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How To Be Blessed Without Sneezing
How To Be Blessed Without Sneezing
If you or I walked into any book store and we’d find a lot of self-help books. I frequently
buy books at the Barnes and Noble in Fridley. I am always surprised when I go there how
SLIDE It started in 1936 with the publication of Dale Carnegie’s book, “How to win
friends and influence people. I would guess that a lot of us have read this book. According to
the Wall Street Journal self- help book sales are $538 million a year and account for one in every
Do you know the #1 selling book on Amazon.com earlier this week? A self-help book.
Here it is:
SLIDE Tell to Win: Connect, persuade, and triumph with the hidden power of story.
SLIDE “Win: The Key Principles to take your business from ordinary to extraordinary”
SLIDE: There’s a common word in both of these titles, right. You see it. “Win.” Even
Dale Carnegie in 1936 put the word “win” in his title. The underlying message of self-help is if
you follow the strategy of this book, you are going to be a winner.
God wants us to be a winner, but God’s idea of what it means to win is far different than
series that will go through Lent on the Sermon on the Mount. I’m calling it “The Ultimate Self-
Help Book.” The aim of this series is to help all of us learn the basic teachings of the Sermon on
the Mount and then apply these teachings to our life. God’s vision for the world is contained in
Since the title of this series is the Ultimate Self-help book we’re going to give you a self-
help brochure every week in worship. I would encourage you to get out this brochure. On this
self-help book you’ll find a devotion. I’ve shared six Bible readings and devotions that relate to
today’s message. Today I’m going to talk about what Jesus understanding of being blessed.
This devotion shares six Scriptures and devotions about blessing. You’ll also find a place to take
notes. I believe that God will speak to you through this sermon, and I encourage you to write
down some ideas to take home. And you’ll find a place for prayer requests. I spend a lot of time
interacting with people who don’t go to church. When I do I ask the person if they have a prayer
request. If the person has a request I tell them that the people at Chain of Lakes Church will be
praying for them. Many of these requests were made by people outside our congregation. I
think it’s very cool that all of you would pray for people that many of us don’t’ even know.
We’re starting today by looking at the first sixteen verses of the Sermon on the Mount.
In this sermon I’m looking at what Jesus understanding of being blessed and how that
Most of us know are familiar with blessing based on what we say after this: sneeze
Do you know the origin of God Bless you? One legend says that in the year 590 Pope Gregory I
ordered people to say “God Bless you” when people sneezed. The bubonic plague was just
reaching Rome in 590 and sneezing was thought to be a symptom of the plague. Pope Gregory
hoped that saying “God Bless you” would stop the plague
You and I know that antibiotics will cure most cases of the plague. But there is still
something that resonates with us in saying, “God bless you.” A blessing is when we share with
someone through our words or deeds a special favor. You might want to write that down. A
blessing is when we share with someone through our words or deeds a special favor. When I
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depart from people I usually say, “God bless you.” I’m not trying to be churchy or overly pious.
The opposite of blessing is cursed. Our understanding of what it means to be blessed and
what it means to be cursed plays a significant role on how we view people. Let me give you an
How many of us read in the newspaper or saw in the media the Supreme Court Ruling
about picketing at funerals of soldiers? A man who understands himself to be a pastor leads a
small church in Kansas. This pastor has extreme views on homosexuality. He and his cadre
believe that homosexuals are going to hell. They believe that the United States as a country is
going to hell because we tolerate homosexuals. They have decided to picket the funerals of our
soldiers. The logic is since the United States is going to hell, they should picket the people who
I find their views and actions terrible repugnant. What’s interesting to me is that their
own understanding of who God blesses and curses propels them to their actions. Our
Jesus shared his understanding of what it means to be blessed in the first 12 verses of the
Sermon on the Mount. Let me give you some six very basic points about the Sermon on the
Mount. You might want to write these down in your self-help book.
One the sermon takes up three chapters in Matthew—chapters five through seven. The first time
Two the sermon has some of the most well-known Scriptures in the Bible—the Lord’s prayer,
Three, it’s a short sermon. If you read the Sermon on the Mount out loud it would take a little
more than ten minutes to read through it. I know—I did it this week. A wisecracker would say,
if Jesus can preach this sermon in 10 minutes, why can’t you preach ten minute sermons. I
Four we can find an abbreviated version of this sermon in one other place in the Scriptures. In
Five it’s the only place in the Bible where Jesus gave a sermon—which is a revealing for those
of us who make our living on giving sermons. Jesus taught people through parables, or he
healed people, or most of the time he shared life with his followers. An event would happen and
Six—in this sermon Jesus shared a vision about the Kingdom. I believe that the vision of the
Sermon of the Mount takes place in heaven. And I believe that God wants you and I to create
the Kingdom here on earth. I dedicated my life to the church because I so want to see this
Kingdom of Heaven happen on earth. Our guide to creating the Kingdom is the Sermon on the
Mount.
For me this has been the hardest sermon I’ve written since I started here at Chain of
Lakes. Preaching on the Sermon on the Mount is like talking baseball with Joe Mauer, or talking
about the violin with Itzhak Perlman, or talking about being a police officer with the local
sheriff. These people know what they’re talking about. When I preach on it I feel like I’m
coming into the very presence of the Almighty and seeing what God wants to accomplish in the
Let’s get right into it. Jesus was at the start of his ministry. People were starting to take
notice of him. They were flocking from all over Galilee and other places to hear him. Jesus was
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like a modern-day rock star. He walked up a mountain—really a hill. In the tradition of other
religious teachers of his day he sat down to teach. He shared these blessings. Read these with
me:
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Blessed are the poor in spirit
Blessed are those who mourn
Blessed are the meek
Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness
Blessed are the merciful
Blessed are the pure in heart
Blessed are the peacemakers
Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness sake
Blessed are those who are scorned and reviled on God’s sake.
