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God & Good Wife by DrLightupChikere & Paul Nwokoro
God & Good Wife by DrLightupChikere & Paul Nwokoro
God & Good Wife by DrLightupChikere & Paul Nwokoro
Theme
God & Good Wife (1 Peter
3:7)
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IMPACT COALITION
Minister’s Couple Fellowship
Themed: God & Good Wife (1 Peter 3:7)
Host
Apostle DrLightupChikere
(Bishop, Lightup Fellowship Church)
Guest
Pastor Paul Nwokoro
(President, The Reformed Generation)
Friday
February 26, 2021
4pm – 7pm
Prompt
WhatsApp Group
Opening Prayer
By Ekwu Emmanuel
(Lay Apostle)
Father, we bless you for such a great day to learn and grow. We trust
your word that will hit us this evening. Therefore, rain down your
wisdom and insight to deep things we should know.
May we see as we ought – new vistas, new hope, and new dreams!
Lord, don't challenge us alone. Change us to become who we should
be in you! May the eyes of our minds be enlightened today! Shift us
to a whole new level.
Amen.
Welcome Address
By Host
Thank you!
Introduction
By Host
IMPACT COALITION
What we are doing here today is our first online Couple's Fellowship.
Some years ago, we had Pastor Samuel Olabenjo, and it was a wow!
I am sure today will be a great improvement.
Pastor Paul is born again, filled with the Holy Spirit, studied Physics
Electronics in the prestigious Federal university of Owerri, has a
PDG in Education, and is married to a lovely lady named Violet.
God &
Good Wife
By
Appreciation
Greetings to all the men and women of God in the house!
It is a privilege to be here.
I know there are senior men in ministry here. Permit me to serve you
today!
Let's us pray:
Thank you Lord for this great opportunity to learn at your feet,
please bless us and heal our homes today by your power in Jesus
name!
Amen
I had to learn the hard way that no matter how early or late, your
wife joined the ministry, she and God will always be there through
the rigors and prerequisite of success till death do you path. Others
will come, some will stay, and many will go.
Sit back and journey with us, as we delve into the topic: GOD AND
A GOOD WIFE.
QUESTION
I will like to start proper with a question. If you're married, please
answer!
I think I know why some persons are not answering. Should I tell
you? I will, but it will be more fun if we respond to questions.
EQUAL CAPACITY
It will be very difficult to say or agree your wife is BAD. If not for
any reason, for the fact she was created by God. No woman created
by God should be called BAD!
Come to think of it, the adult human body has a total of 206 bones. If
a woman who was formed with one out of the bones in a man, is said
to be bad, that simple means, men can be 206 times worse!
Take a critically look at the life of Saul and his translation to Paul;
we will discover that he made exploits both as Saul and also as Paul,
though for different masters.
It doesn't matter what you must have seen her display, with the
understanding that there are great potentials laying fallow in her, you
will patiently dig through prayers, love, corrections, tolerance and
value, until you harness and access her very best.
Every woman's hero is that man who invested more in making her
who she is. Permit me at this point to define marriage as a bond
between two lovers, with the sole aim of bringing out the very best
from each other. This is a fundamental path of our success story.
UNDERSTANDING THE
PLACE OF GOD AND WIFE.
To appreciate the place of God and a wife in our journey to greatness,
we must of necessity define success. What is success? It is the
accomplishment of an aim or objective.
You cannot succeed to the point where you no longer need the help
of God and the support of a wife.
Elkanah made himself the reality of Hannah was praying for, what a
husband?
There are men who love their spouse only when things are
alright. Those kinds of men will always enjoy their wives
ones in a while.
There are other kinds of men who will love their wives when
the unexpected happens. This category of men will always
enjoy their wives at even and odd times.
My prayer today is that God will raise men like Elkanah, who will
go the extra mike in loving their wives more, at difficult times.
Especially when she makes those mistakes that is condemnable by
everyone on the street!
It was easy for Hannah to tell God, "give me a child, and I will give
back to you." If you were Hannah, why won't you say so, when
you had the joy, love and company of ten sons in one man!
This is how we love the kingdom God. The love we have for our
spouse covers multitude of sins.
Romans 5:20
Moreover the law entered, that the offence might
abound. But where sin abounded, grace did much
more abound:
John 3:16
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only
begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him
should not perish, but have everlasting life.
Personal Encounter
I cannot forget that very day when my wife got me so offended that I
had to walk out of the house to ask the Holy Spirit what to do. This
is what he said: Buy her a special meal!
If you cannot manage one wife, how will you manage members of a
church from different backgrounds and orientations?
Women will always learn from what we do, not what we say. Action
they say, speaks louder than words.
So, does Pastor Paul sometimes have issues with his wife? The
answer is a capital YES! There is no perfect home anywhere,
offences surely will come in one way or the other, and how we
handle these offences is the best definition of which we really are, a
kingdom citizen or an infidel.
Conclusion
I have written so much; it is time for evaluations and questioning.
Feel free to react to the above slides or ask any question bothering
you! Aside being a pastor, I am also a classroom teacher. I know
the value of feedback.
