I didn't do that" at which point I was livid.
This is what Melina does over and over again whenever she is confronted with doing something
wrong. "I didn't do that" "Oh I don't remember that" Melina was someone who told me over and
over again that she loved me. I did not feel this way about her. I tried to be clear that was
something I did not want out of her, although I think I did accidentally lead her on. I did care
about her though.
Destiny even talked about on stream that he was controlling Melina's actions towards me. I don't
know how much of my interactions with Melina were even genuine or just Destiny's will. Melina
DID however actually open up over discord calls, since all of our dms were read by Destiny, she
was careful for the most part. She literally warned me just like Boze did and said "Steven told
me he wants to cancel you." I literally laughed it off and didn't take it seriously because I didn't
think there was any angle he could take, considering I'm pretty content with all my actions being
public. Even now I don't think my confidence was misplaced knowing that his cancel attempt
would fail. I just can't believe Destiny was such a fucking moron to even go for this. Melina also
went along with Boze and Destiny's lies. Boze went off to me the one night she tried to warn me
that she's convinced from talking to Destiny that Melina knows exactly who Destiny is, and that
she loves it. At this point I am entirely convinced by that. Melina was an unbelievable shitty
friend to me. Looking through the logs it’s unreal how many red flags I ignored. I hope there's a
universe where Melina tells the truth after this comes out. I never plan to speak or interact with
her ever again. She was VERY complicit in Destiny's manipulation.
If you want to show you cared about me Melina I'd love to see a public apology for all the awful
shit you put, not only me, but others through. Unlike Destiny you were supposed to be my close
friend. I put effort into you.

Peachachoo
Peachachoo I'm pretty sure is almost entirely a victim in all this. I should note that I think she
was willfully ignorant and unbelievably charitable to her friends. But I think there was a shit ton
of motivated reasoning going on because all of her friendships stem from Destiny's community.
She desperately wanted to believe that her friends were telling the truth and that showed. I still
actually have a high opinion of Peach. She played the role of the group therapist. I thought she
was the perfect solution as a person for Melina to vent to since she was a friend with all the
involved members. With her as a person for Melina to talk to I thought I could remove myself
from that burden, hoping that Peach could help her when I failed in my efforts. All my
interactions with Peach outside this drama have been good ones. Peach is another person that
got sold on Destiny's idea that I'm this awful person. Out of all my communication with the
members involved, my communication with Peach was by far the worst. Peach had to handle
me trying to defend myself when I was under attack. There was multiple miscommunications
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that happened that made it easy for her to buy into this thought about me. One detail I was
confident in, I remembered wrong. I actually, unprompted, checked the logs right after our call to
see if I was right and I wasn't. When I corrected myself she thought I was backtracking. It was
all very unfortunate. If I was able to communicate better to Peach while under attack I think it
would have been very clear to her what was happening. I have a ton of empathy for her.
Peachachoo at NO point lied or went along with things she knew were lies. She was literally just
used as a pawn against me knowing that she had a ton of loyalty to her friends. Very confident
Peach will acknowledge the reality of all this when this is released. I do not believe she is
capable of going along with things she knows are lies. I do wish she pushed against Destiny
going public considering she knew how uncomfortable the other girls involved were with this.
That is the one thing she is guilty of. Please understand that Peach’s close friends manipulated
and lied to her. This will hurt Peach greatly to find this out.
Sorry for communicating poorly under pressure Peach. I was very emotional at the time, I think
you'll understand why now.

Xintani
Xintani was threatened by Destiny. I believe she was used to validate lies about me. Don't really
want to speak too much about her here. She was literally threatened. She said she didn't even
want to be involved and that she just wanted to focus on her music, I do believe that. I'm sorry
that she got pulled into any of this. She WARNED ME EXPLICITLY "BOB YOU NEED TO NOT
TALK TO THESE PEOPLE IT WILL END BADLY." I ignored her and now look where we are.
Her privacy has been entirely fucked due to Destiny, it felt impossible to leave her out of this
since it was important to demonstrate that Destiny was willing to threaten people. I will message
her privately and try to resolve any negative feelings from this.

The Other Girls in Call

I have already reached out to some of you, but I will reach out to all of you again privately. I will
show you proof of literally any lie told to you. I'm sorry you were put through all of this. I put an
IMMENSE amount of effort to put this all together as to protect the privacy of you all. It would
have been very easy to debunk all those claims made but in doing so you are pushed further
into a public drama you have no business being in.

Thank you to the ones that reached out and were scared for my well being throughout these
weeks, it means a lot. I don't fault any of you for believing the lies being told about me.
I will leave it entirely up to you guys what you want to say publicly. I'd like to think there was a
reason you all thought very highly of me before all these lies were told to you.
Thanks for being my friend.
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Final Reflection

Identifying Personal Problems

Savior Complex
Part of my inability to disengage with Melina was the thought "If I don't help her I'll feel bad. If I
do help her I will feel bad from the chaos that ensues. Might as well go with the option with an
upside." Savior complex is a problem. I would constantly advocate seeking professional help.
I need to establish a point where I must disengage if the person isn't willing to seek professional
help. It is actively harmful towards the other person and even myself if I continue to try to help.

