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Q2 Perdev Week 5
Q2 Perdev Week 5
Quarter 2 - Module 9
This module provides you the key concepts that need to be learned about family
structures, and the legacies that are passed down to the next generation. Over the past
years, several variations of family have been created. Growing up, we witness noticeable
changes in the structure of a family. There are about more or less 13 major types of family
structures being recognized by society today. One of those is the nuclear family which is
commonly considered as the ideal or traditional family; and we often see that most of the
children in our society today live in a nuclear family unit. Another type of family structure is
the single-parent family which is often a mother, raising one or more children on her own,
although there are single fathers as well. These are some types of family structures. We will
learn more about this in the following section.
Aside from family structure, this module also deals with the family legacy. A family,
as a unit of society, has something to pass down to their children. It may be their values,
beliefs, or attitudes that they want their children to inherit. Some of these traditions are worth
to cherish and some of them are not. Being aware of your family legacies can help you
decide which beliefs, values, and attitudes you want to keep and which you want to modify to
change it for the better.
Module Contents
The following are the lessons contained in this module:
Lesson 1 – Family Structure
1. Appraise one’s family structure and the type of care he/she gives and receives, which
may help in understanding himself/herself better (EsP-PD11/12FSL-IId-11.1)
3. Prepare a plan on how to make the family members firmer and gentler with each
other (EsP-PD11/12FSL-IIe-11.3)
Lesson Family Structure
1
What is It
FAMILY STRUCTURE
What’s More
Activity 1. Find and encircle the type of families you can see. Write on a piece
of paper.
A Q F E R Y U I O P L K J
A D O P T I V E C K E T V
B A S D T R D E D Q C Q C
C F T H J E G D E A D A X
D Z E C V W E R T Z C Z B
E H R K L Q M R U S L D L
F E R T Y G B G T F E F E
G G A Y O R L E S B I A N
H E R T Y T E T T R R H D
I Q W D C E N H S F W N E
J T Y U I E D Y N B T B D
K P L E X T E N D E D J D
L M N O P Q D R C S T U V
Y J K N M B G H E D A D W
S I N G L E P A R E N T C
Activity 2. Select the word(s) which corresponds to the correct answer from the pool of
choices inside the box. Write your answer on a piece of paper.
Nuclear family
Blended family
Extended family
Conditionally separated families
Stepfamilies
Foster family
Single parent family
Adoptive family Gay or Lesbian family
Bi-racial or multi-racial family Immigrant family
Trans-racial adoptive family Migrant family
1. Rizal family is composed of Lola Inda, Lolo Pedro, Daddy James, Mommy Anny,
and baby Harold. What type of family do they belong to?
2. Gabby has a biological child, as well as Linda too. They lived together with their
children even though they were not married to each other. But they are married
previously. What type of family are they?
3. Asheley has lived with Tom and Lisa since she was five months old. She does
know her birth mother and sees her on holidays. Asheley lives in a(n)______
family.
4. The Jone’s married when they were still in college and they now have children.
Recently, they brought Erik’s mother to live with them because she is no longer
able to care for herself. This is an example of a(n) ________ family.
5. One or both parents have been married before bringing their children from
previous marriage into the family. They may have children together.
7. Parents go through the courts (legal system) to make children legally their own.
8. Child or children are temporarily placed with another family until family “issues”
are settled.
9. Judy and Jack Forbes have been married for 20 years and have children—Allen,
Brad, and Melissa.
10. Fifteen year old Cathy ran away from home often so family service agency sent
Cathy to temporarily live with another family till her own problems were resolved.
11. When fire destroyed their home, Andrew and Amy Dawson and their three
children moved to country to live with Amy’s elderly parents.
12. Annie raised her four children alone after she and her husband divorced.
What is It
Genogram
Unknown gender
Conflictual relationship
Very close
Distant relationship
Sample genogram 1:
Sample genogram 2:
What I can do
Portfolio Output No.1: My Genogram
Make your own genogram using the symbols and samples given. Be sure to write
your name and the date on your paper.(short bond paper) Enjoy!