These nine blessings are called the Beatitudes. The word, “Beatitude” comes from the Latin
word for blessing. If you read the Bible in Greek the word is makarios.
Jesus understood blessing differently than our culture understands blessing. How many
self-help books have a title that says, “win in life through mourning.” Or if you went to
Amazon.com how many titles would say, “Three ways to ensure that you are poor in Spirit.”
SLIDE:
Blessed are the self-reliant—for they don’t need to depend on others
Blessed are the professional athletes—for they get paid a lot of money and receive a lot of our
attention
Blessed are the good looking—for they command our attention
Blessed are those who can easily make their house payment every month for they can sleep at
night
Blessed are Hollywood actors whose lives are like three ring circuses—for they can get as many
TV interviews as they want
There is something about these blessings that attract us. We’re like spectators at a freak show
when it comes to people like Charlie Sheen. We can’t help but watch. Charlie Sheen opened a
Twitter account this week and got a million followers in a day. When Jesus shared these
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beatitudes I don’t think he intended for Charlie Sheen to share his damaged self on television or
What did Jesus mean in the Sermon on the Mount about being blessed? Let me share
three points.
First, Jesus had a special place in his heart for people who exhibited the qualities of these
beatitudes. Jesus loved all people. Jesus went out of his way to share love with people who
mourned, those who were meek, those who hungered and thirsted for righteousness, those who
were merciful, those who were pure in heart, those who were peacemakers.
Jesus demonstrated this all the time. I love this quality of Jesus. Jesus went out of his
Let me share an example. Right after Jesus finished the Sermon on the Mount he walked
down the mountain or hill and came upon a leper. Leprosy was a disease of terrible skins sores
and nerve damage. People in Jesus’ day thought that leprosy was contagious. So Lepers were
put in lepers colonies so that they wouldn’t infect others with leprosy. You and I living in the
21st century have the advantage of medical technology. We know that leprosy is not contagious
In this story, the leper kneeled at Jesus feet and asked to be healed. Jesus touched him
Second—Jesus said the people who are blessed are willing to be vulnerable with each
other. The first beatitude is blessed is the poor in spirit. That’s always been a hard one for
people to understand. Let me explain it a bit. To be poor is not just financial poverty, it’s the
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understanding that we’re lacking something. To be poor in spirit means that we don’t have it all
Ask any recovering alcoholic how important it is to understand that they are poor in spirit
and they would say, “yes.” It’s a recognition that we can’t do this life by ourselves, we need
help from others. It’s a different understanding of self. It’s the acknowledgement that we don’t
One of the reasons I’m so excited about starting a church is we are forming this new
community of people who didn’t even know each other two years ago. Two years ago all of us
were strangers; now many of us are friends; together we’re seeking to impact or bless the world.
To be in community with each other we have to learn to share our own poverty with others. We
learn to share with others in an authentic way that we don’t have it together. We learn how to
help each other. By helping each other we bless each other. We learn how to be vulnerable with
each other.
I know that this is very challenging because the world teaches us that to be blessed is to
appear strong. “Don’t let them know your weak; don’t let them know your struggles.” We’re
blessed when we learn how to share with others that we’re poor in spirit. For theirs is the
Kingdom of God.
An important question for each of us is how willing are we to share our messes with
others. How willing are we when others share their messes with us to love them like Jesus
would love. When we can consistently do this we will make an impact on the world. We’ll be
Finally we are blessed when we bless others through acts of justice. In our Purpose
Statement we at Chain of Lakes say we want to make an impact on the world. Another way to
say that is we want to bless the people whom Jesus had a special place in his heart.
This week there was an article in the Star Tribune about domestic homicide. Guess
which county of the seven counties in the Metro has the highest per capita rate of husbands
murdering their wives. Anoka County. Since November 2006 eleven women have been
murdered by their husbands. Per Capita the domestic homicide rate in Anoka County is twice
that of Washington County. Alexandra House, the women’s shelter in Blaine said that the
percentage of Anoka County residents among their clientele had increased from 30 to 42 percent.
There are many good agencies in Anoka County working on this issue. In reading the
article it was obvious that law enformance take this seriously. Alexandra Hous is a shelter for
battered women. That’s wonderful. Last spring Amy, Hannah and I participated in a walk-a-
thon at Coon Rapids High School for the Alexandara House. There’s no doubt in my mind that
Jesus would be blessing the women at the Alexandra House. In fact I believe that he would be
going out of his way to helping them. And I believe he would be teaching his followers to do
acts of justice—to do everything they can to prevent women from being killed by their husbands.
If Jesus was doing that, then we at the church should be doing that.
I’m not even asking for us to start a ministry to help battered women, though I would
support anyone who started it. Already at Chain of Lakes we send people to serve the homeless
at People Serving People; we partner with Manna Market once a month to serve fresh food to
low-income people. I can’t wait to see how we bless the world through acts of justice. d love to
The point is we are blessed when we as a community bless the people who are hurting in
the world. Right now at Chain of Lakes we are being intentional about growing in numbers of
people. But I never want to see our growth happen at the expense of blessing the world. Our
focus needs to be on helping strangers become friends, and we can’t do that at the exclusion of
sending people out as a community to bless the world. This is what Jesus would have us do.
First, Jesus had a special place in his heart for people who exhibited the qualities of these
beatitudes.
Second—Jesus said the people who are blessed are willing to be vulnerable with each other.
Today we’re celebrating Communion. As we come to the Table may we have a new
understanding of how deeply God wants to bless us and how deeply God wants us to bless others