Appreciation
By Host
Hallelujah!
Awesome!
Great!
Tremendous!
God &
Good Wife
By
Apostle DrLightupChikere
About
Apostle DrLightupChikere
DrLightupChikere is the Bishop of Lightup Fellowship Church – a
commission of God mandated to 1) Establish and improve
fellowship, 2) Establish and improve the fruits of fellowship, and 3)
To be the pillar and ground of truth.
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We must realize that there's a similarity between your wife and God.
The theme of this fellowship and everything we have been saying
since is to emphasize it: Your wife or spouse and your God have
similarities.
Meditate on that!
Here are four important things to note about God and good wife.
One
Two
Marriage is a mystery.
Three
Genesis 18:19
[19]For I know him, that he will command his
children and his household after him, and they shall
keep the way of the LORD, to do justice and
judgment; that the LORD may bring upon Abraham
that which he hath spoken of him.
Many people say Jesus wasn't married, can I shock you? Jesus was
married! He was married to the Church, His Bride. The Church in
the eyes of Christ is not many people. It is a woman. Everything
Christ does and will continue to do is for this woman.
Some-body there?
Pastor Paul is our main guest today and he has said so much. You
need to really read the things he said. They are "weightier" matters.
Four
For many years the Holy Spirit has been considered as a female
agenda.
When you find a wife, you find a good thing and obtain favor
from God. When you receive the Holy Spirit, you have
received a "good thing" and He causes you to find favor from
God.
Conclusion
Let me follow Pastor Paul's path to stop without saying too much.
You owe it to yourself to think about the things we have said.
Let the Holy Spirit teach you... don't only teach yourself.
PRAYER SESSION
Leading
Apostle DrLightupChikere
THANKSGIVING PRAYER
If you've enjoyed yourself, then bless God where ever you are now!
In the bus, house, church or where ever... go ahead to bless God!
Somebody praise...
Thank God for loving so much enough to consider you His bride and
even marry you...
Thank HIM...
Thank Him for guest, Pastor Paul, His Wife and Kids, and his
ministry...
Thank God for our Host, Apostle DrLightupChikere, his wife, kids,
and ministries...
PRAYER OF MERCY
Ask God for mercy...
PRAYER OF COMMITMENT
Commit your marriage into the hand of God tonight...
Paul said HE is able to hold it. Commit your marriage into God's
hand...
Praying for your spouse is different from praying for your marriage.
Pray for your marriage tonight...
Pray!
PRAYER OF AUTHORITY
Come against the spirit of divorce...
Come against that emotion that is always rising when you see
ladies...
Pray please...
Pray that marriage will not destroy your life and ministry...
Pray that marriage will not be a strong weight that will weigh you
down...
Pray that the fake person you have married be turned for good...
It is an aberration...
Pray that God will give unmarried ministers their own spouses....
Pray...
It is hot here...
We are praying....
Your spouse isn't supposed to just be a helper, they are to be the help
you need...
Pray...
Abraham was called Father of Many Nations, Sarah was also called
Mother of many nations by God...
Pray for God to bring your spouse into the covenant He has with
you..
Pray...
Dr Yonggi Cho said he has a day of fasting ad praying for his wife...
A man at that level is still praying for his spouse, who are we not to?
Pray for the wisdom and strength to pray for your spouse...
We didn't plan to pray like this, but God has called for it...
Pray...
If you have had a vision or revelation, you can share here while we
pray. God is doing something. If Archbishop Benson Idahosa's wife
didn't continue his ministry, what would it have been today? Pray
your spouse will carry on the ministry if God takes you before him
or her...
Prophet Urbert Angel said his prayer for many years was: Father,
show my wife the ministry you showed me.
Somebody your wife or spouse needs to see why you are committed
to that ministry...
Pray...
The Bible says Elizabeth and Zachariah were both righteous before
God ...
I tell you, if your spouse supports you in ministry, you will go far...
Pray...
Pray...
Pray that your root from polygamous, poor, or divorced family will
not affect your marriage...
Pray...
See what Pastor Paul said about Elkanah. If he didn't permit his wife,
what would have been her story? Imagine if your wife is life Joyce
Meyer, to shine more than you, would you allow her?
Pray for the grace to mentor the expression of your wife or spouse's
gift...
Pray...
The world says you don't know what you have until you lose it...
Pray that you will not lose your spouse to know you love them...
GENERAL APPRECIATION,
ANNOUNCEMENT, AND
CLOSING
(Host)
Do well to let us know how this meeting blessed you as soon as you
can? Also, help us send Pastor Paul a private chat to appreciate him.
If you have questions, drop them here. We'd reply you from now till
tomorrow.
Thanks again!
This is 7pm.
Thanks again!
Our guest was Pastor Paul Nwokoro from The Reformed Generation
(TREG). Myself your host is Apostle DrLightupChikere of Lightup
Fellowship Church. This platform is IMPACT COALITION. A
fellowship of men and women of God.
Stay with us until the kingdoms of this world become the kingdom of
Christ.
Blessings!
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