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I Count Him Braver Who Overcomes His Desires Than Him Who Conquers His Enemies For The Hardest Victory Is Over Self. Aristotle
I Count Him Braver Who Overcomes His Desires Than Him Who Conquers His Enemies For The Hardest Victory Is Over Self. Aristotle
I Count Him Braver Who Overcomes His Desires Than Him Who Conquers His Enemies For The Hardest Victory Is Over Self. Aristotle
If you’re anything like the thousands of other people who
have realised that they have a problem, it has probably
taken you a while to connect your troubles with your
porn use. You might have thought you were struggling
with some other disorder. Perhaps thought you had
developed unaccustomed depression or social anxiety or,
as one man feared, premature dementia. Or maybe you
believed that you had low testosterone or were simply
getting older. You might even have been prescribed drugs
from a well-meaning doctor. Perhaps your physician
assured you that you were wrong to worry about your use
of pornography.
But for the last seven years, I have been paying attention
to what people say about their experiences with
pornography. For even longer, I've been studying what
scientists are learning about how our brains work. I am
here to tell you that this isn’t about liberals and
conservatives. It isn’t about religious shame or sexual
freedom. This is about the nature of our brains and how
they respond to cues from a radically changed
environment. This is about the effects of chronic
overconsumption of sexual novelty, delivered on demand
in endless supply.
Now, how would a guy know if his sluggish sexual
performance is related to his porn use or stems instead
from performance anxiety (the standard diagnosis for
guys without below-the-belt problems)?
- If you have a strong erection in #2, but erectile
dysfunction in #3, then you probably have porn-
induced ED.
One final thing before we start. I am not saying that you
should have a problem with porn. I am not trying to start
some kind of moral panic, or to say what is and isn’t
‘natural’ in human sexuality. If you don’t feel you have a
problem, then I am not about to argue with you. It’s up to
each of us to decide what we think about graphic sexual
content and the industry that produces much of it.
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