Shit Talking
Part of me justifying the shit talking was the excuse of "I said it to the person's face and also on
stream, I'm not going behind their back." This is problematic. Talking to the person directly or
even on stream I do not think is a problem. The problem is when I'm joking to another person,
it's easy for someone to get the impression I'm trying to put down the person that is the target of
the joke. When I talk about these problems directly with the person, I joke about it but I also dive
deep into my true thoughts and genuine advice. I often use humor to cope with uncomfortable
thoughts and ideas. I can engage in this in a more responsible way. I also recognize that I tend
to use emotionally charged language, such as “malicious”, when describing a situation in which I
feel hurt, and I will try to watch out for this in the future.
Also worth noting to Destiny: IT IS NOT SHIT TALKING TO SPEAK OPENLY ABOUT
HARMFUL BEHAVIOR.

This next part will be unclear why I’m saying this but I believe it’s important to acknowledge
publicly.

I try to interact with no boundaries. It is clear though there are some areas where I have a hard
time being honest with myself. Especially coming out of a relationship recently, I've been very
uncomfortable with the thought of having feelings for someone. I also extremely lacked
confidence that the other person could feel the same way. I clearly had feelings for Boze, I wish
I did a better job to communicate that with her. I did entertain the idea of being interested in
more than one girl, although I did not admit feelings for any of them. I was very unsure what I
wanted or thought made sense. This led to others also being unsure how I viewed them. To be
clear, none of these friendships were romantic.

With the way I interact, I put high effort into the people that want to talk to me. This isn't only
with girls. Many guys can speak to the level of effort I put into conversation when people reach
out. Even Lycan from Destiny's community can speak to this fact. This obviously isn't a problem
when it comes to interacting with guys because it doesn't need to be clarified that I'm not looking
for more (I’m public about being straight). This is more of a problem with talking to girls. When I
communicate effortfully it can lead to the other person getting the impression that I'm interested.
After reflecting, I believe that there is at least one girl who could have felt that I was leading
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them on. I need to work on my communication to make it very clear what I'm looking to get out
of the relationship or else someone will get hurt.
I'm sorry to the girls I hurt in these ways, I really do care about everyone involved.

Last Words
I will send a private apology to all the girls affected by these problems.

Despite having a lot of reason to be vengeful and vindictive with the level of lies told about me, I
will use this as an opportunity to grow.

Quick meme​ (imagine posting this thinking that it wasn't true)

I wish it didn’t come down to this but here we go:

Log Dump
FULL LOG DUMP: 250+ individual screenshots
ALL THE LOGS USED TO GIVE CONTEXT TO THE SITUATION

Here is the backup zip folder on ​Drive​ and on ​Dropbox​ if anything goes down. There is an
HTML version of the doc that links to the images in the zip folder instead of on the Google Drive.
Quick guide:
1. Download zip folder.
2. Right click the zip folder + select “Extract All”.
3. Go into the extracted folder.
4. Open the offlinedoc.html in Google Chrome, and everything should work.

Nothing was edited. All the logs are backed up. You can hover the edit it button and it tells you
the day it was edited. If there’s any important logs that need to be clarified, I am happy to do so.

Note: Boze and I spoke a TON, this is still a fraction of our conversation together. These were
just the logs relevant to the drama.
(I don’t think it was important to include us talking about what we are having for dinner etc.)

In Conclusion
Don’t let Destiny walk away from this by downplaying what he’s done or shifting the
blame onto someone else.​ Hold him accountable for what he’s done, and make sure that he’s
not in a position to do something like this again. I honestly don’t know what this looks like, but I
defer to you: his community, his friends, and members of the public at large, to come to your
conclusions about what this entails.
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I sincerely hope that Destiny takes great lengths to reflect on his behavior and makes
appropriate changes, but this can only be done if he first recognizes the severity of what he’s
done. After forming his opinion on me because I spilled his information to a mutual friend, he
kept trying to paint me as an evil manipulator to Melina and Boze for two months, and although
they resisted, he was eventually able to succeed due to his ability to persuade others. Once he
got them on board, he tried to ruin my private, public, and professional lives all in one fell
swoop: he went after my friends (blackmailing one of them), attacked my public image, and got
me fired from my job. ​Destiny wanted to cancel me, and he didn’t care about the lack of
evidence.

It’s important to not focus too much on Boze and Melina despite everything that happened. It’s
clear who is leading the charge. Listen again to the ​audio clip​. Everything stems from Destiny.

My final message will be for Destiny. He said feel free to link this to him if he ever needed it, so
here you go​. Maybe next time you ask the public to hold you accountable, you don’t downplay
how negatively you affect the other person in your relationships.