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Grandparenting and Adolescent Well-Being: Evidence From The UK and Israel
Grandparenting and Adolescent Well-Being: Evidence From The UK and Israel
To cite this article: Shalhevet Attar-Schwartz & Ann Buchanan (2018): Grandparenting and
adolescent well-being: evidence from the UK and Israel, Contemporary Social Science, DOI:
10.1080/21582041.2018.1465200
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Introduction
In recent decades, we have been witnessing several sociodemographic trends that have
made the role of grandparents more significant in adolescents’ lives. Among these
trends are increased life expectancy, changing family structure and higher rates of
divorce and remarriage among parents (see Attar-Schwartz & Buchanan, 2017). Most
research on adolescent family relationships, however, still focuses on adolescents’ relation-
ships with parents and the informal role of grandparents in adolescents’ lives remains
poorly studied (see Attar-Schwartz, 2015). This article reviews the findings of two large-
scale studies of adolescents’ relationships with their grandparents in the UK and in
Israel. The Israeli study replicated the UK study, expanding the investigation of some of
the major themes uncovered in the British study, mainly the role of socio-cultural
context in such a bond. Among the issues investigated were the contribution of the
parent–grandparent relationship to adolescent well-being in times of adversity, including
parental divorce; the intergenerational relationship context of the adolescent–grandpar-
ent bond; the role of culture in such bond and grandfathering and its contribution to ado-
lescent well-being. These studies shed light on the possible positive role of grandparent
involvement and call for further research on this role and its contribution especially in
times of transition and distress.
only of the grandparent the adolescents reported feeling emotionally closest to (referred
to as the closest grandparent). With some variations between the UK and Israeli studies, in
cases where adolescents indicated more than one close grandparent, the grandparent
who received the highest score on the emotional closeness scale was chosen. In cases
where adolescents indicated more than one significant grandparent, and identical
emotional closeness scores were present for those grandparents, one grandparent was
selected randomly from those with the highest identical emotional closeness scores
(see Attar-Schwartz, 2015; Attar-Schwartz, Tan, & Buchanan, 2009).
examined whether closeness to the most significant grandparent moderated the associ-
ation between contextual stress (proximal life stress relating to life events occurring in
the last year, distal life stress relating to life events occurring before the last year and
area stress) and total adjustment difficulties and prosocial behaviour among UK adoles-
cents. The findings showed that emotional closeness to the closest grandparent was posi-
tively related to adolescent prosocial behaviour and that it also buffered the effect of
proximal life stress on adolescent hyperactivity and broad psychopathology. In addition,
it moderated the effect of how distal life stress impacted the effect of proximal life
stress on adolescent broad and externalizing psychopathology. Such findings suggest
that the role of grandparents deserves further attention in future research on the develop-
ment of resilience among children and youth (Flouri et al., 2010).
In addition to various adversities that young people may possibly experience in their
lives, one of the major challenges for children and youth nowadays is experiencing
family transitions, especially parents’ separation. In recent decades, increasing numbers
of children experience parental separation or divorce at some point in their childhood.
Children of divorced parents were found on average to have poorer academic, social,
emotional and behavioural adjustment outcomes than children growing up in families
with two biological parents (Hetherington & Stanley-Hagan, 1999; O’Connor, Dunn,
Jenkins, Pickering, & Rabasah, 2001). Grandparents can be one of the buffers against
the risk of maladjustment among adolescents in the face of family transition.
The UK study examined whether the association between grandparent involvement
and adolescent well-being varied across different family structures (Attar-Schwartz, Tan,
Buchanan, Flouri, et al., 2009). Our findings showed, first, that there were no differences
in the level of grandparent involvement between two-biological-parent families, step-
families and separated-/divorced-parent families (see also Lussier, Deater-Deckard,
Dunn, & Davies, 2002). This finding might imply that grandparents can continue to
serve as important figures in their grandchildren’s lives regardless of changes in family
structure (Lussier et al., 2002). Grandparent involvement was found to moderate the
relationship between family structure and adolescent well-being. For adolescents from
single-parent and step- families, involvement of the closest grandparent was more
strongly associated with reduced adjustment difficulties than for those from two-parent
biological families (Attar-Schwartz, Tan, Buchanan, Flouri, et al., 2009). This finding is con-
sistent with studies showing that close bonds with grandparents following parental sep-
aration were associated with fewer difficulties among young people (Lussier et al., 2002;
Ruiz & Silverstein, 2007). It may indicate that grandchildren in single-parent and step-
families are the main beneficiaries of grandparent contact, which is an important protec-
tive resource in their lives. In the face of parental separation, single parenthood and the
challenges imposed by forming a step family, together with a variety of developmental
challenges faced by adolescents, grandparents may serve as functional substitutes lessen-
ing adolescent distress (Attar-Schwartz, Tan, & Buchanan, 2009; Ruiz & Silverstein, 2007).
