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Attractiveness 

is highly subjective. You'll know that you're attractive by looking at your


good qualities. Even being physically attractive often doesn't have as much to do with your
external features as you think it does. ... A kind smile and relaxed, open body
language can make you more physically attractive to others.

1. Accept that beauty is more than skin deep. ...


2. Understand that you are unique in your looks. ...
3. Accept that not everyone will think you are attractive. ...
4. Know that the thing that makes you quirky makes you beautiful.
Basically, you will get to know this as,Everyone is into something different and someone
(multiple people!) will definitely be into you.

1. You often get compliments.

This is a pretty basic one, but if people often tell you how great you are, how good you look,
and how interesting you are, you’re doing pretty well in life!

People are keen to let you know how attractive you are because they want you to know, and
want to make you feel good. Some are probably trying to flirt with you.

2. You rarely get compliments.

Yep – the complete opposite! Sometimes, attractive people just don’t get many
compliments.

3.People enjoy spending time with you and want to hang out.

If people are drawn to you and want to spend time with you regularly, you’re attractive.

There’s something about you that draws people in and makes them want to be around you.
It could be your looks, your sense of humor, or your energy – whatever it is, if people want
to be around you because of it, you’re definitely attractive!

Again, everyone is attractive in their own way, so even if you can’t see it yourself, the people
that seek you out and want to spend time with you see it and believe it.

Try to believe this and realize that people do want to be around you, however hard it might
feel at first!

If you’re struggling with your body image or how you look, it’s worth talking to a
professional. Sometimes, we need someone objective to help us work through our thoughts
and find the cause for the ‘beliefs’ and narratives we tell ourselves.

Maybe you were rejected by someone years ago and now instantly assume that nobody will
ever find you attractive again.
Maybe you assume that the person talking to you is only doing it to get closer to your
friend, and therefore push them away from actually hitting on you because they feel
like you’re rejecting them by ignoring them!

It might sound strange, but so many of our ingrained behaviors that come from years of
feeling unattractive can almost cause us to make ourselves come across as unattractive,
standoffish, or rude.

It’s not your fault at all, but it is something to bear in mind! Speaking to someone who
specializes in helping people with low self-confidence and self-esteem can work wonders,
and will help you realize just how incredible and special you are.

And remember, your worth isn’t determined by how other people see you, and your
relationship status shouldn’t affect how you feel about yourself on a large or long-term
scale!

Some of the most attractive people in the world have been single at some point in their
lives – just Google your celebrity crush and you’ll quickly realize that they’ve been single,
they’ve been turned down by people they fancy, and they’ve been dumped at some point!

How we look and how many other people fancy us isn’t the be all and end all, so remember
to value yourself for who you are, not just who finds you attractive.

You are pretty anyway! Everyone has its own dignified beauty from within,try finding out.
Once you are in love with yourself,you will be the happiest and satisfied person all around

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