Tante Attie has acted as Sophie's caregiver and guardian since she was born. They have a very close relationship where they care deeply for each other. Tante Attie treats Sophie like her own child and goes out of her way to ensure Sophie is happy, even working extra hours to buy her gifts before her move to New York. Their bond is evident through their interactions and how much they mean to each other.
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Tante Attie has acted as Sophie's caregiver and guardian since she was born. They have a very close relationship where they care deeply for each other. Tante Attie treats Sophie like her own child and goes out of her way to ensure Sophie is happy, even working extra hours to buy her gifts before her move to New York. Their bond is evident through their interactions and how much they mean to each other.
Tante Attie has acted as Sophie's caregiver and guardian since she was born. They have a very close relationship where they care deeply for each other. Tante Attie treats Sophie like her own child and goes out of her way to ensure Sophie is happy, even working extra hours to buy her gifts before her move to New York. Their bond is evident through their interactions and how much they mean to each other.
Tante Attie has acted as Sophie's caregiver and guardian since she was born. They have a very close relationship where they care deeply for each other. Tante Attie treats Sophie like her own child and goes out of her way to ensure Sophie is happy, even working extra hours to buy her gifts before her move to New York. Their bond is evident through their interactions and how much they mean to each other.
Discuss with the use of examples the relationship between Tante
Attie and Sophie. Tante Attie is Sophie’s maternal aunt and her first guardian. Tante Attie and Sophie have a good relationship. Tante Attie has been Sophie’s caregiver since birth. She treats Sophie as her child. We can tell that Sophie appreciates Tante Attie when she makes the Mother’s day card for her. Even when Aunt Tattie refused to accept the card, Sophie insisted that she made it for her aunt and not her mother. We can also tell that Tante Attie cares about Sophie when she worked extra hours to purchase gifts for Sophie to carry with her to New York and how she did not want Sophie to know that she had to be separated from her aunt. She did not have to do that for Sophie but she still did and that shows how far she would go to make Sophie happy. Sophie and Tante Attie are very close. Sophie is a caring niece and this is obvious when Sophie offers to teach Tante Attie how to read. We can tell that they are very close because Tante explained to Sophie why she did not want to start reading now and that Sophie should appreciate the opportunity she received. Tante Attie was embarrassed that she could not read but she still explained to Sophie the importance of education. We can tell that Tante Attie loves Sophie when she did not want to let her go at the airport. She did not want her niece whom she had looked after for twelve years to leave her but she still allowed Sophie the opportunity to reunite with her mother. She could have been selfish and kept Sophie away from her mother but she knew that the child needed to form a bond with her real mother. We can also tell that Sophie and Tante Attie are very close when Tante Attie stood beside Sophie and cried watching the Augustines getting ready for bed. If she was not close to Sophie she would have never allowed her to see her doing something like that. She also trusted Sophie enough to keep the encounter as a secret. 2. Describe the Caco women (Sophie, Tante Attie, Grandma Ife). Sophie Caco is the youngest of the Caco women. She leaves for New York from Haiti at the young age of twelve. Sophie is a very loyal and obedient child in the first part of the novel. We see as she matures throughout the novel. When she arrives in New York, we get to see Sophie is a responsible child who is overcome with the responsibility of taking care of her mother who constantly has nightmares. Sophie is a loyal daughter who takes care of her mother for most of her teenage life. Sophie is also a determined young woman. We can see this when she uses the pestle, breaking her hymen to stop her mother from testing her. She then leaves home in pain to be with Joseph, her soon to be husband. Sophie matures into a more caring but traumatized version of her childhood self. Sophie is somewhat similar to her mother, Martine Caco. Tante Attie Caco is responsible for taking care of Sophie as a child and then her mother afterward. She is a spinster and has never gotten the opportunity to settle down with a man and build a family. She loves Donald Augustine who is married and does not seem to truly love her. She is constantly faced with the loss of the people closest to her. Tante Attie is also a selfless person who looks after others and forgets about her true happiness. In the novel we see Tante Attie change from a responsible adult to a carefree person. She constantly endures loss but we can see that the loss and what she has never had brings her sadness even though she covers it all with her carefree attitude and her reckless habits. Ife Caco is the head of the Caco family. Ifé Caco lives in the village of La Nouvelle Dame Marie, Haiti, until Sophie leaves for New York and Atie comes to Dame Marie to take care of her. She is a wise, candid, practical, and astute old woman who seems to have expertise in human behaviour and knows many parables yet she is just like all the other women of the village, accepting its customs and order. Grandmè Ifé is responsible for the tremendous pain and heartache being caused to her granddaughter and her daughters. However, even though Ife Caco refuses to change the social order, she is intensely loyal to her children, loving them against all of the world's pain so that a granddaughter or great-granddaughter can see her way out from under the burden.
3. Describe the relationship between Tante Attie and Monsieur
Augustine. What implication(s) does this relationship have for Tante Attie? Tante Attie is in love with Monsieur Augustine. This love is one sided. Monsieur Augustine somewhat cares about Tante Attie. We can tell this because he watched Sophie for Tante Attie while she was away working at night. Aunt Tattie trusts him with Sophie and she confides in him. However, he is not as trustworthy as he seems. He tells his wife about Sophie’s trip to New York and she corners Aunt Attie and questions her in front of all the women. He constantly plays with her feelings. He is very special to Tante Attie. He gives Tante Attie a kettle with a love letter even though he knew she would not be able to read it. Tante Attie cherishes the kettle bur she does not know the story behind him gifting it to her. Monsieur Augustine and Tante Attie are ex-lovers. Monsieur left Aunt Tattie for another woman but Tante Attie has never gotten over him. Though once in love with Atie, he married another woman and that is a betrayal from which Atie has never recovered. Tante Attie does not deserve a cruel man like him. There is no hope for them to have a relationship and if they did, Monsieur Augustine would leave her again for another woman. He would pretend to love her and Tante Attie would be faced with more heartache. Monsieur Augustine does not want Tante Attie. He likes knowing that she has feelings for him and probably laughs at her with his wife. He would most likely betray her again and Tante Attie would have to endure the pain of the loss again.
4. . What does the title 'Breath, Eyes, Memory' mean?
The title Breath, Eyes, Memory suggests that memory, or recalling the past, is just as essential to life and identity as breathing or seeing. When Sophie considers the importance of Haitian culture and tradition in her life, she says, "I come from a place where breath, eyes, and memory are one." When Sophie says this, she thinks about Haiti, its customs, and how they have impacted her life. Sophie’s recollection of her childhood and moving to New York and enduring the stress of her mother’s problems has shaped her into the individual she now is. She is a caring mother who refuses to allow her daughter to endure the pain and heartache of Haitian tradition. Her mother’s testing has ruined part of her life and she does not want her daughter to go through the same generational discomfort that has caused pain to all the women in her family. Sophie's past is an eye-opener to her and she now knows that forgiveness is important. The past is what shapes some people. It is sometimes so painful to relive it but it is necessary to move on. The novel describes the importance of memory in Sophie's healing and reconciliation with her mother. Her sexual phobia is a result of her mother’s testing. Her mother endured the same discomfort and, sadly, she did not make a change to the social order. Martine, herself has a painful past. A past that keeps her up at night, twisting and turning. A past that should've encouraged her to change the social order of Haitian traditions. However, she does not and Sophie ends up taking the stand to stop this practice of ‘testing’ young girls. She lets go of all the hurt her mother has caused her and she fights to move on. Breath, Eyes, Memory is a story of fighting to forgive her mother and forgetting the pain that she has endured and is still enduring.
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