One common effect of divorce is a weakening of the relationship between grandchil-
dren and their paternal grandparents, especially when the mother is awarded custody
of the children (e.g. Danielsbacka & Tanskanen, 2012; Hagestad, 2006; Lussier et al.,
2002; Matthews & Sprey, 1985). However, the literature shows that there is considerable
variation in the quality of grandchildren’s relationships with their paternal grandparents
following parental divorce (e.g. Fingerman, 2004). The Israeli study examined the
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grandmother involvement was linked with higher levels of emotional closeness to the
grandmother in custodial-mother families. This might suggest that in custodial-mother
families, paternal grandmothers’ relationships with their grandchildren depend more on
the resources they invest rather than on the mere fact that they are the adolescents’
father’s mothers, as might more frequently be the case in intact families (Attar-Schwartz
& Fuller-Thomson, 2017).
The findings of this study highlight the need to use an ecological perspective to
examine post-divorce adolescents’ relationships with their paternal grandparents, taking
into account not only adolescents’ characteristics and grandparents’ characteristics but
also the parents’ relationships with the grandparents. The study shows that it is important
that paternal grandmothers maintain strong ties with the grandchild’s mother, in post-
divorce families as well as in married-parent families, even when the grandchildren
reach adulthood (see Fingerman, 2004; Monserud, 2008). When paternal grandparents
preserve ties with their ex-daughter-in-law, they may help secure access to and strengthen
their long-term relationships with their grandchildren (Connidis, 2001).
fact that they were the adolescent’s parent’s parent, as might more likely be the case in
families with better parent–grandparent relationships.
Informed by family systems theory and intergenerational solidarity model, the Israeli study
(Attar-Schwartz, 2015) examined the mediating role of emotional closeness to the closest
grandparent in the relationship between emotional closeness to a parent (the offspring of
the closest grandparent) and adolescent adjustment difficulties. The study also examined
the moderating role of emotional closeness to parents in the relationship between emotional
closeness to grandparents and adjustment difficulties (Attar-Schwartz, 2015). Consistent
with the UK study, the Israeli study found that adolescent–grandparent relationships were
positively correlated with parent–grandparent relationship quality. It further found that
emotional closeness to the closest grandparent was more strongly associated with
reduced adjustment difficulties among adolescents with higher levels of emotional closeness
to their parents. These findings may show that the quality of the adolescent–parent relation-
ship is not only linked with adolescents’ adjustment and well-being but may also possibly
contribute to adolescents’ ability to have close bonds with others outside the nuclear
family, such as their grandparents (Engels, Finkenauer, Meeus, & Deković, 2001).
Arab community is generally more hierarchical and collectivist than the Jewish community
in Israel, who belong, generally speaking, to a more individualised, egalitarian society that
encourages less hierarchical intergenerational relationships (Haj-Yahia-Acu Ahmad, 2006).
As such, there might be less expectation for Arab adults to befriend their children and
grandchildren. Future studies should replicate these findings and examine other aspects
of the grandparent–grandchild relationship in each culture.
The findings of the Israeli study also showed that, despite a lower level of perceived
emotional closeness to the closest grandparent among Arab adolescents, the link
between emotional closeness to grandparents and reduced emotional symptoms and
increased prosocial behaviours was stronger among Arab adolescents than among
Jewish adolescents (Attar-Schwartz & Khoury-Kassabri, 2016). It could possibly be that
given the traditional social context and the significance of older relatives in the Arab com-
munity, emotional closeness to a grandparent has an enhanced meaning and is therefore
of greater benefit to Arab adolescents than to Jewish adolescents (for further discussion,
see Attar-Schwartz & Khoury-Kassabri, 2016). These findings emphasise the significance of
the cultural context when examining intergenerational relationships in the family and their
contribution to grandchildren’s well-being.
Disclosure statement
No potential conflict of interest was reported by the authors.
Funding
This work was supported by the Economic and Social Research Council [grant number 00-22-2283]
and The Israel Science Foundation [grant number 343/10].
Notes on contributors
Prof. Shalhevet Attar-Schwartz is an Associate Professor at the School of Social Work and Social
Welfare at the Hebrew University. Her research focuses on the well-being of children and youth.
She is particularly interested in intergenerational relationships in the family and their contribution
to young people’s well-being. Her research work examines the familial and social conditions
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under which informal involvement of grandparents is more beneficial for their grandchildren. She
has examined these issues in a variety of cultural contexts, among young people from the
general population as well as among young people in public care.
Prof. Ann Buchanan is Emeritus Professor and Associate Research Fellow at the Department of Social
Policy and Intervention, University of Oxford. For many years, she directed the Centre for Research
into Parenting and Children. For over 20 years, her research focus has been on family relationships
and child well-being. From 2007 to 2013, she was on the Council of the ESRC. She is a Fellow of the
Academy of Social Sciences and served on their Council from 2011 to 2017. In 2012, she received an
MBE ‘for services to social science’. In 2016, she edited with Anna Rotkirch ‘Grandfathers: Global per-
spectives’, which was published by Palgrave Macmillan.
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