Emotional Intelligence

For AIESEC Future Leader

 Farhan Kurnia Mayendri
@farhanmayendri

Last Education

Master of Arts in Economics,

Hacettepe University, Turkey

Current Professional Work

-CEO of Clickpicts Indonesia Ltd. 2015 – now

-Working Team under the Minister for Indonesia – Central
Asia Countries, the Ministry of Tourism and Creative
Economy, Feb 2021 - now
-Board of Advisor – Agro Processing Group LLC
Uzbekistan. 2020 - Now
- Managing Director of Click Futurism International Ltd.
2020 - Now
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 Emotional
Triggers
What are the triggers that
make you want to blow
an emotional gasket?
 • Anger
Ranges and •
•
Sadness
Fear
basic families • Enjoyment

of emotion •
•
Love
Surprise
(Goleman, 289-290) • Disgust
• Shame
“Anyone can
become
angry—that is
easy.”
“ But to be angry
with the right
person, to the right
degree, at the
right time, for the
right purpose and
in the right way—
that is not easy.”
ARISTOTLE
Understanding Emotional Intelligence

Using this
Ability to recognize awareness to
and understand manage yourself
emotions and relationships
with others
 Brain Pathways

EQ affected by our
I think rationally ability to form & keep
(way over here) well-traveled
connections here

Limbic System
(I feel here)

Spinal Chord
(enters brain here)
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 4 Skills of Emotional Intelligence
WHAT I SEE WHAT I DO

PERSONAL Self-Awareness Self-Management

COMPETENCE

Emotional
Intelligence
SOCIAL
COMPETENCE Relationship
Social Awareness
Management
 Self-Awareness
Self-Awareness The greatest of faults is
•Ability to know own emotions
to be conscious of
•Aware of your emotions as
none
they happen
•How you tend to respond to
specific situations and people

Thomas Carlyle
 Use Awareness to Self-Manage
Self-Management The first and best
•Ability to use awareness of your victory is to conquer
emotions to stay flexible and self
positively direct your behavior
•Managing your emotional
reactions to all situations and
people

Plato
 Becoming Socially Aware
Social Awareness Resolve to be tender with the young,
compassionate with the aged,
•Ability to accurately pick up sympathetic with the striving and
on emotions in other people tolerant with the weak and wrong.
Sometime in your life, you will have
•Understand what is really been all of these.
going on
•Understanding what other
people are thinking and
feeling even if you don’t feel
the same way

Gautama Buddha
 Use Awareness to Manage Relationships

Relationship Management People aren’t either wicked or noble.

They’re like chef salads with good
things and bad things chopped up
•Ability to use awareness of and mixed together in a vinaigrette
your emotions and emotions of confusion and conflict.
of others to manage
interactions successfully
•Ensure clear
communication and
effective handling of conflict

Lemony Snicket
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Kato Nan Ampek

Kato Mandaki
Kato Malereang
Kato Mandata
Kato Manurun
 Final Thoughts

If your emotional abilities aren’t in hand, if you don’t

have self-awareness, if you are not able to manage
your distressing emotions, if you can’t have
empathy and have effective relationships, than no
matter how smart you are, you are not going to get
very far.