Additional Activities
FAMILY LEGACIES
No matter who we are, where we live, or what our goals may be, we all have
one thing in common: a heritage. That is, a social, emotional, and spiritual legacy
passed on from parent to child. Every one of us is passed a heritage, lives out a
heritage, and gives a heritage to our family. It's not an option. Parents always pass to
their children a legacy…good, bad, or some of both.
Today, if we don't intentionally pass a legacy consistent with our beliefs to our
children, our culture will pass along its own, often leading to a negative end. It is
important to remember that passing on a spiritual, emotional, and social legacy is a
process, not an event. As parents, we are responsible for the process. God is
responsible for the product.
The Emotional Legacy
In order to prosper, our children need an enduring sense of security and stability
nurtured in an environment of safety and love.
Which characteristics would you like to build into the legacy you pass along to
your children? Even if you don't hit the exact mark, setting up the right target is an
important first step.
• The setting of social boundaries concerning how to relate to God, authority, peers,
the environment and siblings.
• Rules that are given within a loving relationship
Parents who successfully pass along a spiritual legacy to their children model
and reinforce the unseen realities of the godly life. We must recognize that passing a
spiritual legacy means more than encouraging our children to attend church, as
important as that is. The church is there to support parents in raising their children but
it cannot do the raising; only parents can.
The same principle applies to spiritual matters. Parents are primary in spiritual
upbringing, not secondary. This is especially true when considering that children,
particularly young children, perceive God the way they perceive their parents. If their
parents are loving, affirming, forgiving and yet strong in what they believe, children will
think of God that way. He is someone who cares, who is principled and who loves
them above all else.
Whatever you received, you can now intentionally pass along the good. This
isn't always easy. If you saw hypocrisy in your parents' lives, you may be tempted to
throw everything out even though much of what your parents modeled was good.
Don't. That would be like burning down the house to get rid of some bugs.
Realize that there is a being who can redeem even the "bad stuff" in your
legacy. Unfortunately many of us have parts of our legacy that are weak or even
awful. Maybe one of your parents was an alcoholic or abusive or didn't provide the
nurturing you needed. In today's society, the stories of such families are common. You
may be asking, "How do I give something I didn't receive? Nobody modeled this stuff
for me."
Hope is not lost. Consider the story of Josiah from the Old Testament in the
Bible. His father and grandfather were involved in many wicked things, including idol
worship that threatened the entire nation. But after 8-year-old Josiah became king of
Judah, he reversed that trend. He sought God and purged Judah of idols, repaired the
temple and saved a nation.
Like Josiah, you can choose which things in your legacy are no good and throw
them away. It's important to break the cycle of hurt by leaving bad things behind and
creating a new legacy. Legacies are not easily broken and always benefit from His
guidance.
Chart a new course as you begin a positive legacy for yourself and those you
love. Research suggests that most fathers will parent the way they were parented.
That means only a minority of fathers will change their parenting style even if their
parenting is wrong! Today, you can take positive steps to design a new heritage for
yourself and your family.
In which relationship do you have more checks? More Xs? What can you do to
improve your relationships?
Summary
Extended family: A family in which relatives, in addition, to parents and children live in
a single household.
Blended family: A family that consists of members from two (or more) previous
families.
Bi-racial or multi-racial family: A family where the parents are members of different
racial identity groups.
Trans-racial adoptive family: A family where the adopted child is of a different racial
identity group than the parents
Conditionally separated families: A family member is separated from the rest of the
family.
Foster family: A family where one or more of the children is legally a temporary
member of the household.
Gay or Lesbian family: A family where one or both parents’ sexual orientation is gay or
lesbian.
Immigrant family: A family where the parents have immigrated to another country as
adults.
Migrant family: A family that moves regularly to places where they have employment.