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Handling Difficult People
Handling Difficult People
The Big Idea You Need People for Life and Growth
Why You Need This Book Use Words Well
Who’s Pushing Your Buttons? Know When to Loosen Up
Release What Doesn’t Work Relationships Revisited
Reclaim Your Happiness
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Why You Need This Book REASONING AND REMINDING. Probably
This book offers insights regarding how to deal with the most common error is to believe that the
problematic people. These insights will help you solution you need is all about reason and
learn to respond properly to these people and deal logic, a meeting of the minds. You think that if
with them better than ever before. the difficult person truly understands that what
you are asking for is a good thing, he will
comply and change.
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You Need People for Life and
Reclaim Your Happiness Growth
One of the most powerful principles to help you begin Relationships provide valuable support, whether
to see change in your relationship with a difficult you are dealing with a difficult person or not.
person involves reclaiming control over your own These supports are like your computer's
happiness. operating system, the foundation that makes
everything run.
Own Your Life. Get involved in whatever was
good and meaningful before the problem with Acceptance. You need people in your life who
your button-pusher began. Plug into people who don't require you to have it all together in
will empathize but who also let you know they order to be connected and safe.
want a more robust relationship with you than just
problem-solving. Understanding. It helps that someone truly
“gets” your experience.
Depend on the Right People. The solution is to
end your dependency upon the button-pusher Feedback. Ask for help to grow as a person
and place it instead with people who can fulfil your and don't resist any authentic feedback.
needs for affirmation, empathy, structure, and
reality.
In addition to people who can provide the
Face Your Fears. Face the fears and become a supports listed above, you also need other things
new person. Be in charge of your life, instead of from people willing to help you navigate your
waiting for a difficult person to change before you situation with a button-pusher. Here is what to
have a life. look for:
Relationships Revisted
Your button-pusher is in your life, and you are in his,
for a purpose, and that purpose is always about
growth and redemption. Like you, he needs grace
and forgiveness as well as limits and
consequences. Do not make the mistake of looking
upon him as a curse to be borne or a burden to be
survived.
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